The world is indeed a funny place

OwoukoUrua:
The world is indeed a funny place

Funny �

Like put me in your perspective and tell me how funny this situation is.

Date intelligent ladies and stop disturbing us ...Mtsssw...WahFuckery

The chats that I see online makes my chats look legendary.
A well-educated guy chatting with a playful girl. No wonder why you said you are not into her.
Time is too precious to be wasting it like this.
Only dish advice out to young ones and stop being emotional with them. Like wtf

what's her number op? I will help talk sense to her head, she's too childish!

And she has even blocked you

TheGenius001:


No not at all. You read a different meaning to the whole thing. I am not into her.

If you say so

TheGenius001:


No not at all. You read a different meaning to the whole thing. I am not into her.

she will make you be into her, then she will break and dump your heart.

Conceptman:
this is tough, are u her first love? From the conversation u both had, u are her only hope, situations like this looks scary, u are in it already just make sure you don't hurt her so that she won't take her life or even hurt you, with time everything will be fine and moreover she's still young and she has really gone through a lot, u just have to be strong

I think probably he misled her. When it all started initially, he ought to have made her understand that he loves her as a person and would always be there for her but not to the point of dating.

Whenever the two of them converse and he uses the word "love", her meaning of it is deeper than he thought. For her, it means she's his lover which might not be his intention.

I'd advice him to see her one on one, sit her down and make her understand that he will never leave her but she should see him as a big brother not lover.

That way, she's assured of his company, support and guidance. Then, give her time to heal.

OP, first of all.
How old are you?
She doesn't know the meaning of love. She's still an adult child.

TheGenius001:



I have never spent on her as you may think. She alone does the spending. Even when I buy for her, she forcefully gives me back my money and gets really mad if I refuse to collect her money. So take that thought of wether airtime or little cash away bro. She is a very independent person.

please give me her number. Atleast in me she will find a guy that will genuinely love her.

We call that emotional blackmailing in dating..if u know u know

Lightangel65:


Lol, I didn't know blackmail could be this way

My ex gf was worst than this, she was still 18 by that time this is just how teens love

favoryte33:
A girl that was in love with me during my university days told me if i ever leave her she would kill herself.Months after we broke up,my guy who stays in d same street with her told me how robust&shining she'd been lately.omo,i weak.

She no gree die again?

Hmmm this post just rendered me speechless cos I have been in same position buh mine I used the extreme method and it worked,but in ur case I wont advice you to use it cos it may be disastrous and all I could see here is emotional blackmail(it's a typical teenage method)

Lemme coman be going

all she needs is just sincere education.....talk to her more , look for ways to divert her attention about love.... let her channel that energy on something else

TheGenius001:



I have never spent on her as you may think. She alone does the spending. Even when I buy for her, she forcefully gives me back my money and gets really mad if I refuse to collect her money. So take that thought of wether airtime or little cash away bro. She is a very independent person.

Very independent at 18? with no parents? Pray, what does she do? Did they leave a vast legacy for her? Just asking, not disbelieving you

hardbody:


Very independent at 18? with no parents? Pray, what does she do? Did they leave a vast legacy for her? Just asking, not disbelieving you

She is working. She has handworks too. In essence she has quite a multiple source of income.

Her Dad disowned her after marrying another woman. But her mom is sick. And her mom loves her the more

Conceptman:
just keep sex out of it because she will be more into you if u do and that's where u will have bigger problem if u dare hurt her. is there any plan for her to go to the university? If she enters school, she will release u small small and all the attachment go reduce

1 semester is just enough d guy would be so surprised how he'll become irrelevant to her. Now na Small pikin Dy worry d girl. Dats why I advise against dating under 21 unless u are under 21 too

Lol your girl got you in a 360 deal

TheGenius001:


No I am the second. But believe me the 1st was all this childish kind of boyfriend and girlfriend stuff. And that was 2years ago until she found me.

na you burst her carburettor?

urchcoded:

1 semester is just enough d guy would be so surprised how he'll become irrelevant to her. Now na Small pikin Dy worry d girl. Dats why I advise against dating under 21 unless u are under 21 too

yes o, first semester all go change

TheGenius001:



I have never spent on her as you may think. She alone does the spending. Even when I buy for her, she forcefully gives me back my money and gets really mad if I refuse to collect her money. So take that thought of wether airtime or little cash away bro. She is a very independent person.

Op where did you find this kind of lady?
Is it here in Nigeria?

Jesse25:
She is just blackmailing you emotionally ....this was exactly what my ex gf was doing till she finally broke up with me

This is the same thing I saw from the chats.

Op ladies can be very cunning in stuff like this. Don't overestimate your position.

TheGenius001:
Pls it's not too long to get you bored. Just read it to the last line.

Pls how can I deal with this predicament. This girl had a crush on me. She told me and suggested we date each other. I simply didn't want to hurt her cos of some sad stories she's told me about her family issues and so many other things. So I felt like I shouldn't break her heart the more by telling her no.

So I agreed to date her. The problem here is that;

Any offence by me can make her cry and become so sad for the rest of the day. She will call me crying. Like I may be online and she is also online and maybe I don't chat her up, she will get sad easily by posting different things on her status. She is just 18years. Still a kid and too emotional with me. She will always tell me how much she loves me and all that. So I make sure I am online every minute to reply her messages.

The worst of all is that she will always tell me about taking her life anytime I hurt her (This scares the shit out of me). Cos the funny thing is that I don't even know when I hurt her


Take a look at our recent Chats and please profer a solution to me on how to handle her. I see her as a younger sister to me. I have not had intimacy with her. But I know she would be willing to. But that's not my problem. Mentioning her life scares the shit out of me. Suicide keeps ringing in my head whenever she says that.

pls how do I handle this situation. I would like her to just be a friend to me. Cos I don't see a future between the both of us.

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pcguru1:
What kinda of cringy conversation is this. People are talking and nobody is listening. Emo couples lol

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Brightergrammer:
na you burst her carburettor?

Hahahaha, guy why are you stupid

This is similar to my present "outfit" but the difference is that: I had kept on encouraging her in all facets of life; I lets her know at all time how uncommon her uniqueness is in existence; I keep on celebrating her all time; whenever I must keep away from her I talk her into acceptance( she is also 18 and yields to guided persuasion)

OP pls let that girl grow with you, you already accepted to dategrow with her.
Don't loose her or let her perish
You will be very happy you did
Stop your fake ego, you are not any special, trust me. But you are still unique I know
When she is old enough, you guys can know whether you are compartible or not
She will be glad you held her hand to grow even if you don't partner for life.
I don't know how to write or proof to you you must not disappoint that girl but pls be a good gentleman

TheGenius001:

Educate her on proper sentence construction before she start talking about love. She can't even spell love. And as for you, you can't eat your cake and have it. Be firm and stop toying with the young girl. E dey sweet you say pikini dey die for you ba

chidiebereuzoma:

Hahahaha, guy why are you stupid

na OP cause am oh

Obviously you can't help her, you are as naive as she is.

Please take/report her to her family members, seems the parents are late from the chats screenshot.

If the parents are late and she needs financial assistance, it becomes more complicated.

If you can assist her financially please do. She's actually loving you for some benefits she can't get from the family at the time, as soon as she can get those benefits from another person she won't be so obsessed with you like this anymore

If you don't/can't love her, please don't take advantage of her

TheGenius001:


But I simply don't know how to. I have tried in my own best way possible.

If I know, I wouldn't have created this thread