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Re: I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? by Promise47(m): 10:56am On Dec 26, 2019
Michellekabod2:
I am not going to create another moniker for this,i owe no one nothing!

I have spent most of my life single. I tried linking up with people but to no avail. Why? I will not do the blame game here. Is all my fault. I meet someone, get heed over heels for the person but I lose interest easily. When it comes to commitment, when the friendship is to get to the next level I ghost them. I don't know why. At best out of the blue I lose interest and become blank, not returning calls or replying messages, at worst I become disgusted at the fellow for no reason at all then move one to the next male friend. Nothing serious comes out of it...

So I decided to give up trying. My female friends and I go on an outing, some guys approach us and get our numbers. Months (sometimes years) later they are still waxing strong with the males, one of them even got married to one of them. But me? After a couple of weeks I find myself having to ghost the guy that I was head over heels for.

I gave up on love and chose to be single. I have been single for years now.

I met this guy march this year,we bonded like never before. I have never in my entire life felt like this before. It is so strange that each conversation we have all seems anew like we are starting all over.

It's almost ten months and the fire is still intense.
I have never had such a long friendship with a male. People assume we are dating. He gives me so much JOY... He is so awesome, different from all the others i have known. He changed me.

I just figured out i want to end the friendship, I don't know why. I am tired. I want to walk away. The passion is still there but i want to be away. I wanted to get a new SIM but my conscience will not. What has kept me from doing this is because i wonder how he will feel..

I want to walk away. Will i regret this?
why are you like this are you not going to get married stop all this if you like a guy fine but if you don't like him then let him go pls stop this act of emotional tyranny pls and are you a Nigerian or a foreigner

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Re: I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? by healthserve(m): 10:56am On Dec 26, 2019
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Dshocker:


You have a marine husband influencing your decision


This is another dimension. Very true. Many people don't know their decision making processes are/can be influenced by outer sources that doesn't have their best interests at heart.

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Re: I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? by biilwwu(m): 11:00am On Dec 26, 2019
I pray that you won't regret it before it is too late, there is time for everything
Re: I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? by princessayesha(f): 11:00am On Dec 26, 2019
Some mums in my place would have called Alfa to cast out whatever it is with cane grin
Re: I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? by nurex01(m): 11:01am On Dec 26, 2019
Michellekabod2:
early twenties
you need to choose what you like in men if not that's how you'll continue thinking you're still in town. Sit down and have your mind settled.

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Re: I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? by sircrabo: 11:02am On Dec 26, 2019
Michellekabod2:
I am not going to create another moniker for this,i owe no one nothing!

I have spent most of my life single. I tried linking up with people but to no avail. Why? I will not do the blame game here. Is all my fault. I meet someone, get heed over heels for the person but I lose interest easily. When it comes to commitment, when the friendship is to get to the next level I ghost them. I don't know why. At best out of the blue I lose interest and become blank, not returning calls or replying messages, at worst I become disgusted at the fellow for no reason at all then move one to the next male friend. Nothing serious comes out of it...

So I decided to give up trying. My female friends and I go on an outing, some guys approach us and get our numbers. Months (sometimes years) later they are still waxing strong with the males, one of them even got married to one of them. But me? After a couple of weeks I find myself having to ghost the guy that I was head over heels for.

I gave up on love and chose to be single. I have been single for years now.

I met this guy march this year,we bonded like never before. I have never in my entire life felt like this before. It is so strange that each conversation we have all seems anew like we are starting all over.

It's almost ten months and the fire is still intense.
I have never had such a long friendship with a male. People assume we are dating. He gives me so much JOY... He is so awesome, different from all the others i have known. He changed me.

I just figured out i want to end the friendship, I don't know why. I am tired. I want to walk away. The passion is still there but i want to be away. I wanted to get a new SIM but my conscience will not. What has kept me from doing this is because i wonder how he will feel..

I want to walk away. Will i regret this?

Ogbanje Spirit wont let you accomodate good men
Re: I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? by Nobody: 11:03am On Dec 26, 2019
Your witchcraft is very strong, na only MfM GO fit deliver you.
Re: I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? by oluxy(m): 11:04am On Dec 26, 2019
The reason is, you gat spirit husband that is why.
Well, you may not agree with me ma'am, the truth can be bitter most times.
But that is the reason why you are always remorseful n always lost feelings on male dudes.
Re: I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? by Damfostopper(m): 11:04am On Dec 26, 2019
at my age I don't comment on stewpid post...... sorry op

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Re: I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? by Finnese001: 11:04am On Dec 26, 2019
Miniso:
Boys no suppose take shit from gurlz in 2020...this nonsense ends with 2019.


Na true sha, me self no dey believe that love shit,

Love na scam for this part of the world
Re: I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? by healthserve(m): 11:05am On Dec 26, 2019
sircrabo:


Ogbanje Spirit wont let you accomodate good men


Many don't find out it's a possessive dark force until its far deep into 30s. Once a good man comes their way, it forces a split. What a pity

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Re: I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? by drlaykay(m): 11:05am On Dec 26, 2019
healthserve:
Stop using people. Be better. Stop taking people for a ride with your emotional recklessness


Use and discard. Passive Narcissistic personality disorder. Go see a therapist. You're a destroyer


You also have an over-inflated ego. The world doesn't revolve around you. And No, you're not too good for everyone.


You're an egomaniac that exists for feel-good vibes only with a detached feeling from regular existence. Go see a therapist. You're pathetic
If u diagnosed a personality disorder and you recommended a therapist why did you still condemn her that much?

Like blaming a psychotic patient that hears voices and has no insight, for attempting murder.

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Re: I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? by Conceptman: 11:06am On Dec 26, 2019
healthserve:
Stop using people. Be better. Stop taking people for a ride with your emotional recklessness


Use and discard. Passive Narcissistic personality disorder. Go see a therapist. You're a destroyer


You also have an over-inflated ego. The world doesn't revolve around you. And No, you're not too good for everyone.


You're an egomaniac that exists for feel-good vibes only with a detached feeling from regular existence. Go see a therapist. You're pathetic
I'm following you straight up, u've said it all. I hope she's ready to see herself and see the real kind of person she is and accept the truth about her ways of use and dumping guys. Some women needs to serious therapy to heal them of so many wrong doings and I hope when she finally get married she won't use her attitude to destroy her home

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Re: I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? by Conceptman: 11:07am On Dec 26, 2019
healthserve:
Stop using people. Be better. Stop taking people for a ride with your emotional recklessness


Use and discard. Passive Narcissistic personality disorder. Go see a therapist. You're a destroyer


You also have an over-inflated ego. The world doesn't revolve around you. And No, you're not too good for everyone.


You're an egomaniac that exists for feel-good vibes only with a detached feeling from regular existence. Go see a therapist. You're pathetic
I'm following you straight up, u've said it all. I hope she's ready to see herself and see the real kind of person she is and accept the truth about her ways of use and dumping guys. Some women needs to serious therapy to heal them of so many wrong doings and I hope when she finally get married she won't use her attitude to destroy her home.

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Re: I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? by healthserve(m): 11:08am On Dec 26, 2019
drlaykay:

If u diagnosed a personality disorder and you recommended a therapist why did you still condemn her that much?

Like blaming a psychotic patient that hears voices and has no insight, for attempting murder.



I needed her to see her condition. It's a normal way of turning people with psychotic conditions to become aware to their realities. It's called forceful hammering. Pampering her would encourage her. To correct people in such situation, only making them see their ways as distasteful forces an inner fortitude to initiate a change, from their own inner fortress. I wanted her to see her self realistically, hate it and stimulate a change

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Re: I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? by Toks2008(m): 11:09am On Dec 26, 2019
Michellekabod2:
I am not going to create another moniker for this,i owe no one nothing!

I have spent most of my life single. I tried linking up with people but to no avail. Why? I will not do the blame game here. Is all my fault. I meet someone, get heed over heels for the person but I lose interest easily. When it comes to commitment, when the friendship is to get to the next level I ghost them. I don't know why. At best out of the blue I lose interest and become blank, not returning calls or replying messages, at worst I become disgusted at the fellow for no reason at all then move one to the next male friend. Nothing serious comes out of it...

So I decided to give up trying. My female friends and I go on an outing, some guys approach us and get our numbers. Months (sometimes years) later they are still waxing strong with the males, one of them even got married to one of them. But me? After a couple of weeks I find myself having to ghost the guy that I was head over heels for.

I gave up on love and chose to be single. I have been single for years now.

I met this guy march this year,we bonded like never before. I have never in my entire life felt like this before. It is so strange that each conversation we have all seems anew like we are starting all over.

It's almost ten months and the fire is still intense.
I have never had such a long friendship with a male. People assume we are dating. He gives me so much JOY... He is so awesome, different from all the others i have known. He changed me.

I just figured out i want to end the friendship, I don't know why. I am tired. I want to walk away. The passion is still there but i want to be away. I wanted to get a new SIM but my conscience will not. What has kept me from doing this is because i wonder how he will feel..

I want to walk away. Will i regret this?

You be ogbanje... Simple and straight forward.

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Re: I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? by healthserve(m): 11:09am On Dec 26, 2019
Conceptman:
I'm following you straight up, u've said it all. I hope she's ready to see herself and see the real kind of person she is and accept the truth about her ways of use and dumping guys. Some women needs to serious therapy to heal them of so many wrong doings and I hope when she finally get married she won't use her attitude to destroy her home



Many that struggle into marriage end destroying it under the influence of the other personality within. She needs to work on it if she desires change

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Re: I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? by Okuda(m): 11:10am On Dec 26, 2019
issa spirit husband something oooo. thsnk God you did not create new moniker so we can avoid you better...
Re: I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? by kelzgie: 11:12am On Dec 26, 2019
Michellekabod2:
I am not going to create another moniker for this,i owe no one nothing!

I have spent most of my life single. I tried linking up with people but to no avail. Why? I will not do the blame game here. Is all my fault. I meet someone, get heed over heels for the person but I lose interest easily. When it comes to commitment, when the friendship is to get to the next level I ghost them. I don't know why. At best out of the blue I lose interest and become blank, not returning calls or replying messages, at worst I become disgusted at the fellow for no reason at all then move one to the next male friend. Nothing serious comes out of it...

So I decided to give up trying. My female friends and I go on an outing, some guys approach us and get our numbers. Months (sometimes years) later they are still waxing strong with the males, one of them even got married to one of them. But me? After a couple of weeks I find myself having to ghost the guy that I was head over heels for.

I gave up on love and chose to be single. I have been single for years now.

I met this guy march this year,we bonded like never before. I have never in my entire life felt like this before. It is so strange that each conversation we have all seems anew like we are starting all over.

It's almost ten months and the fire is still intense.
I have never had such a long friendship with a male. People assume we are dating. He gives me so much JOY... He is so awesome, different from all the others i have known. He changed me.

I just figured out i want to end the friendship, I don't know why. I am tired. I want to walk away. The passion is still there but i want to be away. I wanted to get a new SIM but my conscience will not. What has kept me from doing this is because i wonder how he will feel..

I want to walk away. Will i regret this?

Early traits of Ashawoness
Re: I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? by SmellingAnus(m): 11:12am On Dec 26, 2019
midnighter:
You'd better force yourself to stay put with the guy.

I pity for the guy... I can't imagine myself being with a girl that is forcing herself to be with me... It's better we break up than to experience such hell on earth...

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Re: I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? by Conceptman: 11:12am On Dec 26, 2019
healthserve:




Many that struggle into marriage end destroying it under the influence of the other personality within. She needs to work on it if she desires change
very true.

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Re: I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? by Babyface69(m): 11:13am On Dec 26, 2019
lady, I'm available to change that your attribute
Re: I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? by cerpvad(m): 11:13am On Dec 26, 2019
From all the guys you have dumped, there are definitely some of them that are highly compatible with you. Let's pray that you don't make the mistake of settling down eventually with guy with lesser compatibility. Otherwise, you would regret it for the rest of your life.
Michellekabod2:
I am not going to create another moniker for this,i owe no one nothing!

I have spent most of my life single. I tried linking up with people but to no avail. Why? I will not do the blame game here. Is all my fault. I meet someone, get heed over heels for the person but I lose interest easily. When it comes to commitment, when the friendship is to get to the next level I ghost them. I don't know why. At best out of the blue I lose interest and become blank, not returning calls or replying messages, at worst I become disgusted at the fellow for no reason at all then move one to the next male friend. Nothing serious comes out of it...

So I decided to give up trying. My female friends and I go on an outing, some guys approach us and get our numbers. Months (sometimes years) later they are still waxing strong with the males, one of them even got married to one of them. But me? After a couple of weeks I find myself having to ghost the guy that I was head over heels for.

I gave up on love and chose to be single. I have been single for years now.

I met this guy march this year,we bonded like never before. I have never in my entire life felt like this before. It is so strange that each conversation we have all seems anew like we are starting all over.

It's almost ten months and the fire is still intense.
I have never had such a long friendship with a male. People assume we are dating. He gives me so much JOY... He is so awesome, different from all the others i have known. He changed me.

I just figured out i want to end the friendship, I don't know why. I am tired. I want to walk away. The passion is still there but i want to be away. I wanted to get a new SIM but my conscience will not. What has kept me from doing this is because i wonder how he will feel..

I want to walk away. Will i regret this?

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Re: I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? by kelzgie: 11:14am On Dec 26, 2019
healthserve:
Stop using people. Be better. Stop taking people for a ride with your emotional recklessness


Use and discard. Passive Narcissistic personality disorder. Go see a therapist. You're a destroyer


You also have an over-inflated ego. The world doesn't revolve around you. And No, you're not too good for everyone.


You're an egomaniac that exists for feel-good vibes only with a detached feeling from regular existence. Go see a therapist. You're pathetic

Wow.....you got all your words correctly....
Awesome

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Re: I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? by paparazi1(m): 11:15am On Dec 26, 2019
Michellekabod2:
I am not going to create another moniker for this,i owe no one nothing!

I have spent most of my life single. I tried linking up with people but to no avail. Why? I will not do the blame game here. Is all my fault. I meet someone, get heed over heels for the person but I lose interest easily. When it comes to commitment, when the friendship is to get to the next level I ghost them. I don't know why. At best out of the blue I lose interest and become blank, not returning calls or replying messages, at worst I become disgusted at the fellow for no reason at all then move one to the next male friend. Nothing serious comes out of it...

So I decided to give up trying. My female friends and I go on an outing, some guys approach us and get our numbers. Months (sometimes years) later they are still waxing strong with the males, one of them even got married to one of them. But me? After a couple of weeks I find myself having to ghost the guy that I was head over heels for.

I gave up on love and chose to be single. I have been single for years now.

I met this guy march this year,we bonded like never before. I have never in my entire life felt like this before. It is so strange that each conversation we have all seems anew like we are starting all over.

It's almost ten months and the fire is still intense.
I have never had such a long friendship with a male. People assume we are dating. He gives me so much JOY... He is so awesome, different from all the others i have known. He changed me.

I just figured out i want to end the friendship, I don't know why. I am tired. I want to walk away. The passion is still there but i want to be away. I wanted to get a new SIM but my conscience will not. What has kept me from doing this is because i wonder how he will feel..

I want to walk away. Will i regret this?
Are you not up to the age of marriage? or your plans does not
include settling down with someone you love?. The ans to these questions should guide your actions.
If the ans are yes but there is a compulsion on you to do things you did not want, then I may advised you further.
Re: I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? by vickydevoka(m): 11:15am On Dec 26, 2019
Aunty I will advise you to remain single for ever, buh wen if u marry, the marriage will not last.
I am also misogynist(bcus of women nagging n bad behaviour) , buh I am working on myself buy meeting good ladies.
Re: I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? by healthserve(m): 11:16am On Dec 26, 2019
kelzgie:


Wow.....you got all your words correctly....
Awesome


wink

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Re: I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? by drlaykay(m): 11:16am On Dec 26, 2019
healthserve:




I needed her to see her condition. It's a normal way of turning people with psychotic conditions to become aware to their realities. It's called forceful hammering. Pampering her would encourage her. To correct people in such situation, only making them see their ways as distasteful forces an inner fortitude to initiate a change, from their own inner fortress. I wanted her to see her self realistically, hate it and stimulate a change
How effective is this method of conditioning? People with these chronic disorders end up making escuses for themselves and continue their lifestyle...
BTW, you are intelligent, I must say!
Re: I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? by Truthbites: 11:16am On Dec 26, 2019
Before I advise...Do u sleep with them? Or it doesn't get to sex stage?

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Re: I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? by activelyA(f): 11:18am On Dec 26, 2019
Heavy signs of spiritual husband in play...

The whole aim is to use your hand against yourself and make you lose the right one
Michellekabod2:
I am not going to create another moniker for this,i owe no one nothing!

I have spent most of my life single. I tried linking up with people but to no avail. Why? I will not do the blame game here. Is all my fault. I meet someone, get heed over heels for the person but I lose interest easily. When it comes to commitment, when the friendship is to get to the next level I ghost them. I don't know why. At best out of the blue I lose interest and become blank, not returning calls or replying messages, at worst I become disgusted at the fellow for no reason at all then move one to the next male friend. Nothing serious comes out of it...

So I decided to give up trying. My female friends and I go on an outing, some guys approach us and get our numbers. Months (sometimes years) later they are still waxing strong with the males, one of them even got married to one of them. But me? After a couple of weeks I find myself having to ghost the guy that I was head over heels for.

I gave up on love and chose to be single. I have been single for years now.

I met this guy march this year,we bonded like never before. I have never in my entire life felt like this before. It is so strange that each conversation we have all seems anew like we are starting all over.

It's almost ten months and the fire is still intense.
I have never had such a long friendship with a male. People assume we are dating. He gives me so much JOY... He is so awesome, different from all the others i have known. He changed me.

I just figured out i want to end the friendship, I don't know why. I am tired. I want to walk away. The passion is still there but i want to be away. I wanted to get a new SIM but my conscience will not. What has kept me from doing this is because i wonder how he will feel..

I want to walk away. Will i regret this?
Re: I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? by spartoo: 11:19am On Dec 26, 2019
Michellekabod2:
I am not going to create another moniker for this,i owe no one nothing!

I have spent most of my life single. I tried linking up with people but to no avail. Why? I will not do the blame game here. Is all my fault. I meet someone, get heed over heels for the person but I lose interest easily. When it comes to commitment, when the friendship is to get to the next level I ghost them. I don't know why. At best out of the blue I lose interest and become blank, not returning calls or replying messages, at worst I become disgusted at the fellow for no reason at all then move one to the next male friend. Nothing serious comes out of it...

So I decided to give up trying. My female friends and I go on an outing, some guys approach us and get our numbers. Months (sometimes years) later they are still waxing strong with the males, one of them even got married to one of them. But me? After a couple of weeks I find myself having to ghost the guy that I was head over heels for.

I gave up on love and chose to be single. I have been single for years now.

I met this guy march this year,we bonded like never before. I have never in my entire life felt like this before. It is so strange that each conversation we have all seems anew like we are starting all over.

It's almost ten months and the fire is still intense.
I have never had such a long friendship with a male. People assume we are dating. He gives me so much JOY... He is so awesome, different from all the others i have known. He changed me.

I just figured out i want to end the friendship, I don't know why. I am tired. I want to walk away. The passion is still there but i want to be away. I wanted to get a new SIM but my conscience will not. What has kept me from doing this is because i wonder how he will feel..

I want to walk away. Will i regret this?

I swear we are same
Re: I Easily Lose Interest In Guys, Will I Regret This? by healthserve(m): 11:19am On Dec 26, 2019
drlaykay:

How effective is this method of conditioning? People with these chronic disorders end up making escuses for themselves and continue their lifestyle...
BTW, you are intelligent, I must say!



I apply it to many people who remain static in a phase. And it has been very effective. In psychology, and spirituality(Christianity), it's called forcing the sufferer to recognise and hate his/her condition. And trust me, her not replying only me out of the contributions on the first 2 pages implies my message and objective got passed successfully. After the seed is sown, it grows on its accord



As for being intelligent.... wink

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