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Riele:
1 . They are really spreading decayed sem*n .

2. I wasn't trying to imply that he needed a house to keep a woman . He needs a house before getting married because he can't continue sharing a house with a friend when married and would have inferiority issue if he were to live in a house built by his wife .

Since most men won't agree to live in a house built by his wife , I came to the conclusion that he gets his own house .

3 . Did I say women were slaves ? . I think I meant men want women as slaves

4. Who else is the victim ? Men ? How ?

5 . I didn't admit that men suffer .

6 . How did I disapprove the redpill ?

1:How about contributing 50/50 to get the house.
2: How can women be slaves when chores are automated?
3: men are victim cus they are been extorted by the women, thy work and do the heavy lifting for women, men do dengerious jobs for the comfort of the woman, thus the shorter life span, men provide security and die for women. Woman do not appriciate all that men do but whine about cooking food.
4 you said its a natural programming that men do the above.
5 called Redpillers names. Like spreading decay sem*en which is ok. This is expected of you as a woman.

Mandesz:
sex will not allow you to marry in good time cause you're tasting it late.

please sir,what do you mean by this?

TheRedpillguy:
1:How about contributing 50/50 to get the house.
2: How can women be slaves when chores are automated?
3: men are victim cus they are been extorted by the women, thy work and do the heavy lifting for women, men do dengerious jobs for the comfort of the woman, thus the shorter life span, men provide security and die for women. Woman do not appriciate all that men do but whine about cooking food.
4 you said its a natural programming that men do the above.
5 called Redpillers names. Like spreading decay sem*en which is ok. This is expected of you as a woman.

1. Contributing 50/50 ?. You know how that goes . The man feels threatened that his wife has every right to speak back at him . Why ? . Because they have equal rights now . That's not want you men want .

You want to be the head and head alone .

2 .

3 . Hello ? .Men do dangerous work for women ? . Such a joke . The only dangerous work they do is to provide for themselves . Dangerous work like what self ? .

Whining about cooking food . Have you tried giving birth to children before ? . When you do , get back to me .
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4 . Yes , it's natural programming . Any P?.

5. You still spread decayed sem*n .

Ahamefuna0001:
Matured minds please.

I'm a 25years old guy who who just completed my NYSC and got a job which pays me 50K monthly salary. I paired with a colleague at work to rent a single room self contain.

I have this mixed feeling that am over due to have a fiancée. I don't know if this feeling is wrong. I'm I good to have a serious girlfriend or fiancée at this stage of my life?

My brother, that spirit is the devil. Don't heap unnecessary responsibilities on your young head. Develop yourself, try to make more before you spend more.

Riele:
1. Contributing 50/50 ?. You know how that goes . The man feels threatened that his wife has every right to speak back at him . Why ? . Because they have equal rights now . That's not want you men want .

You want to be the head and head alone .

2 .

3 . Hello ? .Men do dangerous work for women ? . Such a joke . The only dangerous work they do is to provide for themselves . Dangerous work like what self ? .

Whining about cooking food . Have you tried giving birth to children before ? . When you do , get back to me .
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4 . Yes , it's natural programming . Any P?.

5. You still spread decayed sem*n .

Hehe this decayed semen stuff is getting old. I guess you figured that got under my skin. LOl. So cute! Anyways
So you give birth to children Bo ha ha. Don't act like you don't want children. But well you can alws not give birth. (Options)
Well you know redpillers don't defend women from anything. Natural disasters, war, animals nothing. Cus u know? What self?
Oh do you mean we do all those dengerious jobs for ourselfs. Keep proving redpills ryt every time. You can go do the dangerous jobs urself. But since u said its for my self then I guess u are right. Men should spend their money on themselves.
I have a P with the natural programming. Yes women should lift their own damn w8ts and fight for themselfs.
I don't have a problem with women leading, if you have the physical and mental ability to lead. When you talk back. Consider the consiqunces.
but the situation is usually, you can't afford thehuz, you are been fed, clothed, like a child and you still want to lead. anyways thank women. Becouse I was once the I will give you the world type of guy. untill women came along and pointed all the slave work I was doing and willing too. All for nothing. But don't worry am here to set things right. Since men r monsters. Thy will take the Redpill and you women can finally rule the world and make it LaLa Land

TheRedpillguy:
Hehe this decayed semen stuff is getting old. I guess you figured that got under my skin. LOl. So cute! Anyways
So you give birth to children Bo ha ha. Don't act like you don't want children. But well you can alws not give birth. (Options)
Well you know redpillers don't defend women from anything. Natural disasters, war, animals nothing. Cus u know? What self?
Oh do you mean we do all those dengerious jobs for ourselfs. Keep proving redpills ryt every time. You can go do the dangerous jobs urself. But since u said its for my self then I guess u are right. Men should spend their money on themselves.
I have a P with the natural programming. Yes women should lift their own damn w8ts and fight for themselfs.
I don't have a problem with women leading, if you have the physical and mental ability to lead. When you talk back. Consider the consiqunces.
but the situation is usually, you can't afford thehuz, you are been fed, clothed, like a child and you still want to lead. anyways thank women. Becouse I was once the I will give you the world type of guy. untill women came along and pointed all the slave work I was doing and willing too. All for nothing. But don't worry am here to set things right. Since men r monsters. Thy will take the Redpill and you women can finally rule the world and make it LaLa Land

I'm not a fan of typing long posts .

So I stop here .

Riele:


I'm not a fan of typing long posts .

So I stop here .

Ok good night. Grt convo.

Jodha:
It's "am" not "I'm"

That said... it's yhur personal decision...if yhu think yhu can deal with it.. why not?

How can you be correcting someone while using "Yhu". Like it takes literary the same effort or even less effort to type "you" correctly(Thanks to auto correct).

CHESTER48:
op. The question you would ask yourself is, all these people telling you to make money, did their parents make the type of money they want you to make before they got married? Most of them are from very poor homes but still there is happiness. The key is happiness. Even a dirty man has another dirty woman admiring him. Find a woman and grow with her. Ask yourself where your parents condition still the same since the day you were born till now?, Of course no. They would have improved

We learn from our parents mistake. My parents also gave birth to over 10 kids but guess who won't have more than two kids?

Ahamefuna0001:
Matured minds please.

I'm a 25years old guy who who just completed my NYSC and got a job which pays me 50K monthly salary. I paired with a colleague at work to rent a single room self contain.

I have this mixed feeling that am over due to have a fiancée. I don't know if this feeling is wrong. I'm I good to have a serious girlfriend or fiancée at this stage of my life?

This is a wrong feelings fuelled by Konji ... 50k .... Use It to develop yourself ... Go for your Masters, Do professional qualifications, Go for skill acquisitions, start online business .....

Use that level of income to develop yourself and good Fiancee will arrive ..... but if you want to live average life.... good for you !!

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Waterview:
Hustle more hustle more hustle more.

This is the problem with Nigerians, we chase money a lot, that's why it'll be very hard to see a selfless politician, greediness has eaten deep into our system no thanks to our barbaric culture.
I made a mistake when I was in Sec. School which am still regretting till today; I couldn't find love in Sec school, it good to find somebody you'll love unconditionally (vice versa) at a very tender age.

Op you need to find someone now, it might be too late to see true love when you turns 30+, find someone that both of you will grow (in love) together.

Don't listen to the ones shouting hustle more above.

50k is not too small, at least you talking about relationship not marriage.

I don talk my own.

I endorsed this post Ahamefuna0001


my fiance and I are on 9years roll but I'm tying the knot 2020 by God grace


we started as friends, we take it to a date from date to a relationship, relationship to courtship and we are about leading it to marriage. the benefit of this is, you will be getting married to your best friend


but lemme correct the impression, nothing like having a fiancé. it's a girlfriend, you gat to study a lady or know if she's compatible with your vision and future before she will be given the title of a fiancé


the word fiancé is not just a mere title

I'm sorry for the slow reply. I think our story is kind of related. I finished service last year April. I got a job around September last year that pays 50k around Ogun state... This time I got a place, a one room but not too okay like no good kitchen, toilet and water etc. I had to look for another place around February this year... A room too but I started buying things I mean good clothes and Natives etc, like from February till now I have been trying to feed well + get good clothes, I got increment to around 80k this year July. Now I got increment to 100k, I'm moving to a selfcon this January. Now I am chasing a lady I'm in love with


I'm just trying to tell you, firstly you need to get a place of your own even if it's a room then make sure u cloth yourself and be comfortable like buy basic things like TV, DSTV, fan, fridge of yours first. Honestly if u don't have all this, a lady won't take you seriously, u just another guy that just want to bed her, a lady, I mean a good lady that will stay with you must see a good prospects, someone that will be responsible. Even if u have millions in the account and u don't have basic things, no responsible lady will take u seriously. Lady only believe things they see.

Ahamefuna0001:
Matured minds please.

I'm a 25years old guy who who just completed my NYSC and got a job which pays me 50K monthly salary. I paired with a colleague at work to rent a single room self contain.

I have this mixed feeling that am over due to have a fiancée. I don't know if this feeling is wrong. I'm I good to have a serious girlfriend or fiancée at this stage of my life?

My guy, forget about all these stuffs now. You are just starting, work very hard, extremely hard. Grow in your career, make alot of money before thoughts like this come into your mind. Your future is bright. Just be prayerful, you will find someone with class along the line. Cheers

Kirinwa:
Its not about what I mean but the reality on ground. She may not ask for the #20 000 directly but somehow by the time you calculate how much have left your hand ontop her matter you will understand.

My story be that. Some of these ladies are like witches o. If you successfully settle their own issues, they'll bring up their family's.

Waterview:
Hustle more hustle more hustle more.

This is the problem with Nigerians, we chase money a lot, that's why it'll be very hard to see a selfless politician, greediness has eaten deep into our system no thanks to our barbaric culture.
I made a mistake when I was in Sec. School which am still regretting till today; I couldn't find love in Sec school, it good to find somebody you'll love unconditionally (vice versa) at a very tender age.

Op you need to find someone now, it might be too late to see true love when you turns 30+, find someone that both of you will grow (in love) together.

Don't listen to the ones shouting hustle more above.

50k is not too small, at least you talking about relationship not marriage.

I don talk my own.

Its not the fault of the masses shouting 'hussle more'... The show and flaunting of wealth in this century have driven people to o the unthinkable just to fit in the status quo.

Which 21st century wan hussle with man or go gree stay with one broke boy?

At what ever stage you feel ready n have the money to...

chigoizie7:
This one no de get stage.

Once you are emotionally, psychologically and financially stable, you can get that. Provided that you have seen the right or atleast, near right lady. No one is 100% perfect.

no stage on this. when its time for you to do that you will not need to ask but I will say wait for the time because its not yet your time.

Mrshape:
How you guys take day do the miracle?
I earn more than twice that 30K but the comfortable life make you talk no too comfortable for me o.
And I am single @26
Although I don't plan to marry till 34
Because I still get two different degrees to acquire.
Which state you day?
Show me the code baba.
If possible your food timetable you fit snap and send.?
Because Na feeding day consume pass
Meanwhile I day Edo state

I wonder too. I make more than 60k per months, sometimes up to 90k, still find it difficult to live comfortably here in Lagos..

Jodha:
It's "am" not "I'm"

That said... it's yhur personal decision...if yhu think yhu can deal with it.. why not?

Village English teacher, you are wrong and he is correct.

Goldenheart:


There are families who are surviving on less than 18k per month. Lives in a room apartment and still moving...

Op just find someone who is ready to work this journey with you...

Mention 2 family, one from a state leaving on 18k monthly .

Waterview:
Hustle more hustle more hustle more.

This is the problem with Nigerians, we chase money a lot, that's why it'll be very hard to see a selfless politician, greediness has eaten deep into our system no thanks to our barbaric culture.
I made a mistake when I was in Sec. School which am still regretting till today; I couldn't find love in Sec school, it good to find somebody you'll love unconditionally (vice versa) at a very tender age.

Op you need to find someone now, it might be too late to see true love when you turns 30+, find someone that both of you will grow (in love) together.

Don't listen to the ones shouting hustle more above.

50k is not too small, at least you talking about relationship not marriage.

I don talk my own.

So love was your major problem in secondary school? Oh my!
The guy can't even pay rent on his own and he probably has parents, younger siblings to send money to and love should be his number 1 priority? Explains why people like you get married and have 10 children in abject poverty

Goldenheart:


There are families who are surviving on less than 18k per month. Lives in a room apartment and still moving...

Op just find someone who is ready to work this journey with you...

This is as sad as it is true
It paints a picture of existing and not living
However it is the harsh reality
The OP can choose to try for a better, bigger life than this though...
But if what he desires is the picture you painted? He can have it too
Whatever his eventual choice is? I wish him happiness and success

Idrismusty97:
How can you be correcting someone while using "Yhu". Like it takes literary the same effort or even less effort to type "you" correctly(Thanks to auto correct).

K

Welcomme:
Village English teacher, you are wrong and he is correct.

In essence yhure saying. ..."I'm I good to have a serious girlfriend" is correct?

Hope yhu it means " I am I good to.."

Oga yhure the village English teacher...

Are you counting on your age or on your achievement?

DenreleDave:
... At these 3 stages

1. When u can feed 2 mouth and additionally feed her family tooo


2. When u can bear her cheating with another man and u wunt rush to nairaland to ask for an advice. Remember women are polygamous in nature

3. When you know you are mentally, physically okay to stay with one woman for the rest of ur life...

I don't agree with this, sir. Infact it's we men that are polygamous in nature, i agreed to every other thing you said.

Not too early bro.. Find love now, manage with her till you make it. You would look back and be happy you marry early. Don't make the same mistake we made

Own a house like what? Building House with 50k income or renting his own house I bet u are in Igbo because I have come to understand only Igbo fight to own heaven and earth b4 getting married while to north and south it's the opposite

Riele:
Okay .

Seems you have sense because most nairalanders your age and even older than you are still spreading their decayed sem*n and consoling themselves with the excuse of being on redpill overdose .

My advice :- plan your life first and maybe own a house before settling down .

Brother @ 25 you are due to have a girlfriend u have future with at least u both will plan your future together instead of rushing to get married when u must be 30 yrs

olamoses75:
I don't agree with this, sir. Infact it's we men that are polygamous in nature, i agreed to every other thing you said.

I speak in parables, I know what I'm saying sir

akeensbussy:
Who told you it is his duty to take care of his parent....the parent gave birth to him and they are suppose to take care of him till certain age before they hands off. He too will do the same to his children.

So, the parent gave birth to him and invested on him to get returns?

You are saying rubbish,
I have never seen this rubbish before.
Rubbish Rubbish Rubbish!