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username1111:
I've been seeing different threads about women looking for husbands and I created a new account to share this

when my mum was alive she told me she wishes for me to be married latest by 25 but she died when I was 16 and rounding off with secondary school.
Now the issue is I'm 36 and single. Not the I intended for this to happen but I find out that all my exes leave me for the most mundane of all reasons, some never even bothered to give reasons
examples include:
1. I prefer a little more flesh after dating for over 3 months (I'm not skinny lo I'm size
2. 'My mum adds more palm oil to the soup than you' and I replied 'you have a heart condition it's best to cut down on oil' than he said I disrespected his mum
3. There's this student that asked me out and when I got to know he was a student, I told him to focus on his education and graduate first but if he needs assistance he should come to me. Guess what he laughed in my face saying ill die lonely that he wants to manage me I'm making Shakira
4. One's mother just took a long look at me and said I look pretentious.
5. One said I don't socialise well with his friends, etc
It got to a point I was afraid of going into relationships customer I know it will end in tears
One day I went to Bodija market to get a few things and I gave a better some change and she told me I'm married to spirits and that's why my relationships don't last.
Long and short of the matter is for 4 years I've been enriching people who promise to separate us. I've made peace with it and living my life plus I have 7 children from my 4 brothers.
Now there's this guy that has been calling my phone but I'm afraid to meet him customer without solutions I know it will still end in tears

Guys let's be a little nice to the female folk and stop calling them hoes, evening newspapers, etc without knowing their stories. You never know your trolling could be the reason someone commits suicide or is killed in a road accident while being absent minded. the funny thing is you will not know that you have blood on your hands and won't ask your maker for forgiveness

24kmagic:
You de mind am?

He's even calling a 36 years old lady "girl".

gbami:
That's why you will remain stagnant or go backward in life...
Keep blaming Juju or people for your failures in life....
Don't take responsibility for your actions this year...next year you will be screaming ..." This is my year of break throughs..

shawnfamous:
But bro, Sincerely
Is this the Advice u would give to your sister or your child??

biddostandard:
what is this one saying are you mentally sick?

gbami:
...Not at all...
But point made...Keep blaming Juju and others for being a loser...

stupidity:
I prophecy to you this New Year, you’ll meet a man soon

Quality20:
yea I quite agree with u, not all ladies wasted their very youthful ages dating d wrong ppl. There are many ladies who are even virgins in their 40s n above. Let's just pray for them, we guys really can't feel what some of these angels feel or go through. plz enjoy urself lovely sister, everything will eventually fall into place

boiz2men:
Its good you decided to focus on something. But when you started dating, I am certain genuine guys came around but they didn't meet your requirements or were broke. You friendzoned them. The players were given attention because a bad boy is attractive to most ladies.

I sincerely wish this isn't your case.

My advice is keep an open mind. If a guy comes, fine. If he doesn't, live the best of your life.

If Hot, find someone. Guys hardly say to sex

shawnfamous:
Don't be bothered sister,You would get one soon.
I want to know something

What have u been doing while you were in your youthful Age ?

Were you declining everybody that came to u in your twenties?

username1111:
I've been seeing different threads about women looking for husbands and I created a new account to share this

when my mum was alive she told me she wishes for me to be married latest by 25 but she died when I was 16 and rounding off with secondary school.
Now the issue is I'm 36 and single. Not the I intended for this to happen but I find out that all my exes leave me for the most mundane of all reasons, some never even bothered to give reasons
examples include:
1. I prefer a little more flesh after dating for over 3 months (I'm not skinny lo I'm size
2. 'My mum adds more palm oil to the soup than you' and I replied 'you have a heart condition it's best to cut down on oil' than he said I disrespected his mum
3. There's this student that asked me out and when I got to know he was a student, I told him to focus on his education and graduate first but if he needs assistance he should come to me. Guess what he laughed in my face saying ill die lonely that he wants to manage me I'm making Shakira
4. One's mother just took a long look at me and said I look pretentious.
5. One said I don't socialise well with his friends, etc
It got to a point I was afraid of going into relationships customer I know it will end in tears
One day I went to Bodija market to get a few things and I gave a better some change and she told me I'm married to spirits and that's why my relationships don't last.
Long and short of the matter is for 4 years I've been enriching people who promise to separate us. I've made peace with it and living my life plus I have 7 children from my 4 brothers.
Now there's this guy that has been calling my phone but I'm afraid to meet him customer without solutions I know it will still end in tears

Guys let's be a little nice to the female folk and stop calling them hoes, evening newspapers, etc without knowing their stories. You never know your trolling could be the reason someone commits suicide or is killed in a road accident while being absent minded. the funny thing is you will not know that you have blood on your hands and won't ask your maker for forgiveness

24kmagic:
Well, I don't know you personally, so I honestly cannot sympathize with you.

I know many so called "evening newspaper that are terrible. By terrible, I mean very terrible.. Their character is nothing to write home about. They are so bitter and frustrated towards men and every one around them as if we caused her singleness. They are all over nairaland.

Having said that..... Let me just say this.

Most Nigerian girls don't know what they want in a relationship. You started dating @ 21, what category of guys did you date? Reasonable guys or guys in your age bracket? I don't know so much about the spiritual husband thing so I can't relate.

An 18 years old girl should not be in a relationship with an 18 years old boy. I mean, what will they be doing if not fvck, fvck, drink, smoke and fvck? 8/10 of such relationships doesn't lead anywhere.

Date guys at least five years older than you and give him your terms and conditions. Tell him youre not in for games. Tell him you want a real relationship. Of course you could have sex cos
it's your body, but be sure that you are building something. It doesn't necessarily mean it must lead to marriage, but tell him "let's just get serious with each other and see where that leads us. In the event that it doest lead anywhere, there should be no hard feelings. He could be broke, but he must be focused.

Most girls date little boys that are yet to even know their right from their left. After spending the best years spoiling around, they now want to settle down with reasonable guys and when such reasonable guys are not forthcoming,, they start to get bitter towards men. What a waste of time!

What annoys me the most is that such boys they had fun with will not even like to marry her.

I always say that as a girl, with your character and what you have in-between your thighs, you can make even the toughest and strongest man kneel down to beg you to be in his life.
And again, as a lady in your thirties who have had at least five relationships that didn't lead to the altar, then 9/10 times it's your fault and it takes something extraordinary for her to finally settle down and even if she does, it will be with one widower who just needs someone to cool of with.

Me I don talk my own.

No offense.

Yxxx:
Read with understanding.dammit

username1111:
I've been seeing different threads about women looking for husbands and I created a new account to share this

when my mum was alive she told me she wishes for me to be married latest by 25 but she died when I was 16 and rounding off with secondary school.
Now the issue is I'm 36 and single. Not the I intended for this to happen but I find out that all my exes leave me for the most mundane of all reasons, some never even bothered to give reasons
examples include:
1. I prefer a little more flesh after dating for over 3 months (I'm not skinny lo I'm size
2. 'My mum adds more palm oil to the soup than you' and I replied 'you have a heart condition it's best to cut down on oil' than he said I disrespected his mum
3. There's this student that asked me out and when I got to know he was a student, I told him to focus on his education and graduate first but if he needs assistance he should come to me. Guess what he laughed in my face saying ill die lonely that he wants to manage me I'm making Shakira
4. One's mother just took a long look at me and said I look pretentious.
5. One said I don't socialise well with his friends, etc
It got to a point I was afraid of going into relationships customer I know it will end in tears
One day I went to Bodija market to get a few things and I gave a better some change and she told me I'm married to spirits and that's why my relationships don't last.
Long and short of the matter is for 4 years I've been enriching people who promise to separate us. I've made peace with it and living my life plus I have 7 children from my 4 brothers.
Now there's this guy that has been calling my phone but I'm afraid to meet him customer without solutions I know it will still end in tears

Guys let's be a little nice to the female folk and stop calling them hoes, evening newspapers, etc without knowing their stories. You never know your trolling could be the reason someone commits suicide or is killed in a road accident while being absent minded. the funny thing is you will not know that you have blood on your hands and won't ask your maker for forgiveness

Michelle55:
Have a friend who's 34+ she's not married, yet she's happy and living her best life.

username1111:
I've been seeing different threads about women looking for husbands and I created a new account to share this

when my mum was alive she told me she wishes for me to be married latest by 25 but she died when I was 16 and rounding off with secondary school.
Now the issue is I'm 36 and single. Not the I intended for this to happen but I find out that all my exes leave me for the most mundane of all reasons, some never even bothered to give reasons
examples include:
1. I prefer a little more flesh after dating for over 3 months (I'm not skinny lo I'm size
2. 'My mum adds more palm oil to the soup than you' and I replied 'you have a heart condition it's best to cut down on oil' than he said I disrespected his mum
3. There's this student that asked me out and when I got to know he was a student, I told him to focus on his education and graduate first but if he needs assistance he should come to me. Guess what he laughed in my face saying ill die lonely that he wants to manage me I'm making Shakira
4. One's mother just took a long look at me and said I look pretentious.
5. One said I don't socialise well with his friends, etc
It got to a point I was afraid of going into relationships customer I know it will end in tears
One day I went to Bodija market to get a few things and I gave a better some change and she told me I'm married to spirits and that's why my relationships don't last.
Long and short of the matter is for 4 years I've been enriching people who promise to separate us. I've made peace with it and living my life plus I have 7 children from my 4 brothers.
Now there's this guy that has been calling my phone but I'm afraid to meet him customer without solutions I know it will still end in tears

Guys let's be a little nice to the female folk and stop calling them hoes, evening newspapers, etc without knowing their stories. You never know your trolling could be the reason someone commits suicide or is killed in a road accident while being absent minded. the funny thing is you will not know that you have blood on your hands and won't ask your maker for forgiveness

zexy2030:
If you live in Ibadan let me meet you, pm me OK?
Things shall be fine OK.

LINTUNE:
pussy hunter

username1111:
Long and short of the matter is for 4 years I've been enriching people who promise to separate us.

username1111:
How was I to know there was something like spirit husband. Trust me you don't dare tell people your boyfriend left you at that period and you won't be scolded for having a boyfriend
if my mum was alive she would have asked since we had a proposed age
I've been having these unnecessary break ups since I started dating 21 precisely

J111333:
C'mon girl, marriage is not achievement and will never be so don't be depressed about it. I understand you may need a man to make you feel accepted once in a while but c'mon, if nobody wanna love you, love yourself girl. Treat yourself to vacations and use your money to buy the same man's sperms and have kids if you want biko. Nobody will make you happy more than yourself.

For the records, evening newspaper oftentimes have more value than current newspaper. If you doubt me, wait until the embassy asks you to bring a proof of change of name you had in 2010.

Spirit husband my black ass. I guess Oprah Winfrey has spirit husband too.

username1111:
I've been seeing different threads about women looking for husbands and I created a new account to share this

when my mum was alive she told me she wishes for me to be married latest by 25 but she died when I was 16 and rounding off with secondary school.
Now the issue is I'm 36 and single. Not the I intended for this to happen but I find out that all my exes leave me for the most mundane of all reasons, some never even bothered to give reasons
examples include:
1. I prefer a little more flesh after dating for over 3 months (I'm not skinny lo I'm size
2. 'My mum adds more palm oil to the soup than you' and I replied 'you have a heart condition it's best to cut down on oil' than he said I disrespected his mum
3. There's this student that asked me out and when I got to know he was a student, I told him to focus on his education and graduate first but if he needs assistance he should come to me. Guess what he laughed in my face saying ill die lonely that he wants to manage me I'm making Shakira
4. One's mother just took a long look at me and said I look pretentious.
5. One said I don't socialise well with his friends, etc
It got to a point I was afraid of going into relationships customer I know it will end in tears
One day I went to Bodija market to get a few things and I gave a better some change and she told me I'm married to spirits and that's why my relationships don't last.
Long and short of the matter is for 4 years I've been enriching people who promise to separate us. I've made peace with it and living my life plus I have 7 children from my 4 brothers.
Now there's this guy that has been calling my phone but I'm afraid to meet him customer without solutions I know it will still end in tears

Guys let's be a little nice to the female folk and stop calling them hoes, evening newspapers, etc without knowing their stories. You never know your trolling could be the reason someone commits suicide or is killed in a road accident while being absent minded. the funny thing is you will not know that you have blood on your hands and won't ask your maker for forgiveness

row2ray:
Am I the only one who saw 7 kids from her four brothers... please explain... this part got me confused....incest?

username1111:
How was I to know there was something like spirit husband. Trust me you don't dare tell people your boyfriend left you at that period and you won't be scolded for having a boyfriend
if my mum was alive she would have asked since we had a proposed age
I've been having these unnecessary break ups since I started dating 21 precisely