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Re: Re: Women Searching For Husbands; My Story by Nobody: 9:06pm On Jan 04, 2020
Michelle55:
This year is yours okay... BTW, marriage is never an achievement sis, do whatever makes you happy and leave the rest for your Maker.
Have a friend who's 34+ she's not married, yet she's happy and living her best life.
Don't let societal pressure drive you into depression(at the end of the day, you are only answerable to yourself and Maker)
Note: dem no dey catch latecomer for husband's house
When it's your time to get settled, you will definitely be.. Delay is not denial!!
undecided
Re: Re: Women Searching For Husbands; My Story by Nobody: 9:09pm On Jan 04, 2020
Goodgod213:
After you have slept with several guys and your body count is more than a million you are looking for someone to dump your problems on.

Serves you right. Best option is for you to be a lesbian. In this life no husband for you probably when you be of good character next life
undecided
Re: Re: Women Searching For Husbands; My Story by victorian(f): 9:12pm On Jan 04, 2020
Op I don't believe spirit husband exist.

I honestly feel the time for you to settle down wasn't last year or years back.
If you are close to God? God is preparing the right man for you. Don't think any spirit somewhere is delaying your marriage or breaking up your relationships. Nothing like that.
Be patient, focus on making yourself better and stabilize your financial grounds.. Im telling u, guys will rush you for marriage.

Years back I use to date guys who do not really love me and I thought it was village people causing my break ups but later I sat myself down and analysed the kind of guys I was dating. And I realised they don't deserve me. I easily rush into relationships. And when rush in, one rushes out.
I took a deep breath, caution myself to slow down and make my self and career better. That's the truth.
And I did. I just did my bit and place the rest in God's hands.

Today I'm blessed dating a man from my state. He did what no man has ever done for me. He took risks, no man has ever taken for me. I'm amazed. And I know the time is coming for me to settle down with him.
I can sense it with every fiber of my being. I know ,he's the one God has chosen for me. He's so supportive. And can u imagine, I met him online when I'm already in my mid 30s. And his actions shows he loves me alot.

So relax, pray to God about it and let God lead. You will be peaceful at the end. It's not about who first marry dey last for marriage o.

It's all about marrying well to a companion that gives u peace and supports you. That's just life. So relax. Yours will come.
You will marry in Jesus name. Amen
Re: Re: Women Searching For Husbands; My Story by madprophet(m): 11:48pm On Jan 04, 2020
username1111:
I've been seeing different threads about women looking for husbands and I created a new account to share this

when my mum was alive she told me she wishes for me to be married latest by 25 but she died when I was 16 and rounding off with secondary school.
Now the issue is I'm 36 and single. Not the I intended for this to happen but I find out that all my exes leave me for the most mundane of all reasons, some never even bothered to give reasons
examples include:
1. I prefer a little more flesh after dating for over 3 months (I'm not skinny lo I'm size cool
2. 'My mum adds more palm oil to the soup than you' and I replied 'you have a heart condition it's best to cut down on oil' than he said I disrespected his mum
3. There's this student that asked me out and when I got to know he was a student, I told him to focus on his education and graduate first but if he needs assistance he should come to me. Guess what he laughed in my face saying ill die lonely that he wants to manage me I'm making Shakira
4. One's mother just took a long look at me and said I look pretentious.
5. One said I don't socialise well with his friends, etc
It got to a point I was afraid of going into relationships customer I know it will end in tears
One day I went to Bodija market to get a few things and I gave a better some change and she told me I'm married to spirits and that's why my relationships don't last.
Long and short of the matter is for 4 years I've been enriching people who promise to separate us. I've made peace with it and living my life plus I have 7 children from my 4 brothers.
Now there's this guy that has been calling my phone but I'm afraid to meet him customer without solutions I know it will still end in tears

Guys let's be a little nice to the female folk and stop calling them hoes, evening newspapers, etc without knowing their stories. You never know your trolling could be the reason someone commits suicide or is killed in a road accident while being absent minded. the funny thing is you will not know that you have blood on your hands and won't ask your maker for forgiveness

All is well..

What kind if dreams do you have?
Is that the men dont come or what??
If you have spirit husband you would know.

Just be prayerful you would prevail
Re: Re: Women Searching For Husbands; My Story by Skelewu: 1:45am On Jan 05, 2020
username1111:
I've been seeing different threads about women looking for husbands and I created a new account to share this

when my mum was alive she told me she wishes for me to be married latest by 25 but she died when I was 16 and rounding off with secondary school.
Now the issue is I'm 36 and single. Not the I intended for this to happen but I find out that all my exes leave me for the most mundane of all reasons, some never even bothered to give reasons
examples include:
1. I prefer a little more flesh after dating for over 3 months (I'm not skinny lo I'm size cool
2. 'My mum adds more palm oil to the soup than you' and I replied 'you have a heart condition it's best to cut down on oil' than he said I disrespected his mum
3. There's this student that asked me out and when I got to know he was a student, I told him to focus on his education and graduate first but if he needs assistance he should come to me. Guess what he laughed in my face saying ill die lonely that he wants to manage me I'm making Shakira
4. One's mother just took a long look at me and said I look pretentious.
5. One said I don't socialise well with his friends, etc
It got to a point I was afraid of going into relationships customer I know it will end in tears
One day I went to Bodija market to get a few things and I gave a better some change and she told me I'm married to spirits and that's why my relationships don't last.
Long and short of the matter is for 4 years I've been enriching people who promise to separate us. I've made peace with it and living my life plus I have 7 children from my 4 brothers.
Now there's this guy that has been calling my phone but I'm afraid to meet him customer without solutions I know it will still end in tears

Guys let's be a little nice to the female folk and stop calling them hoes, evening newspapers, etc without knowing their stories. You never know your trolling could be the reason someone commits suicide or is killed in a road accident while being absent minded. the funny thing is you will not know that you have blood on your hands and won't ask your maker for forgiveness

Victorian, this looks like your handwriting.

I prophesy marriage into your life this year.
Re: Re: Women Searching For Husbands; My Story by Acme45: 10:58am On Jan 05, 2020
shawnfamous:
U don't have any spiritual Husband.. U must have Dated for the wrong reasons, and maybe u should check your character.. Not everyone are tolerateble
correct
Re: Re: Women Searching For Husbands; My Story by victorian(f): 12:19pm On Jan 05, 2020
Skelewu:


Victorian, this looks like your handwriting.

I prophesy marriage into your life this year.









Lol cheesy


It's not me o!

I'm not that depressed about getting married Biko!

I'm at peace with my love life and everything around me.

So please I reject another person's worries in my life in Jesus name Amen.

This is new Year o! Let's be guided!

I'm fulfiled , completely fulfiled.

Re: Re: Women Searching For Husbands; My Story by Skelewu: 11:43pm On Jan 05, 2020
victorian:










Lol cheesy


It's not me o!

I'm not that depressed about getting married Biko!

I'm at peace with my love life and everything around me.

So please I reject another person's worries in my life in Jesus name Amen.

This is new Year o! Let's be guided!

I'm fulfiled , completely fulfiled.

I knew you would deny it is you. But I know what I know... wink

Since you have rejected my sincere prayer of marriage for you this year, It's okay, suit yourself. smiley
Re: Re: Women Searching For Husbands; My Story by poik(m): 12:25am On Jan 06, 2020
gbami:
Dear..There is nothing like spirit husband...Your time has not come yet, or is around the corner...
Let me ask...Is the spirit husband racist? Why is it that it is only African Ladies that the spirit husband "marries"
Him no like white American, European or Asian ladies? even black American girls has no spirit husband... Dear .. Attitude is everything...if have a bad one..change it...and see how far you will go...I promise.. before this year runs out.. everything will be in their rightful place

Leave that matter o. When a matter is spiritual, be sure it is spiritual and attack it accordingly. The spiritual issues white people go through no be here o. Its not exclusive to Africa alone o
Re: Re: Women Searching For Husbands; My Story by Nobody: 12:28am On Jan 06, 2020
all these spirit husbands chasing away potential suitors cheesy..make cheesy una leave our fine sisters alone biko.spirit husband i is begging u cheesy
Re: Re: Women Searching For Husbands; My Story by Kennedyiheme: 5:03am On Jan 06, 2020
These are the feminists ones that claimed strong and business oriented , saying women can rule the world too.. this is the result
Re: Re: Women Searching For Husbands; My Story by birdie: 5:49am On Jan 06, 2020
Please take your mind off the "marine husband" thing. Stop feeding your fears.
You sure have some things going for you, improve your looks, socialize more and be choosy about this - mingle more with the class of people from where you'll want your husband to come from.
Then be tactical about things. Relationships are games too sometimes, you need to understand the basics and play it well.
Finally, seek God (please, I say seek God! I didn't say seek church or seek pastor/prophet...)
God will see you through. Amen!
Re: Re: Women Searching For Husbands; My Story by kkelvin(m): 5:57am On Jan 06, 2020
username1111:
I've been seeing different threads about women looking for husbands and I created a new account to share this

when my mum was alive she told me she wishes for me to be married latest by 25 but she died when I was 16 and rounding off with secondary school.
Now the issue is I'm 36 and single. Not the I intended for this to happen but I find out that all my exes leave me for the most mundane of all reasons, some never even bothered to give reasons
examples include:
1. I prefer a little more flesh after dating for over 3 months (I'm not skinny lo I'm size cool
2. 'My mum adds more palm oil to the soup than you' and I replied 'you have a heart condition it's best to cut down on oil' than he said I disrespected his mum
3. There's this student that asked me out and when I got to know he was a student, I told him to focus on his education and graduate first but if he needs assistance he should come to me. Guess what he laughed in my face saying ill die lonely that he wants to manage me I'm making Shakira
4. One's mother just took a long look at me and said I look pretentious.
5. One said I don't socialise well with his friends, etc
It got to a point I was afraid of going into relationships customer I know it will end in tears
One day I went to Bodija market to get a few things and I gave a better some change and she told me I'm married to spirits and that's why my relationships don't last.
Long and short of the matter is for 4 years I've been enriching people who promise to separate us. I've made peace with it and living my life plus I have 7 children from my 4 brothers.
Now there's this guy that has been calling my phone but I'm afraid to meet him customer without solutions I know it will still end in tears

Guys let's be a little nice to the female folk and stop calling them hoes, evening newspapers, etc without knowing their stories. You never know your trolling could be the reason someone commits suicide or is killed in a road accident while being absent minded. the funny thing is you will not know that you have blood on your hands and won't ask your maker for forgiveness

To begin with, you have no spirit husband! People will just fleece you if you continue to have that mindset. All these market people with visions, let them first see why they're not in Banana Island instead of under the sun in Bodija!

The world, especially in our parts, is just full of shitty men. 36 and you're worried? Aunty, better marry right and not because one mumu clock is ticking. Any divorced woman will tell you it's best to wait no matter when your true man will come. Moun to n se o.

Ire.
Re: Re: Women Searching For Husbands; My Story by victorian(f): 10:09am On Jan 06, 2020
Skelewu:


I knew you would deny it is you. But I know what I know... wink

Since you have rejected my sincere prayer of marriage for you this year, It's okay, suit yourself. smiley






Na you sabi.

That's your problem not mine

Keep your fucvking prayer for yourself! I don't need it!

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