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| What Is The Shortest Duration For Courtship? by Nobody: 11:39pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
I had to break communications between me & my girlfriend when I noticed she was not straightforward anymore. That was about three months ago. She later called me in December that she's no longer interested in our relationship as she's now into another r/shp emphasizing that she holds nothing against me. Lo & behold, three days ago, her younger brother called to inform me about her wedding which will hold in March. In his words, her sister (my girlfriend) asked her to inform me before the news get to me through others. Then I wondered when she had started dating the husband-to-be, perhaps she really met him, did introduction & fixed wedding date within the few months we parted. I don't want to believe she had been cheating on me despite all the confidence & claim that she didn't know how to double-date. Truthfully, I do not feel too bad about this. I know she's obsessed with the thought of getting married early coupled with her parents' little dislike for my State of Origin. What is the shortest duration for courtship? |
| Re: What Is The Shortest Duration For Courtship? by mariobalotelli09: 11:53pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
The other guy had always been in the picture, probably as a 2nd option(friendzone) . She just promoted him and within 3 months married him. Don't be decived, he was never a new comer!! 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: What Is The Shortest Duration For Courtship? by boiz2men(m): 11:58pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
I dey fear women oo.. I hope pocohantas is not like this 3 Likes |
| Re: What Is The Shortest Duration For Courtship? by ERORR404(m): 11:58pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
mariobalotelli09:Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you 1 Like |
| Re: What Is The Shortest Duration For Courtship? by xcommando(m): 11:59pm On Jan 01, 2020 |
She has been dating both of you, the other guy have always been an alternative, I have learn never to believe any girl 100%. 2 Likes |
| Re: What Is The Shortest Duration For Courtship? by pocohantas(f): 12:06am On Jan 02, 2020 |
Truthfully, I do not feel too bad about this. Truthfully, you feel bad. You can try downloading Westlife's World Of Our Own. 1 Like |
| Re: What Is The Shortest Duration For Courtship? by pocohantas(f): 12:18am On Jan 02, 2020 |
boiz2men: It is okay to fear women. OP is doing NYSC, probably in his early-mid 20s. I see him experiencing two more heartbreaks. The girl my brother was doing love with then, she broke up with him and got married in record time. He confronted me with this same question. Next he started blasting 2pac and DMX- rapping with anger. "What these bitches want from a nigga?"... It has been few years, the girl has a child and she seems to be enjoying her marriage. My brother is still here asking me if he should barb his hair like Pogba or Ronaldo. Looking at himself, I am sure he understands her decision now. He is currently dating one smallie that does Snapchat videos and puts flowers on his head. OP should not bother his head with this kind word problem. He should move on, he'll be fine. We break up with one, we marry another. The goal is not to become an evening newspaper. While doing this, someone gets hurt. 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: What Is The Shortest Duration For Courtship? by lilmax(m): 12:24am On Jan 02, 2020 |
There's no standard It depends on you and your girl Your ex was a hoe, you did nothing wrong here Pick yourself and move 1 Like |
| Re: What Is The Shortest Duration For Courtship? by kunkelhanspeter(m): 12:28am On Jan 02, 2020 |
pocohantas:Mad oh  |
| Re: What Is The Shortest Duration For Courtship? by boiz2men(m): 12:30am On Jan 02, 2020 |
pocohantas: I'm doing NYSC too.. Shouldnt I be worried?  Women just marry who is available. How do they just jump on any that asks? I'm concerned about you. Will you break my heart before I complete nysc |
| Re: What Is The Shortest Duration For Courtship? by xcommando(m): 12:32am On Jan 02, 2020 |
My elder brother was dating this particular lady that he loved so much,he later traveled abroad for his master, came back. One or two thinks led to each other and he SUSPECTED while he was away the lady was dating someone. Though the lady swore that there was nothing like that.But my bro is this kind of nigger that to even date na by force, so he had to break up with her. Guyman does not have such time to play around na so so book. In less than six Months I just saw on Facebook that the babe is married. My question was: when did she meet the guy,? When did they do their introduction? I just felt the dude has been behind the sciene(alternative B). 2 Likes |
| Re: What Is The Shortest Duration For Courtship? by pocohantas(f): 12:43am On Jan 02, 2020 |
boiz2men: You shouldn't be worried, you should be open minded. Guys like OP are nurturers, useful for understanding men, relationships and prick. That is before we marry those established guys- the same ones you all told to leave woman and hustle. He has hustled and he is ready to marry. One of your babes will most likely be snatched. It is a vicious cycle. Do it for the brotherhood. Are we not all the available? Is anyone ever presented with all the options in the world? Lol! They jump for many reasons. For some it is a tough decision, for many it is an opportunistic one. The aim is sha to marry. You no well! 4 Likes |
| Re: What Is The Shortest Duration For Courtship? by Nobody: 12:53am On Jan 02, 2020 |
pocohantas: always a blunt knife with the hard truths. |
| Re: What Is The Shortest Duration For Courtship? by boiz2men(m): 12:55am On Jan 02, 2020 |
pocohantas: @bold includes you  ?Be like na to dey do like ubun.ja na sure pass ooo... Our heart too fragile for nonsense |
| Re: What Is The Shortest Duration For Courtship? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 1:03am On Jan 02, 2020 |
@OP I honestly don't understand your interest! You cut communication with her, she broke up and about to marry someone. It doesn't matter how long they've been dating. If you must know, some relationship lead to altar after a few weeks and months. |
| Re: What Is The Shortest Duration For Courtship? by PointZerom: 1:04am On Jan 02, 2020 |
lilmax: I disagree with you on the girl bn a hoe, the truth is that she want to settle down on time and the guy is not ready for that. There's no standard for courtship. I met my wife February 6th and proposed to her two weeks after, we did our trad. in July and white wedding in September of the same year. If not for Church protocols we would have married in less than one month I met her. |
| Re: What Is The Shortest Duration For Courtship? by Kaycee7(m): 9:08am On Jan 02, 2020 |
pocohantas:So you carried this energy into this decade? Happy New Year Poco.
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| Re: What Is The Shortest Duration For Courtship? by Jodha(f): 9:16am On Jan 02, 2020 |
boiz2men:Fear woman Asin..... it's obvious he wasn't ready to settle down any time soon....and he kept leading her own and wasting her time... She came to her senses and obviously did the right thing ...yhu should fear yhur fellow men.... Look how he's coming here to act like the Saint that did absolutely nothing wrong.. 2 Likes |
| Re: What Is The Shortest Duration For Courtship? by Lamanii22(f): 9:30am On Jan 02, 2020 |
The 2nd guy has always been there... Although they might not be dating... But the guy has been professing his love to her... And she's been pushing him forward because she has a boyfriend.... She recently agreed to the 2nd guy... You know cause she has the idea of getting married early... And that one's ready so she took the opportunity... 1 Like |
| Re: What Is The Shortest Duration For Courtship? by boiz2men(m): 9:34am On Jan 02, 2020 |
Jodha: He's still serving. How could he be ready? The babe was desperate. If I met her today and asked a month later, she might say yes. 1 Like |
| Re: What Is The Shortest Duration For Courtship? by Jodha(f): 9:37am On Jan 02, 2020 |
boiz2men: It's her decision...he had already broken up with him .... She should nurse his broken heart and quit shouting foul... 1 Like |
| Re: What Is The Shortest Duration For Courtship? by boiz2men(m): 9:44am On Jan 02, 2020 |
Jodha:If I read correctly, she officially broke up with him. Yes. Its her decision. That's why I said I fear women. The babe you might be dating might be dating others... Guys don't marry who is available. 1 Like |
| Re: What Is The Shortest Duration For Courtship? by Jodha(f): 9:49am On Jan 02, 2020 |
boiz2men: A babe should always have other options.... because time is not biologically on our side ... Only a foolish lady is obviously put all her eggs in one basket.. |
| Re: What Is The Shortest Duration For Courtship? by boiz2men(m): 9:54am On Jan 02, 2020 |
Jodha: Are you saying you have like 2 or more bf now? Since I don't expect you to be foolish |
| Re: What Is The Shortest Duration For Courtship? by Jodha(f): 9:59am On Jan 02, 2020 |
boiz2men: Yhu don't get me .....all I'm saying is that ...a lady should have back up ....not she should have more than one boyfriend.... |
| Re: What Is The Shortest Duration For Courtship? by boiz2men(m): 10:11am On Jan 02, 2020 |
Jodha: Smiles  Backup.. Like a side dude, right? |
| Re: What Is The Shortest Duration For Courtship? by Jodha(f): 10:32am On Jan 02, 2020 |
boiz2men: That's not what i mean either... I mean she should not be quick to shut other doors completely... just because she thinks she's in a serious relationship... A lady should be open to other doors.... I don't mean she should be sleep around o..... Yhu get my point right? |
| Re: What Is The Shortest Duration For Courtship? by boiz2men(m): 10:55am On Jan 02, 2020 |
Jodha: I do.  |
| Re: What Is The Shortest Duration For Courtship? by Nobody: 11:10am On Jan 02, 2020 |
xcommando:Smile |
| Re: What Is The Shortest Duration For Courtship? by Nobody: 11:24am On Jan 02, 2020 |
Jodha:Don't take it to heart, sis. I was never a weakling & I won't be over a surplus |
| Re: What Is The Shortest Duration For Courtship? by Nobody: 11:29am On Jan 02, 2020 |
Jodha:Considering this, she's indeed different from you. |
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