nice speech

Don't ever forfeit your future for anyone!!

You expect us to remember these 20 advices?

stay single and have peace of mind, don't think relationship is worth it in this era

Don't let anybody break your heart my advice
Smash a random girl
Better still do soapy with premier soap

This person has come to understand relationships and the complexity of humans.

This kind of wisdom surely is not from this shore.

Thoughtful

Cool...
Too Love this ..
My bae is not on this platform she could have read it herself at least...
Thanks OP...

philfearon:


1] Be friends with your spouse during the day and be lovers at night.

2] If you want to make love to your wife at night, start in the morning.

3] Things change — respect each other and be willing to change. Remain flexible and open to compromise.

4] Stay true — cheating never works — never surrender your integrity.

5] Listen more than you talk. Think more than you say.

6] Don’t keep score. You don’t win at marriage. Strive to stay even.

7] Intimacy and affection are not always sexual. A promise is as good as the act.

8] Women crave sex for intimacy and acceptance — Men crave sex for validation. If either isn’t getting what they need, they will seek it elsewhere.

9] Sometimes she just wants to be held. If she doesn’t she’ll let you know.

10] Let him know you are interested. Don’t think he should see you are interested and act accordingly. If you want it ask.

11] Pick up after yourself. Flip the laundry. Do the dishes. Cook a meal or two or three ect and change a diaper. Neither took a vow to be the maid — if you did — the 1800’s called and want their vow back.

12] Don’t pick a fight. Stop. Wait. Think. Then say what you mean and mean what you say after you stop being angry.

13] Don’t go in thinking he or she will change or you will change them. Change grows organically from within.

14] A divorce is like finding a woman you hate and buying her a house. If that joke isn’t funny — don’t buy a house.

15] Maintain your financial independence. Everyone who was ever married either died or were divorced — you’ll need your financial independence.

16] Sometimes she cries for no reason — sometimes he broods over non-sense. This too shall pass.

17] He or she might be your one, but eventually they will be the half or the quarter — strive to keep growing back together.

18] Watch her family and see how her father treats her mother — that’s her expectation. Watch his family — that’s his expectation. If you can’t imagine living in such an environment — you won’t — don’t hesitate to reset your expectations.

19] Roughly a third of people will suffer from a mental illness during their lifetime. Better than even chance one of you will become ill. Acceptance — Treatment, early and often.

20] Children change everything. She will unapologetically love her children more than she loves you. If you can’t handle that, wrap it in latex.

21] Most fights start over money and end in the bedroom — good or bad.

22] A three-some is never a good idea. It’s a desperate decision — a cancer with no cure. If you have an open relationship, good for you, but follow your rules. Mileage varies.

23] Space is more than what’s 20 miles straight up, or the inches between your ears. Maintain your space and allow him or her their’s.

24] Don’t threaten divorce — you either are or you aren’t. Threats breed fear — fear leads to distrust — It’s nearly impossible to earn someone’s trust, again.

25] If you are on the couch and your spouse is doing chores you are in the wrong place. Do things together.

26] If one of you is using drugs/alcohol and the other isn’t — there’s a problem. There is help available — use it.

27] You are married the person they are, but you’ll be in love with the person they were — reconcile those statements.

28] Once it’s over, it’s over. Move on quickly and quietly.

29] We can’t do anything about the ex parked outside your house — nor can we stop them from sleeping with someone new. Neither of you took a vow of celibacy. The contrary is true.

30] Don’t drunk text, call, write, or skype — Don’t drunk anything except sleep.

31] If you can’t control your emotions — leave — take a walk — pray. But whatever you do, don’t hit, slap, grab, pull, push, hug, knock, slam, choke, pinch, pin, head lock, arm bar, round kick, front kick or beat each other in anyway shape, form or fashion. If you must fight, use your words and remember anger equals ten feet. Never pick up a weapon in anger.

32] Spousal rape is real. No still means No — even if there’s a ring, a vow and several days/weeks/months/years of unrealized expectations.

May the Lord grant you the courage to change the things you must, the grace to accept the things you can’t, and the wisdom to know the difference.


QUORA

good

Lamanii22:
Great article... But that number 20 though... Is there a way the love between your kids and husband be equal? Like what can one do to make it equal.. I don't want children coming between me and my husband... Or is it inevitable?

As you have conceive it its possible,just dont let the way you respectfully and submissively treat your hubby bfr you strt having children changes as soon as u strt having babies cos of alot of things will threaten that bond.only u n hubby will av to make ur stand never to gv a space for any intruder btw u...
And the way u guys flow n cherish eachother is wat the children will imbibe

Jodha:
All I know is that this year.... Bye Bye to Yeye boyfriend...

happy new year
ugly bebe

Men also love their children more

7 units course.

Nice effort OP.
But see eh, our fathers were never this obsessed with love, sex and acceptance. They were concerned with family, providing for their stock and it worked.
They lived happier, marriages lasted, family unit worked like magic......unlike now, despite all the sweet words.

obembet:
In the year 2020,
May you continue to
surprise people like
*WOLVES & AJAX*
May you never live on
your past glory like
*ARSENAL*
May every resources
you seek come to you
like *PEP GUARDIOLA*
May you never be
useless like *ALEXIS SANCHEZ*
And when people look
up to you like *MESSI*
May you never
disappoint them like
*LINGARD*
I pray for you, you will
never struggle like
*ARSENAL* to make it
in life
Believe in hardwork like *LIVERPOOL*
So you will never know
shame as *FRANK LAMPARD*
Pride will never
overtake you like *JOSE MOURINHO* ,
May you continue to be
steadfast like
*CRISTIANO RONALDO*, You
will never
fall from glory like *Kepa Arrizabalaga*.
As you grow, never
depend on anyone like
*BARCELONA* but
continue
to work and manage
the little resources you
have like *BAYERN MUNICH* .
Even though men will
despise you like
*MANCHESTER UNITED* always
believe in
yourself like *IBRAHIMOVIC*.
Finally, stick on the best
and never be confused
like *NEYMAR*.
God Bless You All...❤❤❤❤❤

Alexis Sanchez is not useless it is man utd my club that is useless

Lamanii22:
Great article... But that number 20 though... Is there a way the love between your kids and husband be equal? Like what can one do to make it equal.. I don't want children coming between me and my husband... Or is it inevitable?

Mindset, then determination.

Too much to read. Game wey go cut go still cut!

Nice one

Nice!

Jodha:
All I know is that this year.... Bye Bye to Yeye boyfriend...

one of those sure people to end up single and searching through year 2020 spoted..

Dont date someone that is incompatible with your personality or zodiac. Thank me later

How about you don't do relationship and not care about the above. Did not read cus I knw its more BS to please women.

All these write ups doesn’t work in real life complications, complexity, unseen and many uncontrollable factors play out every minute, every day life is way too complex to understand, making us powerless and only trying.

Vanity

Edusouls:
All these write ups doesn’t work in real life complications, complexity, unseen and many uncontrollable factors play out every minute, every day life is way too complex to understand, making us powerless and only trying.

Well when u stop caring. Life is not that complex.

9ice

Lamanii22:
Great article... But that number 20 though... Is there a way the love between your kids and husband be equal? Like what can one do to make it equal.. I don't want children coming between me and my husband... Or is it inevitable?

Your husband should be the one woried not u.