Does it irritate u when u hear married men cheating ? Ur irritation has just started sef - women have no chill nowadays .

KingGBsky:
Please tell the man so he can get rid of that bitch cheating wife. It irritates me when I hear married women cheating.

Depends on what she was doing there.

It could be work-related.

iPrevail:
You have involuntarily placed yourself in a difficult situation. A situation of guilty and restless conscience.
How will you drink and laugh with your friend, while you are helping his wife keep her dirty secrets? And if you spill, you may well be the catalyst that will break their marriage.
What would I do? I'd confront the wife about it and make her understand why it'll be better she tells her husband about it before I do.

very wrong move bcus you don't have concrete proof

Romanoff:
Issues like this are very sensitive.

The woman might have covered her tracks so well that it will only take being caught redhanded before you can have a case.

2. You should have greeted her and called her husband on the phone immediately to say "guy, I just stumble on madam now now for so so so and so".....



3. If you and your best friend are very close, you shouldn't have an issue telling him what you saw, you can also advise him to be vigilant. If you don't, it means you're enabling her infidelity if she's unfaithful.

you always make sense. People like to say mind your business. How do you minds your business when it concerns someone close to you.

Maybe a friend like a brother. One that has rescued you in times of trouble. It's simply wicked not to find a way or diplomatic way to reveal this. Especially if you are sure.

Ashawopapa001:



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and to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life: You should mind your own business and work with your hands, just as we told you

This man, I respect you o...how many versions?!!!! You be correct guy!!!!

EFULEFU1:
I saw my best friends wife in a hotel with another man. Since then I have not been myself

Should I tell my friend?

Similar situation happened when I was assisting my colleague in her thesis and she is married. I use the hotel bar to attend to project students and someone saw her with me in the hotel bar and reported to the husband!

The husband of my colleague sent messages to me telling me that he has requested for the video footage to know if I have taken her wife in to the room.

Please kindly ignore it !!!! Don't tell ur friend

EFULEFU1:
I saw my best friends wife in a hotel with another man. Since then I have not been myself

Should I tell my friend?

This does not prove anything

People go to hotels for various reasons including holding meetings

Pataricatering:
Does it irritate u when u hear married men cheating ? Ur irritation has just started sef - women have no chill nowadays .

Nobody is asking them not to cheat, but when dey do let dem fucking seek for divorce themselves before they are caught. Bitch hoes everywhere.

hensben:
Mehn this babe go be game player in real life. See Defense mechanism. Choi

Loool... I'm not a player.. I believe in monogamy... But that guy has to have enough proof cause... It's just like saying you saw my sister and you're thinking it's me... cause me and my sister look alike a lot... Like a whole lot... People mistake her for me... Cause we've got the same face, height, we walk the same way too... The only difference is if you hear me speak.. I've got a lil more like British accent... And she speaks Yoruba a lot.. I rarely speak Yoruba... So I'm not defending lol and i'm not a player..

daddycee91:
Informing your friend means you care about his life. She could infect him with some STD that could shorten his life. Don't listen to people saying you should mind your business. If you friend gets aids for an instance from his wife, you would blame yourself for not alerting him early enough

Gbam! Thank you jare. Sometimes, mind your business people are wicked people.

EFULEFU1:
I saw my best friends wife in a hotel with another man. Since then I have not been myself

Should I tell my friend?

What are you doing in the hotel yourself?

And does your friend's wife followed the man to a room in the hotel or you just saw them together in the bar?

Whatever, keep your knowledge to yourself, don't break your friend's heart. And don't invite curse upon yourself by the wife and the couple's families, claiming you are the cause of any eventual separation.

Let your friend discover his wife's infidelity himself when her cup of iniquity becomes full.

iPrevail:
You have involuntarily placed yourself in a difficult situation. A situation of guilty and restless conscience.
How will you drink and laugh with your friend, while you are helping his wife keep her dirty secrets? And if you spill, you may well be the catalyst that will break their marriage.
What would I do? I'd confront the wife about it and make her understand why it'll be better she tells her husband about it before I do.

It be like say you no want live abiiii? They don kill you before?

atiku4President:

You make sense

the fact is in life you have to be fair,at least for a clear conscience. If it were the other way round I would say the same thing and even insult the man ontop
If the friend tells him and the man chooses not to act that's his business,the friend has cleared his conscience.
If on the other hand the friend starts to suspect the wife and call her out for it,she'll be the one to have to prove her innocence
The fact is that no matter how many times a person cheats and covers his or her track,the truth will be known one day.

hmmmm

If your friend trust you then tell him in a different way that only him can figure out to avoid u been the center man (USE UR HEAD)

U dey find traffic with your fake fictional bs abi

Lol - yen yen yen - a man’s pride is in a man not getting his woman but he goes around disgracing his wife with his desire for every women he meets - u people don’t know nothing - u think ur out there servicing other women and ur wife will be there waiting like a mumu ? Nowadays men toast married woman like water - both single and other married men . U can’t think ur smart and he sharing what ur not supposed to be sharing while u think ur wife will keep hers strictly for you alone ! Lol .

Fisher007:
Lol see I am sorry.

But most ladies will tell you not to tell him, why because they know they all likely will do the same. They always want to eat their cake and have it. A man will marry you, fend for you, suffer up and down to provide. See you as his ultimate treasure (which is wrong), but men are programmed like that. But she doesnt give a fvck (she was programmed like.that too e.g Eve ).

Most men will tell you to tell him, cause one of a man's greatest pride and ego is his wife and once it can be taken or gotten by other men. It is not worth it. Real men that love their wife know this but don't want their wives to know cause as usual they will start misbehaving once they are aware.

So my advice, first hint him but don't tell him. That means , give instance of the situation and sees his answer or reaction to it.

From that you will know what to do. Simple.

Margy:
Better hurry tell your guy before she give am HIV

how do you know that ,she did not come with condom in her handbag

EFULEFU1:
I saw my best friends wife in a hotel with another man. Since then I have not been myself

Should I tell my friend?

you should learn to mind your business. What if they were there for a different reason.

pocohantas:
It is up to you. What you saw, what your friend has probably told you or complained of in the past.

Couple matter dey dicey. Them fit use you settle last last.

I know say you na troll, were you not the same person dating a babalawo's duaghter with your other handle. You are pretty imaginative sha.

Lol

mind your own business Mr Man.. if na thé man you see for hotel with another lady’will you also want to report to the wife? If truly the woman is cheating the man will surely know someday...This’s new year so let’s learn to mind our business

EFULEFU1:
I saw my best friends wife in a hotel with another man. Since then I have not been myself

Should I tell my friend?

mind your own business Mr Man.. if na thé man you see for hotel with another lady’will you also want to report to the wife? If truly the woman is cheating the man will surely know someday...This’s new year so let’s learn to mind our business [q

EFULEFU1:
I saw my best friends wife in a hotel with another man. Since then I have not been myself

Should I tell my friend?

Champneys:


Mind your fu...cking business!!!!!
You have not been yourself because of another man's wife? What if you see your own wife getting fu..cked sideways by another man?!

send me the address of your wife, she'll make a good business partner.

Are you married if yes what are you doing in the hotel but if you're not married then you must have interest on her since you are following her up and down. Be careful with ones marriage because you don't know how they manage to be husband n wife. For me shot because you are a suspect.... Mind your business

Confront the wife because he is her father ? Mscheew !

micflo28:
Please confront the wife and warn her to put an end to it if she admits to it or you will tell the husband. Maybe she was sweet tongued to the fact that no one will know of the secret affair and the benefits she will obtain from it. Convince her that someone sees her secret actions and that you will tell the husband if it continues. This reality will correct her actions

Jodha:
Do yhu know what she went to do with this other man in the hotel?....

Biko no go spoil person marriage based on misconception...

What would a married woman be doing in Hotel with another man? Please educate me.

It is non of your business,briefly in 1999 I have drove to my friend place at night when I came back from Port Harcourt.Gettirng there he was very happy to see me he began to give me all the escapede that happens when i was not around including the new mama presently in his life now (then) He called on the hole to greet his friend,Lo and behold she turned out to be another friend wife ,she had then gave birth to two lovely kids to my other friend unknown to him..I immediately pretended not to ever know her and she did the same..I left after about fifteen minutes..As early as 6:30 am she was in my house before I left for office..she brought up yesterday matter to my attention knew fully well how closed her husband was to me..not even ordinary friend but my mother relatives..I told her bluntly that if she hear it any where the leakages should be from her or her adulterous male friend,as for me I am not ready to divulge any info to her husband or relatives..she ask me to sue..and give her my words..2007 she came to my home bought things for ..and she told me thank you...you could understand better..keep your eye off..your leg and your ear..abeg

You saw her and she saw you, game over. She most have already told her husband a cover up story, so that yours will be lies.
Better mind your business if you don't want to have problems with your friend.

If she know that u catch her red handed. Let husband know because dis dangerous.

Are you married if yes what are you doing in the hotel but if you're not married then you must have interest on her since you are following her up and down. Be careful with ones marriage because you don't know how they manage to be husband n wife. For me shot up because you are a suspect.... Mind your business

EFULEFU1:
I saw my best friends wife in a hotel with another man. Since then I have not been myself

Should I tell my friend?

Mind your business and face your own lane.

If he is your best friend,please tell him to watch his back that you saw his wife in a particular place with a man,warn him to be matured with the information you are about to give him because some men are very naive and immature in handling such matter. Let him go to experts and they will help him to track her phone and from there her movement will be known .