she could be playing a script... but honestly many ladies are like that, sensible and nice

Judging humans without evidence is the lowest aman can get. Wonderful quote from someone up there

milemimi93:
Why?

I was shocked, that's the best comment I could muster.

That’s not a news.

That age something is a fallacy. Even though I am not going for any girl less I Han 25.

To an average naija girl,u can't be chopping her Toto and be chopping her money..

milemimi93:
There's something I learned yesterday. If you want to date a Nigerian lady, go for the ones that are less active on social media and are not the hipsters.
[s][/s]Also, don't go for any lady below 26years..[s][/s]

Trash.

A date age means nothing.

Heroclitus:





Bro,the reply wey you give her sef...u no get chill o

If you get chill, them go think say you be client

It's poverty. An average 9ja girl will not just want to waste ur money on a first date, but bring her friends along, to join the "spree".
To them, a date is an opportunity to eat everything they ever wished for but couldn't afford.

milemimi93:
This girl does not have IG or Twitter. She only has Facebook and Whatsapp. I went through her post she last posted pics on Facebook in 2018. She isn't active on social media.

The way she constructed her tenses during our convo I cut cap for her..
Lady gave good brains.

Here you go with the stereotype.

So not active on social media shows responsibility and character? Right?

milemimi93:
What happened yesterday left me in shock.
I least expected it. Not from a Nigerian lady.

Yesterday I went to visit a lady in her state. Arriving her state, I told her I've dropped.
She texted me to go to an eatery and wait for her. I didn't want to spend much on her so I asked for an average eatery bought a drink and waited for her.
She came and told me she didn't like the place that it was crowded. She took me to one bigger eatery within there. Just as I entered the eatery I said to my self "I ain't spending more than 5k here". We sat and she called the waiter and asked me to make my order I told her to make first. She ordered for food and drinks for herself. I later ordered for mine. What I ordered outweigh hers in price because I said to myself "I can't spend less on me and more on a leech".

After eating we sat down to gist. Along the line I felt pressed and I went to the gent. Came back gist and it was time to go. I went to the waiter asked her how much the bill is. She said 11,600. I pulled out my purse to get my card I heard the waiter said "She has paid". I asked "She? who?" She said "the lady you followed paid". I was shocked and felt ashamed.

Since I was born, this is the first time a Nigerian girl has ever spent on me.

She truly is a gem.....

emeijeh:
When is the wedding date?

If she had not paid, what would you have done?
Considering the bill was over 6k more than what you budgeted ?

Hahahahahahaha!

I thought the OP is in a relationship?

He is going on dates less than 4 days into the new year?

milemimi93:
What happened yesterday left me in shock.
I least expected it. Not from a Nigerian lady.

Yesterday I went to visit a lady in her state. Arriving her state, I told her I've dropped.
She texted me to go to an eatery and wait for her. I didn't want to spend much on her so I asked for an average eatery bought a drink and waited for her.
She came and told me she didn't like the place that it was crowded. She took me to one bigger eatery within there. Just as I entered the eatery I said to my self "I ain't spending more than 5k here". We sat and she called the waiter and asked me to make my order I told her to make first. She ordered for food and drinks for herself. I later ordered for mine. What I ordered outweigh hers in price because I said to myself "I can't spend less on me and more on a leech".

After eating we sat down to gist. Along the line I felt pressed and I went to the gent. Came back gist and it was time to go. I went to the waiter asked her how much the bill is. She said 11,600. I pulled out my purse to get my card I heard the waiter said "She has paid". I asked "She? who?" She said "the lady you followed paid". I was shocked and felt ashamed.

Since I was born, this is the first time a Nigerian girl has ever spent on me.

God please bless this lady.for the first time this guy is saying something a bit good about Nigerian women. The truth is that some men too are leeches.you would have come here to shout yen yen yen if that lady hadn't paid.

N:B JUST KNOW THAT SOME LADIES ARE REAL BOSS LADIES.THEY'VE GOT CLASS AND ARE READY TO FEED THEMSELVES AND ALSO FEED ANY LEECH WITHOUT COMING TO NAIRALAND TO SHOUT YEN YEN YEN. CHANGE YOUR CIRCLE AND STOP BADMOUTHING NIGERIAN WOMEN.WE ALL AIN'T ON THE SAME LEVEL OF SHII. THANKIO

milemimi93:
I am not angry or complainingI am just shocked and feeling guilty.. I had to take her to a shopping mall to buy her stuffs. Getting to the mall I told her to pick any thing she wants that I will pay.

she picked just 3 things. When we got to the counter the cashier said the bill is 870.
I was shocked again that she didn't get more things for herself. With joy, I gave the cashier 1000 and told him to keep the change.

I am liking the girl already

You should have waited till April 1 to post this story.

Now that's a feminist

You traveled from your state to another just to see a leech.

milemimi93:
There's something I learned yesterday. If you want to date a Nigerian lady, go for the ones that are less active on social media and are not the hipsters.
Also, don't go for any lady below 26years..

Dat what I am trying to find tired of all dis 24 below

milemimi93:
Yoruba

But of course....

Hmm mm

milemimi93:
I'll be 30 this year. I have bin in so many relationships. The first woman to spend on me among all the ladies I have ever dated is an Asian woman. This is my first time seeing a Nigerian lady spent on a date. 2020 is starting off nice.

Are you not that guy that wanted to commit suicide over a lady that dumped you sometimes last year? Thanks to Mrcork


You see, when there is life, there is hope. Atleast someone is finally paying for your meal

SweetBuns:
Another one.... See what ubunja and co have caused? Now you think every girl is out to spend your money



Understandable... Naija is hard



The biggest problem with guys like you is that you love stereotypes. How can you just assume that a girl who you just went out with is a leech? Judging humans without evidence is the lowest a man can get. Very daft and ugly way of life.




There he goes stereotyping again..
Fvck... I give up on you. You're bent on this stereotype thing. I wonder how you went out with all the ladies below 26 in Nigeria.

By the way, otedola's daughter is below 26 and she will take you and buy you out fine fine. Stop running you mouth because you have a dick and testicles. That one no EPP anybody

This Nl sadistic feminist gold-digger is back again.

milemimi93:
This girl does not have IG or Twitter. She only has Facebook and Whatsapp. I went through her post she last posted pics on Facebook in 2018. She isn't active on social media.

The way she constructed her tenses during our convo I cut cap for her..
Lady gave good brains.

There are still few generous women out there

But one thing I've observed about good ladies is that they are not social media freaks. They are just averagely online

God I need such ladies in my life Biko..pm my signature if available..we could work something out

pickatyou:
Nigerian girls are something else but bro you are lucky. Here is my experience with a girl I met and took outing within 24 hours, me I can't shout I rebuked her ASAP

LOL.
Typical Nigerian girl. Tufia!
I block these ones right away.

What's all these clownery about now... nairaland guys ...Una no go kee person

Oluwa ma je ota mi pade iru okunrin yi


What am I saying self, that's Nairalander guys type.. Which they will later end up with witch

How do people go to eatery and order for food without asking the price?

I no be gentleman, I no dey form... once I enter I go ask for price of everything including toothpick.

If my pocket no carry, I waka.
If e carry but I reason am e too cost, I waka.

e better ma waka comot dan ma form eat it then embarrass myself and ancestors.

Lmao
I don't believe this cooked story

SweetBuns:
Another one.... See what ubunja and co have caused? Now you think every girl is out to spend your money



Understandable... Naija is hard



The biggest problem with guys like you is that you love stereotypes. How can you just assume that a girl who you just went out with is a leech? Judging humans without evidence is the lowest a man can get. Very daft and ugly way of life.




There he goes stereotyping again..
Fvck... I give up on you. You're bent on this stereotype thing. I wonder how you went out with all the ladies below 26 in Nigeria.

By the way, otedola's daughter is below 26 and she will take you and buy you out fine fine. Stop running you mouth because you have a dick and testicles. That one no EPP anybody

So says someone called SweetBuns

That's your woman so control her boy.