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milemimi93:
Yoruba

milemimi93:
I'll be 30 this year. I have bin in so many relationships. The first woman to spend on me among all the ladies I have ever dated is an Asian woman. This is my first time seeing a Nigerian lady spent on a date. 2020 is starting off nice.

annford:
Don't make a public show of your ignorance at the slightest opportunity you get. Do you think everyone's life would go in the direction of yours? Just because someone has what you don't have doesn't mean they're fraud or liars. You've had experiences I've never had and I've had experiences you've never had. You should learn to think higher than your level of exposure. Not everyone has lies to tell. If I told the truth or lie, would you smack me?
Why would I lie, for accolades? Please!

milemimi93:
There's something I learned yesterday. If you want to date a Nigerian lady, go for the ones that are less active on social media and are not the hipsters.
Also, don't go for any lady below 26years..

milemimi93:
I am not angry or complainingI am just shocked and feeling guilty.. I had to take her to a shopping mall to buy her stuffs. Getting to the mall I told her to pick any thing she wants that I will pay.

she picked just 3 things. When we got to the counter the cashier said the bill is 870.
I was shocked again that she didn't get more things for herself. With joy, I gave the cashier 1000 and told him to keep the change.

milemimi93:
My First Date In 2020. What A Nigerian Lady Did.

What happened yesterday left me in shock.
I least expected it. Not from a Nigerian lady.

Yesterday I went to visit a lady in her state. Arriving her state, I told her I've dropped.
She texted me to go to an eatery and wait for her. I didn't want to spend much on her so I asked for an average eatery bought a drink and waited for her.
She came and told me she didn't like the place that it was crowded. She took me to one bigger eatery within there. Just as I entered the eatery I said to my self "I ain't spending more than 5k here". We sat and she called the waiter and asked me to make my order I told her to make first. She ordered for food and drinks for herself. I later ordered for mine. What I ordered outweigh hers in price because I said to myself "I can't spend less on me and more on a leech".

After eating we sat down to gist. Along the line I felt pressed and I went to the gent. Came back gist and it was time to go. I went to the waiter asked her how much the bill is. She said 11,600. I pulled out my purse to get my card I heard the waiter said "She has paid". I asked "She? who?" She said "the lady you followed paid". I was shocked and felt ashamed.

Since I was born, this is the first time a Nigerian girl has ever spent on me.

pickatyou:
Nigerian girls are something else but bro you are lucky. Here is my experience with a girl I met and took outing within 24 hours, me I can't shout I rebuked her ASAP

MJBOLT:

are you sure she's a nigerian because nigerian ladies will never pay for their own food if they are on a date.

9gerian:
I’m not surprised at all.

They are trained to be independent and not to rely on men. All things being equal, if a Yoruba girl likes you, then you are simply the luckiest man.

If she doesn’t like you, it wouldn’t matter whether you are Dangote’s son. This is the general trend with them, and it’s why some guys complain that they are rude.

annford:
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You are absolutely correct. Another thing is her drive to succeed. Many people forms rich homes tend not to take life seriously because they think they'd always have more than enough, but she always says life can turn for anyone at any time. A rich man could at the speed of light, turn poor and vice versa.

sophtcopy:
You are old in the game and you still don't understand the philosophy of money and women ...smh

milemimi93:
There's something I learned yesterday. If you want to date a Nigerian lady, go for the ones that are less active on social media and are not the hipsters.
Also, don't go for any lady below 26years..

LINTUNE:
dude have dated older gals,like too,bro their level of thinking differs,trust me,they're not up to 26 years...they are so matured in the matter of sex and finance,u can imagine when u are with ur gal,and she is the one to start up sex, imagine that every time ur gals visits u,she must bring something for u,no matter how small...when u take her out,she really appreciates it.see for some women,the older they become,the wiser they are .

milemimi93:
My First Date In 2020. What A Nigerian Lady Did.

What happened yesterday left me in shock.
I least expected it. Not from a Nigerian lady.

Yesterday I went to visit a lady in her state. Arriving her state, I told her I've dropped.
She texted me to go to an eatery and wait for her. I didn't want to spend much on her so I asked for an average eatery bought a drink and waited for her.
She came and told me she didn't like the place that it was crowded. She took me to one bigger eatery within there. Just as I entered the eatery I said to my self "I ain't spending more than 5k here". We sat and she called the waiter and asked me to make my order I told her to make first. She ordered for food and drinks for herself. I later ordered for mine. What I ordered outweigh hers in price because I said to myself "I can't spend less on me and more on a leech".

After eating we sat down to gist. Along the line I felt pressed and I went to the gent. Came back gist and it was time to go. I went to the waiter asked her how much the bill is. She said 11,600. I pulled out my purse to get my card I heard the waiter said "She has paid". I asked "She? who?" She said "the lady you followed paid". I was shocked and felt ashamed.

Since I was born, this is the first time a Nigerian girl has ever spent on me.

Gforce2019:
I don't want to dignify you by arguing with you.

milemimi93:
This girl does not have IG or Twitter. She only has Facebook and Whatsapp. I went through her post she last posted pics on Facebook in 2018. She isn't active on social media.

The way she constructed her tenses during our convo I cut cap for her..
Lady gave good brains.

Hisduchess:
I just have little advice for you, as a man struggle to have a financial authority over ur woman, in this context I mean being able to take care of some bills if you ever want to maintain the master Vs whatever y'all take women as. If your woman comfortably foot her bills and yours too,oga you can never have any authority over her.aside God, money controls every other shii in this world.
stop shouting yen yen yen and happy that a woman paid your bills at a restaurant and probably see that as something very good.
I used to tell ladies that if you want less bullshit in a relationship,stop carrying your financial burden to your man cos immediately you do he'll start doing as it pleases him,loyalty will be thrown through the window.see how the op is praising this girl just because she paid for their food chai! i have this ritual of ordering just a bottle of drink and sometimes with a meatpie on my first dates.i expect that the poorest of men can afford that on a first date with a lady,so I definitely won't go paying. A man seeks a woman and not the other way round,and a first date is just like you wanna seek a woman.THIS IS AFRICA NOT AMERICA
N:B I AM NOT A LEECH AND I DON'T ALLOW PEOPLE TO LEECH ON ME TOO

milemimi93:
There's something I learned yesterday. If you want to date a Nigerian lady, go for the ones that are less active on social media and are not the hipsters.
Also, don't go for any lady below 26years..

milemimi93:
My First Date In 2020. What A Nigerian Lady Did.

What happened yesterday left me in shock.
I least expected it. Not from a Nigerian lady.

Yesterday I went to visit a lady in her state. Arriving her state, I told her I've dropped.
She texted me to go to an eatery and wait for her. I didn't want to spend much on her so I asked for an average eatery bought a drink and waited for her.
She came and told me she didn't like the place that it was crowded. She took me to one bigger eatery within there. Just as I entered the eatery I said to my self "I ain't spending more than 5k here". We sat and she called the waiter and asked me to make my order I told her to make first. She ordered for food and drinks for herself. I later ordered for mine. What I ordered outweigh hers in price because I said to myself "I can't spend less on me and more on a leech".

After eating we sat down to gist. Along the line I felt pressed and I went to the gent. Came back gist and it was time to go. I went to the waiter asked her how much the bill is. She said 11,600. I pulled out my purse to get my card I heard the waiter said "She has paid". I asked "She? who?" She said "the lady you followed paid". I was shocked and felt ashamed.

Since I was born, this is the first time a Nigerian girl has ever spent on me.

LINTUNE:
I understand,but common,once in a while a woman needs to show love to her man,if she does it occasionally there is nothing wrong..OK for instance ,as a man u have a big project u are working on ,projects that will require lots of money,while I'm trying to fund that big project(building a house) there is nothing wrong if my wife is responsible for the groceries and food provision..its not a big deal..madam I hate the idea of being very stable before marriage ,do u know a man that warms 400k times without the support of his woman,will still look like a pauper ..ur mentality is terrible,in this 21st century ,u want to be a housewive or what? Smh

NaijaOlosho:
This alone does not make her 100% better than other girls just because she paid your bills.

Wetin dey der to pay simple 11k plus??

May be she already likes you and really wants to settle down with you.

This type when she don enter your house she go show you pepper

SweetBuns:
Another one.... See what ubunja and co have caused? Now you think every girl is out to spend your money



Understandable... Naija is hard



The biggest problem with guys like you is that you love stereotypes. How can you just assume that a girl who you just went out with is a leech? Judging humans without evidence is the lowest a man can get. Very daft and ugly way of life.




There he goes stereotyping again..
Fvck... I give up on you. You're bent on this stereotype thing. I wonder how you went out with all the ladies below 26 in Nigeria.

By the way, otedola's daughter is below 26 and she will take you and buy you out fine fine. Stop running you mouth because you have a dick and testicles. That one no EPP anybody

NaijaOlosho:
This alone does not make her 100% better than other girls just because she paid your bills.

Wetin dey der to pay simple 11k plus??

May be she already likes you and really wants to settle down with you.

This type when she don enter your house she go show you pepper

Hisduchess:
Most of those guys shouting yen yen yen up there are teenage boys and retarrd ubu.nja disciples. The real men ain't here misyarning.they know the real shii

Hisduchess:
I just have little advice for you, as a man struggle to have a financial authority over ur woman, in this context I mean being able to take care of some bills if you ever want to maintain the master Vs whatever y'all take women as. If your woman comfortably foot her bills and yours too,oga you can never have any authority over her.aside God, money controls every other shii in this world.
stop shouting yen yen yen and happy that a woman paid your bills at a restaurant and probably see that as something very good.
I used to tell ladies that if you want less bullshit in a relationship,stop carrying your financial burden to your man cos immediately you do he'll start doing as it pleases him,loyalty will be thrown through the window.see how the op is praising this girl just because she paid for their food chai! i have this ritual of ordering just a bottle of drink and sometimes with a meatpie on my first dates.i expect that the poorest of men can afford that on a first date with a lady,so I definitely won't go paying. A man seeks a woman and not the other way round,and a first date is just like you wanna seek a woman.THIS IS AFRICA NOT AMERICA
N:B I AM NOT A LEECH AND I DON'T ALLOW PEOPLE TO LEECH ON ME TOO

ubunja:
and your life will never be the same.

milemimi93:
Yoruba. but i think tribe has nothing to do with this. according to her she grew up in the South