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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Gina2019(f): 9:57am On Jan 05, 2020
milemimi93:
Yoruba

Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Sainttops(m): 10:04am On Jan 05, 2020
milemimi93:
I'll be 30 this year. I have bin in so many relationships. The first woman to spend on me among all the ladies I have ever dated is an Asian woman. This is my first time seeing a Nigerian lady spent on a date. 2020 is starting off nice.


Kai quite, it's about to rain world war 3. Go get married before end of this January.
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Nobody: 10:14am On Jan 05, 2020
annford:




Don't make a public show of your ignorance at the slightest opportunity you get. Do you think everyone's life would go in the direction of yours? Just because someone has what you don't have doesn't mean they're fraud or liars. You've had experiences I've never had and I've had experiences you've never had. You should learn to think higher than your level of exposure. Not everyone has lies to tell. If I told the truth or lie, would you smack me?
Why would I lie, for accolades? Please!
A girl you met on Facebook bought you 180k worth of phone after 1 week of chatting with her. Keep lying to yourself. Keep it up.

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Osobi32(m): 10:30am On Jan 05, 2020
milemimi93:
There's something I learned yesterday. If you want to date a Nigerian lady, go for the ones that are less active on social media and are not the hipsters.
Also, don't go for any lady below 26years..
you are a wise guy......
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by mexbee1(m): 10:36am On Jan 05, 2020
milemimi93:
I am not angry or complainingI am just shocked and feeling guilty.. I had to take her to a shopping mall to buy her stuffs. Getting to the mall I told her to pick any thing she wants that I will pay.

she picked just 3 things. When we got to the counter the cashier said the bill is 870.
I was shocked again that she didn't get more things for herself. With joy, I gave the cashier 1000 and told him to keep the change.



Bro follow up no dull am dis kind babes rare ohh lol
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by skyfather09(m): 10:51am On Jan 05, 2020
milemimi93:
My First Date In 2020. What A Nigerian Lady Did.

What happened yesterday left me in shock.
I least expected it. Not from a Nigerian lady.

Yesterday I went to visit a lady in her state. Arriving her state, I told her I've dropped.
She texted me to go to an eatery and wait for her. I didn't want to spend much on her so I asked for an average eatery bought a drink and waited for her.
She came and told me she didn't like the place that it was crowded. She took me to one bigger eatery within there. Just as I entered the eatery I said to my self "I ain't spending more than 5k here". We sat and she called the waiter and asked me to make my order I told her to make first. She ordered for food and drinks for herself. I later ordered for mine. What I ordered outweigh hers in price because I said to myself "I can't spend less on me and more on a leech".

After eating we sat down to gist. Along the line I felt pressed and I went to the gent. Came back gist and it was time to go. I went to the waiter asked her how much the bill is. She said 11,600. I pulled out my purse to get my card I heard the waiter said "She has paid". I asked "She? who?" She said "the lady you followed paid". I was shocked and felt ashamed.

Since I was born, this is the first time a Nigerian girl has ever spent on me.
same thing happened to me on the 1st... the year go good, babes go spend for us wella.

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by uncastableodd(f): 10:53am On Jan 05, 2020
pickatyou:
Nigerian girls are something else but bro you are lucky. Here is my experience with a girl I met and took outing within 24 hours, me I can't shout I rebuked her ASAP

So when you were admitted back in school, u didn't pay acceptance fee?
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by fujirice: 10:58am On Jan 05, 2020
MJBOLT:
are you sure she's a nigerian because nigerian ladies will never pay for their own food if they are on a date.

Who have you guys been dating

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by COOLWYT: 11:02am On Jan 05, 2020
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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Nobody: 11:02am On Jan 05, 2020
9gerian:
I’m not surprised at all.

They are trained to be independent and not to rely on men. All things being equal, if a Yoruba girl likes you, then you are simply the luckiest man.

If she doesn’t like you, it wouldn’t matter whether you are Dangote’s son. This is the general trend with them, and it’s why some guys complain that they are rude.


So true.

This is why sometimes I get amaze at guys complaint about women's entitlement issues here. Like where are these women from? Are Nigerian women really money sucking women?

I get confused because where I'm from the reverse is the case.
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Slimdada(m): 11:13am On Jan 05, 2020
Currently talking to this lady for a month now,we flow well in our communication,when she misses my calls,she calls back so yesterday i
Asked her the network she preferred so I can send her airtime
But to my suprise she was like no you don't have to
I had to explain and convince her why I wanted to send her the card,when I eventually did she replied with a text
Thank you so much!

I love this lady so much that I would like to wife her in few year's coming as I tend to get married early as the first and only child from my late parents
But how do I make her fall in love with me

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Blueelf: 11:16am On Jan 05, 2020
annford:
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You are absolutely correct. Another thing is her drive to succeed. Many people forms rich homes tend not to take life seriously because they think they'd always have more than enough, but she always says life can turn for anyone at any time. A rich man could at the speed of light, turn poor and vice versa.

Exactly. Anyways, its clear from your description that she's a rare breed. Please keep her
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Gforce2019: 11:22am On Jan 05, 2020
sophtcopy:

You are old in the game and you still don't understand the philosophy of money and women ...smh

I don't want to dignify you by arguing with you.
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by MrOIO(m): 11:37am On Jan 05, 2020
milemimi93:
There's something I learned yesterday. If you want to date a Nigerian lady, go for the ones that are less active on social media and are not the hipsters.
Also, don't go for any lady below 26years..



Gbam!!!
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by 1234IKECHhukwu: 11:38am On Jan 05, 2020
LINTUNE:
dude have dated older gals,like too,bro their level of thinking differs,trust me,they're not up to 26 years...they are so matured in the matter of sex and finance,u can imagine when u are with ur gal,and she is the one to start up sex, imagine that every time ur gals visits u,she must bring something for u,no matter how small...when u take her out,she really appreciates it.see for some women,the older they become,the wiser they are .
U have said it all.

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by 2unde08: 11:40am On Jan 05, 2020
milemimi93:
My First Date In 2020. What A Nigerian Lady Did.

What happened yesterday left me in shock.
I least expected it. Not from a Nigerian lady.

Yesterday I went to visit a lady in her state. Arriving her state, I told her I've dropped.
She texted me to go to an eatery and wait for her. I didn't want to spend much on her so I asked for an average eatery bought a drink and waited for her.
She came and told me she didn't like the place that it was crowded. She took me to one bigger eatery within there. Just as I entered the eatery I said to my self "I ain't spending more than 5k here". We sat and she called the waiter and asked me to make my order I told her to make first. She ordered for food and drinks for herself. I later ordered for mine. What I ordered outweigh hers in price because I said to myself "I can't spend less on me and more on a leech".

After eating we sat down to gist. Along the line I felt pressed and I went to the gent. Came back gist and it was time to go. I went to the waiter asked her how much the bill is. She said 11,600. I pulled out my purse to get my card I heard the waiter said "She has paid". I asked "She? who?" She said "the lady you followed paid". I was shocked and felt ashamed.

Since I was born, this is the first time a Nigerian girl has ever spent on me.
have experience such when am doing my masters degree I met a girl like she call me and tell me house is boring we should go out and I accept with less than 10k in my account in the hope I must not spend it all...on getting there she order and ask me what will I like too and place my order the funniest am about to remove my wallet to pay and she hold my hand and whisper to hear that she invited me and she is the one that pay the bills I insist but she paid it oooo....I confess to her that I never see the kind gesture of her that am highly impress...she even get take away...mature woman don't extort..they value and get self respect for their self too[color=#000099][/color]

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by sophtcopy: 11:51am On Jan 05, 2020
Gforce2019:


I don't want to dignify you by arguing with you.
Who are you to dignify me? you don fvck up big time
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by mechanics(m): 12:52pm On Jan 05, 2020
Wow, she's a caring lady.
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by saasala(m): 1:07pm On Jan 05, 2020
milemimi93:
This girl does not have IG or Twitter. She only has Facebook and Whatsapp. I went through her post she last posted pics on Facebook in 2018. She isn't active on social media.

The way she constructed her tenses during our convo I cut cap for her..
Lady gave good brains.

Give me her number, I want to ask her something.

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by LINTUNE(m): 1:29pm On Jan 05, 2020
Hisduchess:


I just have little advice for you, as a man struggle to have a financial authority over ur woman, in this context I mean being able to take care of some bills if you ever want to maintain the master Vs whatever y'all take women as. If your woman comfortably foot her bills and yours too,oga you can never have any authority over her.aside God, money controls every other shii in this world.
stop shouting yen yen yen and happy that a woman paid your bills at a restaurant and probably see that as something very good.
I used to tell ladies that if you want less bullshit in a relationship,stop carrying your financial burden to your man cos immediately you do he'll start doing as it pleases him,loyalty will be thrown through the window.see how the op is praising this girl just because she paid for their food chai! i have this ritual of ordering just a bottle of drink and sometimes with a meatpie on my first dates.i expect that the poorest of men can afford that on a first date with a lady,so I definitely won't go paying. A man seeks a woman and not the other way round,and a first date is just like you wanna seek a woman.THIS IS AFRICA NOT AMERICA
N:B I AM NOT A LEECH AND I DON'T ALLOW PEOPLE TO LEECH ON ME TOO
I understand,but common,once in a while a woman needs to show love to her man,if she does it occasionally there is nothing wrong..OK for instance ,as a man u have a big project u are working on ,projects that will require lots of money,while I'm trying to fund that big project(building a house) there is nothing wrong if my wife is responsible for the groceries and food provision..its not a big deal..madam I hate the idea of being very stable before marriage ,do u know a man that warms 400k times without the support of his woman,will still look like a pauper ..ur mentality is terrible,in this 21st century ,u want to be a housewive or what? Smh undecided
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by SwagPower: 1:39pm On Jan 05, 2020
milemimi93:
There's something I learned yesterday. If you want to date a Nigerian lady, go for the ones that are less active on social media and are not the hipsters.
Also, don't go for any lady below 26years..
Baba mi..How and where you meet this Rare Queen abeg..
I need that location..
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Abbey2sam(m): 1:51pm On Jan 05, 2020
milemimi93:
My First Date In 2020. What A Nigerian Lady Did.

What happened yesterday left me in shock.
I least expected it. Not from a Nigerian lady.

Yesterday I went to visit a lady in her state. Arriving her state, I told her I've dropped.
She texted me to go to an eatery and wait for her. I didn't want to spend much on her so I asked for an average eatery bought a drink and waited for her.
She came and told me she didn't like the place that it was crowded. She took me to one bigger eatery within there. Just as I entered the eatery I said to my self "I ain't spending more than 5k here". We sat and she called the waiter and asked me to make my order I told her to make first. She ordered for food and drinks for herself. I later ordered for mine. What I ordered outweigh hers in price because I said to myself "I can't spend less on me and more on a leech".

After eating we sat down to gist. Along the line I felt pressed and I went to the gent. Came back gist and it was time to go. I went to the waiter asked her how much the bill is. She said 11,600. I pulled out my purse to get my card I heard the waiter said "She has paid". I asked "She? who?" She said "the lady you followed paid". I was shocked and felt ashamed.

Since I was born, this is the first time a Nigerian girl has ever spent on me.



She likes you
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Hisduchess(f): 1:56pm On Jan 05, 2020
LINTUNE:
I understand,but common,once in a while a woman needs to show love to her man,if she does it occasionally there is nothing wrong..OK for instance ,as a man u have a big project u are working on ,projects that will require lots of money,while I'm trying to fund that big project(building a house) there is nothing wrong if my wife is responsible for the groceries and food provision..its not a big deal..madam I hate the idea of being very stable before marriage ,do u know a man that warms 400k times without the support of his woman,will still look like a pauper ..ur mentality is terrible,in this 21st century ,u want to be a housewive or what? Smh undecided

I never insinuated being a housewife oga cos I have never imagined that cos I'M A BOSS LADY. What we were previously talking about is within this context of a first date like the op yarned and y'all jumping up and down cos a lady paid a bill.we ain't talking marriage here.

Most of you shouting up and down are low key leeches already much more if given a chance to be women.
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by 1234IKECHhukwu: 2:07pm On Jan 05, 2020
NaijaOlosho:
This alone does not make her 100% better than other girls just because she paid your bills.

Wetin dey der to pay simple 11k plus??

May be she already likes you and really wants to settle down with you.

This type when she don enter your house she go show you pepper
Coming from someone that has never spent 1k for a guy before.
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by efewizey(m): 2:58pm On Jan 05, 2020
SweetBuns:
Another one.... See what ubunja and co have caused? Now you think every girl is out to spend your money



Understandable... Naija is hard



The biggest problem with guys like you is that you love stereotypes. How can you just assume that a girl who you just went out with is a leech? Judging humans without evidence is the lowest a man can get. Very daft and ugly way of life.




There he goes stereotyping again..
Fvck... I give up on you. You're bent on this stereotype thing. I wonder how you went out with all the ladies below 26 in Nigeria.

By the way, otedola's daughter is below 26 and she will take you and buy you out fine fine. Stop running you mouth because you have a dick and testicles. That one no EPP anybody


You cracked me up.. Really.. Anyways I won't agree with op because I have met women who has done more than that.. The problem is you can't actually know women who are not looking for a man just for his money. I can say 80% of nigerian ladies are of the mentality a man must be the one to pay the bills always.

And as for age. Op you got it wrong. Dating broke girls all the time is the problem we are facing in Nigeria. Been broke has affected most nigerian ladies into been automatic gold diggers. Who no like better thing..
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by efewizey(m): 3:20pm On Jan 05, 2020
NaijaOlosho:
This alone does not make her 100% better than other girls just because she paid your bills.

Wetin dey der to pay simple 11k plus??

May be she already likes you and really wants to settle down with you.

This type when she don enter your house she go show you pepper

I don't get your name. Are you a nigerianolosho?
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by BigJoe19: 3:22pm On Jan 05, 2020
Hisduchess:


Most of those guys shouting yen yen yen up there are teenage boys and retarrd ubu.nja disciples. The real men ain't here misyarning.they know the real shii
And what do we have here, teenage girls that just started seeing their menstruation.

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by BigJoe19: 3:27pm On Jan 05, 2020
Hisduchess:


I just have little advice for you, as a man struggle to have a financial authority over ur woman, in this context I mean being able to take care of some bills if you ever want to maintain the master Vs whatever y'all take women as. If your woman comfortably foot her bills and yours too,oga you can never have any authority over her.aside God, money controls every other shii in this world.
stop shouting yen yen yen and happy that a woman paid your bills at a restaurant and probably see that as something very good.
I used to tell ladies that if you want less bullshit in a relationship,stop carrying your financial burden to your man cos immediately you do he'll start doing as it pleases him,loyalty will be thrown through the window.see how the op is praising this girl just because she paid for their food chai! i have this ritual of ordering just a bottle of drink and sometimes with a meatpie on my first dates.i expect that the poorest of men can afford that on a first date with a lady,so I definitely won't go paying. A man seeks a woman and not the other way round,and a first date is just like you wanna seek a woman.THIS IS AFRICA NOT AMERICA
N:B I AM NOT A LEECH AND I DON'T ALLOW PEOPLE TO LEECH ON ME TOO
You're broke that is why you talk like this, sometimes when two people go out it doesn't matter who pays for the bills.

Bottle of water, oh my God!!! Your insecurity is at a high level.

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by whizbee(m): 3:36pm On Jan 05, 2020
@op, if you don't start a relationship with that girl, we village people will show you pepper
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by UDOKABESTLUV(m): 3:40pm On Jan 05, 2020
Since I was born till now, no lady has ever take me out, talk less of spending her money on me up to 11k,
In fact, Nigerian ladies have nothing to offer to me.
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Smug4real(m): 3:48pm On Jan 05, 2020
ubunja:
and your life will never be the same.
Okay
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Exoclassic: 3:59pm On Jan 05, 2020
milemimi93:
Yoruba. but i think tribe has nothing to do with this. according to her she grew up in the South
Yoruba ke! An average yoruba babe believes it's a duty of a guy to spend

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