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LINTUNE:

LINTUNE:
rubbish mentality

Jewessgratitude:
Yes it will sound rubbish to you guys cos you can't do without it! You can't have your cake and eat it.
You cant date a promiscuous girl as a promiscuous man yourself and expect her to be loyal in marriage.
Someone whos not strongwilled to practise celibacy as a single, what do you expect in marriage?

What will it even take you guys to keep yourselves.
As you can't live without it, then live with the consequences that come with it.

Vortex369:
Do not cancel the marriage. It will affect the health of the baby, your baby. Let the child, your child to come down, first.

But create a marvelous excuse to keep off the wedding until after the child, your child is birthed. Be sure to have DNA result confirming you as a Father. That will be a great happiness.

Then -

Re-construct the emotion you have now, and monitor silently as a cat, and launch a frontal attack on both of them when caught, with so much noise and amplifications, only when you catch them.

The above show is to exonerate yourself for 'termination of the planned marriage'. Now you have just texts and your intuitions, and those are not admissible in any court, not even village council.

Be a man, people's wives are getting bleeped daily by men like you, who also have their own women, so we can not say that all fucckers are fuccking the singles. They are fuccking people's wives more than their own husbands. And the wives are always enjoying this 'so called LOVE'.

Marriage is an abnormal union. I do not think it was supposed to be for a life time. I think marriage contract should be just a year or 2, renewable by both parties, cos I know many of the married people reading this are cheating. I think all married people are cheating the rest are just lacking the opportunity to. Given the opportunity, everyone cheats.

Ha Ha.

Perfection abhors semicircles. I hope you have not cheated in the relationship.

Shibaraba:
Marriage na trust. If she says there is nothing then there is nothing. There should be no two ways about it. Oga If you no trust your woman no marry her at all. Because e sure me die una must divorce. So no waste money for marriage.

Instead just use am play 2 odds.

BTW don't forget to do DNA test when the baby show o.

Thegeneralqueen:
This is what happens when you're dating an immature guy in a relationship.......ladies don't ever take in for a guy until he takes you to the alter.....i bet if your fiancee was wise enough not to take in before marriage you won't be here spewing rubbish

kufre2010:
Three years ago, I met my fiancée and being ready to settle down I made my intention known to her. Since then we had been together as friends though she live with her father but occasionally comes to my house. Last year September she took in for me. In November I found some text in her phone from her former boyfriend begging her to come back to him so that he can arranged for marriage as he want her as his wife. I ask my fiance she says she had not done anything with him since they broke up just that he had been begging and disturbing her. December 2019 we had marriage introduction of which I collected list of items. She had started anti-natal, but just two days ago I found another texts which her former boyfriend sent asking her why she embarrassed him by carrying my baby, that when she used to come to his house she will put her phone on airplane mode, sometimes when her phone is on and I called she will talk as if she is talking someone she is not related to and that he had my number on his phone which he remove from her phone a year ago. I ask my girl she said the guy is lying that she went to his house more than 2years ago. I am thinking she was still seing the guy after I knew her. I have fixed our wedding this year march. Cheating is what I hate most but I don't know if it is enough to cancel the wedding as she is 4 months pregnant for me. Pls advice

Thegeneralqueen:
This is what happens when you're dating an immature guy in a relationship.......ladies don't ever take in for a guy until he takes you to the alter.....i bet if your fiancee was wise enough not to take in before marriage you won't be here spewing rubbish