OGwales:
Asking me for transport fare...

lovat:
So I made you laugh hard this morning

therajah:
I remember inviting a lady for a date. I was in my car waiting patiently for her. She kept me waiting for like an hour! Then i saw
3 bikes! 4 ladies on 3 bikes.. i was so angry! (So the idiot was busy inviting her frnds for lunch). I just told her I had to go back to office that my break time was over. I started the car and she just qkly begged me for 200naira for transport back to thier homes.. gave her the 200naira and zoomed off. I regreted giving her the 200naira though! Oh my goodness

Fisher007:
Lol, People still go on dates

I never knew cause with dating apps everywhere. We know where the main dates venue is

I guess some people will complain about spending or eating too.much or people sizing them.up. or people.asking stupid questions like ' how much you earn' Lmao

Well you choose the wrong venue. Everybody knows what they want immediately you ve seen each other photos and chatted over the phone for few times . Dont let them fool you about getting to know each other. Please go straight to the point.

The more time you.waist the more you loose. The more time you loose the more validation you give. The more validation you give the more it cost you. The more it cost you, the more you.feel.like making it a relationship that might lead to.marriage. when the relationship or marriage fails you feel pained. At the end, you either accept and die with the pain or you come on nairaland after few years of investing in a place that brings more investment and you will still be blamed.

That why I go straight to the point meet me at my place simple. Either you are in or you are out. It cost nothing and doesnt waste my.time cause whatever the case is am at my place. Lol

What.do I know self. Let wait for the elders or white Knight who have been burned to.come and.give us more knowledge on what they dislike or hate about dating. Hmmm

stanliwise:
Those aren't too much of a bad attribute especially when thr person hasn't been doing it often before first date. Sometimes many people are misguided, they feel if they tell you all those things, you may like them more. You on your end can help them by asking the question you care about.

Divay22:

Ojady:
It can go both ways:
FOR HER:
1. She brings a friend. (Gurl, He is not running a charity for hungry friends)
2. She is on her phone. (Very unladylike)
3. She orders the most expensive, never tried item on the menu. (It shows just how cheap you are and sets you up to be asked for a payback - kiss/smooch/sex/rape)
4. She slurps and acts gluttonous on the meal (He is a prospect not your father)
5. She insists on takeaways (Gurl are you really that poor)
6. She has nothing valuable to talk about (past accomplishments, future goals, current objectives etc) rather, she knows how much that phone is, that lace wig, etc
7. She is known and greets or greeted by more than 2 different men while on the date with you (actually leaving you to speak with them without an awareness of brevity)
8. She wants to come home with me
9. She wants to be noticed and claiming Girlfriend rather than date status

FOR HIM:
1. He expects affectionate display on a first date.
2. He expects to pay for everything and get a hug/kiss/sex at the end of the date.
3. He shows off his material and intellectual level instead of being himself.
4. He is rude to the conductor, waiter etc (to impress me)
5. He is Ogling other gals while with me
6. He talks too much about himself (remember the line in Big Poppa where Biggie says "... I just creep up from behind And ask what your interests are, who you be with Things to make you smile, what numbers to dial...You gon' be here for a while...)
7. He is late, does not apologize, acts like "Its no big deal".
8. He is disrespectful by hugging and talking to other women while on our date.
9.) He does not allow me, at least, pay for something (the water, 20percent of the meal, something)
10.) He does not ensure I get home safe.

I mean the things to dislike (red flags) on a first date are many (if you re not looking for free food if you are a girl) or (sex if you re a guy)

Lawrentta16:
are u not supposed to give transport fare?

Brightgem:
That sound can bring out the devil in you.

optimus106:


So, I should be looking at the sky when
an older person is talking to me?

Na big lie...

mirexxx:
Reaching out for kisses n hugs so annoying...I came to talk and know you better but you already sexualizing the whole damn thing! Nonsense!
Talking too much and off key, not carefully listening to the important things I say. Omo its plenty o. I'll reserve others.

willy2000:


Well, that is left to you, If you are a millennial, then you are a product of the generation who want to the norm. People born in the 80s, 70s can testify to it. You do not look directly into your parents eyes or elders when spoken to. Kapish.

SteveOfu:
what's wrong in asking how much your earn?

Lexusgs430:



Best to draw the lines, make fight no enter...... Imagine asking him for credit, and he sends her 200 naira voucher (and he expects her to call and chat with him everyday)...... Or she requires 25K for essentials, and he starts to quote minimum wage...........

pocohantas:
Not keeping to time.

If you want to see me angry, do that African time thing with me. Makes me want to kill something!

Why are Nigerians not time conscious?
Jeeez!!

happinezz110:
Unreasonable talk just like when I went on a date with one foolish guy, he told me I would live with his mom when we get married and she wld help me to chose the hospital for my Ante Natal wen I'm pregnant. All he could talk about was his mom, grandmom and sister. Since then, I hate dating only boy of d family especially those with 4sis

ericmor:
Na by force to eat

mercytripletz:


Lol. You must be kidding. What if she is allergic to or dislikes what you order her?
My sister hates jollof rice with passion and is a very strict vegetarian.
You go order Jollof rice and Chicken and still complain say she waste your money as she no eat am.
Be sensible jare. I know you are joking sha

2shure:
Acting shy and forming porsh outdoors. But indoors use water to wash anus.

mirexxx:
if its Amala you ordered, I must eat it with you? It doesn't work out that way cause I may want something different which isn't a bad thing.

LadyHeaven:


Very hard...

lovat:
Eating like am the cause of poverty .


I remembered back then in 2011 when a guy asked a lady out for a date and the girl brought her friend along. The guy ordered for AmstEl malt while the lady and her friend ordered for Smirnoff and cow tail pepper soup.
The guy was one of these Orile guys that was looking for just one round of sex for free and now these ladies were making expenses on his head not minding that the guy was as broke as their own parents.

The guy collected the BlackBerry phone of the friend of his date and was checking it out while at same time discussing with the ladies. He now stood up to go take a leak and voom my guy disappear.

The girls waited for the guy that went to take a leak but didn't come back, the friend of the date now became worried because of her phone was with the guy, she now started crying which attracted our attention in the bar.

Their bill was 1800 which the duo don't have so the owner of the bar seized their sandals and bags. They were crying and begging. The other girl was blaming her friend for her phone that was taken.

I felt pity for them that I had to ask the woman how much she will sell the ladies bags so that I can buy it and sell it as Akube. I'm a business person for crying out loud

Ojady:
9. He does not allow me, at least, pay for something (the water, 20percent of the meal, something)

mirexxx:
A guy i met back then wanted me to drink bottle water instead of the drink I ordered to waiter to bring me. Saying water should be drank after eating not juice. imagine.

lovat:
Eating like am the cause of poverty .


I remembered back then in 2011 when a guy asked a lady out for a date and the girl brought her friend along. The guy ordered for AmstEl malt while the lady and her friend ordered for Smirnoff and cow tail pepper soup.
The guy was one of these Orile guys that was looking for just one round of sex for free and now these ladies were making expenses on his head not minding that the guy was as broke as their own parents.

The guy collected the BlackBerry phone of the friend of his date and was checking it out while at same time discussing with the ladies. He now stood up to go take a leak and voom my guy disappear.

The girls waited for the guy that went to take a leak but didn't come back, the friend of the date now became worried because of her phone was with the guy, she now started crying which attracted our attention in the bar.

Their bill was 1800 which the duo don't have so the owner of the bar seized their sandals and bags. They were crying and begging. The other girl was blaming her friend for her phone that was taken.

I felt pity for them that I had to ask the woman how much she will sell the ladies bags so that I can buy it and sell it as Akube. I'm a business person for crying out loud

midnighter:


Lol...that one will come later na..."negotiation" tins....

DivineGrace123:


Very true. Most African parents also did not give room for their children to be able to maintain eye contact. If you don't maintain eye contact when they are talking, they will see you as being "humble" "polite" and "respectful". The reverse is the case in developed countries such as Canada, the United States and Europe where being able to maintain eye contact is seen as being bold, confident and that you are 100% interested in what the person is saying. Sometimes, the society one finds him/herself is a contributing factor to one’s trait.

MrFly:
so Europe is now a country

DivineGrace123:


Very true. Most African parents also did not give room for their children to be able to maintain eye contact. If you don't maintain eye contact when they are talking, they will see you as being "humble" "polite" and "respectful". The reverse is the case in developed countries such as Canada, the United States and Europe where being able to maintain eye contact is seen as being bold, confident and that you are 100% interested in what the person is saying. Sometimes, the society one finds him/herself is a contributing factor to one’s trait.

goat22:


What is wrong with those sounds!?! Stop THAT!! The food is digested better when you make chewing sounds and open your mouth!!! Don't annoy me Debbie!

franugo:
As for me tho...I don't like when you're on ur phone when I'm trying to have a decent conversation with you...also, when I ask what do u care for n u tell me anything... One of these days, I'll actually order water for you, after all its part of anything

SteveOfu:
what's wrong in asking how much your earn?