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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by livebyday(m): 1:48pm On Jan 10, 2020

Favoritefarmer:
we don't sleep on the same bed she slept at my parent's place and different room.
the third time she came she slept inside my room while i slept outside.
We only slept on the same bed two times and not in the night.

Where you raised in the village?

Where is she from ? I mean state of origin?

How old is she?

But since you know she isn't a virgin why in your right senses will you go for her when you claim to be a virgin?

Is something wrong with you? Are you incredibly ugly and didn't believe a pretty girl will love you? Because from your write up you have an incredible inferiority complex other wise you would have e dumped her since

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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by aimuan(m): 1:49pm On Jan 10, 2020

mployer:
Nawaoo.
It's not bad to defend women, but you shouldn't be stupid about it.

Somebody that has agreed to have sex with a man in a hotel is not a cheat?

Op was the one who said no sex till marriage. The girl is no longer a vgin so how can she care for her sexual needs?

Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Tolu121: 1:50pm On Jan 10, 2020

TheRealProphet:
Bros you need deliverance yourself

Well, imes is coming sha...The end of days. We hope that he'll be coming to clarify the truth about life; the truth of which is hidden to many people.

imes, we await your coming.

imes kill you there

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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Originalsly: 1:50pm On Jan 10, 2020

Favoritefarmer:
I met my beautiful girl through facebook

i will be a pastor and this relationship is NO SEX TILL WEDDING

I pray and fast to know God's mind

my parents went to pray and saw negative

No prayer and reading bible.

Aspiring pastor..... selecting wife from Facebook. Are they not beautiful babes in your church? Did you ever read the part in the Bible where it said you must not be unequally yoked?....pastor wanting to marry an atheist?...but I know you can explain. You praying and fasting to[i]know God's mind[/i].... parents praying for guidance.... parents got answer... what did you learn?...pastor?

I advise you marry her..... never mind she would he sleeping around... the most important thing is that you will have a beautiful wife... and she will make beautiful children.... never mind they may not be yours.

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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Nobody: 1:51pm On Jan 10, 2020

Tolu121:
imes kill you there

Just be prepare when imes come, you don't want to be left behind

Imes will come like a thief in the night unannounced, he will do great things never heard of before.just pray you ain't left behind

imes, we await your coming.

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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Snipper007: 1:51pm On Jan 10, 2020

Favoritefarmer:
I met my beautiful girl through facebook last April and we started relationship after meeting face-to-face.

With immediate effect, i told her my future plan that all things being equal i will be a pastor and this relationship is NO SEX TILL WEDDING (I am 30 still a virgin thou and she really told me she isn't a virgin again, of which i have no problem with). She has visited me five times spending atleast a week yet no sex with her, knew all my family and as to caring for your girl, i am trying my best but here is the problem.

1. Spiritual: I pray and fast to know God's mind, but no yes or no but my parents went to pray and saw negative though i wish to damn the consequences and marry her but her behavior towards spiritual is bad. No prayer and reading bible. She can sleep eh na from 8pm to 8am.

2. Competition with my family.

3. Ineffictive communication. More like interview.

4. 'Unfaithfulness.' I have caught my girl agreeing to meet one man in hotel for sex and that one asking him if she moans

Op this koboko will reset ur dull brain......

Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by livebyday(m): 1:51pm On Jan 10, 2020

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noblejking:
It's clear that you don't want her again.

Why are you still asking us when there is nothing positive about her... According to your list.

You forgot to list the day she sacrificed to visit you at your place.

Meanwhile, Agreeing to sex is not sex sir.

Try another lady to see if that one will help your life with prayers from 8pm to 8am.

Yeye Boyfriend

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Total trash

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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by MrCork: 1:51pm On Jan 10, 2020

Jewessgratitude:
How can a 30yr old be asking this kind of question after all these evidence?
Look disease dey town o. Or you don't know what it means to meet a man in a hotel?

Call her now now and tell her you want to have a talk with her. When she comes, tell her off outrightly and let her know your reasons as you've stated here.

Some girls sha... Even with the serial killing that took place in a hotel in port Harcourt few months ago they still go to o meet men in hotels. Hmm....

Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Nobody: 1:51pm On Jan 10, 2020

Sometimes you too use the brain that God gave you to process and make manly decisions not everytime nairaland nairaland and you are 30. Shame.

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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by livebyday(m): 1:51pm On Jan 10, 2020

BlackSeptember:
The rate in which people ask stupid questions here is becoming unbecoming

I agree

Sometimes it just makes me vomit repeatedly

Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by DanDeeBoss(m): 1:51pm On Jan 10, 2020

luminouz:
Use a hammer!!

GBAMsolutely....

Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Nobody: 1:52pm On Jan 10, 2020

You are a mumu man grin

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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by anonymuz(m): 1:52pm On Jan 10, 2020

LOGOBELT:
Who else agree with me OP is an OTONDO for real!!!

You told her no sex before marriage and she is not a virgin... You later caught her concurring to meet a REAL NIGGA in an Hotel... Oga what do you expect She is not a virgin, she has been receiving the dick, now you told her you love her and she believed, then you hid your Almighty Virgin Rod in your pants... And expect her not to meet up with a REAL NIGGA

I respect your decision "No Sex before Marriage" but I dont blame the girl either. We NON-VIRGINS know how that stuff itch!

If am to be the girl, i will make sure you don't find out, and also make sure my ToTo become a POTHOLE before you enter. Anyway, you wont discover, since you dont know HOW A TIGHT PUSSY look like.

Omo, this OP is annoying me badly right now, i wish he is close, I would have kicked his ASS.
You wan become pastor and you are lusting after the flesh, you don't know LUST OF THE FLESH is a SIN

So many mistake you have made:
1. You went for an OLOSHO a professional one

2. You were carried away by beauty

3. You starved a living soul of sex, and still accused her

4. You called her a CHEAT when she have not CHEATED

YOU ARE NOT A REAL NIGGA!!!

bad nigga spotted

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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Skillsnigeria: 1:52pm On Jan 10, 2020

I don't understand why a virgin guy like you will be dating an ashawo kobo kobo,an empty drum,dabimoseda of a girl.wetin you see for the girl self,the Lord will deliver you

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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Suremikky(m): 1:53pm On Jan 10, 2020

Pastor without basic wisdom

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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by foleskay(m): 1:53pm On Jan 10, 2020

The problem is solvable. She's isn't spiritually inclined as you claim you are. Leave her and look for deeply spiritually inclined lady an SU that would buy your idea of no sex until marriage. You and your current girl aren't compatible spiritually Oga Pastor.

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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Ayoslimzy(m): 1:53pm On Jan 10, 2020

I don’t know what to say....but Op should have go for a deeper life Su not a professional olosho
Mtcheew

Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by shadeyinka(m): 1:54pm On Jan 10, 2020

Favoritefarmer:
I met my beautiful girl through facebook last April and we started relationship after meeting face-to-face.

With immediate effect, i told her my future plan that all things being equal i will be a pastor
and this relationship is NO SEX TILL WEDDING (I am 30 still a virgin thou and she really told me she isn't a virgin again, of which i have no problem with).

If one of your congregation ask you this question, what will be your response.

There is only one reason why God has not spoken to you about her: That is because, YOU ALREADY KNOW THE MIND OF GOD AS NO!
...and yet, you want to have your way because of outward look.

If you end up becoming a Pastor, she's the one to mess you up and disgrace you.

Tell her "I no dey do again..."

Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by atmstyle: 1:55pm On Jan 10, 2020

Thegeneralqueen:
Just let the girl be biko.....How on earth can you accuse her of cheating when you've not caught her red handed

What of for 'intention to cheat'?
cool

Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Walkingkilo(m): 1:57pm On Jan 10, 2020

Nice guy!

Sissy!

Wimp!

Wuss!

Pussy!

Better go swallow some red pill and grow some balls

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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by releastaso(m): 1:57pm On Jan 10, 2020

OP don't be silly.
Do you really need our approval to call it quits with that mofo?
She's not on same plane with you.
What makes u think you could even satisfy her in marriage sexually?

Virgin girl with a non-virgin guy is considerable.

Virgin guy with olosho girl is a NO NO.

Be wise as a serpent. I think say u say u wan be pastor.
U no dey read bible Ni grin

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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by 77up(m): 1:57pm On Jan 10, 2020

mployer:
Nawaoo.
It's not bad to defend women, but you shouldn't be stupid about it.

Somebody that has agreed to have sex with a man in a hotel is not a cheat?

na una dey mind all those yeye dirty feminist wannabe

Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by McTobe(m): 1:57pm On Jan 10, 2020

If I advise you my brother you no go agree with me. Leave women and pursue your career, when are very ready for marriage you will meet a lady that is compatible with you. No be by gragra. Good a thing you are striving towards spiritual ideals.
Every woman get that tendency to do anything negative but if dem no wan do dem no go do.
Bottom line is when a woman decides to settle down for real no be you self Go advice them na dem dey advice themselves by themselves. Leave that babe she never dey think about settling down.

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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Nobody: 1:58pm On Jan 10, 2020

Favoritefarmer:
I met my beautiful girl through facebook last April and we started relationship after meeting face-to-face.

With immediate effect, i told her my future plan that all things being equal i will be a pastor and this relationship is NO SEX TILL WEDDING (I am 30 still a virgin thou and she really told me she isn't a virgin again, of which i have no problem with). She has visited me five times spending atleast a week yet no sex with her, knew all my family and as to caring for your girl, i am trying my best but here is the problem.

1. Spiritual: I pray and fast to know God's mind, but no yes or no but my parents went to pray and saw negative though i wish to damn the consequences and marry her but her behavior towards spiritual is bad. No prayer and reading bible. She can sleep eh na from 8pm to 8am.

2. Competition with my family.

3. Ineffictive communication. More like interview.

4. 'Unfaithfulness.' I have caught my girl agreeing to meet one man in hotel for sex and that one asking him if she moans

Do not reveal to her your discovery of her infidelity, trace her to the venue of her amorous liason, confront her and end the relationship summarily there.

Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Nobody: 2:00pm On Jan 10, 2020

For an aspiring pastor, you need a spiritual partner.

Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by bmdmixer: 2:00pm On Jan 10, 2020

Favoritefarmer:
I met my beautiful girl through facebook last April and we started relationship after meeting face-to-face.

With immediate effect, i told her my future plan that all things being equal i will be a pastor and this relationship is NO SEX TILL WEDDING (I am 30 still a virgin thou and she really told me she isn't a virgin again, of which i have no problem with). She has visited me five times spending atleast a week yet no sex with her, knew all my family and as to caring for your girl, i am trying my best but here is the problem.

1. Spiritual: I pray and fast to know God's mind, but no yes or no but my parents went to pray and saw negative though i wish to damn the consequences and marry her but her behavior towards spiritual is bad. No prayer and reading bible. She can sleep eh na from 8pm to 8am.

2. Competition with my family.

3. Ineffictive communication. More like interview.

4. 'Unfaithfulness.' I have caught my girl agreeing to meet one man in hotel for sex and that one asking him if she moans

u met a girl of the world and u cant tell shes not for u, plz forget pastoral mission u failed already

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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by DECLAN2015(m): 2:01pm On Jan 10, 2020

Favoritefarmer:
but is it good to start on a truth note.
I date to marry.

I date to marry!!?
It is obvious you immature in a game of love.

Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Nobody: 2:01pm On Jan 10, 2020

None of you have answered my question which is HOW TO I BREAK UP WITH HER. I have done this before.

Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by tiwiex(m): 2:02pm On Jan 10, 2020

Thegeneralqueen:
Just let the girl be biko.....How on earth can you accuse her of cheating when you've not caught her red handed

He told her no sex before marriage. I even thought it was the reverse. Lol. She agreed with you na. She didn't say she wasn't gonna have sex na. She hasn't broken any contract unless the guy told her directly she shouldn't also have sex. I doubt that would have happened so she has not technically defaulted.

Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by dantajay: 2:03pm On Jan 10, 2020

I have a similar experience, but my case was different, it was her pastor that told us no sex before marriage of which I accepted. But I noticed that something when some certain no calls her she excuses her self to go and answer the call. She never spend the night In my house even when I beg her to, I really love that lady but what put me off finally was that one perticular nite she came to my house around after 8:and this is someone who bearly stay in my house up to date time, so me I was surprised, saw her went into my bath room and tired my towel. And she told me she wanted us to have sex that night but I refuse she tried throwing her self at me but God saved me that night. So the next day she left I stopped calling because there was something suspicious about her coming to spend the night in my house. After a month they called me from her church if I was the one responsible for the pregnancy she went to abort. A church member working in the hospital where she went to do the abortion saw her and reported her to the pastor. So you see when they tell u no sex b4 marriage, they might be getting it from somewhere else. If not for God assume I surcomed to her pressure that night to sleep with her I would have be fathering a child that is not my.

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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by DECLAN2015(m): 2:03pm On Jan 10, 2020

LOGOBELT:
Who else agree with me OP is an OTONDO for real!!!

You told her no sex before marriage and she is not a virgin... You later caught her concurring to meet a REAL NIGGA in an Hotel... Oga what do you expect She is not a virgin, she has been receiving the dick, now you told her you love her and she believed, then you hid your Almighty Virgin Rod in your pants... And expect her not to meet up with a REAL NIGGA

Gbam!!!

I respect your decision "No Sex before Marriage" but I dont blame the girl either. We NON-VIRGINS know how that stuff itch!

If am to be the girl, i will make sure you don't find out, and also make sure my ToTo become a POTHOLE before you enter. Anyway, you wont discover, since you dont know HOW A TIGHT PUSSY look like.

Omo, this OP is annoying me badly right now, i wish he is close, I would have kicked his ASS.
You wan become pastor and you are lusting after the flesh, you don't know LUST OF THE FLESH is a SIN

So many mistake you have made:
1. You went for an OLOSHO a professional one

2. You were carried away by beauty

3. You starved a living soul of sex, and still accused her

4. You called her a CHEAT when she have not CHEATED

YOU ARE NOT A REAL NIGGA!!!

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