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Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by sinceraconcept(m): 4:21pm On Jan 10, 2020
Favoritefarmer:
I met my beautiful girl through facebook last April and we started relationship after meeting face-to-face.

With immediate effect, i told her my future plan that all things being equal i will be a pastor and this relationship is NO SEX TILL WEDDING (I am 30 still a virgin thou and she really told me she isn't a virgin again, of which i have no problem with). She has visited me five times spending atleast a week yet no sex with her, knew all my family and as to caring for your girl, i am trying my best but here is the problem.

1. Spiritual: I pray and fast to know God's mind, but no yes or no but my parents went to pray and saw negative though i wish to damn the consequences and marry her but her behavior towards spiritual is bad. No prayer and reading bible. She can sleep eh na from 8pm to 8am.

2. Competition with my family.

3. Ineffictive communication. More like interview.

4. 'Unfaithfulness.' I have caught my girl agreeing to meet one man in hotel for sex and that one asking him if she moans
Again bro,you can only do that no sex before marriage with a virgin girl. There is nothing like that in the dictionary of a non virgin,don't deceive yourself,get a good girl
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Faccouk(m): 4:28pm On Jan 10, 2020
How can I order a bottle of red or sparkling wine, so much wisdom. I felt that divine wisdom, more grace bro
Marvyx:
OP please don't start this year with stupidity.

A proposed pastor wanting to marry a cheat?? Are you prophet Haggai?? Even the prophet was directed by God to marry a LovePeddler and you've not even heard from God at all. There are prayers God won't even answer because He expects you to use your head which apparently has been covered by love stupidity.

Let her go for your own sanity.
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by uvalentine2003(m): 4:31pm On Jan 10, 2020
TheRealProphet:
Bros you need deliverance yourself angry


Well, imes is coming sha...The end of days. We hope that he'll be coming to clarify the truth about life; the truth of which is hidden to many people.

imes, we await your coming. cheesy
Who come imes again
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by dancetg123(m): 4:32pm On Jan 10, 2020
Op are you sure you're not crazy. You've caught her planning to cheat on you and you still don't know what to do. Abi is it the fact that you're a pastor yet you want to marry someone when you've not heard from God.
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Nobody: 4:35pm On Jan 10, 2020
I thought I was the one typing because I was in the same situation with you. We agreed no sex before marriage but she was playing away. Bro I tolerated her until she got pregnant for another guy and was taking drugs to abort. That's when I finally caught sense.
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by blazebaba(m): 4:37pm On Jan 10, 2020
Bros you need deliverance yourself Well, imes is coming sha...The end of days. We hope that he'll be coming to clarify the truth about life; the truth of which is hidden to many people.

imes, we await your coming. cheesy

imes abii siemens or sagem..
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Faccouk(m): 4:37pm On Jan 10, 2020
Op was just like me, but not the virgin part, was way messed up when you talk of that. Got a call as well. Tbh Op you gonna be so hard broken, mine I was far from ever being a virgin but since she knows you’re a pastor or still waiting upon God, she knows you can cheat & mess around. So she uses that advantages over you.
I can be so precise that, she has messed herself not once nor twice with someone else. If someone could lie even when there’s lot of evidence to prove, it means you up for some heart break scenarios.
What’s God saying concerning her and yourself, if you’re not that spiritual, He might reveal somethings to you concerning her & yourself, same happen to me.
Don’t be mistaken, God can never choose your spouse for you, for if He did, He infringe on your free will, He never chose Eve for Adam, Adam did ok.
If you want peace of mind, don’t be afraid of loosing her, because that’s lust of the flesh calling your attention. I salute you for being a Virgin, even though we know you did masturbate for fun. Forgive my cheekiness.
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by BlaqKeyz: 4:41pm On Jan 10, 2020
Philipmighty:
This op nah jew man I swear...who still dey do no sex till marriage now..guy if you be virgin nah for your pocket
Just shut up!...d fact that a lot of pple indulge in sex before getting married doesn't stop the act frm being sinful. U cn continue practising it @ ur own risk. But pls dnt preach it here.
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Mozino007(m): 5:01pm On Jan 10, 2020
Favoritefarmer:
I met my beautiful girl through facebook last April and we started relationship after meeting face-to-face.
Japan!!! grin
With immediate effect, i told her my future plan that all things being equal i will be a pastor and this relationship is NO SEX TILL WEDDING (I am 30 still a virgin thou and she really told me she isn't a virgin again, of which i have no problem with). She has visited me five times spending atleast a week yet no sex with her, knew all my family and as to caring for your girl, i am trying my best but here is the problem.

1. Spiritual: I pray and fast to know God's mind, but no yes or no but my parents went to pray and saw negative though i wish to damn the consequences and marry her but her behavior towards spiritual is bad. No prayer and reading bible. She can sleep eh na from 8pm to 8am.

2. Competition with my family.

3. Ineffictive communication. More like interview.

4. 'Unfaithfulness.' I have caught my girl agreeing to meet one man in hotel for sex and that one asking him if she moans
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by LOGOBELT: 5:08pm On Jan 10, 2020
Snipper007:
See real OG....... Guy I go like know u
cheesy
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by LOGOBELT: 5:09pm On Jan 10, 2020
anonymuz:
bad nigga spotted
angry
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by SAMAYODELE(m): 5:10pm On Jan 10, 2020
You people should stop meeting people on social media and be quick to talk about marriage.
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Nobody: 5:12pm On Jan 10, 2020
Favoritefarmer:
I met my beautiful girl through facebook last April and we started relationship after meeting face-to-face.

With immediate effect, i told her my future plan that all things being equal i will be a pastor and this relationship is NO SEX TILL WEDDING (I am 30 still a virgin thou and she really told me she isn't a virgin again, of which i have no problem with). She has visited me five times spending atleast a week yet no sex with her, knew all my family and as to caring for your girl, i am trying my best but here is the problem.

1. Spiritual: I pray and fast to know God's mind, but no yes or no but my parents went to pray and saw negative though i wish to damn the consequences and marry her but her behavior towards spiritual is bad. No prayer and reading bible. She can sleep eh na from 8pm to 8am.

2. Competition with my family.

3. Ineffictive communication. More like interview.

4. 'Unfaithfulness.' I have caught my girl agreeing to meet one man in hotel for sex and that one asking him if she moans
U dont have sense @ all.

And u dont news to be around women.
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Chukabiz(m): 5:16pm On Jan 10, 2020
Thegeneralqueen:
Just let the girl be biko.....How on earth can you accuse her of cheating when you've not caught her red handed huh
So with all the chats and other evidence, it's still not enough until he catches the man banging her before he can start accusing her.
OMG! Why are Ladies of nowadays becoming more stupid. *spits*
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by CSTR2: 5:17pm On Jan 10, 2020
You want to marry a cum dump?

How do you reconcile that kind of woman with your pastoral ministry?


Pray for a divine life partner from God, dem say dem must choose by themselves.

Now pastor wants to marry olosho out of his own choice.
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Cutehector(m): 5:20pm On Jan 10, 2020
You can not just rob a sexually active person off sex... Ain't possible.
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Krisddon: 5:22pm On Jan 10, 2020
Favoritefarmer:
I met my beautiful girl through facebook last April and we started relationship after meeting face-to-face.

With immediate effect, i told her my future plan that all things being equal i will be a pastor and this relationship is NO SEX TILL WEDDING (I am 30 still a virgin thou and she really told me she isn't a virgin again, of which i have no problem with). She has visited me five times spending atleast a week yet no sex with her, knew all my family and as to caring for your girl, i am trying my best but here is the problem.

1. Spiritual: I pray and fast to know God's mind, but no yes or no but my parents went to pray and saw negative though i wish to damn the consequences and marry her but her behavior towards spiritual is bad. No prayer and reading bible. She can sleep eh na from 8pm to 8am.

2. Competition with my family.

3. Ineffictive communication. More like interview.

4. 'Unfaithfulness.' I have caught my girl agreeing to meet one man in hotel for sex and that one asking him if she moans
U no kom include wetin u want make we do. undecided
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by CosmicJames(m): 5:29pm On Jan 10, 2020
Marvyx:
There are prayers God won't even answer because He expects you to use your head.....
Oil dey your head!
This is what so many people fail to know.
They end up disturbing God for something in their capacity to handle.
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Exodora: 5:36pm On Jan 10, 2020
Favoritefarmer:
I met my beautiful girl through facebook last April and we started relationship after meeting face-to-face.

With immediate effect, i told her my future plan that all things being equal i will be a pastor and this relationship is NO SEX TILL WEDDING (I am 30 still a virgin thou and she really told me she isn't a virgin again, of which i have no problem with). She has visited me five times spending atleast a week yet no sex with her, knew all my family and as to caring for your girl, i am trying my best but here is the problem.

1. Spiritual: I pray and fast to know God's mind, but no yes or no but my parents went to pray and saw negative though i wish to damn the consequences and marry her but her behavior towards spiritual is bad. No prayer and reading bible. She can sleep eh na from 8pm to 8am.

2. Competition with my family.

3. Ineffictive communication. More like interview.

4. 'Unfaithfulness.' I have caught my girl agreeing to meet one man in hotel for sex and that one asking him if she moans
.
Even if you see her on the same bed with a man as long as you didn't see her having sex with the man , guy you see nothing , though moral it might wrong but legally you will loose the case. Your trust over her stated depreciating as a result from what you family told you about her not just because you caught her , why in the real sense would you go to her Facebook whatever in the first place , now you have got what you have been looking for since well served .
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by bosmann11: 5:42pm On Jan 10, 2020
Body no be firewood.......as Pastor dey on mountain his babe only seek for assistance elsewhere
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Lugianostar(m): 5:44pm On Jan 10, 2020
Met her on facebook you said?

A beautiful nonsense i must say!!!

You cannot meet someone in a club and you get something positive out of it...!

My people perish for lack of knowledge
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Nobody: 5:46pm On Jan 10, 2020
I noticed these kind of threads always gets traction fast. Probably Seun writing them himself to get more traffic��
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Blixhair: 5:56pm On Jan 10, 2020
Inside life shocked orisirisi ikan lo sele.
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Gordonz07(m): 6:01pm On Jan 10, 2020
It looks like this guy is new to the world of relationship. undecided
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Oyiboman69: 6:05pm On Jan 10, 2020
czarr:
what more do you want from nairaland?....you want us to charge her to court?...use your head brother.

Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by MannieA(f): 6:08pm On Jan 10, 2020
Philipmighty:
This op nah jew man I swear...who still dey do no sex till marriage now..guy if you be virgin nah for your pocket
I don't think it's any of your business if he decides to keep his virginity till marriage.
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Rossycee(f): 6:13pm On Jan 10, 2020
Favoritefarmer:
I met my beautiful girl through facebook last April and we started relationship after meeting face-to-face.

With immediate effect, i told her my future plan that all things being equal i will be a pastor and this relationship is NO SEX TILL WEDDING (I am 30 still a virgin thou and she really told me she isn't a virgin again, of which i have no problem with). She has visited me five times spending atleast a week yet no sex with her, knew all my family and as to caring for your girl, i am trying my best but here is the problem.

1. Spiritual: I pray and fast to know God's mind, but no yes or no but my parents went to pray and saw negative though i wish to damn the consequences and marry her but her behavior towards spiritual is bad. No prayer and reading bible. She can sleep eh na from 8pm to 8am.

2. Competition with my family.

3. Ineffictive communication. More like interview.

4. 'Unfaithfulness.' I have caught my girl agreeing to meet one man in hotel for sex and that one asking him if she moans
Don't let anyone talk you out of your believe, no sex till marriage is fine, just go for someone that has no issues with it and ready to be faithful despite all odds..
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by carlos1(m): 6:20pm On Jan 10, 2020
Thegeneralqueen:
Just let the girl be biko.....How on earth can you accuse her of cheating when you've not caught her red handed huh
Person wan pour u acid, u c say na acid and u wan wait till he pour u d acid so u confirm say na acid. Odiegwu
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Ayemileto(m): 6:23pm On Jan 10, 2020
TheRealProphet:
Bros you need deliverance yourself angry


Well, imes is coming sha...The end of days. We hope that he'll be coming to clarify the truth about life; the truth of which is hidden to many people.

imes, we await your coming. cheesy
What's the meaning of Imes?

I've been seeing it alot on nairaland recently
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Lalas247(f): 6:24pm On Jan 10, 2020
Wails of a mad man grin
Lol you have caught her red handed...
Focus on God biko and refrain from dating! you ain't ready ...
We ain't had sex, like say make we give u medal shioor grin
Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by Lalas247(f): 6:25pm On Jan 10, 2020
Thegeneralqueen:
Just let the girl be biko.....How on earth can you accuse her of cheating when you've not caught her red handed huh
The Guy is sick grin
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