LIED THAT VISITORS CAME TO MY PLACE JUST TO AVOID GOIN TO MY GIRLFRIEND'S PLACE DURING HER DAD'S BIRTHDAY

crackhous & fountainofyouth, why dont you two love birds just admit to loving each other, its so obviously embarrassing that you two keep ranting to each other and secretly admiring each other. next thing we see on front page ''TWO NAIRALANDERS PRE-WEDDING PHOTOS'' (crackhous & fountainofyouth)

Fountainofyouth:




I don't try to get your attention, I quote any comment I feel like regardless of whose moniker it is, unlike you,

You live for ignoring me, lol, sounds like you are always conscious of my comments, like its permanently in your mind and head to always look out for fountain of youth and ignore, it sounds more like you think about me every day, who is obsessed now

Pretty sure you're getting a hard on cos of my kind of introversion right? You are enjoying the way you gloat, ride on

For me
- I switch off my phones on most birthdays to avoid that attention.

- I don't pick unknown numbers on my personal line, if your number isn't saved on my phone you are wasting your time calling me.

- I barely post pictures on social media so as to avoid comments

- I most likely won't be caught in a group meeting except it's something that really suits my interest like tech/finance talks.

Its one of the reasons I loved the Ambience of Radisson Blu, VI as a place to chill. That place ticks all my boxes, cool and serene arena.

I am not a lover of gba gbos hangout areas.

I watch porn to avoid getting intimate with the opposite sex

Back then, Gimme uninterrupted light and you'll not see me again for weeks. Stayed indoors for two weeks one time and my street people thought I travelled.
Old things have passed away.

Nowadays, I take the evening off to go to the mall or a good restaurant. I don't really hang out with people. A lot of people don't vibrate in my frequency

Let's draw the line between being an introvert and being proud.

I've learnt in life that there are good-spirited people and bad-spirited people. If I don't know you and don't know which you belong to, I can't interact with you.

I have friends whom I cherish soooo much and others I plan each day to cut away from (I stir trouble to end friendships). I hate toxic people with passion. I can do anything for the friends I cherish very much. They mean so much to me.

I am very careful of interacting with a stranger because I don't know if you are good or bad, plus I will be angry with myself if you affect my emotion with your toxicity along the line.

Till this day, it still amazes me whenever I see two people spend a good amount of time having small talk. I'm always like how do they find what to talk about. Recently I even wanted to eavesdrop to learn how they're doing the small talk thing so I could learn. The best moments of my life come when I'm alone, either in private or public but just alone. Small talk scare me and But I make concerted efforts to speak with people. I believe any aspect of our lives can be worked on and improved upon if we're willing.

Meanwhile bia fountainofyouth and crackhaus, erm...get some rooms guys

I can relate to no 11...
Once I see someone from afar that I don't want to talk to....I just bring my phone out, press some buttons and pretend I'm on a call

Fountainofyouth:




I don't try to get your attention, I quote any comment I feel like regardless of whose moniker it is, unlike you,

You live for ignoring me, lol, sounds like you are always conscious of my comments, like its permanently in your mind and head to always look out for fountain of youth and ignore, it sounds more like you think about me every day, who is obsessed now

Pretty sure you're getting a hard on cos of my kind of introversion right? You are enjoying the way you gloat, ride on

Op most of those experiences are rather unoriginal and unNigerian.
You're sharing experiences from overseas.
One can't really relate to some of those unless to try to fit yourself into the context .

Haha God, the pains of being an introvert. Every little encounter with people makes you anxious and nervous, even if those encounters happen, they'll just be awkward. I can relate to some of these things cos I've done similar or worse. It's better to avoid people totally than to try to hang out and have them call you proud for not involving in chit chats.

Fountainofyouth:



Lol, first off, my emotional and mental health is perfectly fine, the fact that I like being alone doesn't mean I don't interact with people, I don't just like crowd,

I only have negative energy here when a comment or sets of comments is perceived as negative, I don't go about insulting people just for the fun of it,

You've never being hard on me, or I never felt that way, anytime I actually see your usual negative vibe, I smile cos I know you like to poke people just to make them react, especially females,

I have love, will continue to be loved cos I'm lovable, so you can join the queue, of which I know you already love me anyway,

And I know you are an introvert too, you just don't want people to see you a certain way.

lol, see two ghost.

Suzzytee05:
Whenever my in-laws are on visit, l stay in my room most times to avoid small talks.

I also fake phone calls to avoid interacting with people.

Sometimes I avoid checking my WhatsApp messages directly to avoid replying immediately.

Lol I do this sometimes

I am just like the Mehari girl at no.5. I switched off my phone for a month and changed sim card there afterwards to avoid contact from the outside world most especially my course mates, my parents probably thought I was dead and had to call my friends at school to know if I am still alive.

Most times when people are talking to me in my head I am asking my abstract friends who they
are talking to and I always find distractions just the end the convo

So, glad I could finally share this

It's not easy being an introvert. ..I was one nd i worked my self out,you can too.It's choice read books,pay for seminars that has to do with human management ,youtube has lectures too...I was just not just an introvert but sad nd uninteresting .I never became extroverted but I can engage in meaningful discussion nown nd keep u on nd u will be wishing I keep talking.I discovered oratory part of me I never knew.

Till now am still an introvert,I don't know how to do away with it.God help me.

Admittance is a safe lane to change..are you not tired of such life don't u think u have things to offer to people around u,why not confront your fear nd make a difference nd u could see a star hidden in u

LostAddict:
I am just like the Mehari girl at no.5. I switched off my phone for a month and changed sim card there afterwards to avoid contact from the outside world most especially my course mates, my parents probably thought I was dead and had to call my friends at school to know if I am still alive.

Most times when people are talking to me in my head I am asking my abstract friends who they
are talking to and I always find distractions just the end the convo

So, glad I could finally share this

ayobamiJR:
I am Yoruba... Yoruba greet a lot but I live like I'm not even one...sometimes I don't even know the right answer to greetings.

Some one would say "Aku Odun" and I'm just clueless.

I avoid all forms of greetings.

I upload pics on social media, the next moment, I take it down.

I don't have friends, not at all. I bought everything I'd ever need to not get bored in my room

PS3

ACER INSPIRON TABLET

32 INCHES TV

JBL SPEAKER

WEED

The only people I'm comfortable with in life is babies. I'd adopt one if I can't marry soon.

I'm really scared of wedding. I don't like attention.

You're a complete photo copy of me

When my family members start that their family gist,I just wear my clothes and move out of the house.

I am not an introvert but I show signs of one. I am just careful with my emotions. I can be very bold when situation demands.

Switched off my Facebook active status so you won't know I'm online and also removed my profile picture. I come online to chat with my good friends there. Planning on quitting Facebook for good. I hate the fronting and competition there.

crackhaus:

Just imagine.

Two is crowd for you, you would rather be alone locked up for hours, your only social media presence is right here and you should have been taking advantage of this to form/have healthy relationships to at least nurture your mental/emotional health, yet you still chose to spend it fighting, insulting, and surrounding yourself with so much negative energy...
Don't you get drained?

I'm actually starting to feel bad for being too hard on you all this while, when all you need is love.

Bro. R u trying to make me healthserv donate a tear drop

lilyheaven:
My husband comes in late and leave very early the next day, I will just close my eyes pretending sleep, he will just say ( mummy, I'm back and I know you are not sleeping).
I always sit at the back seat in church, once I give my offering, I will disappear, can't stay still church is over, because I don't want anyone coming to greet me.
Recently I have stopped going to church because my two years old son won't sit at a place, I'm always running around trying to control him. I better sit at home.
I just received a message from my Rev. Reminding me that tomorrow, I should try come to church.

ah ha ....sometimes I leave when prayer is being said over the offering.............and when i stay to the end of any meeting i usually rush back home.......nt dat i have a crious tin to attend to......but I just cant bear people nose-diving to my life through small talks

Yonce:
I put my phone on airplane mode and disappear on my birthday for the past two years to avoid sappy "Happy Birthday to you" and the general attention birthdays bring.

I got rid of my roommate so I could live blissfully alone and receive less visitors.

I'm always on earpiece. . . .nothing plays but it discourages people from striking up conversations with me.

@ bolded sounds sinister like actual getting rid of.

Simplecity:
people just dont understand...i did the same to ....dont fancy messages on whatsapp am nit in any group sef....hate cameras like kilode

Boy oo boy You can never see My photo on any social media platform I like being invincible.

OfficialDad:
One idiot is using alternative account to reply himself. Can people be so mentally deranged?

And I was enjoying the convo.

How sure are you it's an alternative account?

Being an introvert is a bae.

Now I don't even avoid people any more be it family,friends or strangers.My body language does all the talking,when you see me you would know that this one doesn't like talk.
But when it comes to children,chai i can talk and play for life.

Fountainofyouth:



When we are always at opposite end, why will I be obsessed with you? Give me one good reason?

Crackhaus and you need a room. Damn too much repressed energy felt here

Very funny.

Mine is, I usually avoid busy paths when going out for fear of someone just calling me out from nowhere. I'll just feel like disappearing.

I take off from church service immediately grace is shared while others are busy exchanging pleasantries. Some of my pastors noticed and they are now like hey Sister J, drop this your bag, where are you always running off to .
It used to be very bad but I'm loosening up a bit these days.

I'm surrounded by them.
The only time u will hear my elder brother talk is when he has dawned a bottle of beer if not you are on your own

If his type takes you to court for something u obviously did to him and everybody knows u are at fault, u will still win cos he will end up saying nothing. If the heat is too much on him to talk, he will start spilling tears
Mum is an introvert, husband is one.

I don't know where I belong. Maybe 50:50.

Fortunately, kids are opposite especially my first.

Ladies we need to start stepping out more, the numbers of ladies here is alarming