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donstan18:
You are pregnant and according to you, you are in pains.

If you want to live long and deliver your baby safely, I'll advise you to stop stalking and monitoring your husband's whereabouts, at least for now.

This is, if only you want to be at rest with your current pregnant state.

ShenTeh:
Nairalanders are coming to advise.

My own 1 kobo:

Don't kill the innocent child, except your own LIFE is certified threatened by a competent gaenecologist.

2. Your husband has not abandoned you- and that's according to you. All you have said is based on your own insecurities. But hey, that's OK. He may enjoy a couple of flirting outside or find it inspiring that he still appeals to other women, but please don't trade your happiness for mere fears and allegations and ruin the beautiful happiness in your home.

3. Please don't report the young man to anyone. You can talk about your concerns with him and emphasise how you wish you can do more for him barring your current condition. If he watches porn with you, my submission is that he desires you very much. from naughty experience
4. Safe delivery for you in Jesus name. Enjoy life. This is the ONE you have.

Ciao.

placeofallure:
So what if he's flirting with some random lady? Heaven will not fall, will it? Please your health and wellness first. Go to a good hospital and take to every medical advice.
Communicate with him all your challenges so the burden will be less heavy to carry.

When I first got pregnant, I was so weak I couldn't even enter the kitchen or do laundry for about 2/3 months, much more make love. My husband was doing all the laundry and my mum brought food for 2 everyday. My husband was more concerned about me getting well. Let him know your troubles and if he loves you enough, you'll both be fine in no time, it's a passing phase. Pele!

Timson01:
What do u people suggest

Vortex369:
You are married - check
You have kids - check
You are pregnant - check
You still feel you should be fuccking your husband even though you are pregnant - madness
You still feel insecure even when the man is pitying your condition and pains and wants a side chic to satisfy his urges, so you can rest - madness.

You want my advise?

You have all that you need, the side chic will not take the dickk away, focus on your preggy and the home and the man will always come back to you after safe delivery.

Your husband will cheat, always understand that, but he will not abandon you.

GamalNasser:
Clowns

Timson01:
Hello NL,

Before I got married my husband said he needed 2 children while I wanted twins but our second pregnancy was twins so we had 3 instead. Then I took implant so to avoid getting pregnant again but my system became messed up that my monthly flow would last for 2 to 3 weeks.
So after 3 years I decided to remove it so to get back myself only for me to get pregnant instead and I found out when I was already 3 months gone and the pregnancy is causing me to be in so much pain that I can’t move at times making my husband do everything at home cause i’m always in bed
Now I discovered my husband is chatting another lady calling her babe and the rest although he assured me that he accepts this baby but I feel we are getting apart by the day.what do you suggest i do?
I can’t even have proper sex with him because my heart rate increases and I can’t move afterwards. Yes he was the one who took me to the hospital for removal we have been together for 11+years now
Just before I got pregnant I was having a lot of guys wooing me that my husband became very active in his affections towards me and it made me feel like I’m being courted again then this happened
The worst part is that I’m in physical pain. I can’t satisfy his desires. He even made me watch porn movies with him but I’m just too tired to respond to him. I have never been like this but I don’t know what to do
He has no parents as they pass away his senior brother just got married and always asks for marriage tips from us so saying this to him now I just can’t bring myself to do so.
Should I still keep the baby although I can’t bring myself to do anything to my child i just feel all this wouldn’t have come up if I didn’t get pregnant.

Anonymous NL Member

Vortex369:
You are married - check
You have kids - check
You are pregnant - check
You still feel you should be fuccking your husband even though you are pregnant - madness
You still feel insecure even when the man is pitying your condition and pains and wants a side chic to satisfy his urges, so you can rest - madness.

You want my advise?

You have all that you need, the side chic will not take the dickk away, focus on your preggy and the home and the man will always come back to you after safe delivery.

Your husband will cheat, always understand that, but he will not abandon you.

Originalsly:
If both of you were satisfied with 3 kids.... why implantation? Didn't they tell you of other options?... nor didn't you check with Google? Any kind foreign stuff in your body must have side effects. Abortion shouldn't be an option..unless you want to gamble with your life. Consider yourself lucky you are in poor condition and your husband is always around..... most would suddenly have to spend long hourssss at work...or have to travel on work related trips. If you look for dirt you will find...... let your husband be. Nothing good for you can come out of stress. Focus on yourself... and having a smooth delivery.

The way Nigerians threaten you with death whenever abortion is mentioned enh!

KISSMEAGAIN:
If only you know what men go through when ever their wives become pregnant and making love to her becomes so scarce because of her pregnancy. It's a great challenge. I never knew the kind of challenge at stake until I got married too.

Timson01:
Hello NL,

Before I got married my husband said he needed 2 children while I wanted twins but our second pregnancy was twins so we had 3 instead. Then I took implant so to avoid getting pregnant again but my system became messed up that my monthly flow would last for 2 to 3 weeks.
So after 3 years I decided to remove it so to get back myself only for me to get pregnant instead and I found out when I was already 3 months gone and the pregnancy is causing me to be in so much pain that I can’t move at times making my husband do everything at home cause i’m always in bed
Now I discovered my husband is chatting another lady calling her babe and the rest although he assured me that he accepts this baby but I feel we are getting apart by the day.what do you suggest i do?
I can’t even have proper sex with him because my heart rate increases and I can’t move afterwards. Yes he was the one who took me to the hospital for removal we have been together for 11+years now
Just before I got pregnant I was having a lot of guys wooing me that my husband became very active in his affections towards me and it made me feel like I’m being courted again then this happened
The worst part is that I’m in physical pain. I can’t satisfy his desires. He even made me watch porn movies with him but I’m just too tired to respond to him. I have never been like this but I don’t know what to do
He has no parents as they pass away his senior brother just got married and always asks for marriage tips from us so saying this to him now I just can’t bring myself to do so.
Should I still keep the baby although I can’t bring myself to do anything to my child i just feel all this wouldn’t have come up if I didn’t get pregnant.

Anonymous NL Member

CHoccolaTE:
I guess this is why men fear feminism

They don't want equality because they don't want to be recipients of the shitty treatment they dish to women.

Timson01:
Hello NL,

Before I got married my husband said he needed 2 children while I wanted twins but our second pregnancy was twins so we had 3 instead. Then I took implant so to avoid getting pregnant again but my system became messed up that my monthly flow would last for 2 to 3 weeks.
So after 3 years I decided to remove it so to get back myself only for me to get pregnant instead and I found out when I was already 3 months gone and the pregnancy is causing me to be in so much pain that I can’t move at times making my husband do everything at home cause i’m always in bed
Now I discovered my husband is chatting another lady calling her babe and the rest although he assured me that he accepts this baby but I feel we are getting apart by the day.what do you suggest i do?
I can’t even have proper sex with him because my heart rate increases and I can’t move afterwards. Yes he was the one who took me to the hospital for removal we have been together for 11+years now
Just before I got pregnant I was having a lot of guys wooing me that my husband became very active in his affections towards me and it made me feel like I’m being courted again then this happened
The worst part is that I’m in physical pain. I can’t satisfy his desires. He even made me watch porn movies with him but I’m just too tired to respond to him. I have never been like this but I don’t know what to do
He has no parents as they pass away his senior brother just got married and always asks for marriage tips from us so saying this to him now I just can’t bring myself to do so.
Should I still keep the baby although I can’t bring myself to do anything to my child i just feel all this wouldn’t have come up if I didn’t get pregnant.

Anonymous NL Member

cococandy:
and women are born slaves. Understood

Youthleader22:
Your husband loves you. Don’t feel threatened by him talking to another woman. Focus on your health to get better. You and your husband will grow to love your child. Create conversations with him. Let him know exactly how you feel don’t keep it inside you so you don’t go through more pains. You pregnant so forget trying to please him sexually, and always visit a gynecologist to know exactly the cause of your constant pains. God bless you and your home.

MusaChukwudi:
4 children! The husband will eventually elope or stress and struggle will turn him into a real monster.

Timson01:
Hello NL,

Before I got married my husband said he needed 2 children while I wanted twins but our second pregnancy was twins so we had 3 instead. Then I took implant so to avoid getting pregnant again but my system became messed up that my monthly flow would last for 2 to 3 weeks.
So after 3 years I decided to remove it so to get back myself only for me to get pregnant instead and I found out when I was already 3 months gone and the pregnancy is causing me to be in so much pain that I can’t move at times making my husband do everything at home cause i’m always in bed
Now I discovered my husband is chatting another lady calling her babe and the rest although he assured me that he accepts this baby but I feel we are getting apart by the day.what do you suggest i do?
I can’t even have proper sex with him because my heart rate increases and I can’t move afterwards. Yes he was the one who took me to the hospital for removal we have been together for 11+years now
Just before I got pregnant I was having a lot of guys wooing me that my husband became very active in his affections towards me and it made me feel like I’m being courted again then this happened
The worst part is that I’m in physical pain. I can’t satisfy his desires. He even made me watch porn movies with him but I’m just too tired to respond to him. I have never been like this but I don’t know what to do
He has no parents as they pass away his senior brother just got married and always asks for marriage tips from us so saying this to him now I just can’t bring myself to do so.
Should I still keep the baby although I can’t bring myself to do anything to my child i just feel all this wouldn’t have come up if I didn’t get pregnant.

Anonymous NL Member

Youthleader22:
Trust me all this things happens all the time. A father will always and I mean always love his children. Most times this children are blessings and the financial state of the family does change greatly when they come around. But at the end of the day a man will always love his children.

Timson01:
Hello NL,

Before I got married my husband said he needed 2 children while I wanted twins but our second pregnancy was twins so we had 3 instead. Then I took implant so to avoid getting pregnant again but my system became messed up that my monthly flow would last for 2 to 3 weeks.
So after 3 years I decided to remove it so to get back myself only for me to get pregnant instead and I found out when I was already 3 months gone and the pregnancy is causing me to be in so much pain that I can’t move at times making my husband do everything at home cause i’m always in bed
Now I discovered my husband is chatting another lady calling her babe and the rest although he assured me that he accepts this baby but I feel we are getting apart by the day.what do you suggest i do?
I can’t even have proper sex with him because my heart rate increases and I can’t move afterwards. Yes he was the one who took me to the hospital for removal we have been together for 11+years now
Just before I got pregnant I was having a lot of guys wooing me that my husband became very active in his affections towards me and it made me feel like I’m being courted again then this happened
The worst part is that I’m in physical pain. I can’t satisfy his desires. He even made me watch porn movies with him but I’m just too tired to respond to him. I have never been like this but I don’t know what to do
He has no parents as they pass away his senior brother just got married and always asks for marriage tips from us so saying this to him now I just can’t bring myself to do so.
Should I still keep the baby although I can’t bring myself to do anything to my child i just feel all this wouldn’t have come up if I didn’t get pregnant.

Anonymous NL Member

MusaChukwudi:
Having 4 children is no longer a blessing but a life of harsh struggle. I wish them luck sha.

Youthleader22:
Oga my plan is to have 7kids... and of course I’ll be able to take of them all. 4kids harsh struggle kor. Oga speak for yourself