I don’t why I always feel pity for folks like you.
Desperately trying to hold onto dead ideologies like these.
The new reality must be very hard on you.

Why don’t you try and treat one of the women you can buy as property and see how it works out for you?

Vortex369:


Marriage has always been a prize for women. Except you are an hypocrite.

I dont make these things up. I study Reality.

Brice Price means the cost price of a Bride, in actually, it the price a woman is sold for.
Taking up a man's name is called Change of Title, when you buy an item, you change the name to yours, so the man owns that woman.
For better for worse means, you have been bought and must remain with your owner.
In every culture, cost price is returned if an item is no longer needed, same is done when a woman is no more needed, I dont make these things up.

Every married woman is owned, by the buyer.

To stop this apparent selling of humans, end Bride Price or Abrogate Marriage so every one can fucck their lovers.

Hmmm

Timson01:
Hello NL,

Before I got married my husband said he needed 2 children while I wanted twins but our second pregnancy was twins so we had 3 instead. Then I took implant so to avoid getting pregnant again but my system became messed up that my monthly flow would last for 2 to 3 weeks.
So after 3 years I decided to remove it so to get back myself only for me to get pregnant instead and I found out when I was already 3 months gone and the pregnancy is causing me to be in so much pain that I can’t move at times making my husband do everything at home cause i’m always in bed
Now I discovered my husband is chatting another lady calling her babe and the rest although he assured me that he accepts this baby but I feel we are getting apart by the day.what do you suggest i do?
I can’t even have proper sex with him because my heart rate increases and I can’t move afterwards. Yes he was the one who took me to the hospital for removal we have been together for 11+years now
Just before I got pregnant I was having a lot of guys wooing me that my husband became very active in his affections towards me and it made me feel like I’m being courted again then this happened
The worst part is that I’m in physical pain. I can’t satisfy his desires. He even made me watch porn movies with him but I’m just too tired to respond to him. I have never been like this but I don’t know what to do
He has no parents as they pass away his senior brother just got married and always asks for marriage tips from us so saying this to him now I just can’t bring myself to do so.
Should I still keep the baby although I can’t bring myself to do anything to my child i just feel all this wouldn’t have come up if I didn’t get pregnant.

Anonymous NL Member

All this is in your head o. Your hormones are doing raileway on you.

1. Focus on you and your unborn baby
2. Drink alot of green juice
3. Practice meditation.
4. Pray and keep your thoughts positive

Every pregnancy is different this one carry hormonal mood issues.... just hang in there

1 post=85765800]Hello NL,

Before I got married my husband said he needed 2 children while I wanted twins but our second pregnancy was twins so we had 3 instead. Then I took implant so to avoid getting pregnant again but my system became messed up that my monthly flow would last for 2 to 3 weeks.
So after 3 years I decided to remove it so to get back myself only for me to get pregnant instead and I found out when I was already 3 months gone and the pregnancy is causing me to be in so much pain that I can’t move at times making my husband do everything at home cause i’m always in bed
Now I discovered my husband is chatting another lady calling her babe and the rest although he assured me that he accepts this baby but I feel we are getting apart by the day.what do you suggest i do?
I can’t even have proper sex with him because my heart rate increases and I can’t move afterwards. Yes he was the one who took me to the hospital for removal we have been together for 11+years now
Just before I got pregnant I was having a lot of guys wooing me that my husband became very active in his affections towards me and it made me feel like I’m being courted again then this happened
The worst part is that I’m in physical pain. I can’t satisfy his desires. He even made me watch porn movies with him but I’m just too tired to respond to him. I have never been like this but I don’t know what to do
He has no parents as they pass away his senior brother just got married and always asks for marriage tips from us so saying this to him now I just can’t bring myself to do so.
Should I still keep the baby although I can’t bring myself to do anything to my child i just feel all this wouldn’t have come up if I didn’t get pregnant.
Hmmm

Anonymous NL Member[/quote]

Please at this point in time both spouse needs a proper understanding of both situations in mental, physical and emotional been, non of both should anyone to early grave before its get done on either party just for the sake of selfcentredness . In all ways Husband and wife should invite Jesus into their house so that both will not be handle issues as it is been done in the world. The Bible says let's their be moderation in all things.

morpheus24:


1.Your husband is flirting, confront him and tell him to stop it if he values your 11 year old marriage, sometimes men are silly like that and need to be jolted back into reality to realize what they have in a wife and 3 children.

2. Let your husband know you are having difficulty with sexual activity during pregnancy and try to compromise and adjust with him, this may be the reason he finds reason to be flirting.

3. Children are a blessing, sometimes we feel overwhelmed with the prospect of taking care of another child but it finds a way to work itself out if we stay positive an not over worry about it. The hardest part for children is usually the formative years by 4 to 5 years they are a little more independent and you are back to your normal life.

I would have to disagree with your third point.

This mentality of “children are a blessing” is one of the reasons for the high rate of almajiris and poverty in Nigeria. Children are a blessing, children are blessing....how una go dey born children wey una no fit take care of ennn?!!

You would see a family living in ‘face me, I face you’ house, yet they have three or maybe even four children or even more. No good furniture in their house, no good food on their table, no good clothes on their bodies, yet they keep giving birth like no tomorrow. And if you ask them why still having children, they would tell you that God would take care of them.

Born according to your means...don’t just put preek inside totoo and expect not to get pregnant. Use a condom, take ‘after morning pills’ whenever you guys finish fucking if you know you don’t want to conceive a child that would further stretch your budget and means of livelihood.

Nigerians make una dey born with sense abeg!!

KenModi:


I would have to disagree with your third point.

This mentality of “children are a blessing” is one of the reasons for the high rate of almajiris and poverty in Nigeria. Children are a blessing, children are blessing....how una go dey born children wey una no fit take care of ennn?!!

You would see a family living in ‘face me, I face you’ house, yet they have three or maybe even four children or even more. No good furniture in their house, no good food on their table, no good clothes on their bodies, yet they keep giving birth like no tomorrow. And if you ask them why still having children, they would tell you that God would take care of them.

Born according to your means...don’t just put preek inside totoo and expect not to get pregnant. Use a condom, take ‘after morning pills’ whenever you guys finish fucking if you know you don’t want to conceive a child that would further stretch your budget and means of livelihood.

Nigerians make una dey born with sense abeg!!

The point that children are a blessing does not mean people should not practice planned parenting so don't lump the two together. This is not my point. There is no where in the poster's write up where she indicates that the husband is panicking about taking care of a fourth child so this is your personal opinion on the matter.

The birth of a child or the creation of a child is a blessing noting that a good number of people find it difficult having children. The poster did use preventive methods but this was not 1005 proof due to her removing it. The poster is more panicked at her mental health and her inability to have sex with her spouse so please focus on that and not on the point that she is having a child within wedlock and does not seem to be creating any financial anxieties for the couple.

First, please put away any worries from your mind because it is NOT good for your condition for now, and secondly see your doctor for medical advice as regards the pain in you. I wish you safe delivery.

For now, pls take care of your health, you need to stay alive pls, your kids will not be motherless in the name of Jesus. You know your husband more than us, if he is a gentleman, then table your concerns before him and try to get him to have mercy. But don't forget, your life comes first, do anything that keeps it and that includes avoiding conflict should in case your husband is not a gentleman.

jy2kbeyond:


When you are ready to face the reality of the world. Eternal peace won't be a far-fetched commodity.

Awon set Equal right.

No be only reality of the world.

To Nigerian men reality means women should swallow crap and infidelity while men are free to do as they please.

Ruth- Abokoku