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Please tell me...
Why do some guys woo ladies when they're already about to be married?
It's not the first or second time this is happening to me.
You're on your own jeje, and this guy just tries to befriend you, months in, you can't do without communicating with him. He is nice, respectful, pretty decent tells you sweet words, treats you like a love interest, sometimes declares "I love you" "I want a future with you" etc and before you say jack same guy is proposing/ getting married to another lady.
I'm confused. I don't understand. Is it my fault? Is it his fault?
Why do some guys treat ladies like this?

It same route, the guy who will someday propose to you is doing same to some other girls, some of them will also be proposed to someday and some lost track

Just to test run how bachelor's night go be.

Meanwhile I dey Olosho house dey type this thing for Ketu.

Na till day break.

libertyfather:
It same route, the guy who will someday propose to you is doing same to some other girls, some of them will also be proposed to someday and some lost track

So it's OK to propose to a lady knowing that she's single and searching and you have a woman in your life? If the tables were turned, would it still be cool?

doctore212:
Just to test run how bachelor's night go be.

Meanwhile I dey Olosho house dey type this thing for Ketu.

Na till day break.

Use condom Abeg..... Some of this hanties disease Wey dey there body worse pass all the plagues Wey catch Egypt. If no condom use bread nylon. If bread nylon no dey do sign of the cross on the punna before you enter.

Chi59:
Please tell me...
Why do some guys woo ladies when they're already about to be married?
It's not the first or second time this is happening to me.
You're on your own jeje, and this guy just tries to befriend you, months in, you can't do without communicating with him. He is nice, respectful, pretty decent tells you sweet words, treats you like a love interest, sometimes declares "I love you" "I want a future with you" etc and before you say jack same guy is proposing/ getting married to another lady.
I'm confused. I don't understand. Is it my fault? Is it his fault?
Why do some guys treat ladies like this?

Dm me. Problem solved

Shibaraba:
Dm me. Problem solved

Give me a hint first.

Chi59:
Give me a hint first.

On a forum? Oya no Dm again oooo

Chi59:
So it's OK to propose to a lady knowing that she's single and searching and you have a woman in your life? If the tables were turned, would it still be cool?

Not good at all...

Someone out there is crazily looking for you...
Just wait a little longer is all that you need...
Wish you the best

Chi59:
Please tell me...
Why do some guys woo ladies when they're already about to be married?
It's not the first or second time this is happening to me.
You're on your own jeje, and this guy just tries to befriend you, months in, you can't do without communicating with him. He is nice, respectful, pretty decent tells you sweet words, treats you like a love interest, sometimes declares "I love you" "I want a future with you" etc and before you say jack same guy is proposing/ getting married to another lady.
I'm confused. I don't understand. Is it my fault? Is it his fault?
Why do some guys treat ladies like this?

Sorry for your experience.

It might just be insensitivity on the part of the guy.

One guy man go just dey de reason your matter. You go come knack him akpako

King2019:
Someone out there is crazily looking for you...
Just wait a little longer is all that you need...
Wish you the best

I no longer believe this anymore.

Chi59:
I no longer believe this anymore.

Quite understandable.

But dont block yourself from relationships because someone did you wrong.

Perhaps he was not the person for you to begin with. You might even thank God for his actions at some point, when you know better or get someone better.

Chi59:
I no longer believe this anymore.

You should never ever stop believing.


Thomas Edison once said "I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work" you also haven't failed you just found some ways that won't work.

What's important is learn your lesson, let it guide you, because it didn't work out with them for you, doesn't mean you wouldn't find the right fit for you.

If they have stayed, they could have cause you more pain than joy.

Be happy for this moment because this moment is your life.

Be of good cheer, it's not the end.

Chi59:
Please tell me...
Why do some guys woo ladies when they're already about to be married?
It's not the first or second time this is happening to me.
You're on your own jeje, and this guy just tries to befriend you, months in, you can't do without communicating with him. He is nice, respectful, pretty decent tells you sweet words, treats you like a love interest, sometimes declares "I love you" "I want a future with you" etc and before you say jack same guy is proposing/ getting married to another lady.
I'm confused. I don't understand. Is it my fault? Is it his fault?
Why do some guys treat ladies like this?

Why do ladies date a guy, who loves then then cheat on another guy. Ask me again.

Well guys do this for adventure, cause you ladies Sara everywhere, you guys are like smoked fish, you observe and pick the best of the fishes.

Chi59:
I no longer believe this anymore.

Have you ever heard of the grail message before??
Check and I will explain more...
I will send pictures later...

Lightangel65:
Why do ladies date a guy, who loves then then cheat on another guy. Ask me again.

Well guys do this for adventure, cause you ladies Sara everywhere, you guys are like smoked fish, you observe and pick the best of the fishes.

Isn't it odd that I've never been adventurous with anyone's feelings yet I keep experiencing this same problem?

King2019:
Have you ever heard of the grail message before??
Check and I will explain more...
I will send pictures later...

Nope. Don't bother

Chi59:
Isn't it odd that I've never been adventurous with anyone's feelings yet I keep experiencing this same problem?

See lad, that's the world we live in, the faster you forget about the love shit, the quicker you would enjoy your life.

Chi59:
Give me a hint first.

He's married o.

I don't know why ladies still take some men's words seriously especially ones that are not genuinely born again.

Just be careful. Since we can no longer tell when a man is serious, just keep observing them from a distance whenever they come sweet talking you. Dont take them seriously until the day they come through with their marriage promises and it should be within the period you have set a target that they meet otherwise ditch his ass and fordge ahead. Dont try to waste time listening continuously to those sweet nothings.

Jewessgratitude:
He's married o.

I never took him seriously in the first place. Thanks dear.

Jewessgratitude:
I don't know why ladies still take some men's words seriously especially ones that are not genuinely born again.

Just be careful. Since we can no longer tell when a man is serious, just keep observing them from a distance whenever they come sweet talking you. Dont take them seriously until the day they come through with their marriage promises and it should be within the period you have set a target that they meet otherwise ditch his ass and fordge ahead. Dont try to waste time listening continuously to those sweet nothings.

The born again ones are the ones doing this o.

Chi59:
Nope. Don't bother

OK cool...
Just wanted to explain that no matter the situation...
Some people are meant for each other that other relationships won't work out...

sweetheart i think the issue anchor's on your genotype according to your other posts. They would have loved to marry you but they ain't comfortable with your genotype cos they are scared of the future... I pray may u find a man that will love you unconditionally even after finding out those things... I love u

udoakwa:
sweetheart i think the issue anchor's on your genotype according to your other posts. They would have loved to marry you but they ain't comfortable with your genotype cos they are scared of the future... I pray may u find a man that will love you unconditionally even after finding out those things... I love u

It's depressing.

Chi59:
It's depressing.

I'm so sorry sweetheart, i can imagine what u are passing through

Chi59:
It's depressing.

I'm so sorry sweetheart, i can imagine what u are passing through

udoakwa:
I'm so sorry sweetheart, i can imagine what u are passing through

Thanks anyway.

Chi59:
Please tell me...
Why do some guys woo ladies when they're already about to be married?
It's not the first or second time this is happening to me.
You're on your own jeje, and this guy just tries to befriend you, months in, you can't do without communicating with him. He is nice, respectful, pretty decent tells you sweet words, treats you like a love interest, sometimes declares "I love you" "I want a future with you" etc and before you say jack same guy is proposing/ getting married to another lady.
I'm confused. I don't understand. Is it my fault? Is it his fault?
Why do some guys treat ladies like this?

Guys like that are just irresponsible, lack good conscience and mostly engage in such act to boost their ego and give them a sort of superiority over women.

If you ever encounter such a man again, please move on cos he is obviously a good riddance to bad rubbish.

We4all:
Guys like that are just irresponsible, lack good conscience and mostly engage in such act to boost their ego and give them a sort of superiority over women.

If you ever encounter such a man again, please move on cos he is obviously a good riddance to bad rubbish.

Hmm. Thanks