booscy:


Men have better things to think of rather than dwell on petty stuff.
Let me remind you that Men aren't the problem of women, women are the greatest problem of women.

Of course We're well aware that there's no manual to a perfect relationship between humans (Friendship, Dating, Business and Marriage inclusive).

Human relations is a Bio experiment, its not constant if these things listed works for you that it would work for others and what rocks your boat might not rock another's

koyyes:


Now you are talking.

Let the touts go for their kind.

Agricaddict:




No I don't

PrimadonnaO:


I woke up to 40 mentions! And they are all asking me why I didn’t marry any of them.
People who can’t think.

Answering your question... they are 3. I guess you meant to ask if I’m dating “any of them.”


The point really is that, those 10 things the OP listed out are what every decent man should be.

captain247:


Bra u lie, kilode how can she meet up all the above then his pocket no follow. His pocket must equate his demands chikina..

fcdgrand:
this list will only make brain if she is a virgin

Timileyin1234:

U are even looking for sugar daddy

MedicH:


What is this one saying? Here's not a thread to promote same sex marriage keep it to urself till Jesus comes.

Vortex369:


...And you think Jesus is not too scared to come again after how he was dealt with the other time?

PreetyAngel4U:


You as a guy you enjoy drinking where the 'oloshos' are abi. Before you want the oloshos to give you sex for free abi when it is their business. Don't go to places where you can meet prospective women of character, substance and caliber. Go to club and be looking for virgins. Be sensible please.

lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

[s]When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌[/s]

MedicH:


Hehehe vortex veins lol relax. Im not having this conversation babe. Jesus loves you.

Vortex369:

Small080:

Jokes apart...... Can a single woman satisfy a man?

Can a man satisfy a woman ?

MedicH:



Jesus Christ gave the bot consciousness hope you know?

Vortex369:


You give too much credit to the European Image. It is just a program, a savior program for Christ Consciousness. It is all stories for hive mind management and control designed against an Arameic historical figure who was never called Jesus in his days.

MedicH:



Hmmmm. You be atheist. Must be a tough choice to make.

Vortex369:


Your knowledge of atheism is highly limited. I am an Avatar of the interuniversal Intelligent Spirit.

MedicH:


You're intelligent. I just hope you're making money that way. I get depressed when i tell people if i know the things they know put to my own knowledge my acc officer go smile each time i come to the bank.

asatemple:
permit me to say, marriage have no format. In any one you find your self, just try and adapt and put in your best

BreconHills:


Well said.

Only outlier men lack these basic elements of good upbringing. Unfortunately the actions of outliers shouts loudly. I have friends above 45 who take time off their business to stay with the children during half term, those who arrange activities for children to give their wife me time and much more.

It really depends on the waters one swims in. I have met very few "bad" women in my lifetime. Most if not all, at arms length. If people find bad relationships a recurring theme, they should review their circles and habits.

You are obviously not swimming in shark infested waters. Kudos.

lexy2014:


D questions u were asked are only a follow up to d comment u made. I don't see anything wrong with d questions u are being asked as long as u weren't insulted. In my opinion, they are valid questions. I will explain why.

D OP tried to align qualities that any prospecting wife should look for in a man. And u agreed by saying "those 10 things the OP listed out are what every decent man should be". Interestingly, u told us that u have d privilege of dating men who have all d qualities listed by d OP. This is ur statement:

"I've never dated a man who was deficient in any of those 10 areas".

That's a a very interesting comment to make as there are two things involved. Its either u are still dating all d men because of their sterling qualities or u have left some of them and u still dating one of d them. So it will be naturally curious to know what became of ur r/ship with d guys u left who u say possess these heavenly qualities. Why would u stop dating such persons? If u haven't left any of them because of these glorious qualities, then u can share with us how u managing all of them.

Meanwhile, "answering your question... they are 3. I guess you meant to ask if I’m dating “any of them.”

U haven't answered if u are still dating them or not.

valirex:


I have gone through your nonsense write up, you females act like you are doing the man a favor by marrying him or it's the man alone that will enjoy the marriage

ola9ja:
The hardest truth is Love who you marry and not marry who you Love.......and the rest is history

MumEmdy:

Sometimes even the virgins are not dat Lucky my dear

Vortex369:


...And you think Jesus is not too scared to come again after how he was dealt with the other time?

lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌

PrimadonnaO:
I’ve never dated a man who is deficient in any of those 10 areas.

lavylilly:
TO THE LADIES:

When you are ready to settle down, dont forget these...

1) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see paying your bride price as buying you...

2) Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt see marrying you as doing you a big favour...

3) Make sure you settle for a man who wouldn't use your monthly cramps and mood swings against you,, YES Some men are like that...

4) Make sure you settle for a man who knows you have right to your body sometimes,, who understands you have the right to say NO to sex when its not comfortable for you,, maybe due to weakness or whatever it might be,, and still respect you for that...

5) Make sure you settle for a man who would stick with you inspite of the odds,, who wouldn't compare you to a SWEET 16 after series of child birth (though most women try to work on themselves after child birth,, but truth be told,, you cant remain young forever)...

6) Make sure you settle for a man who would understand that there are just times you might feel too tired to fix the family meal,, and him helping you out wont be a taboo...

7) Make sure you settle for a man who would always allow you air your opinions, who understands you have d right to 'agree' or 'disagree' on a particular issue,, depending on what the case may be,, without always shutting you up before you are done airing your view...

Make sure you settle for a man who doesnt find it difficult saying 'SORRY',, someone who easily asks for forgiveness whenever he wrongs you,, not some kind of 'Autocratic' man,, who expects 'sorry' from you even when it's glaring he's wrong...

9) Make sure you settle for a man who understands that hitting a lady is a crime and shouldnt be done especially to his wife,, not some 'wife beaters' who raises their hands at the slightest provocation...

10) Make sure you settle for a man who loves everything about you,,who loves your soul not just the body,,and who enjoys your company always...

YOU CAN ADD YOURS TOO...

I COME IN PEACE✌