AfroKnight:
She will come back. I hope you know you were right to not trust her. If you overlook certain signs you’d set yourself up for an unpleasant surprise.

Her condition does not preclude her willingness and ability to cheat when the opportunity appears. Babes are avid (but still amateur) manipulators.

If you still want her, you could go and put her mind at ease. Be cool but be vigilant. Don’t lose your guard.

Logan95:


I would have been stern if she hadn't passed out, I needed to give her the medication immediately to revive her. I also noticed that she loses interest in life (a symptom of epilepsy) and her condition reduces her self esteem regardless of how stunning she is.

My challenge now is that if she was OK mentally, I would have given her space and cut contact for now but for her I detest her being alone.

We once had an issue via chat and she told me not to attend her funeral... I sent my sister to her house without her knowledge and by the time she got there my girl was vibrating in her feet and palms.

AfroKnight:


Everything you have just written does not tell you if she’s faithful or not. Isn‘t that the bone of contention?

Her condition does not take away your privilege to expect honesty from her. There are many diversionary tactics to employ when in a tight corner and guilt tripping, using one’s health condition as an excuse, is not far down that list.

Davash222:
There’s nothing like a ‘Honest Girl’, especially in Nigeria.
She’s just manipulating you emotionally. Don’t fall for all these blackmails from Nigerian girls.

Imagine, she said she has forgiven you?? For what??
Obviously, you’re too immature to be in a relationship with a Nigerian girl.

AfroKnight:


Everything you have just written does not tell you if she’s faithful or not. Isn‘t that the bone of contention?

Her condition does not take away your privilege to expect honesty from her. There are many diversionary tactics to employ when in a tight corner and guilt tripping, using one’s health condition as an excuse, is not far down that list.

AfroKnight:


Everything you have just written does not tell you if she’s faithful or not. Isn‘t that the bone of contention?

Her condition does not take away your privilege to expect honesty from her. There are many diversionary tactics to employ when in a tight corner and guilt tripping, using one’s health condition as an excuse, is not far down that list.

Davash222:
There’s nothing like a ‘Honest Girl’, especially in Nigeria.
She’s just manipulating you emotionally. Don’t fall for all these blackmails from Nigerian girls.

Imagine, she said she has forgiven you?? For what??
Obviously, you’re too immature to be in a relationship with a Nigerian girl.

Logan95:
My people, Something really terrible just occurred now.

I have dated my girlfriend for about 6 months, she is the most open individual I've ever met... She has told me most of her secrets. She is a very beautiful and intelligent girl and what really made us thick is that I was there when she had seizures in the past.

To the issue, She answered a call today and I felt suspicious and I decided to confront her immediately, but as she was trying to explain, I cut in and acted with mistrust and accusations that I suspect cheating. This was a major catalyst and it triggered her seizure. I started apologizing immediately to calm her down, she passed out for some minutes after she tried to use her clothes to suffocate herself.

She woke up irritated and I asked her to explain what is happening in her social world. She said it was really nothing and that she feels I don't trust her that's why she reduced telling me personal stuff. That there is no connection between her and the guy.

She said she has forgiven me but she has to leave my house that moment. I asked that I drop her but she refused and packed her belongings that has been here. She later accepted that I'd drop her because I could not stand the shame of her going alone but my car battery decided to die and she eventually entered bike home.

She left by saying she needs space but I feel I've lost her because I'll be once guilty of inducing her seuzures.

Ladies and gentlemen, red pillers, kindly advice me on how to handle this issue.

N:B kindly put into consideration that she is really emotional and her peculiar challenge.

Davash222:
There’s nothing like a ‘Honest Girl’, especially in Nigeria.
She’s just manipulating you emotionally. Don’t fall for all these blackmails from Nigerian girls.

Imagine, she said she has forgiven you?? For what??
Obviously, you’re too immature to be in a relationship with a Nigerian girl.

Heroclitus:


I'm looking forward to that day when I'll start seeing things from this particular point of view... I really need this kinda mentality badly

Davash222:
There’s nothing like a ‘Honest Girl’, especially in Nigeria.
She’s just manipulating you emotionally. Don’t fall for all these blackmails from Nigerian girls.

Imagine, she said she has forgiven you?? For what??
Obviously, you’re too immature to be in a relationship with a Nigerian girl.

keryj:
I'm still surprised at how people go about bringing their private life to the public for advice or judgment.

Now that most of them have end up twisting your mind on her honesty, i do hope you are happy, comfortable and at peace now.

Only you know your girl perfectly well, stop passing her to others who knows nothing about her for judgment.

Davash222:
There’s nothing like a ‘Honest Girl’, especially in Nigeria.

Logan95:
My people, Something really terrible just occurred now.

I have dated my girlfriend for about 6 months, she is the most open individual I've ever met... She has told me most of her secrets. She is a very beautiful and intelligent girl and what really made us thick is that I was there when she had seizures in the past.

To the issue, She answered a call today and I felt suspicious and I decided to confront her immediately, but as she was trying to explain, I cut in and acted with mistrust and accusations that I suspect cheating. This was a major catalyst and it triggered her seizure. I started apologizing immediately to calm her down, she passed out for some minutes after she tried to use her clothes to suffocate herself.

She woke up irritated and I asked her to explain what is happening in her social world. She said it was really nothing and that she feels I don't trust her that's why she reduced telling me personal stuff. That there is no connection between her and the guy.

She said she has forgiven me but she has to leave my house that moment. I asked that I drop her but she refused and packed her belongings that has been here. She later accepted that I'd drop her because I could not stand the shame of her going alone but my car battery decided to die and she eventually entered bike home.

She left by saying she needs space but I feel I've lost her because I'll be once guilty of inducing her seuzures.

Ladies and gentlemen, red pillers, kindly advice me on how to handle this issue.

N:B kindly put into consideration that she is really emotional and her peculiar challenge.

pcguru1:


That's a terrible mentality its akin to saying all men are scum, I'm sure you'd like to say not all men. But at the same time one has to keep an open eye though, cuz people take advantage of people's emotion. All these red pills tactic are used to avoid distrustful women, but you guys seem to be so bitter that you lump every woman in the same category and might end up passing on someone reasonable. Anyway sha na still insult I go chop so..........

Pro2makx:

Keep trusting indescriminately. E go soon be your turn. Better shine your eye and ask questions when you should. Some of us has seen ladies for who they truely are. not once, not twice.

Logan95:


I would have been stern if she hadn't passed out, I needed to give her the medication immediately to revive her. I also noticed that she loses interest in life (a symptom of epilepsy) and her condition reduces her self esteem regardless of how stunning she is.

My challenge now is that if she was OK mentally, I would have given her space and cut contact for now but for her I detest her being alone.

We once had an issue via chat and she told me not to attend her funeral... I sent my sister to her house without her knowledge and by the time she got there my girl was vibrating in her feet and palms.

MISTAICEY02288:
Hmmm... Bro Stop beating yourself up for nothing. To begin with, what exactly did you notice about the conversation that made you confront her of cheating? What if you were actually right about it? So what if you felt suspicious and confronted her? See ehn... You have to learn how to deal with these Naija gurls cos most of em are indeed full of pretense. I have dated a couple of em already and i know what they're all about.. It's okay to love, buh always remember not to use your heart alone in relationship, but use your head too.. It's okay to feel bad that you triggered her seizures coming to attack her and you apologised as a gentleman. But stop feeling bad that she might not wanna accept you again of you're really sure your reason for confronting her was right.. She will definitely come running back to you if she truly loves you and also knows she was at fault too...

As i am presently, i have almost lost taste completely for Relationships with Nigerian babes. I have a lady at the moment who always wants my attention buh i don't really give her that and i keep making excuses that i am only interested in making some good money for now cos at the end of the day, na money most of em want. She usually keep denying that ooo, telling me she's not about the money at all cos she has a job and earns her own money too. But I'm not having all of that cos i sabi their games. Bottom line is, i don't wanna play Sissy to any Naija babe at the moment and won't take anyone serious until I'm completely sure about her after running some background checks on the lady.. I have played dumb too much in the past and at the end, discovered they weren't who they appeared to be...