Logan95:
My people, Something really terrible just occurred now.

I have dated my girlfriend for about 6 months, she is the most open individual I've ever met... She has told me most of her secrets. She is a very beautiful and intelligent girl and what really made us thick is that I was there when she had seizures in the past.

To the issue, She answered a call today and I felt suspicious and I decided to confront her immediately, but as she was trying to explain, I cut in and acted with mistrust and accusations that I suspect cheating. This was a major catalyst and it triggered her seizure. I started apologizing immediately to calm her down, she passed out for some minutes after she tried to use her clothes to suffocate herself.

She woke up irritated and I asked her to explain what is happening in her social world. She said it was really nothing and that she feels I don't trust her that's why she reduced telling me personal stuff. That there is no connection between her and the guy.

She said she has forgiven me but she has to leave my house that moment. I asked that I drop her but she refused and packed her belongings that has been here. She later accepted that I'd drop her because I could not stand the shame of her going alone but my car battery decided to die and she eventually entered bike home.

She left by saying she needs space but I feel I've lost her because I'll be once guilty of inducing her seuzures.

Ladies and gentlemen, red pillers, kindly advice me on how to handle this issue.

N:B kindly put into consideration that she is really emotional and her peculiar challenge.

OP, are you talking about this same girl ?
https://www.nairaland.com/5498186/dilemma-girlfriends-confessions

Nnemuka:

Everything to you Average Nigerians is about money
This oga is even asking him to make money first, then buy car battery
oh chim

oh yeah, China is building 1000 bed hospital in 6 days!! That's money talking!!


Without money, men are doomed in our present world, you need money to live a happy life now whether u like it or not!

Woman should be the least problem on the mind of any reasonable man today. There are billions of good ladies out there, you can't know them if you shut your heart and rilling in pains that you lost one unforgiven chick, say who die

Logan95:
My people, Something really terrible just occurred now.

I have dated my girlfriend for about 6 months, she is the most open individual I've ever met... She has told me most of her secrets. She is a very beautiful and intelligent girl and what really made us thick is that I was there when she had seizures in the past.

To the issue, She answered a call today and I felt suspicious and I decided to confront her immediately, but as she was trying to explain, I cut in and acted with mistrust and accusations that I suspect cheating. This was a major catalyst and it triggered her seizure. I started apologizing immediately to calm her down, she passed out for some minutes after she tried to use her clothes to suffocate herself.

She woke up irritated and I asked her to explain what is happening in her social world. She said it was really nothing and that she feels I don't trust her that's why she reduced telling me personal stuff. That there is no connection between her and the guy.

She said she has forgiven me but she has to leave my house that moment. I asked that I drop her but she refused and packed her belongings that has been here. She later accepted that I'd drop her because I could not stand the shame of her going alone but my car battery decided to die and she eventually entered bike home.

She left by saying she needs space but I feel I've lost her because I'll be once guilty of inducing her seuzures.

Ladies and gentlemen, red pillers, kindly advice me on how to handle this issue.

N:B kindly put into consideration that she is really emotional and her peculiar challenge.

if she is yours she will come back

franchasng:
oh yeah, China is building 1000 bed hospital in 6 days!! That's money talking!!


Without money, men are doomed in our present world, you need money to live a happy life now whether u like it or not!

Woman should be the least problem on the mind of any reasonable man today. There are billions of good ladies out there, you can't know them if you shut your heart and rilling in pains that you lost one unforgiven chick, say who die

Money is good but doesn't solve all problems
He's inlove, I bet you don't know what love is

What if money is not his problem at the moment which obviously isn't ?
You people should learn to advice accordingly biko
If he wanted business ideas, he knows the perfect section for it.

Davash222:
There’s nothing like a ‘Honest Girl’, especially in Nigeria.
She’s just manipulating you emotionally. Don’t fall for all these blackmails from Nigerian girls.

Imagine, she said she has forgiven you?? For what??
Obviously, you’re too immature to be in a relationship with a Nigerian girl.

Dude, with this ur crazy mindset em; finding love go really hard for u baba. Sorry o, but not all girls are like that, he's d one that's been dating her, he knows better than you.

Nnemuka:

Money is good but doesn't solve all problems
He's inlove, I bet you don't know what love is

What if money is not his problem at the moment which obviously isn't ?
You people should learn to advice accordingly biko
If he wanted business ideas, he knows the perfect section for it.

do love exist ? park one side abeg .

Happyguy201:


do love exist ? park one side abeg .

Fu*k off

Dude; relax, check urself and work on u; be a little more trusting bru; allow urself some space too; be vulnerable but apply wisdom; and when u are relaxed check urself and c how u love her, then talk to her; be real and be you, put in this passion u used in typing ds and be sincere and open.

Nnemuka:


Fu*k off

animal

[quote author=Logan95 post=86066511]My people, Something really terrible just occurred now.

I have dated my girlfriend for about 6 months, she is the most open individual I've ever met... She has told me most of her secrets. She is a very beautiful and intelligent girl and what really made us thick is that I was there when she had seizures in the past.

To the issue, She answered a call today and I felt suspicious and I decided to confront her immediately, but as she was trying to explain, I cut in and acted with mistrust and accusations that I suspect cheating. This was a major catalyst and it triggered her seizure. I started apologizing immediately to calm her down, she passed out for some minutes after she tried to use her clothes to suffocate herself.

She woke up irritated and I asked her to explain what is happening in her social world. She said it was really nothing and that she feels I don't trust her that's why she reduced telling me personal stuff. That there is no connection between her and the guy.

She said she has forgiven me but she has to leave my house that moment. I asked that I drop her but she refused and packed her belongings that has been here. She later accepted that I'd drop her because I could not stand the shame of her going alone but my car battery decided to die and she eventually entered bike home.

She left by saying she needs space but I feel I've lost her because I'll be once guilty of inducing her seuzures.

Ladies and gentlemen, red pillers, kindly advice me on how to handle this issue.

N:B kindly put into consideration that she is really emotional and her peculiar challenge. That makes us one, I had issues with the only woman that ticks all the right boxes for me this week, I don't want to go into details sha, she later insisted that we should just quit on mutual ground, me too come dey form strong ma, thank God I realize early and made effort for reconciliation and we are good now. The bottom line be say, if u find a good woman hold her tyt and do everything u can to wife her, them no remain plenty.

Nnemuka:

Money is good but doesn't solve all problems
He's inlove, I bet you don't know what love is

What if money is not his problem at the moment which obviously isn't ?
You people should learn to advice accordingly biko
If he wanted business ideas, he knows the perfect section for it.

Money is his problem oh sis, his battery is dead since last year and he hasn't replaced it

If his battery was okay, he would have given the chick a ride home and trust me, he would have smooched her in the car and they would end up pressing each other's body and quarrel will be settled right inside the car


Money is the problem of every man, as rich as Dangote is, he is still scared of becoming broke or loosing money, reason he is hurriedly borrowing loan to complete his refinery and also planning to get office in New York to sustain his family wealth.

Na only mumu men de relax in making more money, so the op need money more than woman now lol


Romantic love is a fallacy, it does not exist....everybody is looking for a safe landing, once you find qualities you want in a man or woman, you decide to allow your heart to fall in so called love and you begin to form in love, why didn't you love the broke mad man on the street since love is blind

Fantazy:



That's not true!

Let ANY girl see an opportunity to cheat if she will not surprise u

Every girl has several opportunities to cheat

Tallesty1:
What in fvck's name did I just read?


A Nigerian girl in love is usually honest to a fault dude.

from the little I know whether she is in love or not she would only allow you to know only what she wants you to know... nothing more, nothing less

thunderfirebubu:
Let me share a story with you op. I dated a girl for like 8 months or so, this girl seemed a very honest girl bcus she lets me in on almost everything that goes on in her life, truth be told I wasn't really interested cus I didn't see the rship leading anywhere even tho she was a good girl. So there came dis guy she became friends with, the guy knows abt us. The guy na dis holy pass guys, he started drawing my girl close to God so she claimed. It came to a point we had issues and we decided to call it quit. After breaking up I found out that she had been sleeping with the said guy from day one. My point is not every one who appears honest is actually honest.

God bless you for letting these guys with little or no experience know....women are tricky customers

HolyTitus:
Pro2makx of FPA?

who is asking?

excessmon:
Pls what’s d real meaning of the phrase “a typical Nigerian girl”

Over 87% of Nigerian guys have low self esteem

Where did you get that statistic?

Holywizard:
Mugu

The guy na real maga.

Nnamebuka:

Pls nwanne mmadu do you have the address of the hospital that cures epilepsy in India and the possible cost?
Really need to do something about my elder brother's own. I fear his life hangs in the balance cos of this. I also think that his being given to a lot of wine is a contributory factor. Although my research shows that alcohol has little or no effect on the trigger.

I do not know the name of the hospital. But she( my friend) said that anytime I am ready, that I should let her know that she will help me or even go with us. I am only waiting for my sisters last baby to be at least 3 or 4 years.

As for the amount, in the neighborhood of N6million or so, because they went back to India once after their 1st appointment where they spent close to 4 months or so,

Davash222:
There’s nothing like a ‘Honest Girl’, especially in Nigeria.
She’s just manipulating you emotionally. Don’t fall for all these blackmails from Nigerian girls.

Imagine, she said she has forgiven you?? For what??
Obviously, you’re too immature to be in a relationship with a Nigerian girl.

senior man

mperornero:
like it's time to quit reading relationship stuffs here, some comments here can make you dislike/distrust your own girlfriend for no reason....

i thought of this also

pple can easily be discouraged here

Sarang:


THIER OWN experiences not yours or others
So why should someone hate their lover because yours cheated?!

Has anyone tell another person to hate his lover because theirs, yours or mine cheated?

@op follow the advices of the few sensible people here and save your relationship.

I'm not so sure you know a sensible advice even if it stares you in the face

Pro2makx:

who is asking?

Target confirmed✅

Snipper007:


Op if you want to become a dullard (woman rapper) then take the advice above

Your own advice ll make him to be totally irrational. Why not direct the insult to me and see fire. Abi you think forming Nairaland champion here is a testimony of your IQ?
You think your advice is the good one?
Didn't you read where the op said he cut into the girls conversation cos he suspected her.
You should v concrete evidence against a woman else you ll really look like a fool.

Logan95:
My people, Something really terrible just occurred now.

I have dated my girlfriend for about 6 months, she is the most open individual I've ever met... She has told me most of her secrets. She is a very beautiful and intelligent girl and what really made us thick is that I was there when she had seizures in the past.

Op, are you a fictional romantic story teller or an outright liar?
Below is a link to your story three months ago and here, you claimed that you have been in relationship with this one for six months. Clearly, the time of the two stories has overlapped. Are you talking about the same girl or double dating?

https://www.nairaland.com/5498186/dilemma-girlfriends-confessions

OkikiOluwa1:
Your own advice ll make him to be totally irrational. Why not direct the insult to me and see fire. Abi you think forming Nairaland champion here is a testimony of your IQ?
You think your advice is the a good one?
Didn't you read where the op said he cut into the girls conversation cos he suspected her.
You should v concrete evidence against a woman else you ll really look like a fool.

And the girl later told him that he has no connection with the guy without even saying much about the guy after that. Lol.
What if she has connection with the guy and she's just trying to avoid the topic? After all, Op had apologised. When a man is suspicious, definitely it is worth looking into

. Why you wan monopolize the discussion Bros. You wan comment den run away. Naa.

MedicH:


Yea we know that. We also know who will lie and cheat because of money for hair. Don't quote me oo i just come back from work i never eat.

maasoap:


And the girl later told him that he has no connection with the guy without even saying much about the guy after that. Lol.
What if she has connection with the guy and she's just trying to avoid the topic? After all, Op had apologised. When a man is suspicious, definitely it is worth looking into

Sure. You v a point & it's not a crime to br suspicious.
But it's a crime to give accusations that holds no water. The guy is suffering now cos he had little or no evidence.
Will he leave the girl, will he beg? That's for him to decide.
I m of the opinion that in relationships, caution is needed & when problem arises, not all advises of break up, divorce etc are to be accepted. Some people are just forming e-warriors here, forming elders & they are just toy boys. Done don't even know what a relationship is while some are just immature & type whatever comes to mind heir mind as advise.
Before I got married, I dated different girls & learned from the breakups or walk away.
My wife is a beneficiary of my lessons of past relationships.
But I recalled there was a relationship that ll been so sweet if I didn't listened to bad advises.

Mr Logan95, get your facts right. Go & appease your gf n see if things ll work out well. Ok

HolyTitus:
Target confirmed✅

Na RPG?

maasoap:


Op, are you a fictional romantic story teller or an outright liar?
Below is a link to your story three months ago and here, you claimed that you have been in relationship with this one for six months. Clearly, time has of the two stories has overlapped. Are talking about the same girl or double dating?

https://www.nairaland.com/5498186/dilemma-girlfriends-confessions

investigator. Nice one. Logan95 come n defend urself o