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Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by maasoap(m): 3:01pm On Jan 25, 2020
OkikiOluwa1:
Sure. You v a point & it's not a crime to br suspicious.
But it's a crime to give accusations that holds no water. The guy is suffering now cos he had little or no evidence.
Will he leave the girl, will he beg? That's for him to decide.
I m of the opinion that in relationships, caution is needed & when problem arises, not all advises of break up, divorce etc are to be accepted. Some people are just forming e-warriors here, forming elders & they are just toy boys. Done don't even know what a relationship is while some are just immature & type whatever comes to mind heir mind as advise.
Before I got married, I dated different girls & learned from the breakups or walk away.
My wife is a beneficiary of my lessons of past relationships.
But I recalled there was a relationship that ll been so sweet if I didn't listened to bad advises.

Good point. Op should just use his head, he should try to look at the whole issue without being too emotional. That way, he'll be able see the whole picture. The health of the girl in question could mask the most important issue that needs to be discussed and resolved one way or the other.
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Snipper007: 3:05pm On Jan 25, 2020
OkikiOluwa1:
Your own advice ll make him to be totally irrational. Why not direct the insult to me and see fire. Abi you think forming Nairaland champion here is a testimony of your IQ?
You think your advice is the a good one?
Didn't you read where the op said he cut into the girls conversation cos he suspected her.
You should v concrete evidence against a woman else you ll really look like a fool.

Direct ur quotes to the op, he's the one asking for help not me i gave mine so I expect u to give him urs too and not to attack someone you have little or no knowledge about and until then any other thing you have to say if it's not to the Op then you better sholve it up ur as*.
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by OkikiOluwa1(m): 3:13pm On Jan 25, 2020
Snipper007:


Direct ur quotes to the op, he's the one asking for help not me i gave mine so I expect u to give him urs too and not to attack someone you have little or no knowledge about and until then any other thing you have to say if it's not to the Op then you better sholve it up ur as*.
You v no balls to give advices here. Your advise is terrible & can break a union or home.
You need to be reasonable, careful & get required experience if possible before dishing out childish stereotyped advise to relationships.
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by openmine(m): 3:16pm On Jan 25, 2020
Another misleading title
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Meenabee(f): 3:16pm On Jan 25, 2020
One mistake we all make is bringing our baggage to social media. If you love her stick with her and watch her closely, but keep an open mind towards things.
Logan95:
My people, Something really terrible just occurred now.

I have dated my girlfriend for about 6 months, she is the most open individual I've ever met... She has told me most of her secrets. She is a very beautiful and intelligent girl and what really made us thick is that I was there when she had seizures in the past.

To the issue, She answered a call today and I felt suspicious and I decided to confront her immediately, but as she was trying to explain, I cut in and acted with mistrust and accusations that I suspect cheating. This was a major catalyst and it triggered her seizure. I started apologizing immediately to calm her down, she passed out for some minutes after she tried to use her clothes to suffocate herself.

She woke up irritated and I asked her to explain what is happening in her social world. She said it was really nothing and that she feels I don't trust her that's why she reduced telling me personal stuff. That there is no connection between her and the guy.

She said she has forgiven me but she has to leave my house that moment. I asked that I drop her but she refused and packed her belongings that has been here. She later accepted that I'd drop her because I could not stand the shame of her going alone but my car battery decided to die and she eventually entered bike home.

She left by saying she needs space but I feel I've lost her because I'll be once guilty of inducing her seuzures.

Ladies and gentlemen, red pillers, kindly advice me on how to handle this issue.

N:B kindly put into consideration that she is really emotional and her peculiar challenge.

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Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by TonyeBarcanista(m): 3:49pm On Jan 25, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
I am dissapointed in you, didn't you read the part where she is epileptic.
And she should use it as too to emotionally blackmail and manipulate him?
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Augustenite(m): 3:57pm On Jan 25, 2020
Logan95:
My people, Something really terrible just occurred now.

I have dated my girlfriend for about 6 months, she is the most open individual I've ever met... She has told me most of her secrets. She is a very beautiful and intelligent girl and what really made us thick is that I was there when she had seizures in the past.

To the issue, She answered a call today and I felt suspicious and I decided to confront her immediately, but as she was trying to explain, I cut in and acted with mistrust and accusations that I suspect cheating. This was a major catalyst and it triggered her seizure. I started apologizing immediately to calm her down, she passed out for some minutes after she tried to use her clothes to suffocate herself.

She woke up irritated and I asked her to explain what is happening in her social world. She said it was really nothing and that she feels I don't trust her that's why she reduced telling me personal stuff. That there is no connection between her and the guy.

She said she has forgiven me but she has to leave my house that moment. I asked that I drop her but she refused and packed her belongings that has been here. She later accepted that I'd drop her because I could not stand the shame of her going alone but my car battery decided to die and she eventually entered bike home.

She left by saying she needs space but I feel I've lost her because I'll be once guilty of inducing her seuzures.

Ladies and gentlemen, red pillers, kindly advice me on how to handle this issue.

N:B kindly put into consideration that she is really emotional and her peculiar challenge.

The girl na virgin?? Or na you tear her nylon?
If none of the two, abeg bros use your sense, she just dey play u like Ayo olopon. As she vex go, na big thing she go receive oo.
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Nnamebuka: 4:25pm On Jan 25, 2020
chigoizie7:


I do not know the name of the hospital. But she( my friend) said that anytime I am ready, that I should let her know that she will help me or even go with us. I am only waiting for my sisters last baby to be at least 3 or 4 years.

As for the amount, in the neighborhood of N6million or so, because they went back to India once after their 1st appointment where they spent close to 4 months or so,
Thanks for your quick response.
But pls could you ask him now for my sake?
Looking forward to hearing from you bro
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by frozen70(f): 5:37pm On Jan 25, 2020
RisenPhoenix:


Can you state truthfully that you have never ever fake cried, or exaggerated an illness or pretended some emotional breakdown just to manipulate a male member of your family or bf into doing something you want? If yes, then you must be an extreme outlier from the norm. Women do this routinely. It is their version of a child's tantrum. They jnow most men get scared at the sight of a woman crying or fainting.

Grow up pls

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Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by frozen70(f): 5:37pm On Jan 25, 2020
maasoap:


The guy asked a question, may be you didn't see it.

Ok
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by wizkidblogger(f): 5:38pm On Jan 25, 2020
opportunity for you to japa but you are here still asking yeye question. NEXT pls

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Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Snipper007: 5:39pm On Jan 25, 2020
OkikiOluwa1:
You v no balls to give advices here. Your advise is terrible & can break a union or home.
You need to be reasonable, careful & get required experience if possible before dishing out childish stereotyped advise to relationships.

Clap 4 urself, qualified relationship adviser.....zombie
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by odinga1of: 6:21pm On Jan 25, 2020
[quote author=Logan95 post=86066511]My people, Something really terrible just occurred now.

I have dated my girlfriend for about 6 months, she is the most open individual I've ever met... She has told me most of her secrets. She is a very beautiful and intelligent girl and what really made us thick is that I was there when she had seizures in the past.

To the issue, She answered a call today and I felt suspicious and I decided to confront her immediately, but as she was trying to explain, I cut in and acted with mistrust and accusations that I suspect cheating. This was a major catalyst and it triggered her seizure. I started apologizing immediately to calm her down, she passed out for some minutes after she tried to use her clothes to suffocate herself.

She woke up irritated and I asked her to explain what is happening in her social world. She said it was really nothing and that she feels I don't trust her that's why she reduced telling me personal stuff. That there is no connection between her and the guy.

She said she has forgiven me but she has to leave my house that moment. I asked that I drop her but she refused and packed her belongings that has been here. She later accepted that I'd drop her because I could not stand the shame of her going alone but my car battery decided to die and she eventually entered bike home.

She left by saying she needs space but I feel I've lost her because I'll be once guilty of inducing her seuzures.

Ladies and gentlemen, red pillers, kindly advice me on how to handle this issue.

N:B kindly put into consideration that she is really emotional and her peculiar challenge.



Oga your girl get epilepsy
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by odinga1of: 6:30pm On Jan 25, 2020
Logan95:
My people, Something really terrible just occurred now.

I have dated my girlfriend for about 6 months, she is the most open individual I've ever met... She has told me most of her secrets. She is a very beautiful and intelligent girl and what really made us thick is that I was there when she had seizures in the past.

To the issue, She answered a call today and I felt suspicious and I decided to confront her immediately, but as she was trying to explain, I cut in and acted with mistrust and accusations that I suspect cheating. This was a major catalyst and it triggered her seizure. I started apologizing immediately to calm her down, she passed out for some minutes after she tried to use her clothes to suffocate herself.

She woke up irritated and I asked her to explain what is happening in her social world. She said it was really nothing and that she feels I don't trust her that's why she reduced telling me personal stuff. That there is no connection between her and the guy.

She said she has forgiven me but she has to leave my house that moment. I asked that I drop her but she refused and packed her belongings that has been here. She later accepted that I'd drop her because I could not stand the shame of her going alone but my car battery decided to die and she eventually entered bike home.

She left by saying she needs space but I feel I've lost her because I'll be once guilty of inducing her seuzures.

Ladies and gentlemen, red pillers, kindly advice me on how to handle this issue.

N:B kindly put into consideration that she is really emotional and her peculiar challenge.


Bros we need to talk, personal talk, how can I get your digit? I am in the same situation.
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by chigoizie7(m): 6:34pm On Jan 25, 2020
Nnamebuka:

Thanks for your quick response.
But pls could you ask him now for my sake?
Looking forward to hearing from you bro

Please send me a dm. So that I can always see it on my mail
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Nobody: 6:34pm On Jan 25, 2020
Logan95:


I would have been stern if she hadn't passed out, I needed to give her the medication immediately to revive her. I also noticed that she loses interest in life (a symptom of epilepsy) and her condition reduces her self esteem regardless of how stunning she is.

My challenge now is that if she was OK mentally, I would have given her space and cut contact for now but for her I detest her being alone.

We once had an issue via chat and she told me not to attend her funeral... I sent my sister to her house without her knowledge and by the time she got there my girl was vibrating in her feet and palms.

The more reason you should flee before she implicates you with her suicide as murder.
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by odinga1of: 6:37pm On Jan 25, 2020
AWFCNAIJA:
@logan95 CBD oil would do a lot to help her condition. Quite expensive but worth the money spent. You don't want to continue to seat on a time bomb... Not when you can still detonate it.

Help restore her self esteem.

How much is CBD oil?
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Jegzman: 6:51pm On Jan 25, 2020
I don't comment on stuffz like dis.... But then Lots of relationship professors here... At d end of the day young man/old man b true to yourself, all dis advisers won't b dere to live ur relationship life for u... If u love d girl go for her she cheat or not it happens everywhere...there r still some honest girls out there... Don't let people tell u dey are all the same and then u believe and accept straight up... Nothing is 100% treat her well then observe if she reciprocate same... If u av d mindset all girls r cheat, no matter wat u will alwayz see ur girlfriend as a cheat... Relationship is wat it is no matter wat u do those that will cheat will cheat and those dat won't cheat won't cheat...
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by AfroKnight: 7:03pm On Jan 25, 2020
MrDoGood:


I don't know what to say........
But God bless you

Thanks, Amen.

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Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by AfroKnight: 7:06pm On Jan 25, 2020
positivevibez:
Bros you have a very mature brain and way of reasoning I learnt a lot from you I need this kind of mentality

Lol. Thank you boss.
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by AfroKnight: 7:06pm On Jan 25, 2020
Realtalk20:


I want to have an orgy with your brain till it births me three daughters

Damn this is a red Piller her


cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy abeg o.
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by yawehoverall: 7:40pm On Jan 25, 2020
keryj:
I'm still surprised at how people go about bringing their private life to the public for advice or judgment.

Now that most of them have end up twisting your mind on her honesty, i do hope you are happy, comfortable and at peace now.

Only you know your girl perfectly well, stop passing her to others who knows nothing about her for judgment.
Very wise! Comment
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by ultimate77(m): 7:45pm On Jan 25, 2020
Bola146:


Go to sambisa

Your are of the types that can't have an intelligent conversation with anyone without insults. I've gently responded to you expecting something sensible will come out of your mouth but I was wrong. Now... Go and never return.
Peace
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by samisj4real(m): 7:53pm On Jan 25, 2020
Logan95:
My people, Something really terrible just occurred now.

I have dated my girlfriend for about 6 months, she is the most open individual I've ever met... She has told me most of her secrets. She is a very beautiful and intelligent girl and what really made us thick is that I was there when she had seizures in the past.

To the issue, She answered a call today and I felt suspicious and I decided to confront her immediately, but as she was trying to explain, I cut in and acted with mistrust and accusations that I suspect cheating. This was a major catalyst and it triggered her seizure. I started apologizing immediately to calm her down, she passed out for some minutes after she tried to use her clothes to suffocate herself.

She woke up irritated and I asked her to explain what is happening in her social world. She said it was really nothing and that she feels I don't trust her that's why she reduced telling me personal stuff. That there is no connection between her and the guy.

She said she has forgiven me but she has to leave my house that moment. I asked that I drop her but she refused and packed her belongings that has been here. She later accepted that I'd drop her because I could not stand the shame of her going alone but my car battery decided to die and she eventually entered bike home.

She left by saying she needs space but I feel I've lost her because I'll be once guilty of inducing her seuzures.

Ladies and gentlemen, red pillers, kindly advice me on how to handle this issue.

N:B kindly put into consideration that she is really emotional and her peculiar challenge.

There are two things involved, if you have money she'll come back but if you don't she won't.
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by lizdammy: 8:02pm On Jan 25, 2020
odinga1of:


How much is CBD oil?
N30,000/bottle(500mg)
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by babyfaceafrica: 8:14pm On Jan 25, 2020
Tallesty1:
What in fvck's name did I just read?

A Nigerian girl in love is usually honest to a fault dude.
There is nothing like love
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by AWFCNAIJA: 8:38pm On Jan 25, 2020
odinga1of:


How much is CBD oil?

Anywhere from 30k and above for a 100ml bottle. However the price depends on the amount in (mg) of CBD contained in the bottle.

Something in the range of 750mg should do just fine. 2 - 3 drops a day applied sublingually should help.
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by HolyTitus(m): 8:44pm On Jan 25, 2020
Pro2makx:

grin
Na RPG?
shey RPG sef go fit penetrate you like this
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by Legendguru: 8:52pm On Jan 25, 2020
Go get her
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by ojonugba2014(m): 9:16pm On Jan 25, 2020
but what ar u stl doing with such girl? prison is real oo,a word is enough 4 d wise
Re: I Just Lost An Honest Girl. I Feel Really Dejected by friendl: 9:17pm On Jan 25, 2020
Once a girl received a call in your presence and she acts funny ,......obviously that is the guy .

Nigerian babes is the fear of wisdoms ,expect anything from then because those hoes ain't royal

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