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Hmm no future inlaw of mine will stop me from giving my daughter or even my adopted daughters their dream wedding...!

I will maintain the same stance if i were to be the groom. Does everything have to be about money?

Whenever you hear a lady say she wants an elabirate wedding, run away. She is expensive.
One day, one day, she will leave you for a richer guy even if the guy na womaniser.

tell him to watch this video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4WrurdNU4AE

Yxxx:
When I'm looking for good money to start business. These ones are seeing money and are confused. Oya give me till you decide how you wan plan wedding.

Oga, double your Hussle

Well, the guy should be ready for a show down after their small or big wedding... She's the type you'll buy Toyota Corolla for but want Venza and run to dad for Venza... You're seeing the sign now please, don't let it end like Sanda's story...

mezarddinny:
that man must be a fool. you wife's father wants to sponsor your wedding and you are angry? instead of you to pocket your money and let him spend his, invest your money well and when the gain comes, you will have your own respect and probably refund his money if you care to.


while some men are looking for a wife whose family can help their success you are forming strong head, don't you know that marrying into a rich family has more advantages than disadvantages? oh i think i get the kind of man he is, the one that wants his woman to worship the ground he walks on because of his money, since the wife is also from a rich family, he won't get that and he is insecure.


my brothers use your heads o, the rich are getting richer because they make smarter decisions, every decision they make is about how they can multiply their money, they don't let emotions or anything becloud their judgement, they must make money even if it is by letting their wife's family think lowly of them, once they make the money they are looking for, they challenge their in-laws and take back their respect. osinbajo married into an influential family but now he is the vice president and his in-laws cant say shit to him

you are naive.. Once he allows the parent to sponsor his wedding, he will have no say in the marriage.. He has to put his feet down now.. Or he will run into toxic waters in the future

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SangoOlukosoOba:
This is not a case at all.

Dude should walk away...


He doesn't need to be told that of he is sane. The fact alone that the lady can't stoop low at this level glaringly already spells doom ahead.


Better still, he can accept and use the lady do money rituals after wedding. Proceeds from it can be used to marry his dream wife and afford a big wedding

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shatap

Another one.

ProtectMyMoney:
Lets imagine bride's father is Otedola, definitely he will want to invite his friends Dangote, Tony Elumelu etc to grace the wedding...he will not want to be seen below standard.

Are you going to say Otedola should not sponsor his daughter's wedding?

OP, find a middle ground if bride's father wants to sponsor, let him go ahead.

It is the marriage that is the most important, not wedding day.

sense will not kill u.....nice. when i was preparing for mine, the wife father said he would bring live band n buy all the beer,,,,,...gbogbo brand.

bamangar:
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I was talking with a friend few days back and he said anytime I'm ready to get married, I shouldn't marry any woman from a very rich family with so much attachment to her family. I asked why, he began narrating his wedding journey ordeal.
He's about to wed his woman. He only has N4m but intends spending N150 (court wedding and then feeding the 50 guests they are inviting. Then use N2m for honeymoon in Dubai. But bride no gree. She wants a big wedding.

Upcoming wife said either a big wedding or nothing. And her estimate for the big wedding is N5m.
Upcoming wife said if my guy can't bring out money for the big wedding, she would meet her dad for support. Well, she came from a rich family, her dad will be willing to roll out the cash. But my guy has refused. It would be a crash and dent on his image for upcomingwife to request money from her dad for their wedding.
Few closed family & friends had asked him to yield to up-coming wife's demands for her dad to sponsor the wedding. But my guy said from inception of the relationship, any slightest challenges, she always runs to her dad for solutions and he doesn't like it. He wants to start limiting her going to her parents to seek for solutions to every problems they have.

The girls parents are willing to foot wedding bills just to give their daughter her dream wedding. My guy has refused. Wedding preparations is on hold. My guy no gree, upcoming wife and her rich family no gree.

https://mobile.twitter.com/The_Onismate/status/1222036512394620928

Especially if She is UGLY!!! They will also think you there for the money or influence.

You won’t see their true character until you’re married.

SangoOlukosoOba:
This is not a case at all.

Dude should walk away...


He doesn't need to be told that of he is sane. The fact alone that the lady can't stoop low at this level glaringly already spells doom ahead.


Better still, he can accept and use the lady do money rituals after wedding. Proceeds from it can be used to marry his dream wife and afford a big wedding

God is about to punish you with this your thoughts of money ritual!

ProtectMyMoney:
Lets imagine bride's father is Otedola, definitely he will want to invite his friends Dangote, Tony Elumelu etc to grace the wedding...he will not want to be seen below standard.

Are you going to say Otedola should not sponsor his daughter's wedding?

OP, find a middle ground if bride's father wants to sponsor, let him go ahead.

It is the marriage that is the most important, not wedding day.

lolz.. You have a point though... But the guy should not move an inch from his take.... He should spend what he has not someone

Only if all men can be like my future husband, there won't be need for a house help.

See future boo,
On Saturdays I know as a business man you can take the day off for family business's sake.
First I prepare breakfast we all eat and get ready for the day's hassle.

I will be in the kitchen cooking lunch.
You will be mopping the floors and tidying our space while the kids will be outside the compound playing,
After that,

You go bath the kids and stay with them while i run a little laundry cos we must have a washing machine so everything will be easy going,

When we are done with house chores..
We can all sleep and rest from the day's hassle and probably perform our marital duty to each other(my favorite part�)..

Some Sundays you can hangout with your friends and do boy's things...
Some Sundays too it would be my turn to leave you with the kids and hangout with my friends and do girls things..
Other Sundays it would be family outing..

On school days
While I wake up to go prepare breakfast and what the kids will take to school,
You are up too bathing the kids and preparing them for school.
Either you or me can DRIVE the kids to school.

While we do this together, the love,the fire and bond in our Union will never quench �.

Oh, of course we both would be earning in our various businesses or job and be bringing money home for our family's welfare...

Other men,
You see why you should all be like my future husband? You see??

To avoid assumed stories of the so called possessed wicked house helps

I come in peace..
Thanks�

Davash222:
Upcoming husband is a mumu man!
You have 4M and you want to use 2M for honeymoon
Upcoming wife fit no be virgin and you want to spent 2M for honeymoon.
You want low key wedding but high class honeymoon. Didirin!

Very useless, confused, senseless broke boy trying to marry a rich girl, foolish boy, the father of the girl should call off the wedding!!

Both the person that want to spend 150k for court wedding plus another N2m for honey moon and the yeye fiancee that says never, it's either you give me N5m for wedding or I collect the N5m from my daddy are very stupid.

Mariangeles:
God is about to punish you with this your thoughts of money ritual!

Okay

Marrying a lady from a rich home is like inviting the devil over for a dinner...

Best is to grow together with your partner.

Meanwhile,


A 2bedroom flat is available in Shasha, Akowonjo, Lagos. Interested person(s) should check my signature for contact for more info.

But big wedding do you mean 50m or 5m I think 5m won’t throw a big wedding an average wedding at most or a big wedding with probably 50-100 guests food and drinks alone would swallow at least 5m for a proper big wedding not to talk all the other expenses that would make the wedding lit and come together!

Na pride Dey kill the man. Which marriage he wan do for Nigeria 2m then Dubai for another 2m ? Na the guy first tell the girl say his equal to her dad. Tell the guy to start the journey he started. You nor get money you Dey form for what? Every woman has pride. Understand the foundation of a woman before you start to sharp her. Pikin well nor know how to drink garri then your condition bring am down and she get papa to help her and your pride say no? The guy na bad lock. Wether only you as man build house you can never claim both landlord and landlady

Lol

Look at their problem. Hmm they are both not ready for marriage, if this simple question of comprehension and understanding between them is causing unnecessary.

How will they cope with the other serious main issues in marriage. Lmao

Naanlong01:
I will maintain the same stance if i were to be the groom. Does everything have to be about money?

Yes.
Marry within your class and save yourself the headache.

And then

Davash222:
Upcoming husband is a mumu man!
You have 4M and you want to use 2M for honeymoon
Upcoming wife fit no be virgin and you want to spent 2M for honeymoon.
You want low key wedding but high class honeymoon. Didirin!

the guy is an ediott unless the story isn't true.

I will keep your medal till I find you somehow!

"You want low key wedding but high class honeymoon. Didirin' - Evidence of his Didiriness and Gorsiousness. Omogor raised to the power of 2

Davash222:
Upcoming husband is a mumu man!
You have 4M and you want to use 2M for honeymoon
Upcoming wife fit no be virgin and you want to spent 2M for honeymoon.
You want low key wedding but high class honeymoon. Didirin!

lavylilly:
Only if all men can be like my future husband, there won't be need for a house help.

See future boo,
On Saturdays I know as a business man you can take the day off for family business's sake.
First I prepare breakfast we all eat and get ready for the day's hassle.

I will be in the kitchen cooking lunch.
You will be mopping the floors and tidying our space while the kids will be outside the compound playing,
After that,

You go bath the kids and stay with them while i run a little laundry cos we must have a washing machine so everything will be easy going,

When we are done with house chores..
We can all sleep and rest from the day's hassle and probably perform our marital duty to each other(my favorite part�)..

Some Sundays you can hangout with your friends and do boy's things...
Some Sundays too it would be my turn to leave you with the kids and hangout with my friends and do girls things..
Other Sundays it would be family outing..

On school days
While I wake up to go prepare breakfast and what the kids will take to school,
You are up too bathing the kids and preparing them for school.
Either you or me can DRIVE the kids to school.

While we do this together, the love,the fire and bond in our Union will never quench �.

Oh, of course we both would be earning in our various businesses or job and be bringing money home for our family's welfare...

Other men,
You see why you should all be like my future husband? You see??

To avoid assumed stories of the so called possessed wicked house helps

I come in peace..
Thanks�

For how long do you intend to make your husband be like this??
Maximum 2 years, his eyes will be opened!!!

Hmm��