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Lamanii22:
Hehehehehe... Abroad has grade oo... Which country first.. Tell me..

Afghanistan

This is what happens when a woman is broke.

Don't be a broke b*tch.

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solmus:
with many kids atleast one would care for you in old age except they all hate you with their mom

Haa many kids ke?

What is the original title of the Movie

MusaChukwudi:
Haa many kids ke?

4 or 5 is many in current Nigeria

Money can buy true love
She is nt in lv wit u
Mind u,she is for ur money
If u can mange dis situation and try her for another 1yr no changes
Pls move on
Stop d excess money gift shit
U r makin it worst
U ve to do at aleast 1yr courtship wit a lady bfor marriage
This is my general advise to singles

Viking007:
Akinnubi Lawrence. Come with your mother to get the 10 odds.

its normal..nothing special about it...but your own case is abnormal.. You don't want progress for your fellow punters, you collide with crysboss not to post 10 odd on the forum becos of selfish and private need... You go ahead to form private group...bro u need to stop all this attitude and grow up or u will end in regret in December 2020

Sijo01:
Op's wife was two months pregnant in 2017 and was planning of having her deliver the baby in US and return back home!

Now, his wife is 3 weeks pregnant and he got married to her just a month ago!

Somebody solve the equation above.

Where did you get the above info?

solmus:
4 or 5 is many in current Nigeria

2 is the optimum for a poor corruption ridden country like Nija.

COWBOYFAN:
Hello Ladies and Gentlemen

I just had a traditional wedding earlier this month. I'm not based in Nigeria. I provided all the finances for the wedding before I arrived Lagos. Everything listed to be bought for the wedding I provided all. To my surprise wedding that was suppose to take place in a hall had to take place in a cramped sitting room. No food, no drinks, no DJ etc. What did they use the funds for? I don't know. I asked questions and no answers given. To be fair to her family members, I didn't give money directly to her parents or siblings. I gave the funds to my wife to be.

Surprisingly on the day of the small wedding, her uncle was accusing me of not providing money to organize the wedding properly. My heart sank. I look in the direction of my wife to be and couldn't believe what just came out of her uncle's mouth. Whereas I provided money for everything. The wedding prayers went ahead and we were joined together.

After the dry wedding ceremony I began to ask questions but my new wife couldn't give me explanation. Fast forward to last week I was looking for money I kept in my drawer and couldn't find it. I decided to just keep quiet and watch. I set another trap. I had some US Dollars in my wallet and exposed the money for her to see. I went to the shower and lo and behold my new wife removed the dollars from my wallet. I got dressed after shower and we went outside to go somewhere together as my driver was in the car waiting. As we were going, I opened my wallet and saw the dollars gone. I blew a whistle right there and she denied it. I asked driver to return home. I had my parent and siblings at home on that day but I can bet my life on them. I told them what's going on. My new wife was all over the place and shaken. I refused to talk to her. I confided in my mother and explained how I set the trap for my wife. Surprisingly my wife started making moves. She planted the money all over the place which I saw as she was doing. I pretended I didn't see her. I refused to talk to her. All of a sudden she confronted me and attacked me that I suspected her to be the one who stole my money. She started saying she stoop so low to allow herself to be ridiculed in the presence of my family. I confronted her with evidence and she began crying and blaming devil. She has done series of money infractions that I couldn't list here. She fights me for money on daily basis since we got married. No money ever enough.

This is a woman that I gave a car to already and spent so much on to be comfortable. I just bought her another car to be given to her on her birthday. On the day she stole the dollars I had just given her 100,000 naira pocket money for the week. She's been crying and begging for two days saying it won't happen again. She has refused to eat.

Here is the bombshell I just confirmed she's now three weeks pregnant. I can't trust my life with her at this juncture. I'm leaning towards divorce. I'm too scared to be with her. She's too greedy.

Divorce You didnt marry na. Just go and collect your bride price and forget the woman. After the baby is born, MAKE SURE u do dna test cos i dont think u are d owner of d baby. And u need a special spiritual delivery session cos she wont let u go easily. You are her bank and office

you married a thief and i am very sure she is also an olosho, a gold digger and harden thief...run for your life and push her off her character stinks

� 100k pocket money aunty is greedy oh

� 100k pocket money aunty Why na?

COWBOYFAN:
Hello Ladies and Gentlemen

I just had a traditional wedding earlier this month. I'm not based in Nigeria. I provided all the finances for the wedding before I arrived Lagos. Everything listed to be bought for the wedding I provided all. To my surprise wedding that was suppose to take place in a hall had to take place in a cramped sitting room. No food, no drinks, no DJ etc. What did they use the funds for? I don't know. I asked questions and no answers given. To be fair to her family members, I didn't give money directly to her parents or siblings. I gave the funds to my wife to be.

Surprisingly on the day of the small wedding, her uncle was accusing me of not providing money to organize the wedding properly. My heart sank. I look in the direction of my wife to be and couldn't believe what just came out of her uncle's mouth. Whereas I provided money for everything. The wedding prayers went ahead and we were joined together.

After the dry wedding ceremony I began to ask questions but my new wife couldn't give me explanation. Fast forward to last week I was looking for money I kept in my drawer and couldn't find it. I decided to just keep quiet and watch. I set another trap. I had some US Dollars in my wallet and exposed the money for her to see. I went to the shower and lo and behold my new wife removed the dollars from my wallet. I got dressed after shower and we went outside to go somewhere together as my driver was in the car waiting. As we were going, I opened my wallet and saw the dollars gone. I blew a whistle right there and she denied it. I asked driver to return home. I had my parent and siblings at home on that day but I can bet my life on them. I told them what's going on. My new wife was all over the place and shaken. I refused to talk to her. I confided in my mother and explained how I set the trap for my wife. Surprisingly my wife started making moves. She planted the money all over the place which I saw as she was doing. I pretended I didn't see her. I refused to talk to her. All of a sudden she confronted me and attacked me that I suspected her to be the one who stole my money. She started saying she stoop so low to allow herself to be ridiculed in the presence of my family. I confronted her with evidence and she began crying and blaming devil. She has done series of money infractions that I couldn't list here. She fights me for money on daily basis since we got married. No money ever enough.

This is a woman that I gave a car to already and spent so much on to be comfortable. I just bought her another car to be given to her on her birthday. On the day she stole the dollars I had just given her 100,000 naira pocket money for the week. She's been crying and begging for two days saying it won't happen again. She has refused to eat.

Here is the bombshell I just confirmed she's now three weeks pregnant. I can't trust my life with her at this juncture. I'm leaning towards divorce. I'm too scared to be with her. She's too greedy.

is this ur second wife? In 2017 u talked on a wife.

why would jump into this kind of marriage?? you no try. did you do court wedding? I think you should lick your wounds o cux e don be for you. pray she changes and doesn't kill you one day for your money when she feels you've outlived your usefulness. dumbass people jumping into marriages upandan

A thief would lie and cheat

So sorry bro.. ur rely on a dificut situation here.
If you take good care of her and she still pilfer's. then know she's not into you, she has a plan to reck you and milk you dry for her personal gain..

My little questions for you is, if this woman can do all these things to you withing this few days/month! what makes you think the pregnancy is yours to start with??

How are you sure she dosen't have a boyfriend outside wedlock??

Or what make you think the pregnancy thing is not audio pregnancy to hold you back??
cos she feel All her antics has been exposed which will start raising quetioins.

Be smart sir!!! That's my little word of advise for you..

Lamanii22:
Hmmm... Where/how do people meet or find abroad husband lol..

Have you ever met this lady in person before?

Kudi klepto.

God will give you the wisdom to handle this issue.

Run for your life.

[quote author=asatemple post=86278587][/quote]That's another point to look at it from.
It's a possibility, Though we can't just conclude

poshestmina:
Greediness.

I'm sorry but very soon she might kill you to acquire your properties.

God forbid ! Once money stops flowing in ,she won't even wait a sec before running (with your kids too).

How can you marry someone you really never dated?
Beats my imagination!!!

Odiegwu ,this one na Hook up marriage.

That's the mistake we must men do when it's time to settle down, for me Ooooo the marriage is dead I will take care of her till she give birth after that I take full custody of my baby cos she cant infest my child with her greed

Woman like this will kill you for your properties if she knows your assets/worth. So while you're sleeping, sleep with one eyes closed

IF YOU WANT TO LIVE LONG DIVORCE HER ASAP AND DON'T THINK TWICE.

Assurance001:
Greediness of the highest order! For the sake of your unborn child give her one more chance but don't forget to punish her by reducing her pocket money. Get a family doctor that you trust and remit her antenatal fees. While some of us are here sourcing for fund to acquire skills she's abusing her opportunity
Mtchewwww

How much do you need?

COWBOYFAN:
Hello Ladies and Gentlemen

I just had a traditional wedding earlier this month. I'm not based in Nigeria. I provided all the finances for the wedding before I arrived Lagos. Everything listed to be bought for the wedding I provided all. To my surprise wedding that was suppose to take place in a hall had to take place in a cramped sitting room. No food, no drinks, no DJ etc. What did they use the funds for? I don't know. I asked questions and no answers given. To be fair to her family members, I didn't give money directly to her parents or siblings. I gave the funds to my wife to be.

Surprisingly on the day of the small wedding, her uncle was accusing me of not providing money to organize the wedding properly. My heart sank. I look in the direction of my wife to be and couldn't believe what just came out of her uncle's mouth. Whereas I provided money for everything. The wedding prayers went ahead and we were joined together.

After the dry wedding ceremony I began to ask questions but my new wife couldn't give me explanation. Fast forward to last week I was looking for money I kept in my drawer and couldn't find it. I decided to just keep quiet and watch. I set another trap. I had some US Dollars in my wallet and exposed the money for her to see. I went to the shower and lo and behold my new wife removed the dollars from my wallet. I got dressed after shower and we went outside to go somewhere together as my driver was in the car waiting. As we were going, I opened my wallet and saw the dollars gone. I blew a whistle right there and she denied it. I asked driver to return home. I had my parent and siblings at home on that day but I can bet my life on them. I told them what's going on. My new wife was all over the place and shaken. I refused to talk to her. I confided in my mother and explained how I set the trap for my wife. Surprisingly my wife started making moves. She planted the money all over the place which I saw as she was doing. I pretended I didn't see her. I refused to talk to her. All of a sudden she confronted me and attacked me that I suspected her to be the one who stole my money. She started saying she stoop so low to allow herself to be ridiculed in the presence of my family. I confronted her with evidence and she began crying and blaming devil. She has done series of money infractions that I couldn't list here. She fights me for money on daily basis since we got married. No money ever enough.

This is a woman that I gave a car to already and spent so much on to be comfortable. I just bought her another car to be given to her on her birthday. On the day she stole the dollars I had just given her 100,000 naira pocket money for the week. She's been crying and begging for two days saying it won't happen again. She has refused to eat.

Here is the bombshell I just confirmed she's now three weeks pregnant. I can't trust my life with her at this juncture. I'm leaning towards divorce. I'm too scared to be with her. She's too greedy.

To live with a dishonest person is the worst place to be. Unfortunately you didn't really know her before now. What if she is funding someone with your money? What if the pregnancy isn't yours? Does she love you cos you are abroad?
Guy shine your eye before it's too late.
Also ensure your safety is guaranteed while you're in naija. Above all, don't be moved by crocodile tears, let wisdom lead.