yeman1:


I told her to but she didnt clean it very well.. so i have to detol and soap to mop d whole house .

Yuck...

sheriffindy:
Nairaland..A safe haven for wannabees, pretenders and hypocrites. everybody flexing their lizard muscles.

You got the memo but I felt nobody should be taken serious here except for some few sane minds..

ireneidiva:

Cooking what you will eat and cleaning your baby up is helping your partner? Smh

Yup. That isn't my duty but If situation on ground calls for it, How is that a bad thing? Like she's not so healthy or heavily pregnant... Are u sure that u are a female?..Was only responding to her based on what she's asking..

seunfly:



I was crying reading this, you are so insensitive to ur brother. For a man to leave his home and moved his whole family to a relatives/friend's house means a very rough time has hit him which could happen to anybody. You don't have to accommodate him, but the least you can do was to support him in the best way you can.

It is always easy to be judgmental especially since you are not the one that wears the shoe and you could always take the easy stand. Good morning.

J111333:
Mee too reason with her small as per the bolded but hey, you're the man.

Me even if my father comes to see me... If he say 4 days, it should be 4 day or at most 5 days. If it pass that time, I will ask him to move out. They know me at home. If you tell me it is 1 year, it should be 1 year

Budline1:


Yup. That isn't my duty but If situation on ground calls for it, How is that a bad thing? Like she's not so healthy or heavily pregnant... Are u sure that u are a female?..Was only responding to her based on what she's asking..

What has my gender got to do with it? Nigerian men. So its her duty? These are normal things people do in their homes. Like in the west you said. It is nobody's duty. When you do it, it is normal and not 'helping'.

Gave me unexpected sex, even when she is on her monthly period......

ireneidiva:

What has my gender got to do with it? Nigerian men. So its her duty? These are normal things people do in their homes. Like in the west you said. It is nobody's duty. When you do it, it is normal and not 'helping'.

So what do you want me to say now? You sounded like you were criticizing the act in your first mention now. You trolling me? Lol

Budline1:


So what do you want me to say now? You sounded like you were criticizing the act in your first mention now. You trolling me? Lol

I just have a problem with the word 'help'. Its a normal thing to do. You are not helping by doing it.

Fumiex:
UNIBEN

u don't mind if I communicate with you through calls

balqe:

My mum gave her serious warning then she left the next day(she was supposed to stay for a week)

Na wa oh, things dey happen.

Realfrankie:



Lol
She's no longer with me. She stayed up to three months,and the annoying part was that she brought 2 of her friends to join us

Lol, I dont agree with that one o

I wonder why girls bring their friends to their mans house, it sounds totally ridiculous to me

thundafire:
u don't mind if I communicate with you through calls

alright. maybe u should drop ur number

nuelsam:
She gave a loud fart right beside me.

Niceeeee

No be coward matter ooo bro. The babe na my tribal guy fiancee oo and he's also my colleague at work. The babe ceased the opportunity of his movement to another state on special assignment and started visiting me. How was I to know what was on her mind until that day she told me?

Frankicent:




Lol coward... Have lost so opportunities like that too

ViykeNairaland:
...for your mind now you be better brother....you never marry dey live for duplex for Abuja....I'm sure that your wedding na make all man see sey you don arrive....your elder brother with him wife and children dey for your one room wey I can bet your gate man only dey occupy...the pant na just excuse to pursue am. No dey call the man your BROTHER....you no know wetin e mean! Imagine this nonsense....Your brother disparing situation na him you come dey showcase for social media! Devil purnish you dia! Na your type wife go turn to vegitable no body go come help! Monkey man. Your time dey come!

What are you saying Oga? It's obvious you're a person that would rather dump his problems on another instead of sorting it out. The guy in question just married! The insensitive brother should be a man and hustle for his family. No one has it easy.

Nigerians and their entitlement mentality sef .

Kingrexyl:
It wasn't my official sim card that's why I broke it, thank God I didn't give her my main line people know me with.

okay

merahki:



I don’t think I would like your kind of person
You were unkind and seem to not have empathy

He just got married naaa. Guy has obviously spent plenty money. Plus, it's insensitivity to bring your entire family to a newly wedded man's house.

What if he wasn't in Nigeria? Would his brother not have found a way?

Fumiex:
had this roommate. the boyfriend comes as early as 6am in the morning and leaves 9pm in the night because we usually lock our lodge gate by 9pm. the 8 months I stayed with her was like a torment. no privacy. I had no option than to dress inside the room coz her boyfriend was always around, still they couldn't get the signal. if u know u want to live long, don't ever get a rommie.

Looooool. Ikr. I have learnt too o

Fumiex:
alright. maybe u should drop ur number

09025196278

esthy86:
this can't be true....... my ribs

so true babe

Martinez39s:
My cousin, a female, paid me a visit alongside her mum. When they arrived, I was sleeping. Surprisingly, my cousin, with her fairly big ass, came into the room where I was sleeping, sat on me, and started handling and plucking the hairs on my leg.

When I woke up, I was like "wtf?" within me.

This isn't too weird now, I enjoy things like this.

I feel more comfortable and relaxed that way when my hair is being touched, but I equally understand your scepticism.

Modified!

dayleke:

Ere ki l'aja n ba ekun se?

Abi o..

realokopi:
No be coward matter ooo bro. The babe na my tribal guy fiancee oo and he's also my colleague at work. The babe ceased the opportunity of his movement to another state on special assignment and started visiting me. How was I to know what was on her mind until that day she told me?

Eh now you don know.. Babe come your place even enter your home more than once... You no try flirt with her or sweet mouth her.... Now you don know bi.

realokopi:
No be coward matter ooo bro. The babe na my tribal guy fiancee oo and he's also my colleague at work. The babe ceased the opportunity of his movement to another state on special assignment and started visiting me. How was I to know what was on her mind until that day she told me?

Eh now you don know.. Babe come your place even enter your home more than once... You no try flirt with her or sweet mouth her.... Now you don know bi.. I sure say she god don give you sign tire.. You go dey reason my broda babe... Weldon Sir

midnighter:


Lol, I dont agree with that one o

I wonder why girls bring their friends to their mans house, it sounds totally ridiculous to me

You see
That's insanity

Mine was my third year in school

A random friend from home came to visit, spent 3k from warri to my school only to give me tits to and lips to suck but wont let me knack. After staying 2days and eating all my food, she still resisted, I feigned a call from home that my grandma was sick and i needed to travel to the village.

We were prepared to travel different routes, I put her on a bike first, went back and unpacked my bag, she called if I have reached I told her yes

Nonsense!

cassyrooy:
This isn't too weird now, I end things like this.

I feel more comfortable and relaxed that way, but I equally understand your scepticism.

I really don't understand what you are saying.

Martinez39s:
I really don't understand what you are saying.

I've modified my earlier message.

cassyrooy:
I've modified my earlier message.

I actually enjoyed it but from her, it was totally unexpected.

pek:
It is always easy to be judgmental especially since you are not the one that wears the shoe and you could always take the easy stand. Good morning.

bro I followed this thread from page one and I must say your attitude towards your brother wasn't right at all!!!
I have a cousin who was seriously in need to the extend that he came to stay with me in school with his fiancé. I was a student and struggled so hard to take care of them for 2yrs. Almost everyone in my hostel asked me to send them away but I didn't. After about 2yrs of staying with me, he got a contract as a ship cleaner.
last year December after my call to bar, he called me and said he has something 'small' for me, and asked me to send my account details. Like a dream, this guy transferred 4million naira to my account(an amount I have never made in my entire life). I was dumbfounded!! I cried when he reminded me of the sacrifices I made when he and his fiancé were staying with me in school!