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Re: My Girlfriend Is Being Forced Into Marriage by Duru009(m): 9:52am On Feb 07, 2020
Nairaland has finally turn to teenages forum

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Being Forced Into Marriage by SoftP(m): 9:52am On Feb 07, 2020
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Re: My Girlfriend Is Being Forced Into Marriage by chukwuibuipob: 9:53am On Feb 07, 2020
sad U can't change Northern lifestyle. .Marriage is for Adult not teens.@19,u still have a long way to go.Focus on ur acada/work NOT fighting ova a GF..Talk to ur GF to obey/respect her father.If she commit suicide,i'm sure u'lk marry sumbody else. FREE hee biko

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Being Forced Into Marriage by Handsomecole(m): 9:53am On Feb 07, 2020
You are very usless for this your comment . Shameless pedophile.
Quality20:
in Islam parents are highly responsible for their children and wards under them. Pls allow the man do as he please, he isn't going to hurt his daughter. she is under his care and will account for her on judgement day. Pls don't spoil another man's family, u are only a random boyfriend who might eventually use,dump n spoil d innocent girls life.
I'm myself dating a Hausa lady and I know n accept that the father can chose to marry her out to any man he wish and I can't question that. Even though I love her, I'm not going to tell her to rebel against her parents. I repeat, don't spoil things for other ppl, u r not responsible for this girl and u can't change that. Cultures vary a lot, u can't impose ur cultural views on others

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Being Forced Into Marriage by TriCee: 9:53am On Feb 07, 2020
Making money is paramount in this life.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Being Forced Into Marriage by chiemmanuel(m): 9:53am On Feb 07, 2020
It is your girlfriend that should be doing this, not you
Re: My Girlfriend Is Being Forced Into Marriage by solmus: 9:53am On Feb 07, 2020
You think any father would be foolish enough to let his daughter get unwanted pregnancy doing boyfriend girlfriend when he can legally marry her off

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Being Forced Into Marriage by Johnwick64: 9:54am On Feb 07, 2020
don't u watch American films on d wedding day go there with power bike nd elope with her

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Being Forced Into Marriage by Nobody: 9:55am On Feb 07, 2020
Leave woman and face your life.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Being Forced Into Marriage by Topsin4great(m): 9:55am On Feb 07, 2020
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Re: My Girlfriend Is Being Forced Into Marriage by logon599: 9:55am On Feb 07, 2020
Report to the police, let them forward it to human rights organization. This is akin to human trafficking
Re: My Girlfriend Is Being Forced Into Marriage by Nobody: 9:58am On Feb 07, 2020
Are you willing to take over the financial and emotional responsibilities of marriage? If you are not ready and just want to play love love for ten more years like in Kannywood, then let her be. When you are ready, you will find another lady to marry. If you are ready, take your family to her father's house and propose yourself; showing him your readiness. If she is adamant about marrying you, her father will likely accept. He probably just wants the daughter out of his house and into a married home.

Good luck.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Being Forced Into Marriage by simplepee(f): 9:58am On Feb 07, 2020
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Re: My Girlfriend Is Being Forced Into Marriage by Nobody: 9:59am On Feb 07, 2020
Forced17:

I know but about what you're thinking
we don't go close to it

Report to the ministry of women affairs.

Or contact NAPTIP the agency against child and women trafficking ASAP.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Being Forced Into Marriage by JosephXavier: 9:59am On Feb 07, 2020
All this Muslims nawaa o
I thought your ladies are modest and wear hijab to cover themselves but they are only covering their sins. You all practice hypocrite as religion
Repent and give your life to Christ before his wrath descend on you

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Being Forced Into Marriage by Nobody: 9:59am On Feb 07, 2020
Awon Kiddo
Re: My Girlfriend Is Being Forced Into Marriage by michoim(m): 10:00am On Feb 07, 2020
You are spoilt. You need thorough moral upbringing. At this age, instead of you to face your studies you are busy pursuing woman...

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Being Forced Into Marriage by Mummymahdi(f): 10:00am On Feb 07, 2020
Davash222:

No, she’ll account for herself on judgement day. Life na per head.


Exactly
Each person account for himself on that day
Re: My Girlfriend Is Being Forced Into Marriage by Osidazz19: 10:00am On Feb 07, 2020
Quality20:
in Islam parents are highly responsible for their children and wards under them. Pls allow the man do as he please, he isn't going to hurt his daughter. she is under his care and will account for her on judgement day. Pls don't spoil another man's family, u are only a random boyfriend who might eventually use,dump n spoil d innocent girls life.
I'm myself dating a Hausa lady and I know n accept that the father can chose to marry her out to any man he wish and I can't question that. Even though I love her, I'm not going to tell her to rebel against her parents. I repeat, don't spoil things for other ppl, u r not responsible for this girl and u can't change that. Cultures vary a lot, u can't impose ur cultural views on others

No one should be forced into any relationship. We don't have to follow everything that was done back in the old days. People don't walk to Mecca anymore more hence some old attitudes and rationals also have to be jettisoned. I will guide my children with good advise on who they should marry but I will never force them to marry against their wishes.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Being Forced Into Marriage by BlueAir: 10:01am On Feb 07, 2020
All these trashes just to try and showcase stupidity and primitive ness[s][/s]
Quality20:
in Islam parents are highly responsible for their children and wards under them. Pls allow the man do as he please, he isn't going to hurt his daughter. she is under his care and will account for her on judgement day. Pls don't spoil another man's family, u are only a random boyfriend who might eventually use,dump n spoil d innocent girls life.
I'm myself dating a Hausa lady and I know n accept that the father can chose to marry her out to any man he wish and I can't question that. Even though I love her, I'm not going to tell her to rebel against her parents. I repeat, don't spoil things for other ppl, u r not responsible for this girl and u can't change that. Cultures vary a lot, u can't impose ur cultural views on others[s][/s]

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Being Forced Into Marriage by Tonyspecial(m): 10:01am On Feb 07, 2020
Young children of these days eeh
Re: My Girlfriend Is Being Forced Into Marriage by Slimdan360: 10:02am On Feb 07, 2020
Quality20:
in Islam parents are highly responsible for their children and wards under them. Pls allow the man do as he please, he isn't going to hurt his daughter. she is under his care and will account for her on judgement day. Pls don't spoil another man's family, u are only a random boyfriend who might eventually use,dump n spoil d innocent girls life.
I'm myself dating a Hausa lady and I know n accept that the father can chose to marry her out to any man he wish and I can't question that. Even though I love her, I'm not going to tell her to rebel against her parents. I repeat, don't spoil things for other ppl, u r not responsible for this girl and u can't change that. Cultures vary a lot, u can't impose ur cultural views on others
U must be really wicked,cos it's not ur family does not mean u should turn a blind eye to underage marriage

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Being Forced Into Marriage by BlueAir: 10:02am On Feb 07, 2020
Or legally sell her off.didnt u read that shes depressed?? angry this thread is crawling with pedophiles and sympathizers
solmus:
You think any father would be foolish enough to let his daughter get unwanted pregnancy doing boyfriend girlfriend when he can legally marry her off

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Being Forced Into Marriage by Nobody: 10:03am On Feb 07, 2020
JosephXavier:
All this Muslims nawaa o
I thought your ladies are modest and wear hijab to cover themselves but they are only covering their sins. You all practice hypocrite as religion
Repent and give your life to Christ before his wrath descend on you
Read what he said, she's not Muslim

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Being Forced Into Marriage by Springsdy456958(m): 10:04am On Feb 07, 2020
Contact them Asap I hope this helps.. Send an Email or make a direct call and explain in detail.... Do well to hide your identity by keeping yourself anonymous.... Best of luck.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Being Forced Into Marriage by Mummymahdi(f): 10:05am On Feb 07, 2020
I need to flog u 2 for this. Will ur parent be happy of what u are doing? Allow d girl to take action not just random small cingum boy like u; at 19 u are trying to scatter another person life? Had it been u are a man that can take responsibility of marriage I would suggest u push to marry her
Back off boy

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Being Forced Into Marriage by ScotMisile: 10:05am On Feb 07, 2020
Dating at that age is a crime in itself....

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Being Forced Into Marriage by bonnyhope: 10:05am On Feb 07, 2020
Forced17:
Good morning Nairalanders

This has been eating me up for days. Me and this girl have been together for 3 years now, she's 17 and I'm 19.

I accept all bashings for being in a relationship at this age, she's the last born though and we perfectly understand each other.

Now her father is forcing her to marry a man in Kaduna, she refused and the father threatened to throw her and her siblings including the mum out into the streets or send them to the village if she doesn't marry the man.

Now she hasn't even for days now and she's contemplating on taking her life and she just told me about this yesterday and this has brought me down so much. I don't know what to do, I need help. This is about her future, I don't want her to be forced to become a mother at 17 and living under a man she doesn't know.

She has only three weeks before the man comes to take her away.
My girlfriend is being sold into marriage and I don't know what to do.

I need help, I'm heartbroken��
I don't know who can help me push this to front page

You should be arrested for being going out with under age girl

You claim you love her because she is giving you sex and now you are in pain because she want to legalise her sex life with another man who can take care of her

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Being Forced Into Marriage by Solidkay(m): 10:05am On Feb 07, 2020
As for your supposed girlfriend's father, he should be jailed.
And as for you
Have you gotten your UTME form.

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Being Forced Into Marriage by drey076(m): 10:06am On Feb 07, 2020
you girl friend father has sold her into marriage, there is nothing you can do except you will marry her and her whole family will move into your house

take heart bro

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Re: My Girlfriend Is Being Forced Into Marriage by Tonyspecial(m): 10:06am On Feb 07, 2020
thorpido:
Nonsense.What of the girl's rights?
u dey mind that aboki?

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