what a weird situation


you've been enjoying her pussy since she was 14yrs without paying any price and you want a parent who trained a child not to rather marry her off since they know she had become olosho at early age?

I'm sure her dad must be aware of her wayward life, what should a 14yrs old lady be doing in relationship? even at 17 she should still be talking about friendship/date and not relationship


your heart broken because no girl might give out the pussy as she had been doing for 3yrs but unfortunately for you her father has the final say as she's a minor


no be today northerners dey marry their daughter off, whether they're Christian/Muslims their low mentality is the same

maybe your are not meeting up,double your effort bro

JosephXavier:
All this Muslims nawaa o
I thought your ladies are modest and wear hijab to cover themselves but they are only covering their sins. You all practice hypocrite as religion
Repent and give your life to Christ before his wrath descend on you

Oga, read before you comment! I know you are always on the look out for anything as an excuse to bash Islam. The lady in question is not a Muslim, the OP just confirmed that. Try better next time Mr Bigot!

Tonyfx:
You've been dating her for 3years (since she was 14yrs) and she's the last, that means she must have been disobeying her father because of you and the man is fed up and wants her to marry since its man that is her problem. So you probably are the cause of her problem.

You've made valid points.

Forced17:

she's not a Muslim and we have a future together

Which future?
Na your mate dey program 5G network for China

jeff1607:



Exkiss me please , you have a what together?

can u feed her?

can you handle her emotional needs

can you protect her

can you cater for kids coming in


Do you have a roof over your head?

will you be able to sponsor her education?

she's 17 she's just got to an adolescent age.her parents are supposed to do all the things you listed here for now.for christ sake she didn't begged to be brought into this world.if parents can't or don't have the necessity to Carter for their children then they should stop giving birth.

JosephXavier:
All this Muslims nawaa o
I thought your ladies are modest and wear hijab to cover themselves but they are only covering their sins. You all practice hypocrite as religion
Repent and give your life to Christ before his wrath descend on you

Bigot shame on u

They are not Muslims
My Igbo neighbours married at d age of 15 immediately after primary education and many tribes/ Christians does that.

Bros sometimes you just gotta let it be. Report to the ministry of women affairs then leave it, if nothing happens then just hustle and get better money.

bonnyhope:


You should be arrested for being going out with under age girl

You claim you love her because she is giving you sex and now you are in pain because she want to legalise her sex life with another man who can take care of her

what are you saying
we've never seen each other's unclothedness before
you think everyone is corrupt or spoilt �

BlueAir:
Or legally sell her off.didnt u read that shes depressed?? this thread is crawling with pedophiles and sympathizers

she is no longer a virgin, she wasnt forced into sex she decided to have it at 14, her father can as well make the sex a legal one through marriage to the responsible one who can cater for her

Forced17:
I know but about what you're thinking we don't go close to it

try n go close to it before u lose her.

solmus:


she is no longer a virgin, she wasnt forced into sex she decided to have it at 14, her father can as well make the sex a legal one through marriage to the responsible one who can cater for her

sorry to burst your bubble
she is a virgin

Forced17:
Good morning Nairalanders

This has been eating me up for days. Me and this girl have been together for 3 years now, she's 17 and I'm 19.

I accept all bashings for being in a relationship at this age, she's the last born though and we perfectly understand each other.

Now her father is forcing her to marry a man in Kaduna, she refused and the father threatened to throw her and her siblings including the mum out into the streets or send them to the village if she doesn't marry the man.

Now she hasn't even for days now and she's contemplating on taking her life and she just told me about this yesterday and this has brought me down so much. I don't know what to do, I need help. This is about her future, I don't want her to be forced to become a mother at 17 and living under a man she doesn't know.

She has only three weeks before the man comes to take her away.
My girlfriend is being sold into marriage and I don't know what to do.

I need help, I'm heartbroken��
I don't know who can help me push this to front page

She is no longer your girlfriend nah........ If she runs away, can you financially look after her?....

You only just started your journey of love...... Without this proposed marriage, you might not even have married her eventually........

You're very funny! You're dating underage girl and you still have the confidence of saying it out. If you were properly brought up, I'm very sure you wouldn't be thinking of that at this stage and unfortunately, you have already derailing the career of that girl already. So is good for you to focus on your career.

bonnyhope:


You should be arrested for being going out with under age girl

You claim you love her because she is giving you sex and now you are in pain because she want to legalise her sex life with another man who can take care of her

Read the post again did you see sex there? The Bleep is wrong with Nigerians?

Forced17:
Good morning Nairalanders

This has been eating me up for days. Me and this girl have been together for 3 years now, she's 17 and I'm 19.

I accept all bashings for being in a relationship at this age, she's the last born though and we perfectly understand each other.

Now her father is forcing her to marry a man in Kaduna, she refused and the father threatened to throw her and her siblings including the mum out into the streets or send them to the village if she doesn't marry the man.

Now she hasn't even for days now and she's contemplating on taking her life and she just told me about this yesterday and this has brought me down so much. I don't know what to do, I need help. This is about her future, I don't want her to be forced to become a mother at 17 and living under a man she doesn't know.

She has only three weeks before the man comes to take her away.
My girlfriend is being sold into marriage and I don't know what to do.

I need help, I'm heartbroken��
I don't know who can help me push this to front page

Nollywood movie HOSTAGES will work here.
Kidnap the girl and run away

elotajohn1:
While mine is forcing me into marrying her ASAP as if she's carrying someone else's child

Lol me too. What causes that?
NB We're of age. 29vs27

Chai see child abuse...! bro this is more than what u can handle. Assuming u are older at least when her father gaze at u he might have a second thought of giving away her daughter buh ur age is demoralising

Forced17:

sorry to burst your bubble
she is a virgin

since you never were intimates, then you guys were just friends, so let your friend marry in peace, or you think you have any right over her.. her father pays the bills and dictates what happens in his house

your choices are slim, you either become responsible and earn a living enough to convince her father or keep off family affiars

Forced17:

she's not a Muslim and we have a future together

Shut that your dirty mouth, both of you need brain check. How could you be saying this out that you are dating a girl of 14 years while you are 16 years, though the father is also an animal like both if you. Move on with your life and stop lying for the sake of the lust you have for that innocent girl. And if that is true the father need to be treated like an animal he is, but I belief this is Hausa tradition not Islamic traditions, so leave their family to be. Moreover the girl might be lying to you,maybe he want to change prick.

You don't have sense at all. First Islam the Culture.


Does your Islam tell you that women should be forced and thereatened into marriage?

Does it also tell you that it is good to threaten to one's family?

Culture is dynamic. If part of your culture doesn't see the wrong in a forced marriage, that cultural norm is trash.

Quality20:
in Islam parents are highly responsible for their children and wards under them. Pls allow the man do as he please, he isn't going to hurt his daughter. she is under his care and will account for her on judgement day. Pls don't spoil another man's family, u are only a random boyfriend who might eventually use,dump n spoil d innocent girls life.
I'm myself dating a Hausa lady and I know n accept that the father can chose to marry her out to any man he wish and I can't question that. Even though I love her, I'm not going to tell her to rebel against her parents. I repeat, don't spoil things for other ppl, u r not responsible for this girl and u can't change that. Cultures vary a lot, u can't impose ur cultural views on others

Quality20:
in Islam parents are highly responsible for their children and wards under them. Pls allow the man do as he please, he isn't going to hurt his daughter. she is under his care and will account for her on judgement day. Pls don't spoil another man's family, u are only a random boyfriend who might eventually use,dump n spoil d innocent girls life.
I'm myself dating a Hausa lady and I know n accept that the father can chose to marry her out to any man he wish and I can't question that. Even though I love her, I'm not going to tell her to rebel against her parents. I repeat, don't spoil things for other ppl, u r not responsible for this girl and u can't change that. Cultures vary a lot, u can't impose ur cultural views on others

Islam and rubbish are like 5&6

Hmm

Quality20:
in Islam parents are highly responsible for their children and wards under them. Pls allow the man do as he please, he isn't going to hurt his daughter. she is under his care and will account for her on judgement day. Pls don't spoil another man's family, u are only a random boyfriend who might eventually use,dump n spoil d innocent girls life.
I'm myself dating a Hausa lady and I know n accept that the father can chose to marry her out to any man he wish and I can't question that. Even though I love her, I'm not going to tell her to rebel against her parents. I repeat, don't spoil things for other ppl, u r not responsible for this girl and u can't change that. Cultures vary a lot, u can't impose ur cultural views on others

This bullshit ... I don't know what u people are turning Islam into, some of you are just bringing your tradition into Islam.... Banza kawai...


Let them marry who they want so that they can have peace in marriage... Who marry for your father ?

What is the age difference? They are in the same peer group. All of you should calm the hell down.

adamslukman19:
You're very funny! You're dating underage girl and you still have the confidence of saying it out. If you were properly brought up, I'm very sure you wouldn't be thinking of that at this stage and unfortunately, you have already derailing the career of that girl already. So is good for you to focus on your career.

Unfortunately for you, the Op says the babe is not a Muslim.

lebron7:

Islam and rubbish are like 5&6

jeff1607:



Exkiss me please , you have a what together?

can u feed her?

can you handle her emotional needs

can you protect her

can you cater for kids coming in


Do you have a roof over your head?

will you be able to sponsor her education?

Thank you the guy is just a sex freak guy.

OP what you need now, and with the support of her siblings is to stabilise her emotionally and mentally, this one she is talking about suicide. Like you've been rightly told, let her with her siblings who support her or mother preferably, go social welfare or dept of women affairs and make case there. You are still too young to involve yourself in this kind of thing, it can get messy, make a tactical withdrawal, while not complicating things for the girl, I repeat, you are still too young. Leave love for now and focus on your self and future.

michoim:
You are spoilt. You need thorough moral upbringing. At this age, instead of you to face your studies you are busy pursuing woman...

You think 19 year olds don't have sexual needs?

Wiifesnatcher:
what a weird situation


you've been enjoying her pussy since she was 14yrs without paying any price and you want a parent who trained a child not to rather marry her off since they know she had become olosho at early age?

I'm sure her dad must be aware of her wayward life, what should a 14yrs old lady be doing in relationship? even at 17 she should still be talking about friendship/date and not relationship


your heart broken because no girl might give out the pussy as she had been doing for 3yrs but unfortunately for you her father have the final says as she's still minor


no be today northerners dey marry their daughter off, whether they're Christian/Muslims their low mentality is the same

stop saying rubbish
you have a dirty mind and not everyone is like you
we have never gotten intimate for once since we knew each other

joshjc:
Hmm,tell her to go to ministry of women affairs and report her dad
So you and your girlfriend started dating at the age of 16 and 14,you need serious flogging

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MARKone:
OP what you need now, and with the support of her siblings is to stabilise her emotionally and mentally, this one she is talking about suicide. Like you've been rightly told, let her with her siblings who support her or mother preferably, go social welfare or dept of women affairs and make case there. You are still too young to involve yourself in this kind of thing, it can get messy, make a tactical withdrawal, while not complicating things for the girl, I repeat, you are still too young. Leave love for now and focus on your self and future.

thank you very much sir