NobleAngell:
All 4 of them? How busy can they claim to be? They don't seem to realize that they'll never get to see him EVER again. What a shame!

I guess there's more to this. All 4 couldn't be absent when burial date had already been fixed for their fathers fi al rites.

Maybe they kicked against somethings

amacastel:


So because the man had issues with the mum is enough reason to abandon them abi, since you are alleging that he is not their biological father so why will they come to the burial of a stranger

First I would have responded to you before now but I realised it doesnt worth it because your respond already says alot as per your background and what you are either doing right now or will do if you are in Kuburat shoe.

Your response had said it all. No offense ok just the way I interpreted your statement.

spiceadole:


My mother never brainwashed me or my siblings.
My father was and is still evil.
If you have sense,you won't make conclusions on a matter you know nothing about.

If i offend someone and my mistake is pointed out to me,I will ask for forgiveness.

A father who sees his children as competition and refused to cater for them,despite having the finances,beats his wife in the presence of their children as a habit for over 26 years,goes to the extent of sending assassins to his only daughter ,taking money she gave to him, her clothes and pictures to native doctors to impoverish her and still cannot see where he was wrong is not a father and can never be forgiven.

Nature is rewarding him now.
It shall never be well with him.
Thanks to God..Where I for be today?

Good, all of these allegation are not good or becoming of a Father neither is it in your place not to forgive nor does the situation absolved you of your divine role in the live of your father as commanded by God...honor your parents...that's the commandment of God. He didn't add a condition under which you must honor him.
Again, you are thanking God for where you are today but in another area of your life, you are blatantly disobeying God by refusing to honour your parent. In your own mind, are you sure God is with you after disobeying His commandment?
Better have a rethink now before he dies...go and perform your role in his life as commanded by God and leave God to judge him.

Joshmodest:
The children in question are adults they may have thier reasons , whether acceptable or not ...
BTW men should learn to care for thier children , gone are those days when you let your wife suffer to take care of the kids , and you tell yourself , that the children would come to look for you in the future after they are accomplished . Any body tries that with a child like me , you'll be finished , i totally would have nothing to do with you even if you come back yourself to beg ...take care of your kids , cos if you don't , there's always a repercussion you wouldn't like or expect ..
I'm not saying that's what happened in funke's case , I'm just putting this out !

God bless you. Ubunja keeps hoping to chop food wey im no cook.

frozen70:


You are absolutely right, men should face theirs wives and children because you stand to gain at old age before one family idiot will put the blame on their mum

God bless you.

Ubunja dream on.

muyinet:


Good, all of these allegation are not good or becoming of a Father neither is it in your place not to forgive nor does the situation absolved you of your divine role in the live of your father as commanded by God...honor your parents...that's the commandment of God. He didn't add a condition under which you must honor him.
Again, you are thanking God for where you are today but in another area of your life, you are blatantly disobeying God by refusing to honour your parent. In your own mind, are you sure God is with you after disobeying His commandment?
Better have a rethink now before he dies...go and perform your role in his life as commanded by God and leave God to judge him.

What useless divine role in the life of a father who never took care of them?

Please get lost and go and amend your ways if you also have kids you have neglected dreaming that they will take care of you in old age. You be learner. You go dream tire.

amacastel:


So because the man had issues with the mum is enough reason to abandon them abi, since you are alleging that he is not their biological father so why will they come to the burial of a stranger

Yes it is. I.am sure he is wailing in his grave now. Next time in his next life he will face his responsibilities squarely as a father and husband.

This will teach all intending deadbeats to think twice. What a shame.

frozen70:


You are absolutely right, men should face theirs wives and children because you stand to gain at old age before one family idiot will put the blame on their mum

Very correct. God bless you.

Ubunja see as you put hand for chin dey think of your miserable old age.

ajl:


I sorry for you. That negative energy you carry within you may turn out to destroy you. You need to release it and free yourself.

Sorry for yourself. Nothing will destroy him. Do you know what it means to have a deadbeat as a father. If you are one expect worse from your children like Ubunja.

Isoduwa:
The matter go shock them Na turn by turn Let's wait and see the future is bright

Sleep well Papa Jenifer diary

If they take good care of their kids nothing like turn by turn my friend. Just make sure you are no deadbeat dad. Take good care of your children before they disappear and reject your corpse.

fairfora:
That's funke for you . I haven't even read this before I posted my earlier comment.. Her fans would understand who she truly is later. There was a time I commented on her twins pregnancy and people rained abusive words on me. We seem to attach emotions to a lot of things in Nigeria. This is the lady I know very well. A local adage says...Bi iro ba lo logun odun, ojokan l'otito maa ba. Funke that I know very closely wouldn't have got pregnant without showing her baby bump to the whole world to see first. Let's assume she was hiding the pregnancy from the village people as some people would call it,what about months after the twins have been successfully given birth to? I rest my case . Gbam!

This makes no sense because anyone can put up a fake pregnancy picture like the ones we see in movies. So if she took picture of a fake pregnancy you would say she carried her babies herself? Receive sense.

Ladycewhy:
No o they will not hear. Na when them don old dem go dey look to reap for where them nor sow. Especially in the case of female children ,na there den go wan chop bride price wey go hang for their throat.

God bless you.

Ubunja is cutting onions right now.

izzy4shizzy:
No matter what he did to them , he is still their father

And no matter what he should have been there for them in their childhood.

Rawtruth1:
It's possible to trace the cause of the man's death to abandonment and hatred from his kids which MOST PROBABLY was instigated by the wife. Fear women. No news about the wife. MEN, marry your friend, not your enemy. Most women play family politics and bias kids against their father

Once a man is not worthy of being called a father by dodging his responsibilities the wife need not start any family politics. The kids will start a movement against the deadbeat by themselves. Just be responsible towards your children before they abandon your corpse or feed you to wild pigs.

magicminister:
None of us knows the true story.
All his offsprings failed to show up, I think that speaks more about him than about them!

God bless you.

@ Ubunja see as e dey be? Be fast and choose which pig will eat your rotten corpse when death comes knocking soon.

Rawtruth1:
Better attend your father's burial to avoid regrets and curses

Which curses? The curses that will send all deadbeats to their early graves? No deadbeat deserves that last respect from.their children. This will teach all intending deadbeats to think twice.

martowskin1:


I had a course mate who his father divorced his mother when he was 2yrs old. The man ignored him and his mother, the mum was a nurse, she struggled to bring this smart dude up, guess what, he was the best graduating student of my set then. 4.88CGPA, chemical engineering.

The young man visited his father who now have 5 other kids with another woman, invited his father to his convocation, he said he want to show his father what he became without him.

On the convocation ground, when the boy was called up, two instant employment from two oil servicing company, the boy's father started crying he knelt down started begging the boy and his mother in the eyes of the public. The boy asked him to stand up hug his father and told him, ur REJECTION was my MOTIVATION.

The last story I heard about him, was that when his father was dying he willed all his properties to the young man, asking him to share it among his other siblings, because he is the only one he can trust, that he showed him what a failure of a father he is.

What am I trying to point out, we should learn to pay evil with kindness, it is the greatest joy anyone can get.

Ur parents are ur parents, come what may..... I will always treat them with kindness no matter what, because that is the kind of legacy I want to leave for my own kids

What useless properties should be shared? The young man will.make much more. Thsts how God works.

A deadbeat is not a parent . He/She is a rotten ccrpse that should be thrown to wild pigs for dinner. Nonsense.

muyinet:


pray not to have a woman who'll turn your children against you regardless of any effort you make. Most stories like this one,...if you look closely, you'll find the hand of their mother behind it.

The solution to issues like this lies not in the man taking care of the children but in how wealthy the man is...if a man is rich enough, he won't have the need to start looking out for a child or children that their mother has brainwashed against you.

The solution is for the man to be rich. Eni to bi'mo, omo lo ma sin, eni ti'o bi'mo, omo na lo ma sin....meaning...if you have children and when death comes, children will bury you and if you don't have any child. you'll still be buried by children. that's the wisdom of the Yorubas for circumstances such as this.

The shame in on Funke and her siblings for abandoning their father even after death.

Fortunately most dead beat dads die in misery and poverty as baba God is always involved. Don't take care of your children and expect to reap where you did not sow . You go cry when you are in the spirit realm after your death when you see your abandoned rotten corpse being eaten by wild pigs at a dumpster. There is no shame on the children. A deadbeat deserves no last respect.

Ajixegun:
Their (the children) problems. The man had been laid to rest and the dead careless of what the living does. RIP to the dead

The dead is weeping in his grave regretting his actions. If you are a dead beat repent.

Digmygold:


God bless you.

Ubunja is cutting onions right now.

lol ,the baby daddy front runner

Exodora:
Try that with this crazy generation you go hear am.

So true.

Ubunja take note.

Digmygold:


What useless properties should be shared? The young man will.make much more. Thsts how God works.

A deadbeat is not a parent . He/She is a rotten ccrpse that should be thrown to wild pigs for dinner. Nonsense.

U sound so angry

Digmygold:


If they take good care of their kids nothing like turn by turn my friend. Just make sure you are no deadbeat dad. Take good care of your children before they disappear and reject your corpse.

When I'm gone ain't no story

Isoduwa:



When I'm gone ain't no story

Yah cos you'll be rotting away in hell. Telling stories to lucifer. Reverse your ways deadbeat. Get a job. Work your butts for your kids otherwise keep your loose tool in check or undergo a vasectomy . Dont breed babies you wont cater for. Aiit?

martowskin1:



U sound so angry

And you sound like a deadbeat relaying a fake story.

Are you a deadbeat or an intending one? Get a vasectomy. Never breed babies if you aint gonn ,cater and be there for them. You'll end up in misery.

Digmygold:


Yah cos you'll be rotting away in hell. Telling stories to lucifer. Reverse your ways deadbeat. Get a job. Work your butts for your kids otherwise keep your loose tool in check or undergo a vasectomy . Dont breed babies you wont cater for. Aiit?

No matter how much you got you can't take it with you �

Isoduwa:



No matter how much you got you can't take it with you �

Story for the gods. Just dont make babies if you are broke like and then start giving every excuse in the world to justify your deadbeat life. You will lose in the end.

Digmygold:


Story for the gods. Just dont make babies if you are broke like and then start giving every excuse in the world to justify your deadbeat life. You will lose in the end.

At a point in your life you will loose you will fail it doesn't matter like the old say if you hang around the barber shop soon and later you will get your hair cut ✂ goodnight

Isoduwa:



At a point in your life you will loose you will fail it doesn't matter like the old say if you hang around the barber shop soon and later you will get your hair cut ✂ goodnight

No i wont fail nor lose thats for deadbeats who are alive yet dead living like corpses and dying in misery. Its the Law Of Karma.

Digmygold:


And you sound like a deadbeat relaying a fake story.

Are you a deadbeat or an intending one? Get a vasectomy. Never breed babies if you aint gonn ,cater and be there for them. You'll end up in misery.

Waow, did I offend u in anyway, do I know u from any where?

Easy bro, because this is faceless forum doesn't mean u should disrespect people.

martowskin1:


Waow, did I offend u in anyway, do I know u from any where?

Easy bro, because this is faceless forum doesn't mean u should disrespect people.

No disrepect. If you are a deadbeat though your disrespect will come from those kids you made and fled.