Person enter road by 1 am come see u.. U suppose know say e don cause wahala run come your side come lay low.. Find means discharge ham or else e go still cause wahala for u

Tell him your travelling for excision

Pack your bags and tell him to go and come back

Like Nike said Just Do it.

On a more serious note like others have said there is a very possibility that your cousin is being hunted by rival cult groups, hence his showing up without informing you.

Tell him upfront that he needs to leave or tell him that you are travelling if you want to me deceptive about it.

One thing is certain you have to do something about his presence

HazzanTazzan:
Give good reasons na... tell him youre expecting your fiancee on a visit ypu already planned with her since last year and he can come visit later ...




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Hehe this story cracks me up... best way to handle those kind of people is uphold strict rules and let him know who's the boss

You better eject him before the people chasing him traces him to your house and gun both of you down .


Oga do comot for my house ,

simple ,nor be crime.

You still have to talk sense to him both ways.

You av to be a man and face him. Tell it to his face that you are not comfortable with his life style. If he can't change, he should stop coming to ur house. Talk to him in what ever language you know he will understand

Marlian don visit you be that, e better make you tell Naira ooo

Awon no mannaz

Are your parents aware?

Based on the guy you described, your cousin ain't going nowhere.....

But I'll give you a freebie.... Time to start planning your move to another local and don't tell your cousin.

NevetsIbot:


I don't know about who'll win the fight but I wrestle and take other self defense classes.


We'll see how it goes

Hahaha! Just be diplomatic about it, because tomorrow is pregnant. Just find a way to dismiss him in a cordial manner. You never can tell what the future holds. I understood you perfectly, but be wise in handling the situation. Don't quarrel with him over it.

Tell him you're a witch and you have been mandated to kill one of your relatives.



Abeg man up and tell him you're fed up huh, is it not your house

jojo1415:
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Don't wish for this, it's deadly, don't even wish it for your enemy

He doesn't feed,clothe or shelter you meaning you ain't benefiting nothing from him. As for me I would give him my rules and if he can't abide by them, then we are going to have a problem.

Male of Female?
If female I need a roommate. Age btw 27-29
Calabar or Deltas

NevetsIbot:
How Best Do I Handle This Issue With My Cousins August visit?

Hello everyone. I hope I don't get to bore you all too much with this palava I've found myself in.

I understand how sensitive family can be and that's why this is giving me a little bit of headache.

I have this Cousin; My aunts son from my father's side. We're almost age mates. We got to meet last year April. We had seen each other last about 17yrs ago. So it was more or less like Personalities coming in contact. As expected, we differed a lot. He was more of a rough guy, impatient with needless bravado and a penchant for letting people know how though he thinks he is.

He schools in Ogun state and I in Ondo. We met last year when he came to my school to see me. I overlooked his stupid acts as per that was our first time of meeting and he was going to spend just three days.

He told me he wanted to come again this year and I told him it'd have to be after exams ending by march - knowing fully well that by then, I'd drop another excuse. The semester is crazy right now and I have to divide my time between academics, executive duties in school, art and interior decorations I do. I get home earliest 10pm almost every day.

Last night around 1am... I was seated outside my villa enjoying the night breeze and trying to write a few articles when my neighbor asked me if this my cousin had come... I was confused. My cousin had told this girl he was coming and truly he was on his way.. all the way from Ogun state. At 1am. It was when it got a bit crazy in the street that he called me to help him get to my villa. Which I did but didn't speak to him... Wouldn't trash my cousin before a girl.

The issue is this.

1. I need my privacy.. Being alone helps me focus on work and academics. I need nobody around me. My grades need to be revamped.

2. I don't smoke and I laid down rules that he should never try it around me... I got home today to pick an artwork and my charlet was full of smoke. He did that.

3. Talks with the rural rugged guys in my area. I don't want any mix whatsoever with those guys

4. His bravado is next to foolishness. Where's he's supposed to stay low, he'll act up. He sags extra lower than normal, wears earrings and talks like a thug.

5. He seems to attract cultists to himself even in his school. He's more or less like a baby I need to monitor

I'm not an S.U but I try to show myself as responsible in wherever I stay. Ion smoke. I'm fashionable but don't go extra mile like a juvenile.

Please, I need the best way to eject this guy out of my place ASAP. I'm too busy to have someone around. I do not need this. Talking to him in a brotherly manner makes him flare up. I wouldn't want to make this rough as I tend to lose control when I get really angry.

Please advise

Some people can b so insensitive. Personally I'm am so sensitive to people's body language. Start acting one kind and I japa... I don't tolerate crap from nobody unless my siblings sha.

Tell your parents what you just told us...they will handle it.

Get the spare key from him and explain your vision to him.

First things is to make sure you don cook anymore in your house, take your food stuff out, next is spent more time in your house and carry your book and read and when is friends comes and still insist in staying let him know that you love to read and his visitors are not making it easy for you, next plan to relocate if you still have time in the school and probably get an SU roommate

The answers you seeking for are already in your write up

* You need your privacy to focus better
*You don’t smoke
* Your cousins lifestyle is clearly different from yours

Tell him you can’t accommodate him and give him your reasons, I see no reason why you should be formulating a “technique”, It’s your crib and your space them no dey sugar coat this kain matter

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igbolastborn:
Because you have a place to stay and you are ok, may you not be rejected in life. This life na once o, so help while you can, he is your cousin na, dont be an ingrate like Buhari.

Check my signature, so you won't have a cousin use you do shakara

What is this one saying??

igbolastborn:
Because you have a place to stay and you are ok, may you not be rejected in life. This life na once o, so help while you can, he is your cousin na, dont be an ingrate like Buhari.

Check my signature, so you won't have a cousin use you do shakara

See wetin you dey talk

Don't fight him. He will fight dirty if need be including bottles and knives etc. Firstly involve your families, be decisive when asking him to leave, from the day you do that don't eat in the house or eat any exposed food. Sleep with one eye open and watch your back. Help him with some relocation/transport money if you can so they won't say you were mean to family in the postscript.

Word of caution. He is street smart and can actually find a place to stay with your neighbours to your chagrin

NevetsIbot:


I suspected he probably was being hunted in Ogun state and had to lie low in another state.. I'd tell his mother as a last resort.

I'm going to talk to him soon as I get home again and let him know of his bullshit then if he makes it rough... We'll make it rough

i think u are not ready to let him go

Call him mama now!!! otherwise u will be his mother when trouble comes

shallom