Ouchbabe:
Pls my fellow Nairalanders,

I have been married for 8years now. My husband is nice and caring but I don't like the fact that he likes moving at night. He comes home as late as 12am.

He is currently looking for a job now and most times his reason for coming home late is because he is hanging out with friends. I have discussed this issue with him severally and expressed that I don't like his night movement. On such occasions he will promise not to come home late but the promise is never kept. I have told him the dangers of moving late in a city like Lagos.

The annoying part is that he is not coming home late from work rather because he i s with friends. Most times our young children will stay up late hoping to see him before going to bed but they will wait in vain as he will not be home before they will sleep off.

Note: Even though I'm working, I make sure the house is clean and food ready before he comes home. I don't nag and I'm good looking.

Pls I need suggestions on how to make him stop this night waka.

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Thats flimsy excuses they use.

You have no husband.

Tim16:
You are working, but he doesn't have any job yet. He comes home late everyday at 12am. You clean the house and provide food for the family, upon that you don't nag, and you are good looking.

Madam you married a very very irresponsible man, and people like him always engage in careless sexual activities with random girls/prostitutes. Most times he could probably be in one brothel having fun. I just pray he shouldn't someday infect you with HIV. same thing happened to my aunty, her husband was living this kind of life and infected her with HIV and both of them died of AIDS living their 4 young kids miserable. It will only take a Divine intervention by the Almighty to change such a man and make him live responsibly... I pray God to come to your aid and touch your husband's heart to become responsible and respect his marriage. I will advice you to become a prayer warrior because of this for there is nothing God can not do. You don't only talk to him you also back it up with fervent prayer I bet you you will see result. May God bless your home. AMEN

God God bless you.


He IS A night prostitute and not a husband.

He is 100% fake

Ouchbabe:
Pls my fellow Nairalanders,

I have been married for 8years now. My husband is nice and caring but I don't like the fact that he likes moving at night. He comes home as late as 12am.

He is currently looking for a job now and most times his reason for coming home late is because he is hanging out with friends. I have discussed this issue with him severally and expressed that I don't like his night movement. On such occasions he will promise not to come home late but the promise is never kept. I have told him the dangers of moving late in a city like Lagos.

The annoying part is that he is not coming home late from work rather because he i s with friends. Most times our young children will stay up late hoping to see him before going to bed but they will wait in vain as he will not be home before they will sleep off.

Note: Even though I'm working, I make sure the house is clean and food ready before he comes home. I don't nag and I'm good looking.

Pls I need suggestions on how to make him stop this night waka.

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Madam.

Please take care of yourself and your kids.

People like your husband are night prostitute.
They don't change.
The are serial liars.

For him to change is as difficult as a big cow passing through a needle eye.

Just build your own world. By being financially independent.

Sorry to say this.

You have no husband yet

victorazyvictor:


bad guy

I have seen their type it becomes worst as they age.

This is first hand infor

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Night crawlers on the nag

chukwuibuipob:
a wife like d Op are difficult/ hardly to meet/find.God bless the womb dat gave birth to u.Sorrow is not ur portion. A jobless man that roam hang out till 1.00Am is a unserious fellow.Even if dey employ him tomorrow , he'll catwalk the street. Only God can touch his heart sha.Tell him Amotekun,Nig Police,kidnappers,cultist dey town

Thank you.

For good 8 years he hasn't stopped. See there's no excuse for failure in life.

Its only sickness that can change him.

And I believe you wouldn't want him to fall sick

Just over look him for life.

Just engage your mind with business.

For good 8 years he hasn't stopped. See there's no excuse for failure in life.

Its only sickness that can change him.

And I believe you wouldn't want him to fall sick

Just over look him for life.

Just engage your mind with business.

In fact sometimes he may even be back before you due to business.

austyn0:
Firstly, I am sorry you are passing through such but hope you don't mind me asking if you didn't see this "staying out late at night" habit before you married him?

good question...I'm abt to get marry next month..I normally come home every day by 12 midnite and my woman is not saying anything. Maybe, she is waiting for me to marry her before she starts complaining...

Maybe he's a superhero.

Jamescosmas:
good question...I'm abt to get marry next month..I normally come home every day by 12 midnite and my woman is not saying anything. Maybe, she is waiting for me to marry her before she starts complaining...

Coming back 12. Do people close office by 12midnight.
Or are you doing over time

Amanda4life:



Coming back 12. Do people close office by 12midnight.
Or are you doing over time

No i don't do over time..I have a betking shop..Im even planning to make it a 24 hours thing..Thats round clock..She do come around the shop , but I normally tell her to go once is 7pm..She will not say anything..

Jamescosmas:
No i don't do over time..I have a betking shop..Im even planning to make it a 24 hours thing..Thats round clock..She do come around the shop , but I normally tell her to go once is 7pm..She will not say anything..

Its okay. She comes there. Nd she knows you actually work late. Not that you are always at the night club
There no problem with that.

What is keeping him from coming home early is what he is yet to tell you.Carefully investigate.

armadeo:


Abeg go siddon.

You have small information and see where you have jumped to.

People like you always give bad advise and look for the worst in others maybe because you are also horrible yourself.

Another fool and irresponsible husband spotted

Tim16:
i am a fool and irresponsible husband

Case closed.

I know someone battling same thing, her husband Mr. Chidi (yes I wrote his name) is a totally jerk. And worse is his family supports his night crawling habit.

My dear, just pray. That's all, your talks won't even change him. Ignore him and keep praying

kushme:


An 8 years marriage looking for advice from folks with less than 8 months relationship, shameless bastard.

Let him be and stop listening or watching too much Africa magic.