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Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by Gwagone: 8:47am On Feb 19, 2020 |
andycom:Lemme now tell you that I am still single and my girlfriend monitors me even with thousands of calls.... There's nothing wrong when you monitor your spouse and call him/her to your attention if taking wrong steps or moves Her choice anyway |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by thymm50(m): 8:51am On Feb 19, 2020 |
The average Nigerian needs counseling. Reading comments from crazy people will not help your own craze I swear. Many of una here dem no suppose dey allow una touch phone |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by bigiyaro(m): 8:54am On Feb 19, 2020 |
bukatyne:the world does not rotate around her ass.. the hubby likes night life, she doesn't, so either she chill or get out. the lure of marriage comes to any mentally balanced woman naturally, am sure you have heard madam alakija, one of the richest women in Africa, till today she lives with her husband and children, and you are here wondering why an AVERAGE EARNING woman should get married.... u need help! 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by bigiyaro(m): 8:58am On Feb 19, 2020 |
ezenwajosh:That is the simple truth, she made a mistake, if don't like alcohol, never u marry a drunk. in this case i don't see anything wrong if she follows him to his night crawling activities. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by Supersymetry: 8:59am On Feb 19, 2020 |
EVILFOREST:All this theory without prove, there are many men that run away from intelligent discussion infact hate it. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by bigiyaro(m): 9:05am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Brunicekid:you tink an attitude that has built up over donkey years can just go away over a mere talk? such attitudes or character changes comes with physical and emotional maturity, just like nobody tells anybody to cut down or eliminate sugar when diabetes sets in. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by maasoap(m): 9:15am On Feb 19, 2020 |
PatrioticNaija: This is faceless forum. A lots of people had done that and received best advices. Many would also share their own experiences to let the op know that she's not alone. Seeking advice from Nairaland is not bad. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by maasoap(m): 9:17am On Feb 19, 2020 |
femi4: Are you sure this one is ready to work again, he might have developed aversion for work |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by kayourcome: 9:20am On Feb 19, 2020 |
bigiyaro:That's just it..... He will come to his senses soon |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by maasoap(m): 9:22am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Bugatie: Lol. Where would he be? May be with another man in his own home with his wife and kids? Irresponsibility is not that difficult to spot unless we decide to deliberately turn blind eye to it. There's no way you would be staying outside till 12am most of the time and you would be in places where responsible men are supposed to be. The question is: what is such man or woman doing outside and in such places in those ungodly hours? 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by ifeomabernard(f): 9:22am On Feb 19, 2020 |
bigiyaro: If this was a man saying this about his wife, I hope you would give him this same advice you're giving her .. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by Sweeetheart(m): 9:26am On Feb 19, 2020 |
talk to his good friends about it and then try and connect him with someone u know at your place work for job I'm sure na depression change his psychological trait |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by maasoap(m): 9:30am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Tallesty1: Heistman: He narrated the story of one incident he witnessed but you guys wouldn't let op take a clue and do something ASAP before tragedy strikes. Why insulting him? When a man or a woman starts keeping late night, there is no two ways to what is coming the way of his or her but just pure tragedy if something is not done. Nothing good can come out of it. The life of his wife is at risk, even his children too extension. That's besides the fact that he can meet untimely death. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by ForbesHomesNG(m): 9:30am On Feb 19, 2020 |
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Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by sylve11: 9:32am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by pawsofdikeje(m): 9:35am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Calm down...His ego has a man is broken and going into depression state. Just keep comforting him and pray he gets a job. Ouchbabe: |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by Nobody: 9:37am On Feb 19, 2020 |
maasoap:oga go back to sleep.. because someone from d most likely fabricated story he claimed to witness messed up automatically means everyone threading same part of coming back home late are also fucking around?...use your sense abeg.. So let's assume your dad is an armed robber, because u share in his DNA makes u potential Thief .. straight up |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by SweetCunt97(f): 9:41am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Starhearts:Typical, wanna use Bible to intimidate me. But that same Bible tells us A man who cannot care for his Family is worse than an Infidel! Type nonsense to make you feel alright OK. You men are lucky that we women are no longer satisfied hinging all our wants on you and working to support, but that does not mean you should take our efforts for granted. If you are unemployed and looking for a job, simply help out d partner bringing things to the table and not making her life more difficult... Is that too hard to comprehend? 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by SweetCunt97(f): 9:42am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Starhearts:For a person who quoted me 5 times, you simply need that mental therapy. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by West2019(m): 9:47am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Tim16:is that how u jump into conclusion I fear ur advice .if this lady follow ur advice her home will scatter |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by yeman1(m): 9:49am On Feb 19, 2020 |
There must be something keeping him late at least.. maybe ur character, kids, neighbours, bills, responsibility and so on for somebody that has no job. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by SweetCunt97(f): 9:52am On Feb 19, 2020 |
pawsofdikeje:What Ego? Who d Ego eep? So broken ego is an excuse for bad behavior? If he's actually suffering from broken ego, he won't b hanging out with friends everyday. When ones ego is broken, they'd prefer to b on their own actually. In this case, are his friends jobless like him too for him to feel comfortable with them? |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by SweetCunt97(f): 9:54am On Feb 19, 2020 |
maasoap:Thank you. How will he even get a job when he hangs out with jobless friends too? Cos I don't see any working class or business dude staying up that late everyday in Lagos if they sane 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by Nobody: 9:56am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Tim16:You are not actually a man are you? I only stated my opinion, but you took offense at it and refuse to reason like an adult. For some reason I think you are a early teenager with a handset. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by mercy87(f): 10:03am On Feb 19, 2020 |
I am deeply appalled by what I'm reading here. The fate of the Nigerian woman is truly in the hands of God. Irresponsibility is continuously excused in the man while the woman is blamed for everything. I even read some comments like "get him a business', 'maybe you're not intelligent' 'you nag" She works, cooks, cleans, handle the finances of the family while the man does NOTHING and yet she is subtly or directly blamed. It still surprises me why women crave for marriage so much. 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by Tallyglobal(m): 10:12am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Invite one of his friend and his relative to your house, beg them to help u beg your man maybe u re hurting him in any way. Am so sure even if there is any pussy out side, he will change but try to give him another style over nite and better food with Courage of Hope.. Pls don't turn to Mariam Sanda because of issue ooo abeg.. Be a good woman because of ur Man and because of Children. God bless ur home. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by Dorlovito: 10:12am On Feb 19, 2020 |
PatrioticNaija:Common sense is not common, she only asked for ways to make him stop the habit not NAGGING. read before you reply HUMANBEANS |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by charlsecy(m): 10:29am On Feb 19, 2020 |
austyn0:How would your comment resolve the situation? |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by jchima14: 10:34am On Feb 19, 2020 |
All Night Crawlers Like Me lets gather here and read comments |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by Acidosis(m): 10:36am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Does he help out with shopping, cooking, cleaning and kids assignments during the day and weekends? People deal with joblessness differently but I dislike people who stay out late for no just reasons. Even if you take alcohol like oxygen, go and get a refrigerator and have your drink indoor. Responsible and purposely people are not found in common places. You can't be in odd places at odd hours, and make it in this life. Great men are not found among ordinary/mere men. Business proposals are not discussed in road side bars. All you get to hear is woman matter, APC/PDP, Amotekun, or Ronaldo/Messi. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by raphy(m): 10:36am On Feb 19, 2020 |
when you crawl.in here putting ur husband for.discussion you.are nagging. when he was busy nacking u in the oza room we didn't hear that one. anyway let.me just drop my own point and go away as a legend in here. you knw what you will just look for a young guy to help you stark him to know what keep him out that late.make sure u pay the guy and give him tfare to follow ya man very well eve if he enter a hotel room he should enter thee club and just chill.with no suspicious of him stacking by man. when he finally tell you his finding or story that touches don't come back and tell us o. you bettter stop all this nagging on social media and keep.showing ya man love . .I guess he has pot belly cuz u saw one man with a young girl going into a hotel . make i waka joor. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by OjileFrancis: 10:41am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Madam, please it is unfortunate you and your children are experiencing such. But please, since he is not working, what is the source of the money he spends on his continuous 'hanging out'? I think that needs to be investigated if you are not the one sponsoring him. And if you are the one, then you have to redirect the blames and restrict him totally from having access to your money. I just hope he is not engaging in criminal acts for funds. 1 Like 1 Share |
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