Ouchbabe:
Pls my fellow Nairalanders,

I have been married for 8years now. My husband is nice and caring but I don't like the fact that he likes moving at night. He comes home as late as 12am.

He is currently looking for a job now and most times his reason for coming home late is because he is hanging out with friends. I have discussed this issue with him severally and expressed that I don't like his night movement. On such occasions he will promise not to come home late but the promise is never kept. I have told him the dangers of moving late in a city like Lagos.

The annoying part is that he is not coming home late from work rather because he i s with friends. Most times our young children will stay up late hoping to see him before going to bed but they will wait in vain as he will not be home before they will sleep off.

Note: Even though I'm working, I make sure the house is clean and food ready before he comes home. I don't nag and I'm good looking.

Pls I need suggestions on how to make him stop this night waka.

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Gwagone:

Lemme now tell you that I am still single and my girlfriend monitors me even with thousands of calls....
There's nothing wrong when you monitor your spouse and call him/her to your attention if taking wrong steps or moves
Her choice anyway

HarunaWest:
His own is even better than mine...Me I may stay at home for one full month or above that. i.e from work to house then next day work again...But the day I will decide to do yawo with them Boyz...She won't see me for 2-3 days straight..I can't come and go and kill maself...

ednut1:
This marriage of a thing self

Heistman:
common! This is pure nonsense, were u dia tracking his movement for u to have concluded he's irresponsible and fucking around? ,you're a big fool sir.. that's how one useless pastor in my area back then when I was still in school told my mum to be prayerful cos He saw vision I'm a cultist because I'm an introvert and hardly relate with people

louiziana:


Lol the fake pastor story about being a cultist also happened to me.

Tim16:
See this smelling dirty Afonja talking. Before you talk to people like me please go and tell your Ode dirty disgusting mother to stop defecating inside plastic rubber and stop living, cooking and eating inside Lagos gutter. Who doesn't know yoruba people are the most useless, dirtiest, confused jobless fools in Africa. Please go and stand on the road and collect 50 naira from keke and okada operators so you can eat today because that is all yoruba people only know how to do best. When Buhari mentioned Lazy youths he was referring to yoruba people. Quote me and die by thunder now now. Smelling yoruba animal. Dirty pig. Spits

DiviMatty:
Like seriously,is this ur own advice?her husband for that matter,where is he suppose to be at 12am if not with his family,she doesnt even nag yet he keeps late night and he is even jobless gan.she has every right to worry abt her husband so pls dnt tell her to keep quiet,she is human

Sarang:



Maybe he should try getting a job?
How old are you?

Tim16:
Your foolishness and stupidity is inborn. You are a big disgrace. Spit on you

SweetCunt97:
Typical, wanna use Bible to intimidate me. But that same Bible tells us A man who cannot care for his Family is worse than an Infidel! Type nonsense to make you feel alright OK. You men are lucky that we women are no longer satisfied hinging all our wants on you and working to support, but that does not mean you should take our efforts for granted. If you are unemployed and looking for a job, simply help out d partner bringing things to the table and not making her life more difficult... Is that too hard to comprehend?

SweetCunt97:
Typical, wanna use Bible to intimidate me. But that same Bible tells us A man who cannot care for his Family is worse than an Infidel! Type nonsense to make you feel alright OK. You men are lucky that we women are no longer satisfied hinging all our wants on you and working to support, but that does not mean you should take our efforts for granted. If you are unemployed and looking for a job, simply help out d partner bringing things to the table and not making her life more difficult... Is that too hard to comprehend?

Starhearts:


Anoda wasted sperm sighted

I didn't blame u because ur mother want it raw

Don't cross my line

Starhearts:


Prostitution have to be the only jobs where inexperience is considered a virtue. In what other profession would you brag about not knowing stuff? “I’m not one of those fancy Harvard heart surgeons. I’m just an unlicensed plumber with a dream and I’d like to cut your chest open.” The crowd cheers.

Heistman:
oga go back to sleep.. because someone from d most likely fabricated story he claimed to witness messed up automatically means everyone threading same part of coming back home late are also fucking around?

... use your sense abeg..
So let's assume your dad is an armed robber, because u share in his DNA makes u potential Thief .. straight up

maasoap:


Just listen to your stupid and senseless question! If you are not a night worker, what your business as a responsible husband and father for staying out late all the time. What lesson are you teaching your kids? Where is rest of mind for your wife knowing fully that you're playing Russian roulette with your life.



The one who's not using his sense here is you. Fabricated or not, only uninformed would insist that incidents like that are not happening. Using your own irresponsibility to endanger the lives of everyone in the family.

no one is saying it's cool staying out late, in the process endangering ones family, and also your fabricated stories might really be true..but the point here is, it's wrong to just Make up stuffs about someone's situation u know nothing about... I only hope wisdom and knowledge hasn't eluded u completely to get it now

CCC2:
Jobless Niggas dont cheat. So worry less, na only beer from friends

Tim16:
You are working, but he doesn't have any job yet. He comes home late everyday at 12am. You clean the house and provide food for the family, upon that you don't nag, and you are good looking.

Madam you married a very very irresponsible man, and people like him always engage in careless sexual activities with random girls/prostitutes. Most times he could probably be in one brothel having fun. I just pray he shouldn't someday infect you with HIV. same thing happened to my aunty, her husband was living this kind of life and infected her with HIV and both of them died of AIDS living their 4 young kids miserable. It will only take a Divine intervention by the Almighty to change such a man and make him live responsibly... I pray God to come to your aid and touch your husband's heart to become responsible and respect his marriage. I will advice you to become a prayer warrior because of this for there is nothing God can not do. You don't only talk to him you also back it up with fervent prayer I bet you you will see result. May God bless your home. AMEN

Tim16:
It gives me joy seeing that we still have some reasonable people on Nairaland. God bless you bro

Tim16:
May God bless whoever wrote this comment.

andycom:


Ohh!! You're single? No wonder, Pls when you marry remind me let's have this conversation.

Ouchbabe:
Pls my fellow Nairalanders,

I have been married for 8years now. My husband is nice and caring but I don't like the fact that he likes moving at night. He comes home as late as 12am.

He is currently looking for a job now and most times his reason for coming home late is because he is hanging out with friends. I have discussed this issue with him severally and expressed that I don't like his night movement. On such occasions he will promise not to come home late but the promise is never kept. I have told him the dangers of moving late in a city like Lagos.

The annoying part is that he is not coming home late from work rather because he i s with friends. Most times our young children will stay up late hoping to see him before going to bed but they will wait in vain as he will not be home before they will sleep off.

Note: Even though I'm working, I make sure the house is clean and food ready before he comes home. I don't nag and I'm good looking.

Pls I need suggestions on how to make him stop this night waka.

Please move to front page for wider view

Tim16:
You are working, but he doesn't have any job yet. He comes home late everyday at 12am. You clean the house and provide food for the family, upon that you don't nag, and you are good looking.

Madam you married a very very irresponsible man, and people like him always engage in careless sexual activities with random girls/prostitutes. Most times he could probably be in one brothel having fun. I just pray he shouldn't someday infect you with HIV. same thing happened to my aunty, her husband was living this kind of life and infected her with HIV and both of them died of AIDS living their 4 young kids miserable. It will only take a Divine intervention by the Almighty to change such a man and make him live responsibly... I pray God to come to your aid and touch your husband's heart to become responsible and respect his marriage. I will advice you to become a prayer warrior because of this for there is nothing God can not do. You don't only talk to him you also back it up with fervent prayer I bet you you will see result. May God bless your home. AMEN