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Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by Munzy14(m): 11:14am On Feb 21, 2020 |
Petyprincess:Why are u being harsh with your replies?... So she should go with an unstable guy in her age bracket who only thinks about sex sex sex and jumps to next skirt when he must av had enough, and with the usual stale line of am not ready marriage. That age gap is the best to happen to any lady if u are lucky to meet a genuine guy. At the age of 29 most men have gotten a real direction of what they need, and not what they want. Want and need are two different thing. At this age, the guy is an elder bro, a lover, a secon dad figure and a potential hubby to the lady. Most ladies that have suffered heartbreak, where mostly those carried away by youthful exuberance. I know of a guy who is in such relationship for more than three years, Infact they are talk of their environment.. considering the fact they got criticized by people at the onset , just as u are doing now. This guy used his experience to help guide the lady to a better place she is now...And future is looking soo bright for them. It is not easy, but destiny will always happen. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by Nobody: 11:14am On Feb 21, 2020 |
SmellingAnus: Your anus stinks so bad! 6 Likes
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Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by TonyeBarcanista(m): 11:16am On Feb 21, 2020 |
Kobicove:What if she find someone else during her university/NYSC? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by FourEyedRaven: 11:16am On Feb 21, 2020 |
Maturity is something that comes with experience. You truly can't say if a person is decent or not without seeing their reaction to certain situations. Don't get head over heals that you've gotten a good girl, she's young and wouldn't have the slightest idea of how to handle the challenges that comes with marriage. However, If you're vastly experienced with handling ladies and you're SURE of guiding her to make the better choices in those situations, then you can walk her down the aisle. If not, just observe her for a year or two before even thinking about marriage, then her true nature will manifest itself. Mind you, I'm not saying you're a saint, cause you might even end up being the bad person in this love story, so observe your bad habits too in this period to ensure that you're marriage worthy. 2 Likes |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by praiseneo(m): 11:17am On Feb 21, 2020 |
LosC:wetin consine God for this matter now ehn 1 Like
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Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by Nobody: 11:17am On Feb 21, 2020 |
Congrats, give me her number let me call her and greet her for liking you 1 Like |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by mvem(m): 11:17am On Feb 21, 2020 |
tobechi74:you call a 19 year old girl naive 2 Likes |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by noblenelly(m): 11:18am On Feb 21, 2020 |
i advise you leave her. |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by Durhleepee(f): 11:18am On Feb 21, 2020 |
You said you are a dog lover, is that a relationship requirement? How does that relate to your dilemma? |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by Nobody: 11:20am On Feb 21, 2020 |
franchasng:I'll stick to this advise 1 Like |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by Rozaytee: 11:21am On Feb 21, 2020 |
franchasng:be like say u go soon marry second wife...lol..dis one u dey suggest in case op wan marry second wife 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by Nobody: 11:22am On Feb 21, 2020 |
Durhleepee: 1 Share
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Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by pennywys(m): 11:24am On Feb 21, 2020 |
GidiRide:buddy ride on nothing do u If the feelings is mutual nothing do you guyz sailing on 2 Likes |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by Acidosis(m): 11:25am On Feb 21, 2020 |
How do you guys do it? How do you date a 19 year old girl? What do you discuss? JAMB, Post-UTME, Makeup, NYSC? At 30 years, this is what you want to do/discuss with your life?? By the time you're married, you will find yourself spending more time with your age mates and friends, keeping late nights and doing all sorts of nonsense because the teenage kid-dult you kept at home do not reason the way you do. Go and marry your best friend sir. A best friend is likely going to be someone in your age group. 1 Like |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by jeff1607(m): 11:26am On Feb 21, 2020 |
Tonnexy: Are u THE HULK? |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by Munzy14(m): 11:26am On Feb 21, 2020 |
GidiRide:It is not easy bro... I am talking from experience. Sometimes she will like to be a girl, and not lady. It is actually the moment of testing for the love shared. And,it is also the time she will test your maturity, If u pass this stage, bro u are in for a life treat to happiness. Above all, u are firstly an elder bro in disguise for her, a second Dad, then a lover and lastly her man. Lastly, don't use ur age and experience to over shadow her thoughts and opinion. ladies enjoy that opinion thing in certain circumstances. Allow her free mind of her own, but guidance is good. 1 Like |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by Nobody: 11:28am On Feb 21, 2020 |
Munzy14: You see why i like older men? |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by Brightgem(f): 11:28am On Feb 21, 2020 |
GidiRide:If you are sure about this fine. Be ready to see her evolve before your eyes if you are willing to guide her, a 19 year old doesn't know herself well enough yet. Everything in life is a risk Sha. 1 Like |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by shogsman(m): 11:28am On Feb 21, 2020 |
You're a pedophile,just kidding, catch her young and help her grow you'll thank me later. 4 Likes |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by Toks2008(m): 11:29am On Feb 21, 2020 |
dollynnn: Amen o. 1 Like |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by jeyselassie(m): 11:30am On Feb 21, 2020 |
As I dey follow you talk like this like this your picture just enter barbeach now now congrats 1 Like |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by Toks2008(m): 11:30am On Feb 21, 2020 |
Acidosis: And what if she is his best friend? Abi best friend and age correlate ni? 4 Likes |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by samworthyever: 11:31am On Feb 21, 2020 |
She is in lust with you. Ladies at this age don't really know what they want. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by amiskurie(m): 11:31am On Feb 21, 2020 |
GidiRide: Me I am 13yrs older than mine, she's 20. I am an entrepreneur too. 4 Likes |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by Acidosis(m): 11:35am On Feb 21, 2020 |
Toks2008: A typical 30 year old Nigerian guy can never have a 19 year old girl as best friend. Easy s .ex and the need to control someone is why a man of that age would date a 19 year old. 2 Likes |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by pocohantas(f): 11:37am On Feb 21, 2020 |
Nothing wrong with the age difference. However, as we grow, meet people, get financially independent- our choices would change. She may not feel deeply about you anymore. Then we hear story of how she dumped you after the university. It is a risk that you can choose to take. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by Toks2008(m): 11:37am On Feb 21, 2020 |
Acidosis: Funny conclusion. Make I leave you to your opinion. 1 Like |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by bayulll011(m): 11:39am On Feb 21, 2020 |
GidiRide: Lol guy look for your mate,that girl obviously has not seen life. don't deprived her of the youthful exuberance. allow her to grow and matured so we don't hear stories that touch latter. regards. |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by Munzy14(m): 11:39am On Feb 21, 2020 |
GidiRide:Wow I like the 5yrs stuff, time good enough to have bonded perfectly. I always kick against, meet this month, marry next month. Nice plan bro, U guys should work well well on self development(education, skills acquisitions etc)it is very important In our modern day society. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by bukatyne(f): 11:40am On Feb 21, 2020 |
Acidosis: I have realized that different men want different things in their lives. Ditto women. I can't imagine being with a man 10 years older than I am. But that's me and my expectations in marriage. The age gap works for others. 3 Likes |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by olusma23(m): 11:41am On Feb 21, 2020 |
Relationship and Snake matter too dey sweet Nairaland Mod. Chai 1 Like |
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