wany:

You know all this and yet your marriage failed.@op let that teenager go and go for a lady in your social class.there are ladies of 25yrs that also doing well in there careers and business not a teenager that is just cracking out of her shell and how are you sure is love and not infatuation/fantasies.

Without thinking twice I knew this came from a lady and most likely a lame one with no brain...the type that can never be taken serious by any sane man.

How unfortunate is that guy that will think he has a reasonable lady not knowing you are a sorry case.

If you use just the little brain you have to follow my comment you will realize that you just made a fool of yourself.

If you quote me again I will give you some words that will make you see sniper as fruit juice. Arindin.

Maobichek:
Good afternoon, how are you? I know that you won't recognize me again. You once advice me to call off a relationship that wasn't working in 2016. thank God I heed to your advice, though painful but I'm strong and better now, thank you very much, God bless you.

Amen. Wish you all the best.

Kobicove:


It's absurd for a 29 year old guy to be walking down the street with a 19 year old girl who does not yet know her left from her right and be introducing her as his girlfriend!

At this stage she has no value to contribute to his life...the only thing she cares about now is who will buy her Coldstone icecream

He on the other hand only just wants an immature girl he can manipulate easily

Like Kanu Nwakwo? Do you agree with me?

Durhleepee:
You said you are a dog lover, is that a relationship requirement? How does that relate to your dilemna?

...dilemma....

GidiRide:
I’m 10 years older than her.

She’s an Nd holder but still want to get her Bachelor degree. We met in my eglise, she liked me and we started talking.

In few days we were already close, and it felt like we met in months ago.

She really loves me, She’s has shown traits of a good girl, well behaved, intelligent and loving. She’s from a good home, her siblings look forward to seeing me on Sunday.

As I’m typing she’s on WhatsApp call with me eulogizing ourselves with our sweet names.

I really do like her a lot, infact I love her truly but but I’m scared.

Pls note that I’m also a great guy, an entrepreneur, a dog lover, a. CEO etc but I’m SCARED.

I don’t want to jeopardize this relationship and sometimes I feel she’s smaller looking at the age gap.

What do you guys think?

if you feel the love she has for you.. go ahead and groom her, engage her, see her through the bsc program. Marry her.

OlawaleBammie:

Bro even me dey reason that tin oo


I wil just b in my seventies and my boo wil stil b rocking it at sixties

Live your life well and grow gracefully. There are many different 60s that look 80.
I went for antenatal with wife and I senior her by just a year, but if you see other women that came, from appearance you'll think they are older than my wife but most were about 6years 7 years younger in age but my wife looks far younger than them.

wany:

You know all this and yet your marriage failed.@

Savagery. You didn't need that.

op let that teenager go and go for a lady in your social class.

But some people did it successfully with 18 years old now. This one is 19 and it's not like @op is ready now.

there are ladies of 25yrs that also doing well in there careers and business not a teenager that is just cracking out of her shell and how are you sure is love and not infatuation/fantasies.

Lol. As if the moment you talk to them, they're like: where have you been all these years my Prince?

Tonnexy:
Smash

my man

GidiRide:
I’m 10 years older than her.

She’s an Nd holder but still want to get her Bachelor degree. We met in my eglise, she liked me and we started talking.

In few days we were already close, and it felt like we met in months ago.

She really loves me, She’s has shown traits of a good girl, well behaved, intelligent and loving. She’s from a good home, her siblings look forward to seeing me on Sunday.

As I’m typing she’s on WhatsApp call with me eulogizing ourselves with our sweet names.

I really do like her a lot, infact I love her truly but but I’m scared.

Pls note that I’m also a great guy, an entrepreneur, a dog lover, a. CEO etc but I’m SCARED.

I don’t want to jeopardize this relationship and sometimes I feel she’s smaller looking at the age gap.

What do you guys think?

You just have to make sure she loves you more than you love her. Also, aim for her respect. Let her respect you. Cause if a woman loves you, she can always leave you or cheat on you. But when she respects you, she will not want to hurt you out of fear of loosing you.

Lastmankc:
You aren't mature. Kids with pampers everywhere. Must you bring this to nairaland? The mod that moved this shit to FP should be shot on the head.

you shouldn't be displeased at the topic albeit you should know that this piece of shit(which you claim it is) can help people at the op shoes out there...... And please avoid the use of derogatory words. Someone shot on the head is not too pleasant to use or say... Cheers

ifex370:



you being a dog lover makes you so awesome.. wow..

The ego in that line alone was epic.

i tot i'm the only person the sees the ego.

Toks2008:


Impressive. Sounds similar to my story but mine strayed at a point but latter realized her mistakes.

Oh cool so does that mean you guys are back together?

lasisi69:
Teen love is useless... Once you get attached so much, she will dump you.. it’s a natural phenomenon.

lol, leave d guy o, love ko, love ni

Lastmankc:
You aren't mature. Kids with pampers everywhere. Must you bring this to nairaland? The mod that moved this shit to FP should be shot on the head.

Some people are just looking for where to pour their frustrations. Bros calm down, It shall be well no matter what you are going through, it will pass.

GidiRide:
YOu think so?

He is right. Not cast in stone but it's a good yard stick nevertheless

otherway:


Oh cool so does that mean you guys are back together?

Affirmative.

The thing is, most young women between the age of 18 and 24 are in their hoe phase. And being raised in a good home and having an attitude that portrays good virtue doesn't always amount to much as they tend to get carried away too easily with anyone who sells them the love line.

I will however recommend you don't trust and love with all your heart as it could be tantamount to toeing perdition's path.

Goodluck broda.

Petyprincess:
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Trash!!! Will you advice your teenager sister to date a man almost at his thirty? You guys will just be giving advice that you can't give to your sisters!!
Y'all like younger women because they are easy to manipulate nd exploit at the same time! What is stopping him from waiting for her for three more years by that time she will definitely know what she wants if She's truly interested in this age gap shit! A girl at that age have no mind of her own!!

You gave valid points. If it's their sister you'll see they will never advice she date even let alone get married at that age.
If the advice is good why are they all calling out on Famous actresses getting married to older men?
They give advice that benefits only to their gender

maasoap:


How does age translate to equal right in marriage? Seems like you don't know women much. A wide age gap doesn't mean that your wife has no right or equal right in in the relationship now. Unless you are telling us that you are looking for someone who will be standing up to you, antagonising you in every decision you are about making for the family. In that case, it has nothing to do with age gap but nature

You did not understand me at all.

OlawaleBammie:


Sorry, assistant Jesus, we lives long in my lineage

why dis nonsense talk dis early momo sef

I taya for their matter on top your head o.
Lmao.
Almost like them dream about you.

Orpe7:
I am 36yrs and 9 yrs older than my wife
Those that answer your Q

And was your wife 19yrs when you both got married.does that answer your IQ.

Rozaytee:
be like say u go soon marry second wife...lol..dis one u dey suggest in case op wan marry second wife

maybe when I am 80yrs na, and with the approval of my Olori

Toks2008:
At a stage in the past I dated a lady that was younger than me with freaking 17years but she had no clue at all cos I look over a decade younger than my age but when she found out she told me she can't continue and I obliged her request but guess what, she no gree leave me cos she said she has never seen such care from a man like the one she got from me.

I just laughed and told myself quietly that this lady is in big trouble cos I know she is hooked. I had to sit her down and begged her to move on since there is no point sticking with me whilst insisting she can't date me cos of age gap.

This age thing is a mind thing. When a lady sees great care from a man 20years older and younger guys keep acting like pricks she will rather pitch her tenth with the older man. Who close age epp?

There are younger guys with mature minds sir.
Even tho they are few.
I get your opinion, it's a wise one. But there are exceptions to that.

arthorjnr:


I taya for their matter on top your head o.
Lmao.
Almost like them dream about you.

Asbin broz, fhe tin taya me oo

just as if dem wan to inherit my wealth wey a never even gather.. dem b village pipu, God pass dem

GidiRide:
I’m 10 years older than her.

She’s an Nd holder but still want to get her Bachelor degree. We met in my eglise, she liked me and we started talking.

In few days we were already close, and it felt like we met in months ago.

She really loves me, She’s has shown traits of a good girl, well behaved, intelligent and loving. She’s from a good home, her siblings look forward to seeing me on Sunday.

As I’m typing she’s on WhatsApp call with me eulogizing ourselves with our sweet names.

I really do like her a lot, infact I love her truly but but I’m scared.

Pls note that I’m also a great guy, an entrepreneur, a dog lover, a. CEO etc but I’m SCARED.

I don’t want to jeopardize this relationship and sometimes I feel she’s smaller looking at the age gap.

What do you guys think?

Girl that will still dump you once she gain admission.

Trust this story at ur risk

omotola90:
bro ignore them and focus on your God for evil shall never befall thee and your household..... Trust me

God bless u tjis brother, big Amen to ur prayer on me, Amen IJN.

Dem b vilage pipu i can see, dem want me dead but God pass dem.

How much is seventies that they are sayin trash.

Our Oloriebi is more than 90, the nigga stil dey room about without staff but with his transistor radio.

Toks2008:


Without thinking twice I knew this came from a lady and most likely a lame one with no brain...the type that can never be taken serious by any sane man.

How unfortunate is that guy that will think he has a reasonable lady not knowing you are a sorry case.

If you use just the little brain you have to follow my comment you will realize that you just made a fool of yourself.

If you quote me again I will give you some words that will make you see sniper as fruit juice. Arindin.

Do you now see how lost you are,you even mentioned how your own strayed and yet you are adviceing him to go get it.the one you got did she stay with you.just read what you just vomited.always bitter at every mention ,no wonder she left.sad for any female in your space.phidophile

Bluffly:

Live your life well and grow gracefully. There are many different 60s that look 80.
I went for antenatal with wife and I senior her by just a year, but if you see other women that came, from appearance you'll think they are older than my wife but most were about 6years 7 years younger in age but my wife looks far younger than them.

More rsason i want to marry a person more younger dan i am, in my extreme late 20s but i look 22, to d extent dat my look gives me phobia

I dare not toast my age mate outside cus she would tink she's five years older dan i am , dem even born me well to raise mouth??

dog lover wtf has that got to do with anything

LosC:
Dog lover indeed..
Loving human and animal at the same time...

Leave that Teenager alone and focus on your journey with God

I doubt she's a virgin.