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Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by TruthSpeaker: 2:07pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
YOUR STUFF DOESN’T SEEM TO MAKE MUCH SENSE. WHAT REALLY ARE YOU AFRAID OF IF YOU CLAIM YOU BOTH LOVE EACH OTHER? WHAT ARE YOUR INTENTIONS WITH HER, SETTLING AND GETTING MARRIED? BEING 10 YEARS OLDER THAN A LADY IS NO BIG DEAL FOR A RELATIONSHIP. IF IT WERE THE OTHER WAY ROUND THAT IS WHEN IT WOULD HAVE CALLED A LITTLE ATTENTION. YOU CLAIM TO BE A CEO, I JUST HOPE IT IS NOT AN OVER STATEMENT? THERE ARE SOME ERROR IN YOUR WRITE UP THAT MAKES ONE BEGIN TO QUESTION YOUR LEVEL OF EDUCATION BECAUSE THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN TYPO ERROR AND WRONG EXPRESSION. IN MODERN DAYS, EVEN ROAD SIDE VULCANIZERS, ROAD SIDE SACHET WATER HAWKER ALL CLAIM THE CEO TITTLE. 1 Like |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by Nobody: 2:10pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Toks2008:pls why did you say so |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by franchasng: 2:11pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
TemmyT002:No they never learn. A 19yr old girl have like 5 - 7yrs more to get fooled and chopped by rich, average, brokeass and NFA boyfriends before she can then realise that life is not like the soap opera movies she watch and the Cinderella novels she has been reading. Any wise guy should allow girls at that age be and not force or lure them into commitment, unless you want just fun. You can only go for them for commitment as a second or third wife if and only if you have plenty enough money to give her all her girlie fantasies and make her teenage girlfriends and peers jealous like Ned is doing for Regina, reason you still see Regina Daniels going out in squad with her teenage friends despite that she is married. To her, she is not married because she don't even know what it means to be married aside going on expensive shopping, clubbing, going on vacation, snapping pix and posting on social media and partying with her teenage friends. If Ned refused her from doing all these and wanted her to be a traditional wife, Regina Daniels will run away from that marriage in just 2 weeks! Teenage girls are sweet for side chicks and outings not for commitment 3 Likes |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by Samakus(m): 2:11pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Any girl older than 24 is a no no for me. Marrying a younger girl is bae |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by franchasng: 2:12pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
chihes:Becosi.....becosss he is a Nigerian man |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by doyinbaby(f): 2:17pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Whatever it is about.. don't have sex with that girl until you wife her 2 Likes |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by Nobody: 2:20pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Toks2008:okay, I have just read this now on where you explained more on it. I am not that young though, and I am married...but you know what, I thing you are 85% correct. Every other is just fate base on chance and season designed by God for the couple. I can't forget my mom keep mentioning of my late father, though very much older than her, but kept pampering her till his death. 1 Like |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by Godsonkemz(m): 2:21pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Age matters if she's still not emotionally stable. I have dated girls of 19, 20, 21 and 22 but i found out they were driven by fantasies and just wanna have fun and at that stage of life they are not interested in marriage or settling down. All they loved were fresh guys with 6packs, yahoo boys or rich guys with benz. They tend to have insatiable desires. And they are so dramatic and psychedelic. I've come to the realization that except a lady is up to 25-29, she's not yet mature for marriage in thoughts, reasonings and emotion to maintain a balance. 2 Likes |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by Toks2008(m): 2:25pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
arthorjnr: Always exceptions to rules bro...one cap never fits all. 1 Like |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by MrFly(m): 2:36pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
GidiRide:u are typing and she is on whatsapp call. Who are u decieving? 1 Like |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by BRATISLAVA: 2:37pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
GidiRide: You are funny. You have a good heart? Why don't you let others tell us, why are you announcing yourself? Let your actions speak for you. And let people testify of you. She should be careful of your pride. It's the reason you can't be with her. She's just a mere ND holder, according to you. You see yourself as her tingod. Go be with someone else not at young girl you want to show off to. You have a good heart because you can feed a dog and wash it, just like the rest of us do. Your feeling of self importance is bloated. |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by SavageResponse(m): 2:37pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
GidiRide: This is not love, it's infatuation. By the time this girl enters the university she will realise she needs to explore then you will start complaining that she's cheating on you! |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by Shellsploit: 2:38pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
femi4:
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Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by Durhleepee(f): 2:41pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
omotola90:Okay |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by BRATISLAVA: 2:41pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Toks2008: To be polite, cradle snatching. Why are you scared of women your age? They aren't as naïve? That age gap has its flaws. It means that when the woman is born, the man is already a teenager. Imagine him dating a new born baby. What do they really have in common if not list on his part? To have a gross old man pampering them? What even makes you think young women are attracted to older men, if not that the older men pursue them like their lives depend on it because they lust after their bodies? |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by Rodeoz(m): 2:46pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
The quoted part is so true. I started dating a girl few days to her 20th birthday(2018). She was so sweet and we’ve been on a jolly ride. She left for service last year and we continued talking and chatting, things were still going smoothly. She came home last December and we were together for the weekend and I even took her out on her 21st birthday. We had awesome time. She returned to her Ppa around January and since then, there’s been a slight shift in her attitude. She doesn’t reply my chats as often and she seems backsliding. I noticed she now has couple of male friends they hang out together. I was so worried cause I loved her so much and she’s technically my first love, I’m hers too. She knows how loyal and devoted I am to her and I can pretty much say the same about her. Fast forward to this month, things became so bad that she doesn’t even reply my chat with enthusiasm again. So, I decided to reduce the way I engage myself too for like 3/4 days. She later asked after the 5th day why I was being cold. I told her why has she changed and things ain’t as smooth as they used to be. She said maybe the stress of charging her phone etc... coz there’s no light there but that hasn’t been a problem for over 6 months she’s been there why now? Then she said maybe she’s falling out of love. Wow, like really? Just like that? I told her, she ought to have told me this instead of all the signs. I told her she should have her time and thank you for all the memories. It was good while it lasted. Thank you. I was even expecting her to say something like, she doesn’t mean we should break up and the likes. She said nothing. This is a girl I’ve contributed a lot into her life. I can’t even begin to mention and I’m 5 years older than her. I just left her and it’s been 2weeks now since we broke up. I’m hurt like hell but I will never allow my love for her drag me to the mud of asking why she fell out of love or begging her to be loved. I’ll just allow her be and see whether she will one day realized I’m more than worthy of her and come back. Truly, you need to allow them get burnt and learn and maybe by then they will come to their senses. franchasng: 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by BRATISLAVA: 2:46pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Petyprincess: There are a lot of dirty old men who think younger ladies will be attracted to them. Usually they are the ones competing to be recognized by little babies, because they are old stock in low demand among their female peers. They will develop potbellies and expect young girls to desire them because they have a little extra money. |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by SavageResponse(m): 2:47pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
GidiRide: I feel sorry for you if you marry this girl at this stage. Just be ready to call her at laest 10 times evreyday while you're at work because at this stage she still has fantasies of living a good and comfortable life with you but she does not know yest that it comes with a lot of hard work and sacrifice 1 Like |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by ATTemi: 2:49pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
I’ve read all her mentions, she sounds hurt. TonyeBarcanista: |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by uthlaw: 2:49pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
So all the 25years and above you've dated....you will dump them for who? |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by BRATISLAVA: 2:50pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
ozodigboo: Even the ones dating teenagers while they are in their fifties can't stay put. A man isn't kept inside his home by a body. you have made us understand that even a submissive great-grandmother is a hot enough oven. This is why in the news teenage boys rape octogenarians with ease. Nothing satisfies a man. 1 Like |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by BRATISLAVA: 2:55pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
ednut1: It's good that out of 180 million + Nigerians, you have pointed out 3. Their circumstances are similar: a few (much richer than the nairaland) old men wouldn't let them rest. They never desired them. Every man dreams to marry a banging body. But the reality is that they were 20 years when the baby was born and now that 20 year old is lusting after a baby. Why doesn't he go after an 18 year old? |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by Yoighaman(m): 2:56pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Toks2008: You made sense die, only myopic and insular minds would not fathom out what you just wrote. Thumbs up. |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by aysnoopy(m): 3:09pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
I'm 29 last month and my girl will be 22 in April and I love her likewise she loves me too. anyways, as long as dere is love, den no problem, but be prepared to tolerate some childish and immature behavior from her Good luck sir |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by oshaosha2014(m): 3:10pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
I am 15urs older thank my woman. Thank God she get same height as me and she get flesh small, we look just perfect together. I just wanna pamper this geh. And courting them that young when they have not slept with everybody yet, it is really easy to mould them to your liking. And you just be a considerate man and don’t take advantage of her because she has less experience. Be a good man. Toks2008: |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by Toks2008(m): 3:14pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
aysnoopy: That is the word...readiness to tolerate. Anytime I had disagreement with my lady she will be quick to jokingly call me "agbaya to n ba omo inu e su" meaning I'm not ashamed that I'm scrwing a girl of wide age gap from me and we both laugh it off...this is just 8years gap o..now she looks just about 2years younger. Ladies age faster sha. Honestly there is something very sweet about a man being with a lady of wide age gap. You will always feel like you need to guide, pamper and cherish her in a special way. |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by MyOleSolksjaer: 3:15pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Your english is horrible. Work on your tenses abeg. franchasng: 1 Like |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by Toks2008(m): 3:18pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
franchasng: It is understandable that you write all these to defend your choice but honestly you need not stress it cos what works for you may not work for another. Nevertheless there is no denying that the younger the lady the better. |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by aysnoopy(m): 3:19pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Toks2008: you're very right. but what works for one may not work for others. I think that age gap works for me she respect me and took my advice serious. she fear me and as well stubborn at times and I love it that way. I gave her advice to learn something outside education (I choose pharmacy/chemist for her to go learn) and now she told me she's interested. if she had dated her mate like 2 yrs gap, I don't think d guy will av anything to offer Dan s*x s*x s*x |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by oshaosha2014(m): 3:20pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Seeing young girls have worthy suitors doesn’t sit well with most women who used their tender age to sleep with all the men in town. ozodigboo: |
Re: A 19-Year-Old Lady Is In Love With Me, I'm 10 Years Older. I'm Scared by Czartega(m): 3:25pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Freehuman: So that he will go and tear somebody's daughter's vagina ... Wait for her to come of age |
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