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ATTemi:
She’s still naive about life, probably while u think she’s a good girl. Series of heart breaks go reformat the good girl.

But if your intentions are genuine, help her grow.

Pikin wey go die must die even if u give am 5Alive.

BRATISLAVA:
To be polite, cradle snatching. Why are you scared of women your age? They aren't as naïve? That age gap has its flaws. It means that when the woman is born, the man is already a teenager. Imagine him dating a new born baby. What do they really have in common if not list on his part? To have a gross old man pampering them? What even makes you think young women are attracted to older men, if not that the older men pursue them like their lives depend on it because they lust after their bodies?

wany:
And was your wife 19yrs when you both got married.does that answer your IQ.

Rodeoz:
The quoted part is so true.

I started dating a girl few days to her 20th birthday(2018). She was so sweet and we’ve been on a jolly ride. She left for service last year and we continued talking and chatting, things were still going smoothly. She came home last December and we were together for the weekend and I even took her out on her 21st birthday. We had awesome time.

She returned to her Ppa around January and since then, there’s been a slight shift in her attitude. She doesn’t reply my chats as often and she seems backsliding. I noticed she now has couple of male friends they hang out together.

I was so worried cause I loved her so much and she’s technically my first love, I’m hers too. She knows how loyal and devoted I am to her and I can pretty much say the same about her.

Fast forward to this month, things became so bad that she doesn’t even reply my chat with enthusiasm again. So, I decided to reduce the way I engage myself too for like 3/4 days. She later asked after the 5th day why I was being cold. I told her why has she changed and things ain’t as smooth as they used to be.

She said maybe the stress of charging her phone etc... coz there’s no light there but that hasn’t been a problem for over 6 months she’s been there why now? Then she said maybe she’s falling out of love. Wow, like really? Just like that?

I told her, she ought to have told me this instead of all the signs. I told her she should have her time and thank you for all the memories. It was good while it lasted. Thank you.

I was even expecting her to say something like, she doesn’t mean we should break up and the likes. She said nothing. This is a girl I’ve contributed a lot into her life. I can’t even begin to mention and I’m 5 years older than her.

I just left her and it’s been 2weeks now since we broke up. I’m hurt like hell but I will never allow my love for her drag me to the mud of asking why she fell out of love or begging her to be loved.

I’ll just allow her be and see whether she will one day realized I’m more than worthy of her and come back.

Truly, you need to allow them get burnt and learn and maybe by then they will come to their senses.

Rodeoz:
The quoted part is so true.

I started dating a girl few days to her 20th birthday(2018). She was so sweet and we’ve been on a jolly ride. She left for service last year and we continued talking and chatting, things were still going smoothly. She came home last December and we were together for the weekend and I even took her out on her 21st birthday. We had awesome time.

She returned to her Ppa around January and since then, there’s been a slight shift in her attitude. She doesn’t reply my chats as often and she seems backsliding. I noticed she now has couple of male friends they hang out together.

I was so worried cause I loved her so much and she’s technically my first love, I’m hers too. She knows how loyal and devoted I am to her and I can pretty much say the same about her.

Fast forward to this month, things became so bad that she doesn’t even reply my chat with enthusiasm again. So, I decided to reduce the way I engage myself too for like 3/4 days. She later asked after the 5th day why I was being cold. I told her why has she changed and things ain’t as smooth as they used to be.

She said maybe the stress of charging her phone etc... coz there’s no light there but that hasn’t been a problem for over 6 months she’s been there why now? Then she said maybe she’s falling out of love. Wow, like really? Just like that?

I told her, she ought to have told me this instead of all the signs. I told her she should have her time and thank you for all the memories. It was good while it lasted. Thank you.

I was even expecting her to say something like, she doesn’t mean we should break up and the likes. She said nothing. This is a girl I’ve contributed a lot into her life. I can’t even begin to mention and I’m 5 years older than her.

I just left her and it’s been 2weeks now since we broke up. I’m hurt like hell but I will never allow my love for her drag me to the mud of asking why she fell out of love or begging her to be loved.

I’ll just allow her be and see whether she will one day realized I’m more than worthy of her and come back.

Truly, you need to allow them get burnt and learn and maybe by then they will come to their senses.

MrColdsweat:
I had to log in to quote you.

This is the exact thing that happened to me this month. Met my ex when she was 18, the more I tried to let her know that life is not fantasy, the more she saw me as domineering. She cheated a few times, I forgave her. I loved her and wouldn't have traded her for anything In the world. The only issue I had with her was trust. I didn't trust her. Before she left for her nysc, I keep singing it to her that we have to work on trust because i was restless and sleepless because of it. She saw it as noise that I was making. When she went for nysc by November, early this February, she went on a date with a fellow corper and lied to me. She lied to me because of a guy she just barely met. Last December made it 3 years we dated. I had to end it.

I'm still hurt. Very hurt. But we move on.


Girls below 24 generally do not understand the concept of commitment. This is the opposite for ladies above 26. My problem with Ladies over 26 is that they're smarter and experienced. They lie smartly, cheat smartly etc, but they value commitment.

Your preference depends on what you want.

GidiRide:
I’m 10 years older than her.

She’s an Nd holder but still want to get her Bachelor degree. We met in my eglise, she liked me and we started talking.

In few days we were already close, and it felt like we met in months ago.

She really loves me, She’s has shown traits of a good girl, well behaved, intelligent and loving. She’s from a good home, her siblings look forward to seeing me on Sunday.

As I’m typing she’s on WhatsApp call with me eulogizing ourselves with our sweet names.

I really do like her a lot, infact I love her truly but but I’m scared.

Pls note that I’m also a great guy, an entrepreneur, a dog lover, a. CEO etc but I’m SCARED.

I don’t want to jeopardize this relationship and sometimes I feel she’s smaller looking at the age gap.

What do you guys think?

To me age is just a number.

GidiRide:
YOu think so?

Toks2008:
Modify your title to "A 19year old girl is in love with me"

Please understand that if you are her first love, she may remain with you for life but be prepared to see her stray cos most ladies who never see outside will just want to explore but their heart will always gravitate towards the one she truly loves.

I'm writing from personal experience

wany:
Thank you dear1 ,I must say this man toks2008 is a phidophile.and he has a daughter not even up to 7yrs.now if I may ask ? Can he allow a man 17yrs older than his daughter date his daughter and he will be comfortable with the union. Why dish out what you cant take.such a hotie and dramatic fellow.

femi4:
How is being a dog lover make you a romantic person. Seun is a dog lover too yet.....

Rodeoz:
The quoted part is so true.

I started dating a girl few days to her 20th birthday(2018). She was so sweet and we’ve been on a jolly ride. She left for service last year and we continued talking and chatting, things were still going smoothly. She came home last December and we were together for the weekend and I even took her out on her 21st birthday. We had awesome time.

She returned to her Ppa around January and since then, there’s been a slight shift in her attitude. She doesn’t reply my chats as often and she seems backsliding. I noticed she now has couple of male friends they hang out together.

I was so worried cause I loved her so much and she’s technically my first love, I’m hers too. She knows how loyal and devoted I am to her and I can pretty much say the same about her.

Fast forward to this month, things became so bad that she doesn’t even reply my chat with enthusiasm again. So, I decided to reduce the way I engage myself too for like 3/4 days. She later asked after the 5th day why I was being cold. I told her why has she changed and things ain’t as smooth as they used to be.

She said maybe the stress of charging her phone etc... coz there’s no light there but that hasn’t been a problem for over 6 months she’s been there why now? Then she said maybe she’s falling out of love. Wow, like really? Just like that?

I told her, she ought to have told me this instead of all the signs. I told her she should have her time and thank you for all the memories. It was good while it lasted. Thank you.

I was even expecting her to say something like, she doesn’t mean we should break up and the likes. She said nothing. This is a girl I’ve contributed a lot into her life. I can’t even begin to mention and I’m 5 years older than her.

I just left her and it’s been 2weeks now since we broke up. I’m hurt like hell but I will never allow my love for her drag me to the mud of asking why she fell out of love or begging her to be loved.

I’ll just allow her be and see whether she will one day realized I’m more than worthy of her and come back.

Truly, you need to allow them get burnt and learn and maybe by then they will come to their senses.

Jugo88:
Abeg wetin u tell am to make her fall for u like dat

MrColdsweat:
I had to log in to quote you.

This is the exact thing that happened to me this month. Met my ex when she was 18, the more I tried to let her know that life is not fantasy, the more she saw me as domineering. She cheated a few times, I forgave her. I loved her and wouldn't have traded her for anything In the world. The only issue I had with her was trust. I didn't trust her. Before she left for her nysc, I keep singing it to her that we have to work on trust because i was restless and sleepless because of it. She saw it as noise that I was making. When she went for nysc by November, early this February, she went on a date with a fellow corper and lied to me. She lied to me because of a guy she just barely met. Last December made it 3 years we dated. I had to end it.

I'm still hurt. Very hurt. But we move on.


Girls below 24 generally do not understand the concept of commitment. This is the opposite for ladies above 26. My problem with Ladies over 26 is that they're smarter and experienced. They lie smartly, cheat smartly etc, but they value commitment.

Your preference depends on what you want.

franchasng:
Abeg told them letting them heard it well well

karlboss:
My own question is after all these girls get burnt as almost everyone is saying who would want to marry and keep burnt meat.

The issue in most of this cases is that we have lost our values as Africans.

In the past women married early but parents still teach and nuture d lady even in her husband house.

Early marriage is still d best because allowing ladies to experience life many of them never recover.

Yesterday a woman locked her kids to go and have sex. The house got burnt.

franchasng:
See the paedophiles hahahahahahahaha, I have the full video

franchasng:
We are now in a recycled world; the same we us will marrying thems so better is you joining is in the burnting thems too, so when is you get are burnted one, you are not is complains

Omar09:
Trying to comprehend this your write up can cure Coro...

Omar09:
Sir, I'm gonna have to call security on you. Are you OK?

Czartega:
Let him be there wasting time... Until one hoodlum give the girl orgasm. He nor go see her breaklight again

franchasng:
Yes for women, experience is their best tutor


Sorry about your current lovelorn situation, just move on, in few years from today you will remember it and laugh

MJBOLT:

ubunja has a long way to go judging by the way men are crying on this thread

THESE DAYS THE WAILING IS SOMETHING ELSE. I'M GLAD THEY RESERVE ALL WAILINGS ONLINE MATE IMAGINE IF WE HAD THESE WAILING MEN OFFLINE IN OUR STREETS.

Petyprincess:
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Trash!!! Will you advice your teenager sister to date a man almost at his thirty? You guys will just be giving advice that you can't give to your sisters!!
Y'all like younger women because they are easy to manipulate nd exploit at the same time! What is stopping him from waiting for her for three more years by that time she will definitely know what she wants if She's truly interested in this age gap shit! A girl at that age have no mind of her own!!

Rodeoz:
The quoted part is so true.
I started dating a girl few days to her 20th birthday(2018). She was so sweet and we’ve been on a jolly ride. She left for service last year and we continued talking and chatting, things were still going smoothly. She came home last December and we were together for the weekend and I even took her out on her 21st birthday. We had awesome time.
She returned to her Ppa around January and since then, there’s been a slight shift in her attitude. She doesn’t reply my chats as often and she seems backsliding. I noticed she now has couple of male friends they hang out together.
I was so worried cause I loved her so much and she’s technically my first love, I’m hers too. She knows how loyal and devoted I am to her and I can pretty much say the same about her.
Fast forward to this month, things became so bad that she doesn’t even reply my chat with enthusiasm again. So, I decided to reduce the way I engage myself too for like 3/4 days. She later asked after the 5th day why I was being cold. I told her why has she changed and things ain’t as smooth as they used to be.
She said maybe the stress of charging her phone etc... coz there’s no light there but that hasn’t been a problem for over 6 months she’s been there why now? Then she said maybe she’s falling out of love. Wow, like really? Just like that?
I told her, she ought to have told me this instead of all the signs. I told her she should have her time and thank you for all the memories. It was good while it lasted. Thank you.
I was even expecting her to say something like, she doesn’t mean we should break up and the likes. She said nothing. This is a girl I’ve contributed a lot into her life. I can’t even begin to mention and I’m 5 years older than her.
I just left her and it’s been 2weeks now since we broke up. I’m hurt like hell but I will never allow my love for her drag me to the mud of asking why she fell out of love or begging her to be loved.
I’ll just allow her be and see whether she will one day realized I’m more than worthy of her and come back.
Truly, you need to allow them get burnt and learn and maybe by then they will come to their senses.