The first time i created an account here was because i wanted to get over my first boyfriend who had cheated on me...
We dated for about 2months. Before then, we were just classmates.
The relationship wasn't 'bad'. We only kissed once and that was my first time...
He started dating another girl. I found out from a mutual friend who wanted to date me. His intention was to destroy my relationship.
It backfired. I forgave my bf for cheating and we tried to make it work. But the guy wouldn't let go of the other girl.
That was my fault. I had told him to take it easy on her since she didn't know about us. I even became her friend after the whole wahala... I got tired of his attitude and called it off. And i moved on...
The problem now is that he hasn't. We dated for just two months and he's been disturbing me for a year now to start over again.
I'm not interested anymore but i find the whole thing to be weird...

Blu03:
The first time i created an account here was because i wanted to get over my first boyfriend who had cheated on me...
We dated for about 2months. Before then, we were just classmates.
The relationship wasn't 'bad'. We only kissed once and that was my first time...
He started dating another girl. I found out from a mutual friend who wanted to date me. His intention was to destroy my relationship.
It backfired. I forgave my bf for cheating and we tried to make it work. But the guy wouldn't let go of the other girl.
That was my fault. I had told him to take it easy on her since she didn't know about us. I even became her friend after the whole wahala... I got tired of his attitude and called it off. And i moved on...
The problem now is that he hasn't. We dated for just two months and he's been disturbing me for a year now to start over again.
I'm not interested anymore but i find the whole thing to be weird...

Just get married... or u go to the seminary and get a nun form... no time!!!


u hear me? no time

your first kiss ever? had your second yet?

The guy in question has wormed his way into every aspect of my life. I've told him my mind several times but he wouldn't bulge.

Lostz:
your first kiss ever? had your second yet?

second and last. How is that important?

Sister blu come on fb

MadeINchenzen2:
Just get married... or u go to the seminary and get a nun form... no time!!!


u hear me? no time

I'm confused

Blu03:
second and last. How is that important?

when is the third one coming?
the kiss is the most interesting part of your post. you are not looking for advice; are you?

Blu03:

I'm confused

dont... u re a big girl now!

.

the ball is in your court

Ekemeze:
. Add more flesh, then take it to the literature section.

nice fiction

is she skinny

He will soon snake his way in

Lostz:
when is the third one coming?
the kiss is the most interesting part of your post. you are not looking for advice; are you?

no. Just want to know if it's possible.
You studied engineering?

Blu03:

no. Just want to know if it's possible. You studied engineering?

I did. what does engineering got to this?

Haaaaaaa

Riele:
Haaaaaaa

Where have you been?

Froshloaded:

Where have you been?

Nowhere .

Just decided to enjoy my life small .

Lostz:
I did. what does engineering got to this?

sh!t
Nothing sir...

so what exactly is your problem?..this wacko girl

Blu03:
sh!t Nothing sir...

got the advice you needed?

Blu03:
sh!t Nothing sir...

got the advice you needed?

You said you found out from a mutual friend whose intention you believe was to destroy your relationship? Seriously? And you went back to your cheating boyfriend and accommodated the new girl in the relationship cos she didn’t know about you and your boyfriend?


You don’t have sense. You deserve your boyfriend.

Lord save us from dûmb girls.

AfroKnight:
You said you found out from a mutual friend whose intention you believe was to destroy your relationship? Seriously? And you went back to your cheating boyfriend and accommodated the new girl in the relationship cos she didn’t know about you and your boyfriend?


You don’t have sense. You deserve your boyfriend.

Lord save us from dûmb girls.

i agree. I was stupid for getting back with him. He begged me and i gave him a second chance... I would never do that again.

I brought that issue here last year i don't need your advice again.
The problem is that we dated for just 2months. But he's been asking for another chance for a year now...
I thought guys move on faster than girls.

Lostz:
got the advice you needed?

i was raised by a deltan couple. I saw your profile...

Blu03:


i was raised by a deltan couple. I saw your profile...

you from where?

Blu03:
i agree. I was stupid for getting back with him. He begged me and i gave him a second chance... I would never do that again.

I brought that issue here last year i don't need your advice again.
The problem is that we dated for just 2months. But he's been asking for another chance for a year now...
I thought guys move on faster than girls.

I understand what is going on with him.

It’s like withdrawal symptoms. He knows crack is bad for him but he keeps longing for more.

AfroKnight:


I understand what is going on with him.

It’s like withdrawal symptoms. He knows crack is bad for him but he keeps longing for more.

i agree...

Blu03:
The first time i created an account here was because i wanted to get over my first boyfriend who had cheated on me...
We dated for about 2months. Before then, we were just classmates.
The relationship wasn't 'bad'. We only kissed once and that was my first time...
He started dating another girl. I found out from a mutual friend who wanted to date me. His intention was to destroy my relationship.
It backfired. I forgave my bf for cheating and we tried to make it work. But the guy wouldn't let go of the other girl.
That was my fault. I had told him to take it easy on her since she didn't know about us. I even became her friend after the whole wahala... I got tired of his attitude and called it off. And i moved on...
The problem now is that he hasn't. We dated for just two months and he's been disturbing me for a year now to start over again.
I'm not interested anymore but i find the whole thing to be weird...

From your story, one can easily deduce that you are still a teenager and still in secondary school (assuming the story is real). I'll try my best not to act like a Nigerian parent.

What you need my dear, is a little more self-love, self-respect and confidence. Never settle for less, never share your man, and always value you first. Make sure you always look your best at all times. Always work hard to be on top whether it be academics or not....learn to stand out, be different, be uniquely special (dont follow the crowd).

These are the traits will get you anything you want

Blu03:

i agree...

Do u really need my sincere suggestions or advice?

Blu03:


i agree...

ecstasy357:



From your story, one can easily deduce that you are still a teenager and still in secondary school (assuming the story is real). I'll try my best not to act like a Nigerian parent.

What you need my dear, is a little more self-love, self-respect and confidence. Never settle for less, never share your man, and always value you first. Make sure you always look your best at all times. Always work hard to be on top whether it be academics or not....learn to stand out, be different, be uniquely special (dont follow the crowd).

These are the traits will get you anything you want

you're very mature. I just finished...
Thanks