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Blu03's Relationship Issues. by Nobody: 9:10pm On Feb 24, 2020
The first time i created an account here was because i wanted to get over my first boyfriend who had cheated on me...
We dated for about 2months. Before then, we were just classmates.
The relationship wasn't 'bad'. We only kissed once and that was my first time...
He started dating another girl. I found out from a mutual friend who wanted to date me. His intention was to destroy my relationship.
It backfired. I forgave my bf for cheating and we tried to make it work. But the guy wouldn't let go of the other girl.
That was my fault. I had told him to take it easy on her since she didn't know about us. I even became her friend after the whole wahala... I got tired of his attitude and called it off. And i moved on...
The problem now is that he hasn't. We dated for just two months and he's been disturbing me for a year now to start over again.
I'm not interested anymore but i find the whole thing to be weird...
Re: Blu03's Relationship Issues. by MadeINchenzen2: 9:16pm On Feb 24, 2020
Blu03:
The first time i created an account here was because i wanted to get over my first boyfriend who had cheated on me...
We dated for about 2months. Before then, we were just classmates.
The relationship wasn't 'bad'. We only kissed once and that was my first time...
He started dating another girl. I found out from a mutual friend who wanted to date me. His intention was to destroy my relationship.
It backfired. I forgave my bf for cheating and we tried to make it work. But the guy wouldn't let go of the other girl.
That was my fault. I had told him to take it easy on her since she didn't know about us. I even became her friend after the whole wahala... I got tired of his attitude and called it off. And i moved on...
The problem now is that he hasn't. We dated for just two months and he's been disturbing me for a year now to start over again.
I'm not interested anymore but i find the whole thing to be weird...
Just get married... or u go to the seminary and get a nun form... no time!!!


u hear me? no timegrin

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Re: Blu03's Relationship Issues. by Nobody: 9:16pm On Feb 24, 2020
your first kiss ever? had your second yet?
Re: Blu03's Relationship Issues. by Nobody: 9:17pm On Feb 24, 2020
The guy in question has wormed his way into every aspect of my life. I've told him my mind several times but he wouldn't bulge.
undecided

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Re: Blu03's Relationship Issues. by Nobody: 9:19pm On Feb 24, 2020
Lostz:
your first kiss ever? had your second yet?
second and last. How is that important?
Re: Blu03's Relationship Issues. by Froshloaded: 9:21pm On Feb 24, 2020
grin grin
Sister blu come on fb
Re: Blu03's Relationship Issues. by Nobody: 9:21pm On Feb 24, 2020
undecided

MadeINchenzen2:
Just get married... or u go to the seminary and get a nun form... no time!!!


u hear me? no timegrin
I'm confused
Re: Blu03's Relationship Issues. by Nobody: 9:24pm On Feb 24, 2020
Blu03:
second and last. How is that important?
when is the third one coming?grin
the kiss is the most interesting part of your post. you are not looking for advice; are you?
Re: Blu03's Relationship Issues. by MadeINchenzen2: 9:31pm On Feb 24, 2020
Blu03:
undecided
I'm confused
dont... u re a big girl now!
Re: Blu03's Relationship Issues. by Ekemeze: 10:52pm On Feb 24, 2020
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Re: Blu03's Relationship Issues. by Nobody: 12:48am On Feb 25, 2020
the ball is in your court
Re: Blu03's Relationship Issues. by Nobody: 12:49am On Feb 25, 2020
Ekemeze:
. Add more flesh, then take it to the literature section.

nice fiction
is she skinny
Re: Blu03's Relationship Issues. by Nobody: 1:35am On Feb 25, 2020
He will soon snake his way in
Re: Blu03's Relationship Issues. by Nobody: 9:59am On Feb 25, 2020
undecided

Lostz:
when is the third one coming?grin
the kiss is the most interesting part of your post. you are not looking for advice; are you?
no. Just want to know if it's possible.
You studied engineering?
Re: Blu03's Relationship Issues. by Nobody: 10:07am On Feb 25, 2020
Blu03:
undecided
no. Just want to know if it's possible. You studied engineering?
I did. what does engineering got to this?
Re: Blu03's Relationship Issues. by Riele(f): 10:07am On Feb 25, 2020
Haaaaaaa undecided
Re: Blu03's Relationship Issues. by Froshloaded: 10:08am On Feb 25, 2020
Riele:
Haaaaaaa undecided
Where have you been?
Re: Blu03's Relationship Issues. by Riele(f): 10:10am On Feb 25, 2020
Froshloaded:

Where have you been?

grin

Nowhere .

Just decided to enjoy my life small . tongue

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Re: Blu03's Relationship Issues. by Nobody: 10:27am On Feb 25, 2020
Lostz:
I did. what does engineering got to this?
sh!t
Nothing sir...
Re: Blu03's Relationship Issues. by onwuakpachris(m): 10:40am On Feb 25, 2020
so what exactly is your problem?..this wacko girl
Re: Blu03's Relationship Issues. by Nobody: 10:54am On Feb 25, 2020
Blu03:
sh!t Nothing sir...
got the advice you needed?
Re: Blu03's Relationship Issues. by Nobody: 10:54am On Feb 25, 2020
Blu03:
sh!t Nothing sir...
got the advice you needed?
Re: Blu03's Relationship Issues. by AfroKnight: 10:55am On Feb 25, 2020
You said you found out from a mutual friend whose intention you believe was to destroy your relationship? Seriously? And you went back to your cheating boyfriend and accommodated the new girl in the relationship cos she didn’t know about you and your boyfriend?


You don’t have sense. You deserve your boyfriend.

Lord save us from dûmb girls.

Re: Blu03's Relationship Issues. by Nobody: 11:05am On Feb 25, 2020
AfroKnight:
You said you found out from a mutual friend whose intention you believe was to destroy your relationship? Seriously? And you went back to your cheating boyfriend and accommodated the new girl in the relationship cos she didn’t know about you and your boyfriend?


You don’t have sense. You deserve your boyfriend.

Lord save us from dûmb girls.
i agree. I was stupid for getting back with him. He begged me and i gave him a second chance... I would never do that again.

I brought that issue here last year i don't need your advice again.
The problem is that we dated for just 2months. But he's been asking for another chance for a year now...
I thought guys move on faster than girls.
Re: Blu03's Relationship Issues. by Nobody: 11:07am On Feb 25, 2020
smiley

Lostz:
got the advice you needed?
i was raised by a deltan couple. I saw your profile...
Re: Blu03's Relationship Issues. by Nobody: 12:01pm On Feb 25, 2020
Blu03:
smiley

i was raised by a deltan couple. I saw your profile...
you from where?
Re: Blu03's Relationship Issues. by AfroKnight: 3:28pm On Feb 25, 2020
Blu03:
i agree. I was stupid for getting back with him. He begged me and i gave him a second chance... I would never do that again.

I brought that issue here last year i don't need your advice again.
The problem is that we dated for just 2months. But he's been asking for another chance for a year now...
I thought guys move on faster than girls.

I understand what is going on with him.

It’s like withdrawal symptoms. He knows crack is bad for him but he keeps longing for more.
Re: Blu03's Relationship Issues. by Nobody: 3:45pm On Feb 25, 2020
angry

AfroKnight:


I understand what is going on with him.

It’s like withdrawal symptoms. He knows crack is bad for him but he keeps longing for more.
i agree...
Re: Blu03's Relationship Issues. by ecstasy357(m): 3:51pm On Feb 25, 2020
Blu03:
The first time i created an account here was because i wanted to get over my first boyfriend who had cheated on me...
We dated for about 2months. Before then, we were just classmates.
The relationship wasn't 'bad'. We only kissed once and that was my first time...
He started dating another girl. I found out from a mutual friend who wanted to date me. His intention was to destroy my relationship.
It backfired. I forgave my bf for cheating and we tried to make it work. But the guy wouldn't let go of the other girl.
That was my fault. I had told him to take it easy on her since she didn't know about us. I even became her friend after the whole wahala... I got tired of his attitude and called it off. And i moved on...
The problem now is that he hasn't. We dated for just two months and he's been disturbing me for a year now to start over again.
I'm not interested anymore but i find the whole thing to be weird...


From your story, one can easily deduce that you are still a teenager and still in secondary school (assuming the story is real). I'll try my best not to act like a Nigerian parent.

What you need my dear, is a little more self-love, self-respect and confidence. Never settle for less, never share your man, and always value you first. Make sure you always look your best at all times. Always work hard to be on top whether it be academics or not....learn to stand out, be different, be uniquely special (dont follow the crowd).

These are the traits will get you anything you want
Re: Blu03's Relationship Issues. by MadeINchenzen2: 3:52pm On Feb 25, 2020
Blu03:
angry
i agree...
Do u really need my sincere suggestions or advice?

Re: Blu03's Relationship Issues. by AfroKnight: 3:52pm On Feb 25, 2020
Blu03:
angry

i agree...

undecided

Re: Blu03's Relationship Issues. by Nobody: 3:58pm On Feb 25, 2020
ecstasy357:



From your story, one can easily deduce that you are still a teenager and still in secondary school (assuming the story is real). I'll try my best not to act like a Nigerian parent.

What you need my dear, is a little more self-love, self-respect and confidence. Never settle for less, never share your man, and always value you first. Make sure you always look your best at all times. Always work hard to be on top whether it be academics or not....learn to stand out, be different, be uniquely special (dont follow the crowd).

These are the traits will get you anything you want
you're very mature. I just finished...
Thanks

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