Before marrying my wife, my business was moving well. I had an appliances big shop with full of things. I made a lots of money monthly and was able to pay all my bills and take care of my single mother and siblings without fail.

Bbut since we got married, just two months and 5 days after our marriage, my shop caught fire. I have lost almost everything only managed to save some few things, had to pay for all the damages to my landlord (the shop owner ) I’m still owning him money and I’m now renting a small shop but things are not working.

I have so much debts to pay to so many people including my previous shop landlord, can’t afford a 3 square meals, can’t afford to pay house rent, can’t afford to pay my shop rent and we have moved to my parents house.

My wife is pregnant and due in April, we haven’t bought anything for the baby. I wish never met her in my life cos she has completely destroyed my life and I have nothing left. She is evil. Haven’t confronted her cos of her condition, don’t want to add more stress to her and am waiting for her to put to bed then I will confront her and chase her away. I will keep the baby with me so she can go with her child she had before we met. I just hate her so much and I want nothing to do with her anymore.

Please what do you suggest I do?

That's the rant of a beta male.

Face your challenges bro, all the happenings were just with an unfortunate timing.

This is 2020 okay? Get your asss back together and move on!

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angelfallz:


Lol. he could have some valid reasons to be concerned. No, this has nothing to do with Alpha or beta.

What if I told you that shortly after I was born, second born first boy; my father who happened to be living in his father's family house got his room raided by thieves before my naming ceremony.
He had to live in mum's family house whenever he gets back from work (a feat many were against but he had to adapt), till he got another accommodation. Now tell me, I personally have a flat I rented, he left us his house, and plots of land before his demise last year. Now I have two houses, and can boast to get accommodation (excluding hotel) easily anywhere I find myself.


This is teaching us to never give up. I'm a living testimony.

Akpaamunsi:



AUDIO

To you it is, I have no point to score if that is how you garner your own points. Cheap!

Suggest

You've already made up your mind on what you are going to do.

Handsomejok:

B4 marrying my wife my business was moving well I had an appliances big shop with full of things , I made a lots of money monthly and was able to pay all my bills and take care of my single mother and siblings without fail but since we got married , just two months and 5 days after our marriage my shop caught fire , have lost almost everything only managed to save some few things, had to pay for all the damages to my landlord ( the shop owner ) I’m still owning him money and I’m now renting a small shop but things are not working , I have so much debts to pay to so many people including my previous shop landlord , can’t afford a 3 square meals , can’t afford to pay house rent , can’t afford to pay my shop rent and we have moved to my parents house. My wife is pregnant and due in April , we haven’t brought anything for the baby. I wish have never met her in my life cos she has completely destroyed my life and I have nothing left. She is evil. Haven’t confronted her cos of her condition don’t want to add more stress to her and am waiting for her to put to bed then I will confront her and chase her away. I will keep the baby with me so she can go with her child she had before we met. I just hate her so much and I want nothing to do with her anymore. Please what do you suggest I do?

No pun intended, but you must be very very incredibly stupid for calling that innocent woman having your child in her womb a witch. You had better gone to find who bewitched you rather than face her with all the hatred and bile in your heart.

I will be here to defend your wife against your wicked evil allegations.

How did you come to this conclusion? Do you think your wife is happy about your loss? Don't you think she wants to be happy and enjoy a good life as well? Why would she put you in debt so that her baby would suffer.

You are going through a difficult time. But you need emotional strength to get through it. Don't complicate matters by making your wife an enemy.

PRAY

I'll advice u not to take out the anger and frustration on your wife. She might be a victim of unfortunate circumstantial coincidence. She might not be involved in any of your predicaments. Try and seek God's face, trace your steps, you might have erred in time past. Please calm Down, all will be well. Amen

I've noticed a problem with most youths of this generation. They just jump into marriage without first destroying evil ancestral alters and wrong foundations then lay a good Godly foundation for their new soon to be family and when things starts to spiral out of control because the evil forces that be in their ancestral homes are angry, they start casting blames wrongly.

Handsomejok:

Please what do you suggest I do?

Some are just not mature enough to be married not to talk of have kids!

I suggest you stop stupidly blaming your pregnant wife for your calamity before you completely ruin the little good that remains in your life.

And when you get home tonight, go down on your knees and beg her for forgiveness for thinking she's a witch or you will be bewitched and you will never recover from it!

Only wizards knows witches

Eccl.9.11 - I returned, and saw under the sun, that the race is not to the swift, nor the battle to the strong, neither yet bread to the wise, nor yet riches to men of understanding, nor yet favour to men of skill; but time and chance happeneth to them all.

Just a coincidence



I won't say a word

KINGreignn:

No pun intended, but you must be very very incredibly and fantastically stupid for calling that innocent woman having your child in her womb a witch. You had better gone to find who bewitched you rather than face her with all the hatred and bile in your heart.

I will be here to defend your wife against your wicked evil allegations.

Just had to hold and add mine

KINGreignn:

I've noticed a problem with most youths of this generation. They just jump into marriage without first destroying evil ancestral alters and wrong foundations then lay a good Godly foundation for their new soon to be family and when things starts to spiral out of control because the evil forces that be in their ancestral homes are angry, they start casting blames wrongly.

Bro USA as a country is as a result of the genocide against the Red Indian race of over 200 people. Leave our ancestors jare.

Now to topic, young man a lot of challenges comes with the title MAN. I am sorry for the great misfortunes and all that okay but don't point fingers to the one bearing your seed inside her. Get spiritual help and start growing up spiritually. Most businesses in Nigeria fail because a lot of things are not in place; insurance, government bail out and other subventions. Chill and have your baby born into a happy home first. Should your wife develop high BP at this stage na there you go know wetin be witchcraft

Probably things have been going smoothly in your life as a bachelor, but as a married couple you're prone to challenges and the stories you'll share in the future will come from your success and management of those challenges.

Get spiritual help and direction ok.

Sorry for the woman who married an obviously low-intelligence fellow like you.


Because rather than analyze what actually caused the fire in your store , you’d rather lazily blame in on your wife. What do I know? Might be another rant and abuse thread. So many of them running amok in this section nowadays

Handsomejok:

B4 marrying my wife my business was moving well I had an appliances big shop with full of things , I made a lots of money monthly and was able to pay all my bills and take care of my single mother and siblings without fail but since we got married , just two months and 5 days after our marriage my shop caught fire , have lost almost everything only managed to save some few things, had to pay for all the damages to my landlord ( the shop owner ) I’m still owning him money and I’m now renting a small shop but things are not working , I have so much debts to pay to so many people including my previous shop landlord , can’t afford a 3 square meals , can’t afford to pay house rent , can’t afford to pay my shop rent and we have moved to my parents house. My wife is pregnant and due in April , we haven’t brought anything for the baby. I wish have never met her in my life cos she has completely destroyed my life and I have nothing left. She is evil. Haven’t confronted her cos of her condition don’t want to add more stress to her and am waiting for her to put to bed then I will confront her and chase her away. I will keep the baby with me so she can go with her child she had before we met. I just hate her so much and I want nothing to do with her anymore. Please what do you suggest I do?

Did anyone warn you about marrying her because she already had a child, or over some bad report?

I'm asking because it seems you're only pointing fingers at her because you've been warned about her before, and she's the easiest person to blame.

Handsomejok:

B4 marrying my wife my business was moving well I had an appliances big shop with full of things , I made a lots of money monthly and was able to pay all my bills and take care of my single mother and siblings without fail but since we got married , just two months and 5 days after our marriage my shop caught fire , have lost almost everything only managed to save some few things, had to pay for all the damages to my landlord ( the shop owner ) I’m still owning him money and I’m now renting a small shop but things are not working , I have so much debts to pay to so many people including my previous shop landlord , can’t afford a 3 square meals , can’t afford to pay house rent , can’t afford to pay my shop rent and we have moved to my parents house. My wife is pregnant and due in April , we haven’t brought anything for the baby. I wish have never met her in my life cos she has completely destroyed my life and I have nothing left. She is evil. Haven’t confronted her cos of her condition don’t want to add more stress to her and am waiting for her to put to bed then I will confront her and chase her away. I will keep the baby with me so she can go with her child she had before we met. I just hate her so much and I want nothing to do with her anymore. Please what do you suggest I do?

Oga, have you cheated on that woman since your marriage? If so, you are the cause of your downfall.
Also, life happens. If you were not married, will you blame your mother?
Since you so much believe in powers that be, why don't you think that the witches in your bloodline aka fathers house, aka village people are the ones afflicting you with problems out of jealousy which now your innocent wife is eating like bread and milo? Or that your waywardness has caused an ex whom you left to go and marry someone else to curse you with lack, scarcity and badluck? Typical ignorant people mentality. They will never look inward when things get tough but always looking for others to blame for their downfall.

What other suggestions are you seeking when you already have your mind made up and conclusion drawn?

If to say the biblical Job na Nigerian ehn? In fact, him for kill everybody around am for him tragedy.

KINGreignn:

I've noticed a problem with most youths of this generation. They just jump into marriage without first destroying evil ancestral alters and wrong foundations then lay a good Godly foundation for their new soon to be family and when things starts to spiral out of control because the evil forces that be in their ancestral homes are angry, they start casting blames wrongly.

Many of them don't believe in foundational battles.

Pastor kingsley okonkwo said this just which day, that men are very transactional and not emotional. If you come into his life and things get worse, he will call you a witch even when you are innocent. OP, if I saw your wife, I will advise you both to join hands and pray against what ever is against your progress. Life is full of challenges. Learn to Win together. Forge ahead, don't go backwards. It's not a permanent problem.

When good things happen we rejoice/ do yanfun yafun (and thank God if we remember Him).

But when evil comes we blame one woman somewhere!

Typical Nigerian man or woman.

Superstitiously stupid.


Sees everything he cant explain as a spiritual consequence.

This is one of the ills of religion. You dont reason normal anymore. Everyone around you is either a suspect or the devil

Oga, Buhari is still the presiding president.

Nigeria is hard and businesses are folding up.

@UP GROWUP

Abeg, na Mods dey create these topics.
Nonsense.

Nothing like witch. Let's stop thinking like we are in the 30's. Hardship is a global phenomenon.

Innocent woman....





Useless husband!

Rant of a lazy , uncreative man blaming his misfortunes on his innocent wife.

Probably you would have accused your mum for your shop burning if you werent married.

What would be the benefits for the poor lady if both of you are wretched? Is wretched cashable?

Pack your life together and stop blaming people for your woes.

Life is full of ups and downs. Things will sometimes go downhill, witches or not. Learn to cherish good times and endure the bad ones.

Sorry for your loss!
Don't be too quick to judge and how did you know she's even a Witch? This is the 21st Century, refuse to believe all the sidetalks you've been hearing...
That you 2 got married not long ago and things started turning the other way doesn't make you conclude She is responsible for your loss.
I repeat, don't be too quick to judge what doesn't exist.
Hold yourself up and don't accuse her of what you know nothing about, at this stage of her life, accusing her could cause her more pain and frustration she cannot bear which is not healthy for her, you and the unborn child.
May God cause these losses to be Blessing in disguise for you and your Family.

I've seen all shades of foolish, but never in a million years did I ever imagine I'd see this color of foolishness.

Wooooow. Do you think your wife is happy that you've not bought anything for your unborn child or do you think she's happy you both are living with your parents? Do you think she's happy that she doesn't eat well?

What kind of irresponsible man are you? Blame yourself.

Your shop got burnt because of your carelessness, not hers, YOURS!

U mean u came inside a witch. Why she nor use u for coven

Nkan be