[quote author=Handsomejok post=86947546]I opened my shop in 20012 everything was moving well , during this time I was with my ex and we broke up in 2014 ( she is now happily married with kids) my shop was still moving well ,never had any problem. Then I met my wife December 2015 we started dating things were still fine , we got married June 2019 just two months everything has changed from good to worst. I strongly believe that my wife is responsible for my misfortune, she came to my life to destroyed me , which she has succeeded . . My family hate her nobody want her in this house , even myself I don’t want her anymore am only keeping her cos of my unborn child , as soon as she put to bed she must leave. Wish I never wasted my time with her. She is a bad luck. I’m sorry I’m

What happened btw u and ur ex babe, maybe u dumped her after several abortions 4 u and d lies u told her. Perhaps she cursed u, who knws
Sir obviously karma is slapping you at d moment.

You are a wizard ur wife is not a witch.

It is not good to just conclude that your wife is the cause. You have to first confirm it, don'task me how because i don't know. Meet your priest or pastor or imam.
i have always said that many ladies you see these days have bad spirits in them, especially those ones that have been sleeping around(sex has spiritual undertones).
Marrying a wife is supposed to open new doors for you according to the bible.
If your wife falls into the category of sleeping around before marriage, maybe you have a good reason to be concerned, but why marry her in the first place?

Handsomejok:
Before marrying my wife, my business was moving well. I had an appliances big shop with full of things. I made a lots of money monthly and was able to pay all my bills and take care of my single mother and siblings without fail.

Bbut since we got married, just two months and 5 days after our marriage, my shop caught fire. I have lost almost everything only managed to save some few things, had to pay for all the damages to my landlord (the shop owner ) I’m still owning him money and I’m now renting a small shop but things are not working.

I have so much debts to pay to so many people including my previous shop landlord, can’t afford a 3 square meals, can’t afford to pay house rent, can’t afford to pay my shop rent and we have moved to my parents house.

My wife is pregnant and due in April, we haven’t bought anything for the baby. I wish never met her in my life cos she has completely destroyed my life and I have nothing left. She is evil. Haven’t confronted her cos of her condition, don’t want to add more stress to her and am waiting for her to put to bed then I will confront her and chase her away. I will keep the baby with me so she can go with her child she had before we met. I just hate her so much and I want nothing to do with her anymore.

Please what do you suggest I do?

And expecting to collect a child from your so-called witch? Don't you think the child would be a witch too? Pack well jare

You even got her pregnant before marriage.

This one no get sense

Do you have any proof or tangible evidence that your wife is responsible for your misfortune? I bet you don't... this is what happens when you base your life around Nollywood movies.

Handsomejok:
I opened my shop in 20012 everything was moving well , during this time I was with my ex and we broke up in 2014 ( she is now happily married with kids) my shop was still moving well ,never had any problem. Then I met my wife December 2015 we started dating things were still fine , we got married June 2019 just two months everything has changed from good to worst. I strongly believe that my wife is responsible for my misfortune, she came to my life to destroyed me , which she has succeeded . . My family hate her nobody want her in this house , even myself I don’t want her anymore am only keeping her cos of my unborn child , as soon as she put to bed she must leave. Wish I never wasted my time with her. She is a bad luck. I’m sorry I’m broke and depressed right now

Can you listen to yourself? So she has been in your life for almost 5 years and she never manifested her witchcraft till she married you and got pregnant? I don't want to imagine the kind of pressure, maltreatment and discomfort she must be going through right now living with you and your evil family. Please don't wait for her to put to bed before letting her go, let her go NOW.

I am sure one fake pastor somewhere must have infused his weak brain with this fallacy. I just pity that poor young lady! .

SOFTENGR:

That's why Black Africans retrogress while the rest of the world progress.

Their mentality in this part of the World is sickening!

Have you checked your own life to know if its from your side,maybe you offended someone, or someone is jealous of your growing business before you labelled her this unprintable name.


Maybe you went to all these home destroyers,fake so called men of devil not of God & they consulted their gods & he told them the woman is a witch.you need to come together with her & pray or get a good living church to council you & pray for the calamity that has befallen you.


To me I believe that lady is innocent of all the allegations going on in your life. Pls seat back & think twice.sorry for your unfortunate lost,may the lord replaced everything in double folds.

Let say familiar spirit from you family house are fighting you because you got married. Maybe spirit wife, just saying.


You may leave her and marry another and still have issues. She will marry another and they will prosper.

No need to run the devil is real and everywhere, fight him if you can.

bigt2:
That's the rant of a beta male.

Face your challenges bro, all the happenings were just with an unfortunate timing.

This is 2020 okay? Get your asss back together and move on!

Lol. he could have some valid reasons to be concerned. No, this has nothing to do with Alpha or beta.

Figuratively I guess,cos if you speaking literarily,she already knows you posted this and will probably take your case to the meeting tonight

Have you confronted her in person with all these accussations....mumu man

When you think you have seen it all, Then this. . There's nothing I will not see on this forum. What is the link between your wife and your misfortune? People fall and rise, same happened to you. Don't blame others for your issue, especially your wife.

You are not Homo sapiens.
You are Homo slowpoke.

Handsomejok:
Before marrying my wife, my business was moving well. I had an appliances big shop with full of things. I made a lots of money monthly and was able to pay all my bills and take care of my single mother and siblings without fail.

Bbut since we got married, just two months and 5 days after our marriage, my shop caught fire. I have lost almost everything only managed to save some few things, had to pay for all the damages to my landlord (the shop owner ) I’m still owning him money and I’m now renting a small shop but things are not working.

I have so much debts to pay to so many people including my previous shop landlord, can’t afford a 3 square meals, can’t afford to pay house rent, can’t afford to pay my shop rent and we have moved to my parents house.

My wife is pregnant and due in April, we haven’t bought anything for the baby. I wish never met her in my life cos she has completely destroyed my life and I have nothing left. She is evil. Haven’t confronted her cos of her condition, don’t want to add more stress to her and am waiting for her to put to bed then I will confront her and chase her away. I will keep the baby with me so she can go with her child she had before we met. I just hate her so much and I want nothing to do with her anymore.

Please what do you suggest I do?

vizkiz:
In a nutshell, you are saying your wife is responsible for the fire? You mean She came to your shop and started the fire so it can wreck your business thereby putting you and herself in an unfortunate situation during her final trimester?

Quick question: If you had insurance on your Shop, will you be faced with such difficulties?

Lmao...poor woman. I bet another guy 100 times better was probably asking her hand in marriage but she left him just to marry your lame ass. Here she is....faced with a weak excuse of a man who blames others for his misfortune (lesson to all confused single women).

Bros Don’t waste her time abeg. She is still very young for all these shenanigans. Just send her away so she can finally meet someone who is best for her.

Lol, some ladies carry bad luck with them especially those ladies that sleep around, he may have valid reasons to be concerned

KINGreignn:

No pun intended, but you must be very very incredibly stupid for calling that innocent woman having your child in her womb a witch. You had better gone to find who bewitched you rather than face her with all the hatred and bile in your heart.

I will be here to defend your wife against your wicked evil allegations.

How do you know she is innocent?

Some of them are witch hunter some of them are evil apples

egorov:
I'll advice u not to take out the anger and frustration on your wife. She might be a victim of unfortunate circumstantial coincidence. She might not be involved in any of your predicaments. Try and seek God's face, trace your steps, you might have erred in time past. Please calm Down, all will be well. Amen

This the best advice so far

Oga go trowey your superstitious belief for river. Who told you marrying can bring fortune or misfortune. Oga go hustle and take care of that poor woman. Imagine the Caption "I think my wife is a witch". I dey shame for u guy.

I pity that woman that marries a kind of ignorant superstitious soul like u. U will regret this more than what u lost, so God will not try u when u are single? May b u will say its ur mum or siblings, May God remove that innocent woman from ur hand may she be blessed along with her kids _ see u in 2years after that.

budaatum:

Some are just not mature enough to be married not to talk of have kids!

I suggest you stop stupidly blaming your pregnant wife for your calamity before you completely ruin the little good that remains in your life.

And when you get home tonight, go down on your knees and beg her for forgiveness for thinking she's a witch or you will be bewitched and you will never recover from it!

Lol. Did you type this to get likes?

Handsomejok:
Before marrying my wife, my business was moving well. I had an appliances big shop with full of things. I made a lots of money monthly and was able to pay all my bills and take care of my single mother and siblings without fail.

Bbut since we got married, just two months and 5 days after our marriage, my shop caught fire. I have lost almost everything only managed to save some few things, had to pay for all the damages to my landlord (the shop owner ) I’m still owning him money and I’m now renting a small shop but things are not working.

I have so much debts to pay to so many people including my previous shop landlord, can’t afford a 3 square meals, can’t afford to pay house rent, can’t afford to pay my shop rent and we have moved to my parents house.

My wife is pregnant and due in April, we haven’t bought anything for the baby. I wish never met her in my life cos she has completely destroyed my life and I have nothing left. She is evil. Haven’t confronted her cos of her condition, don’t want to add more stress to her and am waiting for her to put to bed then I will confront her and chase her away. I will keep the baby with me so she can go with her child she had before we met. I just hate her so much and I want nothing to do with her anymore.

Please what do you suggest I do?

one question why should a sane man marry a woman with another man child ?

Handsomejok:
Before marrying my wife, my business was moving well. I had an appliances big shop with full of things. I made a lots of money monthly and was able to pay all my bills and take care of my single mother and siblings without fail.

Bbut since we got married, just two months and 5 days after our marriage, my shop caught fire. I have lost almost everything only managed to save some few things, had to pay for all the damages to my landlord (the shop owner ) I’m still owning him money and I’m now renting a small shop but things are not working.

I have so much debts to pay to so many people including my previous shop landlord, can’t afford a 3 square meals, can’t afford to pay house rent, can’t afford to pay my shop rent and we have moved to my parents house.

My wife is pregnant and due in April, we haven’t bought anything for the baby. I wish never met her in my life cos she has completely destroyed my life and I have nothing left. She is evil. Haven’t confronted her cos of her condition, don’t want to add more stress to her and am waiting for her to put to bed then I will confront her and chase her away. I will keep the baby with me so she can go with her child she had before we met. I just hate her so much and I want nothing to do with her anymore.

Please what do you suggest I do?

You are a fool for calling her a witch. So she went to your shop and light up the whole place with her hand?

People who feel someone is behind their downfall are fools... And lack the skill to survive real world.

When your business was booming, did you make any move to expand to other areas? You see, the problem is Nigeria business men don't adapt to innovative ways that could help them and their business.

Oga, better go learn

My brother, from your write-up, nothing suggest that she is a witch. Man is the only creature that looks for anything to blame on something when things don't fall in place. Why ask for our suggestion when you have made up your mind to chase her away after delivery.

Don't you know how to pray? What happened to the God Almighty the One who has power to destroy witches? What if you confirm later that she isn't a witch. Have you noticed that when one gets married, responsibilities change and expenses rise? Is she squandering money in an anyway?Does she seem unperturbed with current situation of things? These are questions you ought to ask yourself.

Solution: Wake her in the middle of the night to pray with her. Engage in fasting for three days before the prayers. Do that for three nights consecutively. If she agrees to pray even if she appears weak, know that she is just normal (prayer point: Lord every witchcraft spirit making my life uncomfortable, reveal and destroy IJN - Amen!. You would notice that your dream would be funny at first, and later you would certainly get the message. Finally, know that some big things start from very small beginnings. God help you sir!

You’re such an illiterate. It’s only in that part of the world that one hears things like that. Why are you not blaming your own mom? Why’s she single? Did she kill her husband? What happened to your past relationships, did you kill or did something evil? The woman you call wife doesn’t deserve your abuse. Who told you that you have to make money all the time in business? Are you not a foool to have kept all your eggs in one basket? What you’re going through is what business owners go through and I’m one of them, ups and downs, it’s called business, get that in your empty head. By the way, you didn’t make money at all, you just made enough to pay your bills, I believe you said something like that. What Nigerians call lots of money is laughable, it’s just like kids pocket money. Stop blaming anyone and start strategizing, this time consider adding insurance to your business and both of you should be prayerful. It will be very difficult for her to help you with this kind of abuse. I know women come up with good ideas and it’s only when they know their loved. I remember my wife telling me not to quit my good paying job just because we were making real money, not your type of money. From my job then, the whole house was covered with health insurance and more. Read about successful people and learn.

It doesn't mean she is a witch it could just be that there are spiritual warfare that u need to fight it could either be from your own side or her own background that's doesn't want you both do good .seek to know more about your predicament and get to find solutions to it from God in the right way and places ..I pray that God would open your eyes to see where the problem. is coming from and give u direction to the solution in Jesus name.

KINGreignn:

I've noticed a problem with most youths of this generation. They just jump into marriage without first destroying evil ancestral alters and wrong foundations then lay a good Godly foundation for their new soon to be family and when things starts to spiral out of control because the evil forces that be in their ancestral homes are angry, they start casting blames wrongly.

Mr Kingreignn You insulted the OP in a previous post labelling his fears and worries as baseless. Now you are talking about evil ancestral altars and jumping into marriage.

Below is my response to the OP. It is similar to this your current post, in the sense that it acknowledges the impact of spirituality in marriages. In my opinion this your current post should have been your only reply to the OP.

It is not good to just conclude that your wife is the cause. You have to first confirm it, don'task me how because i don't know. Meet your priest or pastor or imam.
i have always said that many ladies you see these days have bad spirits in them, especially those ones that have been sleeping around(sex has spiritual undertones).
Marrying a wife is supposed to open new doors for you according to the bible.
If your wife falls into the category of sleeping around before marriage, maybe you have a good reason to be concerned, but why marry her in the first place?

cococandy:
Sorry for the woman who married an obviously low-intelligence fellow like you.


Because rather than analyze what actually caused the fire in your store , you’d rather lazily blame in on your wife. What do I know? Might be another rant and abuse thread. So many of them running amok in this section nowadays

It is not about analyzing. Bad luck does follow some ladies, especially those that sleep around. You can not just dismiss the impact of spirituality in marriages. So the OP may have valid concerns.

yvelchstores:
Pastor kingsley okonkwo said this just which day, that men are very transactional and not emotional. If you come into his life and things get worse, he will call you a witch even when you are innocent. OP, if I saw your wife, I will advise you both to join hands and pray against what ever is against your progress. Life is full of challenges. Learn to Win together. Forge ahead, don't go backwards. It's not a permanent problem.

Another great answer.

Who told you that your wife is a witch? I will advise you to pray for yourself very well and it possible maybe you offend someone before you married her, I can assure you that your wife is not a witch and if you send her out in your house it means, your problem are just started...What you need right now is solution to that problem with prayer.