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Re: Having Male Besties by Shugavee(f): 6:03pm On Mar 04, 2020 |
BestAccessories:hope u know friendship last longer than relationships!! How many men will be ur bestie in this lyf!! How r u sure u can trust them with ur secrets |
Re: Having Male Besties by Shugavee(f): 6:04pm On Mar 04, 2020 |
MYSTIC19:not all tho |
Re: Having Male Besties by Shugavee(f): 6:05pm On Mar 04, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED:Nora whatever don’t know it all ,, n is not accurate,, cause males n females can be friends |
Re: Having Male Besties by Nobody: 6:06pm On Mar 04, 2020 |
Well, I do not have a bestie but I have friends and they are all guys. The bestie position is reserved for that HIM. I don't agree to having a male bestie,your man should be your bestie. |
Re: Having Male Besties by femiphillips007(m): 6:11pm On Mar 04, 2020 |
I have a female bestie presently and we really vibe well... No sexually attachments tho..... Sometimes the thought comes but I just wave it off. 2 Likes |
Re: Having Male Besties by Shugavee(f): 6:11pm On Mar 04, 2020 |
Ariza:am not here to convince people to hv male besties, do what makes u happy !! That was never the issue. 1 Like |
Re: Having Male Besties by Nobody: 6:13pm On Mar 04, 2020 |
Shugavee:This is double standard! Are you insinuating that it's okay for females to have male besties but it's forbidden for guys to have female besties? If you can have male besties and see nothing wrong in it, I wonder why you can't accept his female besties as what they are and not fuckmates! |
Re: Having Male Besties by Shugavee(f): 6:13pm On Mar 04, 2020 |
femiphillips007:realest friendship a lady can ever hv is with a guy with no sexual attachment, if he’s mature enough |
Re: Having Male Besties by Shugavee(f): 6:14pm On Mar 04, 2020 |
Ariza:understand the sarcasm !! He is making fun of stuffs |
Re: Having Male Besties by femiphillips007(m): 6:17pm On Mar 04, 2020 |
Shugavee:I think SELF CONTROL should be the right word to use here because maturity can be confusing sometimes. |
Re: Having Male Besties by Edyice: 6:18pm On Mar 04, 2020 |
Re: Having Male Besties by proclinician: 6:41pm On Mar 04, 2020 |
Shugavee: If I am not all these to a girl I'm dating then she doesn't deserve me. Its preposterous already. Male besty indeed. |
Re: Having Male Besties by Korllami007: 6:49pm On Mar 04, 2020 |
Shugavee: Since you priotize your bestie over your relationship, why can't you date him and save yourself the stress of running from your boyfriend's house to cry on his shoulder. If you are having bad time at work, you will leave your boyfriend and go and find solace in your bestie's shoulder. I think you should just date him and stop stressing yourself. I'm pretty sure whenever you are not in good terms with your husband, you will run to your bestie's house and cry on his shoulder too. 1 Like
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Re: Having Male Besties by Shugavee(f): 7:13pm On Mar 04, 2020 |
femiphillips007:a mature person should hv self control 1 Like |
Re: Having Male Besties by Shugavee(f): 7:15pm On Mar 04, 2020 |
proclinician:just imagine how many guys would know all my secrets if this were true!! Friendship last longer than relationships |
Re: Having Male Besties by Shugavee(f): 7:16pm On Mar 04, 2020 |
Korllami007:i actually do not !!! But let’s be realistic, u not sure of any relationship till he puts a ring on it |
Re: Having Male Besties by proclinician: 7:34pm On Mar 04, 2020 |
Shugavee: Yea I understand the whole bullshit. Your intentions may be pure as in u no too like money but the guy might just be a hunter. When I ventured into phone hackin while waiting for admission in 2010 I caught one Fb account of a girl. This babe had a boo and a bestie. She had a misunderstanding with the boo and fell back on the guy and they had sex. The guy emtied his load in her against her will and against the run of play. She took some contraceptives and then made up with the boo and they had sex. She is telling her besty she is some weeks pregnant and she is not sure who is responsible. Whenever women with male besty have issues in their relationship and fall back on the besty, they are very vulnerable and that besty can strike without hitches. Each time a relationship is dwindling there's a period of vulnerability for a girl and during school days I know I have had sex with some girls especially those one that ask pls my boy friend used withdrawal method of contraceptive will I be pregnant and similar health questions. Each time they have issues and I be the one to talk to her and comfort her with words u know well... 1 Like |
Re: Having Male Besties by Shugavee(f): 7:45pm On Mar 04, 2020 |
proclinician:okay u win!! Anyways my post r for ladies who hv besties , which r a few!! Bestie or no bestie,, everybody go Dey alright last last |
Re: Having Male Besties by Nobody: 10:51pm On Mar 04, 2020 |
Shugavee: That's why you should date your 'friend' instead of making your 'date' a friend. I am not an extrovert, I keep a small circle of friends and they all guys. If my secret aren't safe with them, then it is not safe in the hand of opposite sex called bestie. I am not against the idea of having a bestie, but if I cannot be my girl's bestie, then I have no business being in a relationship with her. If my friends know more about me than her, there is a big trust issues between us and we can't be together. So, if you are in a committed relationship, your bf/gf should be your bestie. If not, there is a big problem. There are some issues that are better resolved within you (u & ur gf/bf) then allowed a third-party interference. 1 Like |
Re: Having Male Besties by Nobody: 11:00pm On Mar 04, 2020 |
Shugavee: If you can trust him (bestie) with all your secrets but can't date him, maybe something is technically wrong somewhere. You're 'True' to your bestie but can't date him but you're 'Fake' to your bf and you are dating him. Eventually, it will dawn on you maybe you are chasing shadow and should just date him (bestie) since you're very and extremely cool with him than anyone else |
Re: Having Male Besties by lilmax(m): 11:02pm On Mar 04, 2020 |
Lol this one just crossed 25 years |
Re: Having Male Besties by uthlaw: 11:47pm On Mar 04, 2020 |
I don Bleep my bestie more than her boyfriend....bestie ko sextie ni! |
Re: Having Male Besties by Goldiano(m): 12:35am On Mar 05, 2020 |
femiphillips007:hmmm |
Re: Having Male Besties by Nobody: 1:04am On Mar 05, 2020 |
Ariza:gbam! shugavee hope u see what a fellow babe is saying this is the right way ur guy should be ur one and only bestie.any bestie apart from ur guy is certainly fucking u 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Having Male Besties by Nobody: 1:05am On Mar 05, 2020 |
femiphillips007:sooner or later u will knack her
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Re: Having Male Besties by femiphillips007(m): 6:19am On Mar 05, 2020 |
lefulefu:If I wanted to...I would hv done that a while back. |
Re: Having Male Besties by Shugavee(f): 9:05am On Mar 05, 2020 |
lefulefu:certainly? Really ? At this point all I can say is sort urselves |
Re: Having Male Besties by Shugavee(f): 9:07am On Mar 05, 2020 |
BestAccessories:there r stuffs he knows that ur Partiner should never know about!! The see finish no be small |
Re: Having Male Besties by Shugavee(f): 9:07am On Mar 05, 2020 |
lilmax:why do u say that ? |
Re: Having Male Besties by Shugavee(f): 9:08am On Mar 05, 2020 |
uthlaw:because u both r hoes |
Re: Having Male Besties by Shugavee(f): 9:24am On Mar 05, 2020 |
BestAccessories:please u all stop it ,,, that’s if u are sure u will hv one partiner forever !! The only person u are sure of is ur husband n with the high rate of divorce Nowadays, u are not sure . |
Re: Having Male Besties by Nobody: 10:03am On Mar 05, 2020 |
Shugavee: And you want unconditional love from your partner. He (your bestie) that know stuffs your partner do not know, how do you avoid see finish from him. Why are you wasting your time with someone you called partner but couldn't trust with your secrets. Instead of calling partner, just call him Bleep buddy or maga that pays the bills. Just go ahead and date your bestie since you can truly be yourself around him without see finish. Read between the lines and you would understand my message. Cheers |
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