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Re: She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? by doggedfighter(f): 3:37pm On Mar 08, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:
perhaps u want to justify the fact that u disowned ur family... now you're living alone.

Go back home and ask for forgiveness. Dont be a bad girl. Men thinks of girls who lives alone as prostitutes. 1 word for u. Be wise
I thought you opened the thread to rub minds and educate yourself. Now I see you want to air your archaic, narrow minded and myopic view

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Re: She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? by Nobody: 3:37pm On Mar 08, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:

what do you think guys?

Is it okay for a lady to move-out to live alone on a rented apartment as a single person. Than stay with her mum, dad and siblings?

Usually it is prevalent with most guys especially when they get to a certain age, probably after school or perhaps because of an essential need for some privacy and a sense of responsibility.

In my own thought. I think it is dangerous and untimely for a single lady to leave her family to live alone before she s married.

lol...even as a guy, am not going anywhere till I get married, d only reason am living alone is my parents don't stay in d same state as me. And also, am not renting or anything, am living in d house he left in my particular location.
In fact I already built my own house, but since am not married yet..am sticking with pops, he isn't complaining anyways grin

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Re: She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? by Brightgem(f): 3:40pm On Mar 08, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:
There s no such thing as adulthood for girls. Ideally a lady ought to be with her family until she s married. There are dangers of living alone away from family. A sane society should frown at that. It is rare to find a sensible lady living alone, single.

my thoughts!
I consider myself among the most sensible ladies of these times and I'm beginning to consider living alone. Soo...? There's no danger anywhere if she works and can afford to, the family might be the danger sef.

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Re: She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? by sweetrace(f): 3:40pm On Mar 08, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:
There s no such thing as adulthood for girls. Ideally a lady ought to be with her family until she s married. There are dangers of living alone away from family. A sane society should frown at that. It is rare to find a sensible lady living alone, single.

my thoughts!

So if her parents live in Lagos and she gets a great job in Abuja, should she turn the job down? A woman who will be loose will be that irrespective of the place and one that will be sane will be sane. Just like with guys. It is a decision that has nothing to do with living alone.
Re: She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? by Brightgem(f): 3:43pm On Mar 08, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:
if you dont know, there s a general impression about girls who lives alone and pay rent. These impressions are not good !
I think your personal impression about yourself is all that matters, what society thinks should go to hell. If you live your life simply, straight and honestly that's all that matters.
Re: She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? by Nickymezor(f): 3:45pm On Mar 08, 2020
It ain't bad , with a valid reason though.
Re: She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? by Ezinwa120: 3:45pm On Mar 08, 2020
For me I will not even marry or recommend a girl that stays alone except she is in school, reason being that they can fuvk and unfuvk without control while the once with their parents or guardian fuvk with restrictions. Here in Abuja, for free kpekus just get those that stays alone, u r conji free while the ones with uncle, parents and other guardians have time table for the kpekus. So choose wisely

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Re: She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? by LordShiva97(m): 3:46pm On Mar 08, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:
There s no such thing as adulthood for girls. Ideally a lady ought to be with her family until she s married. There are dangers of living alone away from family. A sane society should frown at that. It is rare to find a sensible lady living alone, single.

my thoughts!

What is the quotation below supposed to mean?
“There's no such thing as adulthood for girls”

Dangers of living alone away from family that only ladies face but men that live alone don't face them?
A sane society shouldn't even have people like you in it.
*spits in disgust*

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Re: She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? by Thegoodone13(m): 3:47pm On Mar 08, 2020
Such a lady will find it difficult to stay with a man after married because she has enjoyed the freedom of living alone.

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Re: She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? by sammychimex(m): 3:47pm On Mar 08, 2020
I think I should just report the post.
Re: She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? by Ekeseges(f): 3:49pm On Mar 08, 2020
Nothing wrong ooo.mind your own business
Re: She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? by MondayOsunbor(m): 3:54pm On Mar 08, 2020
bluefilm:


Seriously speaking guy, you take this our nairaland too serious... grin

oga na yes or no question?

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Re: She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? by mexbee1(m): 3:56pm On Mar 08, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:

what do you think guys?

Is it okay for a lady to move-out to live alone on a rented apartment as a single person. Than stay with her mum, dad and siblings?

Usually it is prevalent with most guys especially when they get to a certain age, probably after school or perhaps because of an essential need for some privacy and a sense of responsibility.

In my own thought. I think it is dangerous and untimely for a single lady to leave her family to live alone before she s married.


Yes there is nothing wrong with that its a matter of choice


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Re: She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? by ILuvMerije(f): 3:57pm On Mar 08, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:
There s no such thing as adulthood for girls. Ideally a lady ought to be with her family until she s married. There are dangers of living alone away from family. A sane society should frown at that. It is rare to find a sensible lady living alone, single.

my thoughts!

Really �, I live alone and I am sensible, very sensible
Re: She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? by Liposure: 4:03pm On Mar 08, 2020
This is d 21st century. A Woman hav d rite 2 do whateva she chooses 2 do
Re: She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? by Dollabiz: 4:04pm On Mar 08, 2020
Why not just don’t be a a whorree

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Re: She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? by Nobody: 4:09pm On Mar 08, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:

what do you think guys?

Is it okay for a lady to move-out to live alone on a rented apartment as a single person. Than stay with her mum, dad and siblings?

Usually it is prevalent with most guys especially when they get to a certain age, probably after school or perhaps because of an essential need for some privacy and a sense of responsibility.

In my own thought. I think it is dangerous and untimely for a single lady to leave her family to live alone before she s married.

What if she gets a job that takes her away from her state, should she turn the job down?

I only date a lady if she stays alone.
Re: She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? by Elijahnonso1(m): 4:11pm On Mar 08, 2020
No, not at all.

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Re: She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? by ednut1(m): 4:11pm On Mar 08, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:
There s no such thing as adulthood for girls. Ideally a lady ought to be with her family until she s married. There are dangers of living alone away from family. A sane society should frown at that. It is rare to find a sensible lady living alone, single.

my thoughts!
what if her parents house is in igando or ogun but her office is at ajah Stop being myopic. Some parents too have no sense and keep treating their adult children as kids
Re: She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? by teepain: 4:14pm On Mar 08, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:
perhaps u want to justify the fact that u disowned ur family... now you're living alone.

Go back home and ask for forgiveness. Dont be a bad girl. Men thinks of girls who lives alone as prostitutes. 1 word for u. Be wise

The emphasized part of your post refers. You might be committing the fallacy of hasty generalization here.

How did you arrive at the conclusion that "men think of girls who live alone as prostitutes".

As long as the lady can pay her bills why can't she live alone? It is only wrong when she needs to hawk her body to pay her bills.

There are several ladies out there who stay with their parents and siblings and you wouldn't like to know what they engage in. Contrastingly, you would find girls who live alone and they do not joke with their chastity.

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Re: She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? by prettyprecy(f): 4:18pm On Mar 08, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:
There s no such thing as adulthood for girls. Ideally a lady ought to be with her family until she s married. There are dangers of living alone away from family. A sane society should frown at that. It is rare to find a sensible lady living alone, single.

my thoughts!

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Re: She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? by victorian(f): 4:19pm On Mar 08, 2020
Kalapizim:
You are narrow minded to even bring this topic up.





Don't mind the poster and people supporting him, spewing trash.

What if she's an orphan and the only child, shey they expect her to go and gum body with any family member? So people can say she's a good girl?

Naija mentality so wacked!

I'm an orphan, no sibling anymore, just me and I live alone. If anyone doesn't like it? They should go hang themselves.

Smhhhhhhh.

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Re: She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? by safarigirl(f): 4:21pm On Mar 08, 2020
The silly, narrow-minded, misogynistic, fool of a moderator that moved this trash to FrontPage, deserves to be put inside a canon and shot back to the 17th century

This OP is a top class bellend, and I hope no woman ever chooses to procreate with something so disgusting.

So, men can live alone, but women who choose to do same are prostitutes?

Secn, for a man who presents himself as educated, you sure can pick them for your mods. A topic like this should be in the gutters, not allowed to grace the Front Page of a so-called international forum, on a day as important as International Women's Day at that

Congratulations, you have once again reiterated the belief that the average Nigerian man in Nigeria, is an insecure, misogynistic numbskull, who thrives on the debasement of women.

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Re: She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? by placeofallure(f): 4:23pm On Mar 08, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:
There s no such thing as adulthood for girls. Ideally a lady ought to be with her family until she s married. There are dangers of living alone away from family. A sane society should frown at that. It is rare to find a sensible lady living alone, single.

my thoughts!
No please. The society, especially this modern society, is not straight jacketed anymore. You have not seen super old spinsters who are in their 30s and 40s? Their younger ones, both male and female are married and have left the family house. So simply because they've been unlucky in that aspect, they should stay on with parents? You want them to die of shame and depression?

See, the times are changing. When we were in school, we read books that said: Father is the head of the family.
Father is the breadwinner. etc

Now, family is not defined as Father, Mother(s) and children. Family can be just mother and child(ren)

These days, of role reversal, father unemployed, mother breadwinner, single parenthood and all, schools are changing the content of their curriculum and sourcing for textbooks which corroborate.

So leave story O! You can be a single lady and live alone and also be responsible.
Re: She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? by Blakjewelry(m): 4:23pm On Mar 08, 2020
C505:


Poor reasoning? Our problem is emulation and we always get it wrong. Live your life as your conscience directs you to and not because it's a norm in standard counyries
Yeah it's poor reasoning. If not we look at sex as a bad thing in respect to the female folks what stop a lady from staying on her own when a guy can. If I ask you to give a reason why you think it's bad, it must be sexually related. Why don't you say same for a working class lady who says outside her place of origin

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Re: She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? by Chiiamaka: 4:23pm On Mar 08, 2020
safarigirl:
The silly, narrow-minded, misogynistic, fool of a moderator that moved this trash to FrontPage, deserves to be put inside a canon and shot back to the 17th century

This OP is a top class bellend, and I hope no woman ever chooses to procreate with something so disgusting.

So, men can livealone, but women who choose to do same areprostitutes?

Secn, for a man who presents himself as educated, you sure can pick them for your mods. A topic like this should be in the gutters, not allowed to grace the Front Page of a so-called international forum, on a day as important as International Women's Day at that

Congratulations, you have once again reiterated the belief that the average Nigerian man inNigeria, is an insecure, misogynistic numbskull, who thrives on the debasement of women.

Lot of hugs cheesy

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Re: She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? by Brightgem(f): 4:24pm On Mar 08, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:
perhaps u grew up in a broken home, so u wont understand how parents ought to look after their children and bring them up responsibly.

I m sure someday ur daughter will do same and get herself into trouble that would av been averted under ur watchful eyes. u ll be a horrid dad !
haaaahahaha! What folly is this? It won't be possible to show you the error of your own thinking so let's just allow reality to teach you a lesson. Your daughter will definitely leave your house to live alone with this way you are thinking, abd it wnt mean she's a prostitute. Times are fast changing.
Re: She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? by victorian(f): 4:24pm On Mar 08, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:

what do you think guys?

Is it okay for a lady to move-out to live alone on a rented apartment as a single person. Than stay with her mum, dad and siblings?

Usually it is prevalent with most guys especially when they get to a certain age, probably after school or perhaps because of an essential need for some privacy and a sense of responsibility.

In my own thought. I think it is dangerous and untimely for a single lady to leave her family to live alone before she s married.






Mind your business. Nothing wrong In it

He who wears the shoes, knows where it pinches.

What if shes an orphan and a matured lady in her 30s?

She should go and stay with a relative and become omo odo, as in house girl and house woman just to please men that she's not loose.

We all know staying with relatives, they will definitely use one as house girl because u are living with them.

Honestly u are not serious. No face your front you hear?

Chochochochocho! Nigeria limited!!!
Re: She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? by mumumugu(m): 4:25pm On Mar 08, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:
mumumugu
Why did you call me

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Re: She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? by openmine(m): 4:25pm On Mar 08, 2020
Everyone needs privacy!
Re: She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? by Smithwilliams826: 4:26pm On Mar 08, 2020
MadeINchenzen2:

what do you think guys?

Is it okay for a lady to move-out to live alone on a rented apartment as a single person. Than stay with her mum, dad and siblings?

Usually it is prevalent with most guys especially when they get to a certain age, probably after school or perhaps because of an essential need for some privacy and a sense of responsibility.

In my own thought. I think it is dangerous and untimely for a single lady to leave her family to live alone before she s married.
Y u dey blast people way dey give you answers na?
Re: She Is Single And Living On Rented Apartment, Away From Family ! Is It Good? by Chiiamaka: 4:27pm On Mar 08, 2020
Reading through the comment and I can say you guys truly have time even reply the retard that put up this post in the first place... I am sure the OP or whatever he’s is some low life that can’t stand to see women thriving on their own instead he had prefer them to be at the mercy of men.. I am sure he’s some broke MF

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