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kestolove95:
d story abt Jesus is fake, dem no want make we knw say d mother go prostitute born Jesus

Weyrey Nla

fk002:
Trying to gain cheap point from Nairaland oloshos.



Simp!!!! Calling himself a king what an Irony

He is an Emir

Chizuru01:
Those damaged girls are the ones who holds unto "NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE " very tight. Don't listen to her, she might be pretending.

Marriage shouldn't be a thing of Gamble where it either enter or it cuts. Marriage shouldn't be a package where which you open to either receive a wonderful surprise or a heartbreaking parcel.

If her Character meets your standard, impregnate and marry her.

I do not agree with your post. Why? I'll explain.

In the bid to get her pregnant, so many factors come into play. A man with low-sperm count, a woman with irregular menstruation, a woman with hormonal imbalance, a man with watery-sperm etc. In the course of trying to impregnate her, you turn a Virgin into used good, most especially if she doesn't get pregnant right away. After a year of trying, I know the man will abandon her and look elsewhere. Very typical and highly predictable.

It would interest you to know that some couples waited at least two years, with the right fertility foods, supplements, ovulation and sperm movement chart before conception took place. With your advice, if this couple wasn't married, they'd have broken up a long time ago, with emotional strains being left behind.

Child formation is not a certainty that you'd ruin someone's life over because you're being selfish. If you love her character, wife her and seek fertilisation help together.

Thank you.

OlawaleBammie:
see trash u re spewing!!
Waiting on God indeed.
U knew u married a retired runs girl, and she failed to conceive due to her former actions and u re hee telling me that u re waiting on god.
I pity u, i pity u well well
All these people are the one crying foul later in der life that God does not answer prayer.


Na pussy dey hungry u dey talk like this, we know ur type. If u mistakenly fuvk as many as posible ur spewing wil change.

Oga, thank God say na pvssy dey hungry me. Unlike you that svck d!ck for a living.
You lack common sense, obviously.

fk002:
Trying to gain cheap point from Nairaland oloshos.



Simp!!!! Calling himself a king what an Irony

Are you pained? LOL

angelfallz:
Enjoy your marriage to an ex runs girl. Love is not enough to make a marriage work. The past always catches to the present.
Guys please don't listen to men like this, find yourself a good clean woman, without baggage.

Just hear yourself;
"Find yourself a good clean woman, without baggage." How old are you? Eleven? Kids full nairaland sha. You lack exposure. No woman is perfect. Except your definition of perfection is to still be a virgin, as a lady.

eni4real:
Don't waste your bride price..

If you have any deficiencies, these girls will call you a weak man!!!

Go for a requited love!!!

May sense fall on you. You're archaic, absolutely.

Daddyrochie and guys up there dey fhuck up.. dem no dey tell person say shit dey smell, wait make e dip him hand inside first... .
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..no one should advise or quote that just.nock of a guy again ? ( the moniker might even be a girl trolling with a guy's moniker), leave am body go tell am...

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Life is full of uncertainty no doubt, but that doesn't mean someone should not apply logic when needed... there are some dumb steps that if you take it, no no matter how smart, prayerful or exposed u become, it would still hunt u eith physically, mentally or emotionally...
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There are some avoidable mistakes that if you make it, you would never be able to correct it till you leave this world..
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Maybe that just.nock of a guy/girl just found new lover, so love still dey shack him
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No sensible MAN would marry a naija girl out of pity..
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Apply logic when dealing with NAIJA GIRLS, no matter how much you fall in love with them ..
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Because u self think am,
If you were broke and dumb, would she( I mean a very beautiful and figure 8 girl) stay by u?
Would she look pass your shortcomings?
No naija girls( beautiful ones oo) would do that for you..
If girls stay with you when you are broke and dumb, it means she sees potential in u ( which is 100% sure) .. and she knows she would be the ultimate beneficiary of it and she would love to be part of your story..
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If any guy goes ahead to marry a known harlot, then such fellow is an enemy of God( because u see problem for ground but due to numbness or brain- blindness, you go put ur hand to the problem. Now you will now be giving God tough time and people would be thinking God forsakes una not knowing u brought that to yourself)...

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If you unknowingly marry a harlot, then it's a different thing. Cos you have an excuse and it is left to God to compensate your innocence.

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Lastly, if you marry a morally sound lady, whose past is good, and you yourself is medically ok, there are still certainty that you might get fertility/ giving-birth problems, if that happens then it is not either of the party's fault, that's a mystery which should be left to God, afterall , two of una get a clear conscience....
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Love doesn't 100% sustain marriage ooo, this is not contemporary or Elizabethan era of william Shakespeare of romeo and juliet..
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Using pansophist word in my own way," it is not about doing what is morally right, it is about doing what works" .
Morally right is getting pregnant/ pikin after marriage
What works is getting pregnant/pikin before Marriage..
I drop my pen ..nuff said
Aro1
Pansophist
Martinez39, Martinez39s
Ubunja
Harrdon
Johnspute
Nextd18( virgin man lol)

Chizuru01:
Those damaged girls are the ones who holds unto "NO SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE " very tight. Don't listen to her, she might be pretending.

Marriage shouldn't be a thing of Gamble where it either enter or it cuts. Marriage shouldn't be a package where which you open to either receive a wonderful surprise or a heartbreaking parcel.

If her Character meets your standard, impregnate and marry her.

And how many "impregnate and marry" do you know of.

Most of them "impregnate and run away". The truth is that a man finds it difficult to connect to a pregnant woman who is not his wife

angelfallz:
Enjoy your marriage to an ex runs girl. Love is not enough to make a marriage work. The past always catches to the present.
Guys please don't listen to men like this, find yourself a good clean woman, without baggage.

What about you please?
Are u without baggage?

U guys talk as if u don't notice things happen upside down in this world.
I v seen girls known to v lived a wrong life while single and engaged in numerous abortions dishing children year after year when married.
Also Virgins that had to wait for years,hoping on d Lord B4 they gave birth. Some are still barren up till now.
There are also the reckless ones that find it hard it get pregnant after marriage (d one we all expect).
And also Virgins that get pregnant immediately after being married.

My guy, life is a gamble. It is 50/50 irrespective of the choice u make.
D best choice might not determine d best result however.

justnock:
Oga, thank God say na pvssy dey hungry me. Unlike you that svck d!ck for a living.
You lack common sense, obviously.

Lol, ordinarily you get sense oo, its just dat u dont want to use it now, u re keeping it for future use.


Goan marry ur olosho for olosho joint, do the weding rite with her co-oloshos, and take ur tin home, den start waiting on the Lord.

OLODO, ODE OSHI

Nothing wrong with us both adopting if the natural way no work (God forbid)

But I will not marry a single mum. That is one thing I can't do.
We must both learn that new child together, not by 1-0 match.

OlawaleBammie:
Lol, ordinarily you get sense oo, its just dat u dont want to use it now, u re keeping it for future use.


Goan marry ur olosho for olosho joint, do the weding rite with her co-oloshos, and take ur tin home, den start waiting on the Lord.

OLODO, ODE OSHI

You don't respect your elders, huh?
Oya kneel down, hands up and close your eyes.

justnock:
You don't respect your elders, huh?
Oya kneel down, hands up and close your eyes.

TUALE O BABA

WHEN ELDER SELF THEY REASON LIKE WE SMALL PIKIN, EVEN WE SMALL PIKIN NO GO FIT REASON LIKE DAT.

ELDER, THIS KAIN REASONING NO GOOD NAA

Cant u see as dos girl dey hail u as hero? Dat shows dat our elder is a Simp, pussy ass nigga.
And hav our elder forgotten that if ladies are saying u re a good person dat means u b ode?

And we don't want this for our elder.

Elder pls come back home.

2buffagain:
Nothing wrong with us both adopting if the natural way no work (God forbid)

But I will not marry a single mum. That is one thing I can't do.
We must both learn that new child together, not by 1-0 match.

And its very difficult wen u re 1:0 down, the feeling is not palatable.

U can ask Liverpool, that is d curent situation dey finds demselves, only God knw wat they are feeling now

Maryjane001:
What about you please?
Are u without baggage?

U guys talk as if u don't notice things happen upside down in this world.
I v seen girls known to v lived a wrong life while single and engaged in numerous abortions dishing children year after year when married.
Also Virgins that had to wait for years,hoping on d Lord B4 they gave birth. Some are still barren up till now.
There are also the reckless ones that find it hard it get pregnant after marriage (d one we all expect).
And also Virgins that get pregnant immediately after being married.

My guy, life is a gamble. It is 50/50 irrespective of the choice u make.
D best choice might not determine d best result however.

There is baggage and there is baggage. I am not interested in women that have been sleeping around, committing abortions and lived reckless lives. i am not perfect. But there some type women that a reasonably man would NEVER go close to.
My issue is not whether the women that that did abortion are having children. My issue is why would i marry a loose woman, a woman that has spoilt herself with different men and committed murder in the name of abortion on top?
Your thinking of marriage is wrong, 50/50? i just dey laugh you. The past would always catch up with the present.
If there are men out there that have no problem marrying loose women and murderers(abortion) that is their own problem. Those men would eventually start seeing the consequences of marrying such women.
As for me i know the kind of woman i want, i know the kind of woman i want to spend the rest of my life with

Austeeenxx:
You want to get her pregnant before you marry her? LOL. No wahala sha, you go help another man train him pikin.

Lol Funny guy, How can Me that couldn't trust her by impregnating her before marrying her then trust her by not doing DNA test for my Children?

My brother, DNA test will be the first thing I will do to My Child.

I will take good care of my family o But I will define it and also make it very obvious to my wife that I have Trust issues. So that she will thread Very Carefully

Says who

kestolove95:
Any child conceive before marriage is an illegal child

mhizv:
There are ways you can know this medically. Go for a thorough check up

Pap smear
Homonal test(progesterone,thyroid)
Hysterosalpingogram(it's an x-ray the fallopian tube and uterus)
Know someone who took his fiance for series of test,B4 they got married. If there's a problem with her you'd definitely know.

Instead of knocking her up.

They can bribe the Doctors. My Uncle is a victim of this. He never knew, after a while of trying they went back to another Doc and it was noticed that a part of her womb has been punctured. But unfortunately, the man is a religious man which means no divorce.

seanwilliam:
Daddyrochie and guys up there dey fhuck up.. dem no dey tell person say shit dey smell, wait make e dip him hand inside first... .
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.
..no one should advise or quote that just.nock of a guy again ? ( the moniker might even be a girl trolling with a guy's moniker), leave am body go tell am...

.
.

Life is full of uncertainty no doubt, but that doesn't mean someone should not apply logic when needed... there are some dumb steps that if you take it, no no matter how smart, prayerful or exposed u become, it would still hunt u eith physically, mentally or emotionally...
.
..
.
There are some avoidable mistakes that if you make it, you would never be able to correct it till you leave this world..
.
.
..
Maybe that just.nock of a guy/girl just found new lover, so love still dey shack him
.
.

No sensible MAN would marry a naija girl out of pity..
.
.
Apply logic when dealing with NAIJA GIRLS, no matter how much you fall in love with them ..
.

Because u self think am,
If you were broke and dumb, would she( I mean a very beautiful and figure 8 girl) stay by u?
Would she look pass your shortcomings?
No naija girls( beautiful ones oo) would do that for you..
If girls stay with you when you are broke and dumb, it means she sees potential in u ( which is 100% sure) .. and she knows she would be the ultimate beneficiary of it and she would love to be part of your story..
.

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If any guy goes ahead to marry a known harlot, then such fellow is an enemy of God( because u see problem for ground but due to numbness or brain- blindness, you go put ur hand to the problem. Now you will now be giving God tough time and people would be thinking God forsakes una not knowing u brought that to yourself)...

.
.

If you unknowingly marry a harlot, then it's a different thing. Cos you have an excuse and it is left to God to compensate your innocence.

.
.
Lastly, if you marry a morally sound lady, whose past is good, and you yourself is medically ok, there are still certainty that you might get fertility/ giving-birth problems, if that happens then it is not either of the party's fault, that's a mystery which should be left to God, afterall , two of una get a clear conscience....
.
Love doesn't 100% sustain marriage ooo, this is not contemporary or Elizabethan era of william Shakespeare of romeo and juliet..
.
.
Using pansophist word in my own way," it is not about doing what is morally right, it is about doing what works" .
Morally right is getting pregnant/ pikin after marriage
What works is getting pregnant/pikin before Marriage..
I drop my pen ..nuff said
Aro1
Pansophist
Martinez39, Martinez39s
Ubunja
Harrdon
Johnspute
Nextd18( virgin man lol)

The mystery of life is impossible for any human to unravel brother..

Marrying an harlot, or getting a lady pregnant before marriage, just to ascertain her fertility is just Grace.. I know some ladies that did olosho runs like mad, and even had so many abortions, and they end up marrying good men, and having kids..

Same with upright ladies, that end up with awful men, and going barren..

GRACE : i wont say more than this...

You have contributed well brother.. Kudos!

Chizuru01:
They can bribe the Doctors. My Uncle is a victim of this. He never knew, after a while of trying they went back to another Doc and it was noticed that a part of her womb has been punctured. But unfortunately, the man is a religious man which means no divorce.

It's quite risky for a doctor or anyone in the medical field to fake results.

Shugavee:
I know of many couples still waiting on God, n I know of men that waited 30 years or more b4 kids. That’s what love is patience !! U won’t be the first or the last to wait ,, not doing that don’t make u smarter.

Thank God , for IVF , u don’t hv to wait for many years b4 use this procedure

A man that waited for 30 years b4 child bearing will be above 60 years and his wife above 50 years. How then are they going to give the child a good standard of living b4 strength goes off?

It would have been better if they tried it out b4 marriage to save both the man and the woman from 30 years agony.

angelfallz:
There is baggage and there is baggage. I am not interested in women that have been sleeping around, committing abortions and lived reckless lives. i am not perfect. But there some type women that a reasonably man would NEVER go close to.
My issue is not whether the women that that did abortion are having children. My issue is why would i marry a loose woman, a woman that has spoilt herself with different men and committed murder in the name of abortion on top?
Your thinking of marriage is wrong, 50/50? i just dey laugh you. The past would always catch up with the present.
If there are men out there that have no problem marrying loose women and murderers(abortion) that is their own problem. Those men would eventually start seeing the consequences of marrying such women.
As for me i know the kind of woman i want, i know the kind of woman i want to spend the rest of my life with

U could marry a virtuous lady and she might not take in immediately even when certified by the doctors that u r both ok. At that period, patience is needed.
The way I see u, u might go out of the marriage to cheat and experiment.

there is these female polythecnic student who just move to my area,just 2 months ago,and i knw three married men that had slept with her,now imagine in the nearest future someone i knw or my relative wants to marry her u think i will allow it happen hell no

Chizuru01:
A man that waited for 30 years b4 child bearing will be above 60 years and his wife above 50 years. How then are they going to give the child a good standard of living b4 strength goes off?

It would have been better if they tried it out b4 marriage to save both the man and the woman from 30 years agony.

thats to you ,, not everyone thinks like you

michealoluwaseyi:
there is these female polythecnic student who just move to my area,just 2 months ago,and i knw three married men that had slept with her,now imagine in the nearest future someone i knw or my relative wants to marry her u think i will allow it happen hell no

instead of thinking of compatibility, you interested in who she slept with ? Only a weakling will let you influence his decision of a wife

Chizuru01:

I like the position of the “CHILL” in that picture.

justnock:
Dude, If I love her, we can still adopt a baby from an orphanage while waiting for God to have mercy on "US" and bless her with the fruit of the womb.
Y'all folks of this generation know nothing about true love. Maybe it's because I come from a family where I have never seen my parents argue or quarrel, for once. True love is about sacrifice. Put yourself in her shoes...she is also human. She deserves to be loved like anyone else.

I don't know what is true love and I don't wanna know if it means me denying myself babies because of one silly act from "also human" in the name of having fun and getting the dough...

Shugavee:
instead of thinking of compatibility, you interested in who she slept with ? Only a weakling will let you influence his decision of a wife

if u like u can be thinking of compatibility all u like,my hell no remain hell no,only a weakling man will marry a public toilet

justnock:
May sense fall on you. You're archaic, absolutely.

Since you are 'modern', ensure DNA test for all your kids..
How about that??

aro1:
The mystery of life is impossible for any human to unravel brother..

Marrying an harlot, or getting a lady pregnant before marriage, just to ascertain her fertility is just Grace.. I know some ladies that did olosho runs like mad, and even had so many abortions, and they end up marrying good men, and having kids..

Same with upright ladies, that end up with awful men, and going barren..

GRACE : i wont say more than this...

You have contributed well brother.. Kudos!

that's why I said it a mystery bro.. but knowingly marrying an harlot is the dumbest thing to do bro.. no matter how they wanna twist it, a dick Hooper would always be dick Hooper.. .
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I hail u bro