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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by lexy2014: 8:16am On Mar 14, 2020
Ovi2020:

My dear let me advice you. Dont ask him to define his intentions or ask questions like what do you want or what are we. Guys hate that question. It can even sound stupid.
You have two options or more but these are the one that come to my mind.
1. Bc it seems you both are believers, be careful with making the first move. Many brothers dont feel comfortable with that. Some brothers do shaa. For example in my case I was still trying to make up my mind when my girl told me she loves me. I had to tell her I love her too even though I wasnt sure then but the relationship became defined and I fell in love with her eventually
2. Alternatively, you can just keep quite. But make sure you are not the one asking him for things.
Send me a DM. I would like to follow up with you on this

U are contradicting urself. Am sure d lady is even now more confused
Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by Nobody: 8:18am On Mar 14, 2020
lexy2014:


If she can't ask d guy out herself, then what does she want d entirety of nairaland members to do for her? Should we escort her to see d guy& ask him to ask her out?
The average Nigerian guy never appreciates honesty. Let her come out with her feelings and watch how the guy will change attitude 180 degrees. You guys deserve your kind-lying, hypocritical, bitches.
Confused beings, you appreciate being toasted by a bold lady, yet enjoy the hunt, yet quick to pass her off as loose. What are the colours of your problems?
Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by nkemchineke: 8:18am On Mar 14, 2020
Smartest quote I've read.
9ja083:
Find out if he is married. Also make him understand that u will like to know we're the were the relationship between the two of u is going.
It's left for him to say.....oh! Dear I have nothing in mind. Am married. Or I don't have intention to date u. Or we are JUST friends and nothing serious.
With his response you will know your stand. The earlier the better.
there are some men that are shy and won't tell u their intention but will do everything to make u believe and see that the love u and will like to start a relationship with u. These men will never open up but will complain when u give another man a chance.

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by AK481(m): 8:19am On Mar 14, 2020
TA4TA4:




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2thHxKsu-LU

This is the answer you need

That guy na baddo
Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by Nobody: 8:20am On Mar 14, 2020
lexy2014:


U are contradicting urself. Am sure d lady is even now more confused
The same way you guys contradict yourselves.
Tell him, don't tell him, flash green light, don't flash green light, take him out, don't take him out, give him sex, don't try that.
Confused male homo sapiens.

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by lexy2014: 8:22am On Mar 14, 2020
prepresh:
There is this guy that is very close to me, he calls me often, but has never asked me out.

I don't know his house, he doesn't know mine, he has never taken me out on a date but does more than enough for me.

What should I do? Because other suitors are coming and I like him.

Most of d things u wrote are simple issues u can handle urself. U don't need advise. U don't no were a guy who is showing interest in u leaves and u are telling us. What do u want us to do? Should we look for his address for u? Does anything stop u from asking him appropriate questions about himself? I clearly don't see d essence of ur thread
Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by franchasng: 8:24am On Mar 14, 2020
prepresh:
There is this guy that is very close to me, he calls me often, but has never asked me out.

I don't know his house, he doesn't know mine, he has never taken me out on a date but does more than enough for me.

What should I do? Because other suitors are coming and I like him.
He is married and keeping you for future Xmas slaughter, most married guys have one or two or three chicks they really like and wished they could still have lol, and maybe out of pure likeness for the chick, knowing they are already married and don't want to deceive her, just show care through provision, and hoping someday, someday wink

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by lexy2014: 8:25am On Mar 14, 2020
Chi59:

The same way you guys contradict yourselves.
Tell him, don't tell him, flash green light, don't flash green light, take him out, don't take him out, give him sex, don't try that.
Confused male homo sapiens.

Its obvious u have personal issues with guys. Ur comment is more laden with hurt from past experiences and not a result of rational related to d issue at hand. It would have been better if u shared ur hurt so u can find healing.

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by Joy30: 8:27am On Mar 14, 2020
Ask him this question...
Can we please define this relationship?
I mean, what are we doing?

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by franchasng: 8:27am On Mar 14, 2020
cRobo:


individual difference, I will forever respect any woman who is bold enough to state clear her desire about me

well it all depends on the maturity of the guy

only kids will take such for granted

such ladies are rare and so special its not an act of desperation but going for what you want

guys pleads with girl and also ladies pleads with guys

unless the are kids
what if the girl is ugly with flat buttocks, flat boobs, big tummy and curved legs, will u also respect her and agree to date her till death do you part grin












Guys be expecting ladies like Juliet Ibrahim come to ask them out, una go wait tire oh cheesy cheesy

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by lexy2014: 8:28am On Mar 14, 2020
Chi59:

The average Nigerian guy never appreciates honesty. Let her come out with her feelings and watch how the guy will change attitude 180 degrees. You guys deserve your kind-lying, hypocritical, bitches.
Confused beings, you appreciate being toasted by a bold lady, yet enjoy the hunt, yet quick to pass her off as loose. What are the colours of your problems?

U seem hurt cos I don't see how what u have said relates with d questions I asked. Did u ask a guy out in d past and he turned u down? Care to share? They say a problem shared is a problem solved. Don't let ur hurt eat u up. Stop putting up a brave face yet ur pain is eroding every part of u by d day
Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by franchasng: 8:29am On Mar 14, 2020
Chi59:

The same way you guys contradict yourselves.
Tell him, don't tell him, flash green light, don't flash green light, take him out, don't take him out, give him sex, don't try that.
Confused male homo sapiens.
my stomach oh cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by SavageMaster: 8:31am On Mar 14, 2020
centboy123456:



just see this one

the guy here we are talking about as not ask her out and u are here talking about marriage

Nigerian girls with marriage I never see marriage marriage I never see

You need to understand the lady's point too. She has suitors; she can easily settle for any.

If you were a lady, and a guy is all around you playing nice guy, won't you be bothered? Op needs to be sure of the exact signal he's sending.

If it's just normal brother/sister, no strings attached kind of relationship, then, no problem; she can go ahead and make her choice out of her suitors.

If he loves her and wants to marry her, he should man up and be definite about what he's up to. You can't just be hanging around a lady just for fun, without stirring her emotions.

You still don't get it. Ladies are emotional. For one act or word of yours, they've come up with possible interpretations. Don't toy with their emotions.

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by Nobody: 8:32am On Mar 14, 2020
lexy2014:


U seem hurt cos I don't see how what u have said relates with d questions I asked. Did u ask a guy out in d past and he turned u down? Care to share? They say a problem shared is a problem solved. Don't let ur hurt eat u up. Stop putting up a brave face yet ur pain is eroding every part of u by d day
Fvck you. Don't try to psychoanalyse me. Set of confused entities.

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by Adelekesaka(m): 8:41am On Mar 14, 2020
prepresh:
There is this guy that is very close to me, he calls me often, but has never asked me out.

I don't know his house, he doesn't know mine, he has never taken me out on a date but does more than enough for me.

What should I do? Because other suitors are coming and I like him.

Be open and ask him how he feels about you, at least that will save you lots of wasted time and guess work.
Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by johnad3(m): 8:46am On Mar 14, 2020
I can feel a sense of not feeling comfortable a bit here, women self ehn, Wetin una want sef? Must it be the men to ask you out everytime? If you want a brighter future for yourself in marriage, and you ve seen a treasure (man) in Wealth, what's should be holding you back to lay your hands on him cus hes mind maybe on something else then ask him out yourself, What i mean is when you know what you want you will go for it, marriage is about 2 people and not one.

Mind you, Dont take the lead when you re married cus when you do, you planning your own down fall, God created man to be the head.
Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by robosky02(m): 8:47am On Mar 14, 2020
Yahman1:
If u ask him Out would the Sun cease to Rise? He Might be a shy Dude or he is waiting for the right time besides na this kind scene Una dey like na, why are u complaining
Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by JoseRaji(m): 8:48am On Mar 14, 2020
prepresh:
There is this guy that is very close to me, he calls me often, but has never asked me out.

I don't know his house, he doesn't know mine, he has never taken me out on a date but does more than enough for me.

What should I do? Because other suitors are coming and I like him.
Then ask him out na! What are you waiting for? If you ask him out will you die?

We should gather and go to his house and force him to ask you out?!

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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by robosky02(m): 8:49am On Mar 14, 2020
Joy30:
Ask him this question...
Can we please define this relationship?
I mean, what are we doing?


Shape babe grin
Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by Areaboy2(m): 8:55am On Mar 14, 2020
SweetCunt97:
He's married
Thank you.. I was just scrolling to see if people get sense.. Hahaha.. I'm happy atleast one person can see this wink
Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by samtol4(m): 8:57am On Mar 14, 2020
merit455:
Move on,him no like you. He is just helping you bcs you are poor. You are not his type, seeking useless advise
This is uncalled for and rude .
Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by SavageMaster: 9:00am On Mar 14, 2020
eni4real:
He is like a brother to you..
I don't think you can fall in love with such a helper!! undecided

You can't love someone without being friends with him/her. That's how marriages last, when everything else fades: the friendship part continues
Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by johnad3(m): 9:02am On Mar 14, 2020
Nothing bad seeing a lady toasting a guy. Some ladies condemn or shy away themselves before taking the move, If you know what you want ladies, go for it, we are in HD definition age don't let old philosophy or belief takes away your happiness. Be bold to toast someone you really like, cus if you deny it universe will definitely punishes you, and secondly, dont reject when someone truly loves you cus when you do, ummm UNIVERSE, this universe you and I lives in, will surely treat your fuckup



Chi59:

The average Nigerian guy never appreciates honesty. Let her come out with her feelings and watch how the guy will change attitude 180 degrees. You guys deserve your kind-lying, hypocritical, bitches.
Confused beings, you appreciate being toasted by a bold lady, yet enjoy the hunt, yet quick to pass her off as loose. What are the colours of your problems?
Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by samtol4(m): 9:06am On Mar 14, 2020
Some men especially the religious ones don't know how to ask a lady out.Some are scare of rejection or the lady reaction ! Since you love him because he is God fearing man and caring,set a meeting in an eatery to discuss with him .Please don't ask him out some men are not mature to handle women proposal they see it as desperate move ,though nothing is wrong with that . Tell him you appreciate him for his caring attitude and love for u ! And what are his plans for the future ? What about his fiancée if the lady is in Nigeria ? You will like to meet her some day. His response will determine your next line of action . The relationship must be defined !
Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by Sammycee: 9:06am On Mar 14, 2020
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Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by SavageMaster: 9:06am On Mar 14, 2020
Stallion93:
See this girl feeling like a piece of Meat or some fancy Inanimate decor. Are you not a human being? If he doesn’t ask you out can’t you ask him out? A man will stop you on the road, request for your number, call you all the time, recharge your phone, pay your bills, buy you shwarma, buy ice cream for you, Do all shit for you and you just stay there With your passive Wrinkled ass. Nigerian girls tire me

Good point, but your mode of delivery was harsh
Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by Ovi2020: 9:11am On Mar 14, 2020
lexy2014:


U are contradicting urself. Am sure d lady is even now more confused
Yeah, I realise it is so but in this kind of situation you can't be too direct bc you dont have all the info about them. You practically don't know anything about them
Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by SavageMaster: 9:15am On Mar 14, 2020
Alexun:


The risk with that is this... YOU MAY NEVER GET THE EXACT ANSWER YOU WANT!

You know why? It once happened to me. We met at an eatery, she asked what I wanted with her...I couldn't tell her "nothing" cause I knew she was gonna hate me. She was disappointed cause she expected me jumping at the offer. But I had a gf then, and I didn't wanna double date.

So, the thing is this, you can go in this line...but be prepared for the worse. Don't be too sure of the expected response. And be sure you can withstand his withdrawn care and niceness, cause that might happen too!

Selah!!!

You had a girlfriend. The guy probably doesn't have a girlfriend, and Op doesn't have a boyfriend.

So, the two scenarios are not the same.

Your answer may not be valid.
Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by SavageMaster: 9:21am On Mar 14, 2020
BigJoe19:
What if the guy is not even interested in a romantic relationship and just takes u like a friend or his kid sister.

I don't know why the average naija girl thinks all guys are interested in bedding them. Fish brains everywhere.

Nobody is talking about "bedding" someone here. Op is talking about marriage. Marriage is more than "bedding" someone
Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by cRobo: 9:22am On Mar 14, 2020
franchasng:
what if the girl is ugly with flat buttocks, flat boobs, big tummy and curved legs, will u also respect her and agree to date her till death do you part grin



Handsome guys like me only attract beautiful and endowed girls


I won't say a word











Guys be expecting ladies like Juliet Ibrahim come to ask them out, una go wait tire oh cheesy cheesy
Re: He Gives Me Anything I Want, Calls Me Frequently But Has Never Asked Me Out by cRobo: 9:22am On Mar 14, 2020
Chi59:

Na so them dey talk.. Ask him out at your own peril.


After look at your pic


I won't say a word

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