Midas01:
Good one, I like this. That boy should live with you and should be shown love, otherwise will resent you in future and that cannot be reversed.

Davash222:

I’m not well convinced though. Your photos I’ve seen before depicts dwarfism with mighty bum bum.

Rejoice5000:
My dear keep begging him ur son needs ur Love and care.if possible start telling ur husband that ur son is a changed person now@12yrs he is still a child maybe he does not feed well there that's what pushed him into stealing believe me if that son is with you that rubbish statement of him stealing u won't hear it again am telling u out of experience.

dominique:


Most of these "white" men that marry single mums legally adopt the kids, that's why Wikipedia puts Matt Damon's kids as 4 despite his wife birthing 3 for him. Rockstar Chris Daughtry not only legally adopted his wife's kids, the kids now bear his surname as well. I'm using this examples of A-list American celebrities because they married non-celebrity women and still adopted their kids as their own.

Whites (Americans in particular) are more flexible and receptive towards single mums and the children borne by them. A far far cry from our egotistic Nigerian men who think they're doing women favour by marrying them and expect their wives to snap into two to please them even if means rendering her child homeless.

Psoul:


May God bless you @Rejoice.

Exactly what I have bn saying and ppl are ranting that the man should just accept the boy no need for begging.

I maintained that all the woman need is persistent talk with the man. Making him see reasons why they should bring the boy home. Assure him that she will make sure that she rehabilitate the boy.

It's not a matter of the woman telling the man that she has enough money to take care of the boy. Some men will see it as an insult.
Also, it's not a case of bn angry with the man and refusing to talk to him.

She need to keep talking to the man and at a point, she will succeed in breaking the man, then he will agree with her.

pocohantas:


You saw my photos where biko?

pocohantas:


The kind of men that will see my bumbum as a SP, are men who will put maximum pressure on my vagina. They won’t help me grow organically.

If there is anything the right men do most times, it is to stereotype one as a bimbo. You’ll have to work twice as hard to show you are not mentally and physically slow. Not so much of a SP after all.

I took it down...I am sure Davash222 now knows I am not short.

ibkayee:

Lmao see this one, I am of average height thank you very much

Lol anyone who calls poco short has definitely not seen her picture lol, that girl is an amazon

Davash222:

Your visit to Oniru beach.

Psoul:


The more you talk, the more you exposes your ignorance.
You mean to tell me that in ur western country, the law will impose a child that is not urs to u cos the child needs shelter. Chaiiii.
In that of ur western world, have u ever heard of "Authorization Agreement for Nonparent Relative?"
Do you know that there is law for virtually everything over there.
Do you know that there are so many things the law will restrict you from doing for and to a child that is not yours unless you have that Authorization Agreement?

Well, I don't need to school u on this.

franchasng:
show me na, I want to look too, what's good for Davash222 is good for the Anonymous Engineer, don't be bias, prejudice is a big sin, or you intend to go to hell fire like Fulani herdsmen too D

Psoul:


Nobody is saying that the boy should be allowed to die.
The issue is about someone taking up a responsibility that is not his while he still has his own responsibilities pilled up for him.
Secondly, ppl that are more closer to this kid have all refused to have anything to do with him.

My point is that the woman should not present it as if the solution lies only on the money she will give to send the boy to school.
There are more important thing to talk with the man. Then when she is able to convince the man, she can then be telling him not to worry, that she will try as much as she can to see that she provides for the boys school fees.

pocohantas:


How is the person in those pictures short?
Lmao. Now you are trolling, as usual.

movement2020:


Thank you. I hope the woman would see this and amend her ways of using force.

Miarose:
Log out abeg.. you have filled this thread with thrash. Low voltage brain. A mother wants to take care of her kid who has been rejected by others..leave her alone. There is NOTHING else to understand.

Psoul:


May God bless you @Rejoice.

Exactly what I have bn saying and ppl are ranting that the man should just accept the boy no need for begging.

I maintained that all the woman need is persistent talk with the man. Making him see reasons why they should bring the boy home. Assure him that she will make sure that she rehabilitate the boy.

It's not a matter of the woman telling the man that she has enough money to take care of the boy. Some men will see it as an insult.
Also, it's not a case of bn angry with the man and refusing to talk to him.

She need to keep talking to the man and at a point, she will succeed in breaking the man, then he will agree with her.

Vyvyanvyvy:
I had 2 children. When I got married, my husband had none and accepted them like his own children.

Before marriage, we had discussed about the children living with us after marriage but that couldn’t be possible anymore because we were having financial problem so we couldn’t afford to move to a bigger apartment. We were staying in a room self contain with my daughter while my son was staying with my elder brother and his wife.

Now three years after we had moved to a bigger house still my husband doesn’t want my son to come and live with us. At the moment my son is going through hard times. My sister in law has been maltreating him to an extent that he has been stealing, he was caught and beaten like an animal. My brother said he doesn’t want him in his house again. He wants me to come and collect him.

I pleaded with my husband for me to bring him with us but he said no, he should stay there because he doesn't want him to damage our children. I’m angry at him I stopped talking to him and I don’t know where my son will go because I have no mother no father it’s only my elder brother and kid sister even my sister who is married doesn’t want him. I’m pained and in tears seeing my only son suffering while I’m still alive and I’m helpless to protect him.

pocohantas:


How is the person in those pictures short?
Lmao. Now you are trolling, as usual.




Yes every man loves a lady with nice shape, I won’t say big buttocks. Some men are ass men, some boobs, some legs...etc.

However, the man that’ll just be giving a lady things all for having nyash, isn’t one that will help her grow organically. Except she doesn’t want self-development and I am not talking money here.

Davash222:

He's already treating the girl as his own flesh and blood. He's only being careful to protect the girls.
The father of the boy is alive, isn't it wise for the woman to take the boy to his father??

crackkhaus:
What silly sympathy?

Unlike you, some of us are able to detect a writer's mindset just from a few sentences. And this one, right from the first page already showed she deserves no sympathy or pity.

A woman who takes care of 70% of the bills in her home and does not want the man to be financially responsible for the boy, should be living on her own as a single mother.

Meanwhile, look at who you're trying to defend... Lmao

Davash222:

The physique of that well rounded ball behind was that of short girls. I know the physical characteristics of short girls.

Sixfeetbelle:
If it's your child, you won't make this statement. No child deserves their parent treating them like a baggage. That is how resentment breed in people, leading some to be mentally unbalanced.

On the man's part, I'd say he's a coward. He knew there were two kids before the marriage, and he accepted one but rejected the other. Why? Why did he accept the girl? Did he have ulterior motives for her? Is that why he doesn't want the boy around? His actions looks fishy.

martowskin1:
Tell all this to the father of the boy, the father who couldn't stand and take care of his kids, the family of the father who can't ask of their nephew, grandson are not coward.

But the innocent man who refuse to swallow all the load of another man is now a coward. ... If she can't find another solution to look after her son, or sent the boy to live with his major family, the family who's name he bears... The family who's blood he carries then let her divorce the man simple....

U cant call a man coward for responsibility that is not his, is not fair in any form...

U are all looking it from the woman angle, why not look at it from the man angle

Davash222:

Lol. Repent. Barb me davash hairstyle, your head and davash head na dey same

Give your life to God, bro.
Lol

Vyvyanvyvy:
He met me when I was living in a room self contain with my 2 children he accepted them and has agreed that we will be together after marriage. I have suffered all alone with my children I wasn’t desperate for marriage and if I knew he would change his mind after marriage then I wouldn’t even be with him in the first place. Like I said earlier as long I’m alive none of my children will be living with relatives it was the difficult circumstances we had faced after marriage that was why I had to send my son to my brother or else I wouldn’t do it , nobody can look after my children better than me if my own brother and his wife are maltreating and do you think he will be better with his father relatives ? My children are my responsibilities they are not my relatives or their father relatives responsibilities

franchasng:
Show me the pinchor let me be the judge because it seems you are being intentionally mischievous oh, or are you saying any girl with big ukwu is short That will be a fallacy of hasty generalization of course....and you have now got me curious of this bombom





Does sign of the cross as I await for you to show me the big ukwu
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Mandelus:
Send the boi back to his real father. Your man understands that the boi will always go back to his real father no matter what you think.

franchasng:
Yes that's true, you are right. The law supports that if the mother was given the legal right to be with the child (have custody) after separation or divorce with her first husband, which brings us to the question: where is the child's father in all these This question must be answered if we are to go the western way

femi4:
The problem is your boy. He's such a bad influence. Your hubby didn't have problem with your girl living with you. Until the boy stop behaving irresponsibly like his father, he has no biz in the house.

DedeNkem:


If your own siblings rejected having him (their nephew) around, you can't expect your husband to agree to let him in.

If your son is a good kid, everyone would like to have him around. Talk to your son to let know his behaviour is the problem. If he promises to change then kneel down and beg your husband to give your son a chance to prove himself. Good luck!

eduman365:
Would you allow your own son marry an "after 2" ... Independence kwa? Even those who don't have kids are praying for good husbands. Accepting to wife a single mother is a very tough decision for any man... Don't bring that independence talk here... She for stay single na.

Vyvyanvyvy:

Why does he have to worry when he doesn’t buy anything for them ? Even the child we have together I’m the one paying her school fee even for him to give me money for scan it’s a problem. It’s not like he doesn’t have any but he is a very stingy man