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Jonathan39:
Hope you read the nonsense you typed

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please just tread carefully

Theoarhics:
He has asked you out several times. What do u think those things are for? That's a non verbal means of asking you out. Or is it only verbal u understand. ?

Assumption is the lowest form of knowledge. If the guy has not said anything verbally, why should she assume he wants a future with her?
She needs to be sure

Joy30:
Ask him this question...
Can we please define this relationship?
I mean, what are we doing?

Nice suggestion.

May be he has a wife and love you too but he doesn’t want to break your heart just take a time to verify but nothing bad about asking him for a date it’s might be a shy man either...... But all the best

madjune:
He must be a yahoo yahoo plus boy cultivating you for harvest this December.

Oh, don't be ridiculous

prepresh:
There is this guy that is very close to me, he calls me often, but has never asked me out.

I don't know his house, he doesn't know mine, he has never taken me out on a date but does more than enough for me.

What should I do? Because other suitors are coming and I like him.

Do you want him to ask you out?

ask him out...must it always be the man? u too take the initiative

samtol4:
Some men especially the religious ones don't know how to ask a lady out.Some are scare of rejection or the lady reaction ! Since you love him because he is God fearing man and caring,set a meeting in an eatery to discuss with him .Please don't ask him out some men are not mature to handle women proposal they see it as desperate move ,though nothing is wrong with that . Tell him you appreciate him for his caring attitude and love for u ! And what are his plans for the future ? What about his fiancée if the lady is in Nigeria ? You will like to meet her some day. His response will determine your next line of action . The relationship must be defined !

I like this advice

Minnmick10:
please just tread carefully

Oga what do u mean by thread carefully
The lady in question clearly stated that she knows the guy, like they know each other. now what do u mean by thread carefully. Don't confuse her d more

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Eko30:

Oga what do u mean by thread carefully
The lady in question clearly stated that she knows the guy, like they know each other. now what do u mean by thread carefully. Don't confuse her d more

please bros are you the guy she was talking of
don't be scared u won't loose her but now that u are here call her so that I will counsel you two

SavageMaster:


Assumption is the lowest form of knowledge. If the guy has not said anything verbally, why should she assume he wants a future with her?

I taya.

But na so most of these girls, dia minds dey.

Na why niggaz dey call dem fishbrain.

Minnmick10:
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please bros are you the guy she was talking of
don't be scared u won't loose her but now that u are here call her so that I will counsel you two

No I cannot be the guy because I am an outspoken person. But u my friend, clearly need to know when not to comment. common it is not a must u post a comment.

Eko30:


No I cannot be the guy because I am an outspoken person. But u my friend, clearly need to know when not to comment. common it is not a must u post a comment.

sorry bros I never wanted to hurt u about what the lady receiving your kind, humble and quiet gestures has said, but u are becoming aggressive even online.

But be truthful na I know you are the guy she was talking of, dottint and caring for her from a distance

But anyway, now I know why she seek advice
she has a feeling you are up to something
oya speak up and defend yourself so she can be proud of you

Minnmick10:



sorry bros I never wanted to hurt u about what the lady receiving your kind, humble and quiet gestures has said, but u are becoming aggressive even online.

But be truthful na I know you are the guy she was talking of, dottint and caring for her from a distance

But anyway, now I know why she seek advice
she has a feeling you are up to something
oya speak up and defend yourself so she can be proud of you

Hahahahaha Olodo

Chi59:

Fvck you. Don't try to psychoanalyse me. Set of confused entities.

do u no y I like nairaland? Its because u can't block anyone like twitter or other chat platforms. Am sure by now u would have blocked me.

Y shouldn't I psychoanalyse u? Does it expose some secrets u want hidden? If my "psychoanalysis" about was wrong, I was expecting u to negate it.

But I don't even need to psychoanalyse u. Ur choice of words betray u. Ur words carry so much emotions like anger, hurt& pain. I don't need 2b a rocket scientist to figure out how u feel and what makes u feel d way u do. If u are honest with urself, u will see that u are only reinforcing d pain& hurt by d things u say. So u have my attention if u want to get d load of ur chest

Sokosuji:
you be old hand walai

Lol. E don dey for d game

Eko30:


Hahahahaha Olodo

wow I love that you have finally spoken up and defended your self
she will be really proud of you

cRobo:



After look at your pic


I won't say a word

Go ahead, say it.

franchasng:
what if the girl is ugly with flat buttocks, flat boobs, big tummy and curved legs, will u also respect her and agree to date her till death do you part













Guys be expecting ladies like Juliet Ibrahim come to ask them out, una go wait tire oh

johnad3:
I can feel a sense of not feeling comfortable a bit here, women self ehn, Wetin una want sef? Must it be the men to ask you out everytime? If you want a brighter future for yourself in marriage, and you ve seen a treasure (man) in Wealth, what's should be holding you back to lay your hands on him cus hes mind maybe on something else then ask him out yourself, What i mean is when you know what you want you will go for it, marriage is about 2 people and not one.

Mind you, Dont take the lead when you re married cus when you do, you planning your own down fall, God created man to be the head.

See as you just contradicted yourself. She should ask him out but not take the lead. Oya clap for your confusion.

Chi59:

Go ahead, say it.

You look exactly the way you reason

cRobo:



You look exactly the way you reason

Whatever that means, that's on you.

tell him you are having suitors and you are having troubles selecting one out of them

if he doesn't react list features of the men one after the other and ask him to help you make decisions since you guys have become so close

be calm and make it look like the matter has been troubling your heart for long

if this doesn't bring out his legs to start saying what he wants,. leave him he is just a cheerful giver,.go and marry

dnt pressure a man or woman,let them know you are open (so they dnt take advantage or blame you that ua the one that changed their mind when the going is not going well.

daalu

Chi59:
Whatever that means, that's on you.

fine gee give me green light make i chat you up if you are not taken

Enwhen:



Don't be impatient.... Others are coming , but your mind is with him...it shows u like him more... why not wait for the best ?, if others also love u, they would wait for u....let me give u expo as a guy..


I understand that kinda guy, he is calm, loving and caring, those kind of guys don't go into relationship , they don't ask girls out, or date, until they are sure she is what they want, they can spend the whole world for u, but if they discovered that u are not what they want , they will leave u.... Now if u treuly love him, u don't need to shoot your shot, or ask him, also study him to see if he is someone u can grow old with, because he is also studying u right now, u too do ur own study about him to know if u will need to wait and look at others...


Goodluck....

You're very right.

lexy2014:


do u no y I like nairaland? Its because u can't block anyone like twitter or other chat platforms. Am sure by now u would have blocked me.

Y shouldn't I psychoanalyse u? Does it expose some secrets u want hidden? If my "psychoanalysis" about was wrong, I was expecting u to negate it.

But I don't even need to psychoanalyse u. Ur choice of words betray u. Ur words carry so much emotions like anger, hurt& pain. I don't need 2b a rocket scientist to figure out how u feel and what makes u feel d way u do. If u are honest with urself, u will see that u are only reinforcing d pain& hurt by d things u say. So u have my attention if u want to get d load of ur chest

Fvck off

Chi59:

Fvck off

I can feel ur pain. Its hard and I understand how u feel but d more u do what u doing, d more d pain will increase. Trust me

Enwhen:



That's wrong move...


He is only studying her, he is a cool, calm and caring guy, he just want to be sure of what he wants before the final move..as such, she too also needs to study him...those kind of guys can spend the whole world without nothing in return, if she is not what they want , he will leave her, that's the main reason he is not asking anything.

True! He's a calm & calculative dude

prepresh:
[Oga, I like him because he is a born again, a brother in my church and very God fearing, I'm only trying to let people know things he is doing that made me think he has feelings for me, I don't like long story that's why I summarized, why people ask for advice if u have one give and if u don't just pass and stop looking forward to criticism. quote author=merit455 post=87390744]huh.....,you like him because he does everything you need. If he was just a friend,you will not come and asekd for advice,stingy and greedy African girls

you'd be harsh