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Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Kennedyiheme02: 11:45am On Mar 19, 2020
O boy i must tell you I've saved alot.. i remember back then in 2011.. i used to make 40k a month.. i gave 7k every month for hair, always bought some things for her.. we go out, give her some money, last last my my money go remain 10k.. just like after 10days into the new month...

I remember once paid for a business for a babe which was a total disaster.. but praise god i swallowed the redpill tnrough the help of feminism... i don't have to worry about taking care of anyone.. if i buy something.. i buy just one not 2...and thats why I'm never getting married...

Whats your experience..

Ubunja , Martinez39s

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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Leoniine(f): 11:49am On Mar 19, 2020
Mtchewwwwwwww
Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Martinez39s(m): 11:51am On Mar 19, 2020
There is no doubt that a man will save more money if he stops chasing women, live a single life, and focus on himselves.

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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by ubunja(m): 12:05pm On Mar 19, 2020
It's hard for me to say how much I have saved. But what I can say is that I have been able to buy things I wouldn't have had the money and the motivation and the "permission" to buy were I living with a female.

Because I'm also a House DJ on the side, at one time I was able to assemble a kickass sound system that was the envy of many. That cost me thousands of rands and could unleash hell on my street.


The biggest gain in being a single guy is the freedom to do whatever whenever. You can disappear for days. You can have friends spend days over. You can fvck any hoes you chance upon. And living in the Joburg CBD that happens a lot. Always chicks looking for a place to spend the night.

However, when I have problems I know I can always dial my baby mama and she'll come running. She can't ignore. Its the father of her child on the line. Guys must Always have that safety net in life. Of a female who'll drop anything at the drop of a hat for you. Because let's face it, most of our guy friends are blue pill simps who have a limit to what they'll do for you when tragedy strikes because their women will prevent them from taking certain steps to sacrifice for you.

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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by konkonbilo(m): 12:13pm On Mar 19, 2020
Leoniine:
Mtchewwwwwwww
why you de vex
Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by skyhighweb(m): 12:47pm On Mar 19, 2020
Leoniine:
Mtchewwwwwwww
ur profile says u a feminist while u come dey sigh, abi u dont know d meaning of feminist?

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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Nobody: 12:50pm On Mar 19, 2020
Bull crap.

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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Paxie55: 12:58pm On Mar 19, 2020
Kennedyiheme02:
O boy i must tell you I've saved alot.. i remember back then in 2011.. i used to make 40k a month.. i gave 7k every month for hair, always bought some things for her.. we go out, give her some money, last last my my money go remain 10k.. just like after 10days into the new month...

I remember once paid for a business for a babe which was a total disaster.. but praise god i swallowed the redpill tnrough the help of feminism... i don't have to worry about taking care of anyone.. if i buy something.. i buy just one not 2...and thats why I'm never getting married...

Whats your experience..

Ubun.ja , Martin.ez39s
The people you are calling are jobless, just like you are. grin

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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Kennedyiheme02: 1:00pm On Mar 19, 2020
Leoniine:
Mtchewwwwwwww
e pain you

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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Kennedyiheme02: 1:01pm On Mar 19, 2020
SassyGem101:
Bull crap.
e pain you ni?

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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Kennedyiheme02: 1:03pm On Mar 19, 2020
Paxie55:

The people you are calling are jobless, just like you are. grin
everyone is always jobless with you clowns... lol you must be running an oil company amidst this corona virus

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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Martinez39s(m): 1:19pm On Mar 19, 2020
Kennedyiheme02:
everyone is always jobless with you clowns... lol you must be running an oil company amidst this corona virus
Nothing is inside the brains of many Nigerians except money, job, and business even though many lack the mental capacity and skill to achieve these. Even intelligence and the ability to maintain a civil and intelligent discourse don't make the cut. Say something they don't like and they either say directly, or insinuate, that you are broke and jobless instead of refuting your points. I wonder what a man's financial situation has to do with the validity and truthfulness of his arguments. Honestly, it's disappointing.

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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Kennedyiheme02: 1:38pm On Mar 19, 2020
Martinez39s:
Nothing is inside the brains of many Nigerians except money, job, business, and joblessness even though many lack the mental capacity and skill to achieve these. Even intelligence and the ability to maintain a civil and intelligent discourse don't make the cut. Say something they don't like and they either say directly, or insinuate, that you are broke instead of refuting your points. I wonder what a man's financial situation has to do with the validity and truthfulness of his arguments. Honestly, it's disappointing.
lol i tire.. like no one wants the measage .. everyone is all about money in nigeria..

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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Nobody: 1:56pm On Mar 19, 2020
Redpill gives you the tools to operate safely through the murky waters of sexual relationships. There's a thin line between being an incel and a redpilled man. When a person like Kennedy says he needs no woman, you see a lying man who would never admit that he has no game. A woman who likes you doesn't need your money, she just wants the life you can provide. And that life isn't so expensive, it has nothing to do with impressing her. A redpilled man stays with the woman who wants him. When she even asks for money, what happened to saying "I don't give women money, I like my woman getting her own money through her own creative efforts?".
Ultimately, the woman who wants to be with you does so because she thinks you're greater than her, and not because of the money she wants from you. Redpill gives you the tools you need in making her see you in this light. Some of the guys who talk down on women here are incels. As a redpilled man, I assume you have a proper understanding of female nature, and this understanding serves as your manual that helps you in making better decisions when dealing with women.

Martinez39s:
There is no doubt that a man will save more money if he stops chasing women, live a single life, and focus on himselves.

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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Nobody: 2:06pm On Mar 19, 2020
Illuminated993:
Redpill gives you the tools to operate safely through the murky waters of sexual relationships. There's a thin line between being an incel and a redpilled man. When a person like Kennedy says he needs no woman, you see a lying man who would never admit that he has no game. A woman who likes you doesn't even need your money(the redpilledman is an adherent of Ubunja's concept of chosen), they just want the life your money can provide. And that life isn't so expensive, it has nothing to do with impressing her. When she even asks for money, what happened to saying "I don't give women money, I like my woman getting her own money through her own creative efforts?".
Ultimately, the woman who wants to be with you does so because she thinks you're greater than her, and not because of the money she wants from you. Redpill gives you the tools you need in making her see you in this light. Some of the guys who talk down on women here are incels. As a redpilled man, I assume you have a proper understanding of female nature, and this understanding serves as your manual that helps you in making better decisions when dealing with women.
There is but a very thin line between an incel and a red pill guy:misogyny
Red pill is wisening up,understanding the game and learning how to play your cards well or quitting dating(mgtow). Incel comes with misogyny,they don't talk on how to handle women and safeguard themselves from gold diggers ,they only put women down as revenge for a festering wound inflicted on them by women...its a pity many of the redpillers on this forum are incels.

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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by ubunja(m): 2:08pm On Mar 19, 2020
Martinez39s:
Nothing is inside the brains of many Nigerians except money, job, and business even though many lack the mental capacity and skill to achieve these. Even intelligence and the ability to maintain a civil and intelligent discourse don't make the cut. Say something they don't like and they either say directly, or insinuate, that you are broke and jobless instead of refuting your points. I wonder what a man's financial situation has to do with the validity and truthfulness of his arguments. Honestly, it's disappointing.
even myself I shudder at the relentless brokeshaming on NL. You won't see it on any other social network of another country.

I spent years on 2go SA but I can count on one hand the number of times I heard a guy shamed for being broke. Nigerians take this to a whole new level. It's almost like an obsession.

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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by LadySarah: 2:32pm On Mar 19, 2020
No be for this nl, this guy Ubunja will open church on y'all heads. Lol.

Wailing threads upon threads will be opened here. grin grin

Unu Je chuo ego hapu this deceit Unu no na ya

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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Martinez39s(m): 2:39pm On Mar 19, 2020
Illuminated993:
Redpill gives you the tools to operate safely through the murky waters of sexual relationships.
The purpose of the redpill is not to make you safe in your sexual relationships. The redpill is just the truth on female nature and other peripherals. What you do with the knowledge is left to you. If you intend to use the redpill knowledge to play safe in your sexual relationships, that's up to you. However, one can be redpilled and still reject romantic relationships and marriage.

There's a thin line between being an incel and a redpilled man.
There is no thin line. A blue pilled guy can be an incel; a redpilled guy can also be an incel. A blue pilled hot guy can be drowning in pussy; a redpilled hot guy can also be drowning in pussy . One mistake many so called redpilled nairaland guys keep making is to think Pick Up Artistry is what the redpill is all about, and every redpilled man is player. Sorry, the redpill isn't all about laying chicks. There are many deeply redpilled guys (especially MGTOW) who are not interested in romantic relationships, marriage, and laying chicks. Also, not everyone who doesn't have sex is an incel, and getting pussy is not a criterion to determine who is redpilled or not.

When a person like Kennedy says he needs no woman, you see a lying man who would never admit that he has no game.
grin grin Calm down. Women and sex are not must-haves for every man, and people's needs are different. A man does not need women, sex, relationships, marriage, or children to be happy. Not every man places women and these things so high that they feel these things are so essential. A man can be happy and great in life without these things.

A woman who likes you doesn't even need your money (the redpilledman is an adherent of Ubunja's concept of chosen), they just want the life your money can provide.
Hahaha. You are contradicting yourself without knowing. I leave it up to you to see the contradiction. grin grin grin Anyway, a blue pilled man can still be "chosen" by a woman. grin You seem to place a prodigious amount of value on women, sex, relationships, women's attention and validation etc. You can't use these to decide on who is redpilled or not. The redpills are a menagerie of truths, and either one embraces them or not. You are redpilled once you realise and embrace these truths. Redpill is knowledge, not body count and garnering of women, their pussy, their attention, and validation.

You need to realise that getting a woman's and having romantic relationships are grossly overrated. A man can be happy and great in life without having these things. These things don't really matter as much at the end of the day, so no man should squander copious amounts of time and money chasing women.

And that life isn't so expensive, it has nothing to do with impressing her. When she even asks for money, what happened to saying "I don't give women money, I like my woman getting her own money through her own creative efforts?".
No one said women force us to give them money against our will.

Ultimately, the woman who wants to be with you does so because she thinks you're greater than her, and not because of the money she wants from you. Redpill gives you the tools you need in making her see you in this light.
grin grin grin grin grin SMH grin grin grin grin grin

Some of the guys who talk down on women here are incels.
Maybe. Good thing you used the word "some."

As a redpilled man, I assume you have a proper understanding of female nature, and this understanding serves as your manual that helps you in making better decisions when dealing with women.
True in many case.

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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by proclinician: 2:42pm On Mar 19, 2020
There's no denying I grew in finance immediately I focused on my self. I went celibate for over a year I chased a lot of openings on the internet putting aside my degree. I dated worthless godforsaken girls that left becos I couldn't pay them salaries but now I live a better life than their entire family. I advice my fellow young men. Leave these bitches they are worthless and empty and yours too just u only need to up ur game. Opportunities are on the internet millions of them.

These girls u see here calling hard working guys broke they are poor. As in excruciatingly poor and impoverished. They just hide their true state of misery in embellishments but engage them critically their true state will come out.

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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Martinez39s(m): 2:49pm On Mar 19, 2020
proclinician:
There's no denying I grew in finance immediately I focused on my self. I went celibate for over a year I chased a lot of openings on the internet putting aside my degree. I dated worthless godforsaken girls that left becos I couldn't pay them salaries but now I live a better life than their entire family. I advice my fellow young men. Leave these bitches they are worthless and empty and yours too just u only need to up ur game. Opportunities are on the internet millions of them.

These girls u see here calling hard working guys broke they are poor. As in excruciatingly poor and impoverished. They just hide their true state of misery in embellishments but engage them critically their true state will come out.

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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Nobody: 2:50pm On Mar 19, 2020
Okay.
Martinez39s:
The purpose of the redpill is not to make you safe in your sexual relationships. The redpill is just the truth on female nature and other peripherals. What you do with the knowledge is left to you. If you intend to use the redpill knowledge to play safe in your sexual relationships, that's up to you. However, one can be redpilled and still reject romantic relationships and marriage.

There is no thin line. A blue pilled guy can be an incel; a redpilled guy can also be an incel. A blue pilled hot guy can be drowning in pussy; a redpilled hot guy can also be drowning in pussy . One mistake many so called redpilled nairaland guys keep making is to think Pick Up Artistry is what the redpill is all about, and every redpilled man is player. Sorry, the redpill isn't all about laying chicks. There are many deeply redpilled guys (especially MGTOW) who are not interested in romantic relationships, marriage, and laying chicks. Also, not everyone who doesn't have sex is an incel, and getting pussy is not a criterion to determine who is redpilled or not.

grin grin Calm down. Women and sex are not must-haves for every man, and people's needs are different. A man does not need women, sex, relationships, marriage, or children to be happy. Not every man places women and these things so high that they feel these things are so essential. A man can be happy and great in life without these things.

Hahaha. You are contradicting yourself without knowing. I leave it up to you to see the contradiction. grin grin grin Anyway, a blue pilled man can still be "chosen" by a woman. grin You seem to place a prodigious amount of value on women, sex, relationships, women's attention and validation etc. You can't use these to decide on who is redpilled or not. The redpills are a menagerie of truths, and either one embraces them or not. You are redpilled once you realise and embrace these truths. Redpill is knowledge, not body count and garnering of women, their pussy, their attention, and validation.

You need to realise that getting a woman's and having romantic relationships are grossly overrated. A man can be happy and great in life without having these things. These things don't really matter as much at the end of the day, so no man should squander copious amounts of time and money chasing women.

No one said women force us to give them money against our will.

grin grin grin grin grin SMH grin grin grin grin grin

Maybe. Good thing you used the word "some."

True in many case.

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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by vincentjk(m): 2:59pm On Mar 19, 2020
Since 2015 been able to acquire exotic dogs(pets) and afford their expensive feeding, that's actually my hubby.

Changing my wardrobe every year and this time I actually go for designers. No be kobo sha.

I'm a good cook so I joined Facebook food recipe groups to get recipes and make delicacies on my own.

Can't tell how much I've made because I don't accumulate the monies rather utilize it. Feels better buying stuffs for my sisters than for someone to be claiming a responsibility to me and draining my pockets

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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Martinez39s(m): 2:59pm On Mar 19, 2020
ubunja:
even myself I shudder at the relentless brokeshaming on NL. You won't see it on any other social network of another country.

I spent years on 2go SA but I can count on one hand the number of times I heard a guy shamed for being broke. Nigerians take this to a whole new level. It's almost like an obsession.
Nigerians take money worship to a whole new level.

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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by CAPSLOCKED: 3:02pm On Mar 19, 2020
ubunja:
even myself I shudder at the relentless brokeshaming on NL. You won't see it on any other social network of another country.

I spent years on 2go SA but I can count on one hand the number of times I heard a guy shamed for being broke. Nigerians take this to a whole new level. It's almost like an obsession.



Martinez39s:
Nigerians take money worship to a whole new level.


Excuse me?
is there non-virgin/newspaper/olosho/simp/single mom shaming on other networks?
Oh, so now brokeshaming is an epidemic but not the others you involve in 24/7?

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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Nobody: 3:03pm On Mar 19, 2020
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proclinician:
There's no denying I grew in finance immediately I focused on my self. I went celibate for over a year I chased a lot of openings on the internet putting aside my degree. I dated worthless godforsaken girls that left becos I couldn't pay them salaries but now I live a better life than their entire family. I advice my fellow young men. Leave these bitches they are worthless and empty and yours too just u only need to up ur game. Opportunities are on the internet millions of them.

These girls u see here calling hard working guys broke they are poor. As in excruciatingly poor and impoverished. They just hide their true state of misery in embellishments but engage them critically their true state will come out.

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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Nobody: 3:06pm On Mar 19, 2020
The veterans of slut shaming and simp shaming are finding broke shaming offensive


Well...

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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by ubunja(m): 3:07pm On Mar 19, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:





Excuse me?
is there non-virgin/newspaper/olosho/simp/single mom shaming on other networks?
Oh, so now brokeshaming is an epidemic but not the others you involve in 24/7?
remember being broke is temporary. Unlike the things on your list.

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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Nobody: 3:09pm On Mar 19, 2020
CAPSLOCKED:





Excuse me?
is there non-virgin/newspaper/olosho/simp/single mom shaming on other networks?
Oh, so now brokeshaming is an epidemic but not the others you involve in 24/7?
Save your phone ink,you will get not even a feeble rebuttal...to them,slut shaming and simp shaming is a well deserved tag,and it is the truth.

While broke shaming of someone is inappropriate

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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by Nobody: 3:11pm On Mar 19, 2020
ubunja:
remember being broke is temporary. Unlike the things on your list.

no excuse for that,being chaste is also temporal...nothing justifies the shaming exhibitions your disciples and yourself have put up.so a permanent "deformation" is the criterion for shaming?
You are smarter than this.
Okay how about simp shaming? Being a simp is temporal,so what excuse for simp shaming?

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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by ubunja(m): 3:12pm On Mar 19, 2020
Illuminated993:
I once heard a girl tell her friend that she can't go see any man that will never pay for her transport fare. I made her come see me, we had fun, when she wanted to leave, she asked for money, I told her I have no money to give to her, she murmured but I ignored her. Ever since, she has always been the one complaining on phone about me not wanting to see her. With same girl, some guys would spend thousands of naira and they wouldn't even see her panties. When I see guys handing women money, I feel bad for them. The women I am sexually engaged with, I don't give them money. If she isn't fine with that, she leaves. And I don't plead with her to stay. The problem with most guys is that they can't cope with the idea of her leaving them.
the guys giving women money especially without getting any sex in return are paying for sex that other guys get for free.

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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by ubunja(m): 3:14pm On Mar 19, 2020
Martinez39s:
Nigerians take money worship to a whole new level.
I remember reading an article on BBC stating how landlords in Lagos demand rent of up to a year in advance from their tenants. I was stunned. Is that really happening?

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Re: Guys, How Much Money Have You Saved, Living A Single Life? by CAPSLOCKED: 3:17pm On Mar 19, 2020
proclinician:
There's no denying I grew in finance immediately I focused on my self. I went celibate for over a year I chased a lot of openings on the internet putting aside my degree. I dated worthless godforsaken girls that left becos I couldn't pay them salaries but now I live a better life than their entire family. I advice my fellow young men. Leave these bitches they are worthless and empty and yours too just u only need to up ur game. Opportunities are on the internet millions of them.

These girls u see here calling hard working guys broke they are poor. As in excruciatingly poor and impoverished. They just hide their true state of misery in embellishments but engage them critically their true state will come out.





for the records, I have never been shamed by females on this forum. let's not blame women today.
every blessed day, it is the dullard unintelligent men that tell me about money everyday. when ever they don't like my points, they talk about money.

when they disagree with my atheism, they tell me I am angry at God because I have no money. these men don't even know me. but you see, they believe their money (visible and invisible) is superior than everything, and everyone, including random people on the internet. They believe if they have money, nothing else should count, not even intelligence. nothing.

unfortunately, throughout the years, they have engineered women and teenagers to reason like that too. so they should take the blame. whenever women broke shame you on any thread, countless men (including the poorest of men) are on other threads shaming their fellow men. so it goes round, you see.

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