Palehair:

Not everyone is meant for you. It's ok to break away because of her past. What's not ok is shaming her about it like the OP is doing because men sleep around and no one calls them names or care about how many vaginas they've been in

Ok. Let's shame the men who sleep around and the oloshos too. They deserve the shaming

Palehair:
Wow, what a misogynistic prick. What about the men who are man whores or gigolos? No one bats an eyelid. No matter her past life, if she loves you and you love her. Who the Bleep cares?

Are you guilty of this discussion?

Lostz:
you can figure out almost everything in life with your so-called 6th Sense but you still read books

And then?

Perfectdanny:


Ok yeah buh ya nothing like her. Evening newspaper.

Archaic newspaper. Get it right.

XhosaNostra:


And then?

everyone read books in life so nothing wrong in reading miseducation

Lostz:
everyone read books in life so nothing wrong in reading miseducation

Do you also read books about chewing, walking or blinking?

XhosaNostra:



Do you also read books about chewing, walking or blinking?

a good writer can come up with interesting piece from those topics.

people read books on eating, talking which are the most natural things to do

Lostz:
a good writer can come up with interesting piece from those topics.

people read books on eating, talking which are the most natural things to do

Perhaps people who've gone through an illness & are trying to relearn those skills. In the very least, etiquette & diction. But the psychobabble in the Miseducations is still elementary at best. Only if you've had a brain injury or are completely clueless gimp, would you find anything new in those write ups.

XhosaNostra:


Perhaps people who've gone through an illness & are trying to relearn those skills. In the very least, etiquette & diction. But the psychobabble in the Miseducations is still elementary at best. Only if you've had a brain injury or are completely clueless gimp, would you find anything new in those write ups.

there are some skills you can only get from experience. reading books give you that ahead of time instead of learning from mistake.
miseducations don't come naturally. nature is falling in love and getting used.

people read books or seek expert opinion on the food to eat, how to scrape their hair, what to rub on their skin. models get taught how to walk properly, smile and conduct themselves.

Lostz:
there are some skills you can only get from experience. reading books give you that ahead of time instead of learning from mistake.
miseducations don't come naturally. nature is falling in love and getting used.

people read books or seek expert opinion on the food to eat, how to scrape their hair, what to rub on their skin. models get taught how to walk properly, smile and conduct themselves.

To you, maybe.

XhosaNostra:


To you, maybe.

I forgot you are a woman. well nature taught women how to use and men how to be used

Lostz:
I forgot you are a woman. well nature taught women how to use and men how to be used

Aren't men born with an intuition of their own or are you telling me you're the only Godforsaken creatures on the planet? No, nature also gave you those skills but you choose to use the organ in your pants to do your thinking. It's your fault.

Cakephp:

Cc. crownedrookie

Lol this unemployed monkey still thinks of me when he masturbates. Disgraceful.
P.S please refrain from dragging me to romanceland. You can do all the masturbation you want here without my help. Thankyou. Mo.ron

Meeyankee:

Are you guilty of this discussion?

It's a public forum, you created a topic for a reason. You didn't think you were only gonna see opinions that whole fully agree?

XhosaNostra:


Aren't men born with an intuition of their own or are you telling me you're the only Godforsaken creatures on the planet? No, nature also gave you those skills but you choose to use the organ in your pants to do your thinking. It's your fault.

men were educated from a little age that their worth can be measured on providing. they even carve out a name for stupid men; real men.

there are odd one out. we live in a world filled with men who love getting used....a lonely world for some of us.
miseducation is meant to reassure us that it is okay to go the other way

Lostz:
men were educated from a little age that their worth can be measured on providing. they even carve out a name for stupid men; real men.

there are odd one out. we live in a world filled with men who love getting used....a lonely world for some of us.
miseducation is meant to reassure us that it is okay to go the other way

Providing for their families, not every slut they're banging, that's their own stupidity.

ityP:



Ok. Let's shame the men who sleep around and the oloshos too. They deserve the shaming

How about let's not shame anyone? Starting with the OP

XhosaNostra:


Providing for their families, not every slut they're banging, that's their own stupidity.

now we figured out that providing for the family is now a shared responsibility

Lostz:
now we figured out that providing for the family is now a shared responsibility

So are house chores & taking care of the children. Are you ready to wear the apron, Mr Mom?

Palehair:

How about let's not shame anyone? Starting with the OP

As I said, they deserve the shaming. So

XhosaNostra:


And you people call yourselves alpha males.

Not interested in head butting with you but dont twist the definition of an alpha male. Its not an emotionally strong man. Its not an intellectual man. Its not a man who knows his own mind and nothing can change it. Its not a "provider".
Dont twist the definition if concepts to fit your narrative. Go back to the basics and visit the animal kingdom for your definition.
Its simply a man who knows his way around the minds of women, thereby scoring him a lot of sex, often with the women catering for him.
So, yes a man can be alpha while strictly adhering to ubunjas instructions.
Sure being alpha often comes with male dominance and show of strength over other males as it is one of the things that attracts females but no one said that intellectual ideas can't be followed, else human alpha males would all be the stupidest men

crownedrookie:

Not interested in head butting with you but dont twist the definition of an alpha male. Its not an emotionally strong man. Its not an intellectual man. Its not a man who knows his own mind and nothing can change it. Its not a "provider".
Dont twist the definition if concepts to fit your narrative. Go back to the basics and visit the animal kingdom for your definition.
Its simply a man who knows his way around the kind of women scoring him a lot of sex, often with the women catering for him.
So, yes a man can be alpha while strictly adhering to ubunjas instructions.
Sure being alpha often comes with male dominance and show of strength over other males as it is one of the things that attracts females but no one said that intellectual ideas can't be followed, else human alpha males would all be the stupidest men

That's your own twisted definition of an alpha male, to suit your own sick narrative. What you just described is a gigolo.

This or you're just another scum-sucking leech with delusions of grandeur.

XhosaNostra:


So are house chores & taking care of the children. Are you ready to wear the apron, Mr Mom?

Mr Mom? that is why we need miseducation to remind men that people like you will call them names.


we already do enough house chores. men already run errands and lift heavy stuff around the house.

Lostz:
Mr Mom? that is why we need miseducation to remind men that people like you will call them names.


we already do enough house chores. men already run errands and lift heavy stuff around the house.

Dude, nobody is going to split financial responsibilities with you, if you're not also cooking meals, doing the laundry etc. You can't be useless in every way. That marriage will finish before the ink on the licence dries.

XhosaNostra:


That's your own twisted definition of an alpha male, to suit your own sick narrative. What you just described is a gigolo.

Then the alpha males in the packs of animals are mostly gigolo. The head of a pride of lions is a gigolo.
Might hurt you, but not all men whip out their wallets just so they can earn your version of the term 'alpha'
P.S I said *often*, not always. Same way very sexy and pretty girls *often* have a guy or two way above their financial brackets they are dating and who provides financial support for them. If you call them prostitutes, then yup that's the way of the world sis.
Another P.S I only added that last part cos of a conversation I had with my sister and that was her opinion. Made logical sense to me too.
But again sis: an alpha male is not a: Provider, Intellectually strong man, Well educated man, Emotionally strong man, Man who knows his own mind. Nah those are just qualities you want in your dream man. Shalom

XhosaNostra:


That's your own twisted definition of an alpha male, to suit your own sick narrative. What you just described is a gigolo.

This or you're just another scum-sucking leech with delusions of grandeur.

You shouldn't have picked an article that boldly stated: let's *REDEFINE* what an alpha male is.

crownedrookie:

You shouldn't have picked an article that boldly stated: let's *REDEFINE* what an alpha male is.

I just posted one.

XhosaNostra:



Dude, nobody is going to split financial responsibilities with you, if you're not also cooking meals, doing the laundry etc. You can't be useless in every way. That marriage will finish before the ink on the licence dries.

there are marriage where women even pay almost every bill but still cook for the man. just know what you want and go for it.

I cook my own food and do my own laundry already as a single guy so no big deal.

a woman should pay most of the bills because 90% of the time, a man end up dying first. the woman stay behind and enjoy all the investment he did on the kids

Lostz:
there are marriage where women even pay almost every bill but still cook for the man. just know what you want and go for it.

I cook my own food and do my own laundry already as a single guy so no big deal.

a woman should pay most of the bills because 90% of the time, a man end up dying first. the woman stay behind and enjoy all the investment he did on the kids

Haaaaa! Good luck finding a woman that'll pay 90% of the bills, while you're sitting there like the biblical lump of salt. Stay single.

XhosaNostra:


Haaaaa! Good luck finding a woman that'll pay 90% of the bills, while you're sitting there like the biblical lump of salt. Stay single.

there are married men who only job is to drink around the neighborhood. you have them in your locality?

don't worry about me. I will probably get married, raise one or two kids and divorce if I can't be happy in my own life. the divorce rules here favor men

XhosaNostra:


I just posted one.

Yup. And That's a very intelligent and logical move*not*. In searching for the original definition of something you go to the *REDEFINITION* of the thing.
The term alpha males is surely taking a beating, simply because humans have always had the need to be more civilized and distance themselves from mere animals. The twittminists like u surely find it very uncomfortable for alpha male to be described in humans using the same baseline characteristics as the animals, so like I said, they make being alpha male something about such attractive and inspiring words like "integrity", " emotionally dependable ", " financially sound". Soooorrryyy sis, like your article boldly stated, that's *REDEFINING* alpha male to suit a civilized society in the rising wake of feminism and social correctness. Alpha male still means what it's always meant

XhosaNostra:

This or you're just another scum-sucking leech with delusions of grandeur..

I cab see why the unbunjites and redpiller have such a field day with your kind. Your bitterness at any one not putting head under your heels to be crushed radiates off you in waves

Lostz:
there are married men who only job is to drink around the neighborhood. you have them in your locality?

don't worry about me. I will probably get married, raise one or two kids and divorce if I can't be happy in my own life. the divorce rules here favor men

And I bet their wives have someone else on the side. There's nothing attractive about a man that can't take care of his household/responsibilities.

Good for you.