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Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by ladyGKilaBCrueD(f): 4:50pm On Mar 22, 2020
Now, before you attack me or go into fits of hateful convulsion, hear me out first please and perhaps you'd agree with what I'm saying.

This present generation of "men" are an utmost disaster. I am going by what I see mostly on social media and the sordid stories I hear around me.
They do not have the drive, ambition, intelligence and confidence of our fathers. For one, a lot of new generation guys are extremely lazy. They do not want to work hard, they'd rather look for the next "get rich quick" scheme than to actually use their brains in a productive manner. This is evidenced by the proliferation of [i]yahoo boys[/I] in recent times. No one wants to put in the work, they want to be the next Mompha or Hushpuppi, stunting on the gram. It's not a bad thing to like money neither is the desire to be rich despicable. Infact, I think it's a noble desire. But these men would rather spend their entire day daydreaming about getting rich or looking to dabble into nefarious activities instead of actually working hard legitimately. How many of you can boast of a study monthly income of at least N350K?(Which is still very small IMO)

Most of our present men are very unintelligent. Ask the average man you meet the last book he read and it'd probably be a book that he read during his university days as part of his coursework. Speaking of the university, I just want to highlight my point by talking about my own experience back in the higher institution. In a class of about 120, we were evenly split between both genders. There was a stark difference in performance between the female students and the male students. While the girls were doing extremely well, the males on the other hand were failing woefully. They had no interest in academics, they barely attended classes, they relied on "expo" to get through tests and exams. Only a handful of them were doing well. The girls in my course were truly something else, very studious, serious minded and focused. I usually shook my head in disbelief at this unsavory trend. And these are future men who would grow up to be the "head of the home" but they were living life so carelessly. The only thing must Nigerian men are educated about is sex. This is all what they always dream and talk about, busting the next nut. Go through their social media posts and it's always something about big breasts, or big ass or something sexually related. I wish they'd focus all that energy on something more profitable.

I could go on and on about this unfortunate generation of men. They lack any form of drive and ambition, they are not forward thinking, very lackadaisical towards life. A real man should be ambitious. A real man should be a planner. A real man should be a provider. But our weak men of today just take the days as they come with no solid goals or aspirations. Most of them even now rely on their wives as the bread winners. You won't hear much about this because most women keep this a secret so as to not "emasculate" their husbands. A lot of women are now the providers but they'd rather make it seem like it's their husbands that do the providing just to assuage his stupid ego... which brings me to the next point.

The biggest Achilles heel of the Nigerian man is his ego. The average Nigerian man is extremely domineering and controlling, this is why he cannot stand having a successful wife because he feels he would not be able to control her. Thankfully, a lot of Nigerian women are waking up to realize their worth and their power and this has threatened Nigerian men so much grin They have this deep hate for feminists and feminism; they cannot stand the thought that women have come to realize that they are much more than housemaids and that they shouldn't be considered inferior to any man because they can do just as much as men can do. The little thread of "manhood" they were desperately clinging onto to give themselves any form of validation has been rudely snatched away by these pesky feminists! There is nothing left to boost their now dwindling ego so what do they now resort to? Becoming [i]alfa[/I] males and taking the red pill grin grin They try to delude themselves into thinking that they are red pillers and thus will not chase women when deep down inside they know they are failures and that no correct women would look at them twice grin

One last thing I want to talk about before I sign off is about the current trend of these delusional males shaming women for being single grin grin grin I keep on seeing "insults: like[i] evening newspaper[/I] and claims that most feminists need their wrinkled joysticks. These men accord so much importance to themselves that they see a single woman as an anomaly grin These group of men are obviously still sleeping. A lot of Nigerian women are now doing things to make themselves happy. They have come to realise that these men are not worth making any sacrifices for and they'd rather focus their energy on their businesses, careers and themselves. An increasing number of Nigerian women have expressed their desire not to get married and would you blame them? Marriage in Nigeria is like a bondage especially with this low-value men milling around. So my dear Nigerian men, you are not that valuable. When next you see a single girl, just know that it is out of choice or because you all aren't worth anything and don't assume she needs a man. Nobody needs you. You aren't that great tbh.

In conclusion, if I ever have a son, God knows I will raise him right. He will not be a lazy, entitled mess of a man that most of y'all are. I hope my post hasn't offended you in any way.

Next topic: The Redundancy of the Red Pill and MGTWOW movements in Nigeria.

If you're too lazy to read, read the bolded. Thats the most important part of this article.

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Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by budaatum: 4:57pm On Mar 22, 2020
The men you speak of should relearn from girls.

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Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Nobody: 4:59pm On Mar 22, 2020
Who you expect to read this textbook?

We have bigger problem (covid-19) at the moment

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Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Nobody: 5:05pm On Mar 22, 2020
Gang "Midnight Newspaper" will gather here soon.

They all have become motivational and inspirational speakers trying to indirectly heap the reason of their status on men.


Next topic please.

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Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by lilmax(m): 5:17pm On Mar 22, 2020
There is nothing left to boost their now dwindling ego so what do they now resort to? Becoming [i]alfa[/I] males and taking the red pill They try to delude themselves into thinking that they are red pillers and thus will not chase women when deep down inside they know they are failures and that no correct women would look at them twice


She's pained here Sha


Why are nairaland guys wicked? grin


Someone should DM this woman having cobwebs

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Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by heartbraker(m): 5:27pm On Mar 22, 2020
@op with all the education wey u get and all the books wey u don read how many Benz dey ur garrage? Pained 8pm newspaper on the loose

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Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by mrsage(m): 5:34pm On Mar 22, 2020
Na wa o.

Sister hope all is well?

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Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by crackkhaus: 5:39pm On Mar 22, 2020
The ironic thing about the OP's rant regarding laziness and hardwork is that after all is said and done, she will not be able to use an iPhone in her life if a man doesn't buy it for her.

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Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by adexpa(m): 6:00pm On Mar 22, 2020
You have spoken well op, your message sound well and it was well read. Our society is seriously bad and every youth crave for shortcuts this days, but I will like to point out that as it goes males it goes for females too cus the current ladies are not ready to delay gratification any longer; they want to marry a man now and start enjoying what another woman who married 15yrs ago is enjoying. It is not good too generalise at the same time cus we still have some great male and female out there(the percentage might not be reasonable)

May God help us

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Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by pansophist(m): 6:01pm On Mar 22, 2020
As much as I agree with part of your post (such as the lack of ambition, intelligence, and drive, over-importance of sex) I also disagree with some. I do not think men are against feminism but men are against the inequality that is inexplicably tied with modern feminism. Also about single-shaming, women call men broke and all kinds of derogatory names regarding their financial status. Women broke shame men, and tie his value on how deep his pocket goes.

About the red pill, I think the name just has a bad rep to women, just as feminism has a bad rep to men. Women see all the misogyny hidden under the red pill, and extrapolate it on the whole group, while men see the misandry hidden under feminism, and extrapolate it on the whole group, but at its core, their message are good. If not, I would be glad to know what doctrine preached by the red pill that is incorrect, that you disagree with. Furthermore, just as there are male feminists, there are female redpillers as well. A woman can be redpilled, and lots of women are. In fact, I will say most women are redpilled, and men somehow have to be baptized into it.

Also, the problem that you highlighted affecting men is not monopolized by men, women re equally affected as well. both genders are all in this together. Now a question to you (or anyone willing to attempt it). Since you demonized the red pill, I assume you know well about it, to a point where you can defend your stance. So can you tell me what exactly the red pill preaches that is bad or does any disservice to its followers?

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Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by helinues: 6:06pm On Mar 22, 2020
Then both men and the women should be blamed

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Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by yemmie(m): 6:14pm On Mar 22, 2020
Dear poster, how old are you my lady.

In the coven of wise women without a single male in attendance the Centre will not hold.

In the coven of men of wisdom, without a balanced single woman with motherly heart, the Centre will not hold.

At poster do a deep research of the world you live in.

All the best.

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Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by JAOS(m): 6:17pm On Mar 22, 2020
i did not have time to read this,but i know you have made your point

Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Nobody: 6:23pm On Mar 22, 2020
So it's the job of mothers to raise boys to become responsible men? What about their fathers?

Let me tell you op, if a male child doesn't have a father figure in his life to instill values and good morals in him, he'll never be complete.

There are certain things that only the father can teach his son as well as the mother to her daughter.

It was my mother who taught me about my period, it was her that helped me all through to understand the changes happening in my body, no matter how close I was to my father, I just couldn't bring myself to talk about it to him. The same is applicable to boys.

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Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by ladyGKilaBCrueD(f): 6:25pm On Mar 22, 2020
You raised a very valid point. I can't believe I made such a grave mistake. Title is edited.
Ardar:
So it's the job of mothers to raise boys to become responsible men? What about their fathers?

Let me tell you op, if a male child doesn't have a father figure in his life to instill values and good morals in him, he'll never be complete.

There are certain things that only the father can teach his son as well as the mother to her daughter.

It was my mother who taught me about my period, it was her that helped me all through to understand the changes happening in my body, no matter how close I was to my father, I just couldn't bring myself to talk about it to him. The same is applicable to boys.

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Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Omar09(m): 6:26pm On Mar 22, 2020
ladyGKilaBCrueD:
Now, before you attack me or go into fits of hateful convulsion, hear me out first please and perhaps you'd agree with what I'm saying.

This present generation of "men" are an utmost disaster. I am going by what I see mostly on social media and the sordid stories I hear around me.
They do not have the drive, ambition, intelligence and confidence of our fathers. For one, a lot of new generation guys are extremely lazy. They do not want to work hard, they'd rather look for the next "get rich quick" scheme than to actually use their brains in a productive manner. This is evidenced by the proliferation of [i]yahoo boys[/I] in recent times. No one wants to put in the work, they want to be the next Mompha or Hushpuppi, stunting on the gram. It's not a bad thing to like money neither is the desire to be rich despicable. Infact, I think it's a noble desire. But these men would rather spend their entire day daydreaming about getting rich or looking to dabble into nefarious activities instead of actually working hard legitimately. How many of you can boast of a study monthly income of at least N350K?(Which is still very small IMO)

Most of our present men are very unintelligent. Ask the average man you meet the last book he read and it'd probably be a book that he read during his university days as part of his coursework. Speaking of the university, I just want to highlight my point by talking about my own experience back in the higher institution. In a class of about 120, we were evenly split between both genders. There was a stark difference in performance between the female students and the male students. While the girls were doing extremely well, the males on the other hand were failing woefully. They had no interest in academics, they barely attended classes, they relied on "expo" to get through tests and exams. Only a handful of them were doing well. The girls in my course were truly something else, very studious, serious minded and focused. I usually shook my head in disbelief at this unsavory trend. And these are future men who would grow up to be the "head of the home" but they were living life so carelessly. The only thing must Nigerian men are educated about is sex. This is all what they always dream and talk about, busting the next nut. Go through their social media posts and it's always something about big breasts, or big ass or something sexually related. I wish they'd focus all that energy on something more profitable.

I could go on and on about this unfortunate generation of men. They lack any form of drive and ambition, they are not forward thinking, very lackadaisical towards life. A real man should be ambitious. A real man should be a planner. A real man should be a provider. But our weak men of today just take the days as they come with no solid goals or aspirations. Most of them even now rely on their wives as the bread winners. You won't hear much about this because most women keep this a secret so as to not "emasculate" their husbands. A lot of women are now the providers but they'd rather make it seem like it's their husbands that do the providing just to assuage his stupid ego... which brings me to the next point.

The biggest Achilles heel of the Nigerian man is his ego. The average Nigerian man is extremely domineering and controlling, this is why he cannot stand having a successful wife because he feels he would not be able to control her. Thankfully, a lot of Nigerian women are waking up to realize their worth and their power and this has threatened Nigerian men so much grin They have this deep hate for feminists and feminism; they cannot stand the thought that women have come to realize that they are much more than housemaids and that they shouldn't be considered inferior to any man because they can do just as much as men can do. The little thread of "manhood" they were desperately clinging onto to give themselves any form of validation has been rudely snatched away by these pesky feminists! There is nothing left to boost their now dwindling ego so what do they now resort to? Becoming [i]alfa[/I] males and taking the red pill grin grin They try to delude themselves into thinking that they are red pillers and thus will not chase women when deep down inside they know they are failures and that no correct women would look at them twice grin

One last thing I want to talk about before I sign off is about the current trend of these delusional males shaming women for being single grin grin grin I keep on seeing "insults: like[i] evening newspaper[/I] and claims that most feminists need their wrinkled joysticks. These men accord so much importance to themselves that they see a single woman as an anomaly grin These group of men are obviously still sleeping. A lot of Nigerian women are now doing things to make themselves happy. They have come to realise that these men are not worth making any sacrifices for and they'd rather focus their energy on their businesses, careers and themselves. An increasing number of Nigerian women have expressed their desire not to get married and would you blame them? Marriage in Nigeria is like a bondage especially with this low-value men milling around. So my dear Nigerian men, you are not that valuable. When next you see a single girl, just know that it is out of choice or because you all aren't worth anything and don't assume she needs a man. Nobody needs you. You aren't that great tbh.

In conclusion, if I ever have a son, God knows I will raise him right. He will not be a lazy, entitled mess of a man that most of y'all are. I hope my post hasn't offended you in any way.

Next topic: The Redundancy of the Red Pill and MGTWOW movements in Nigeria.

If you're too lazy to read, read the bolded. Thats the most important part of this article.

I couldn't agree more.

But I wanna ask, what do you have against red pill?

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Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by 24kmagic: 6:29pm On Mar 22, 2020
Ok
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Jeboy(m): 6:35pm On Mar 22, 2020
If you ask me, I will say it falls on both sides of the divide.Nowadays ladies can hardly cook well, neatly clean the dishes after cooking and meals. You will see the thoroughness missing. I used to nag over my nieces anytime they visit.It is really terrible.

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Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by cyprus000: 6:42pm On Mar 22, 2020
This is not me dismissing this out of resentment, cos it's simply the vituperation of a virulent cum-sack, and a better heap of shitt have never been said in the annals of mankind.

So, I can't summon resentment over the yelping of a vitriolic nobody. I'll pass.

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Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Nobody: 6:52pm On Mar 22, 2020
ladyGKilaBCrueD:
Now, before you attack me or go into fits of hateful convulsion, hear me out first please and perhaps you'd agree with what I'm saying.

This present generation of "men" are an utmost disaster. I am going by what I see mostly on social media and the sordid stories I hear around me.
They do not have the drive, ambition, intelligence and confidence of our fathers. For one, a lot of new generation guys are extremely lazy. They do not want to work hard, they'd rather look for the next "get rich quick" scheme than to actually use their brains in a productive manner. This is evidenced by the proliferation of [i]yahoo boys[/I] in recent times. No one wants to put in the work, they want to be the next Mompha or Hushpuppi, stunting on the gram. It's not a bad thing to like money neither is the desire to be rich despicable. Infact, I think it's a noble desire. But these men would rather spend their entire day daydreaming about getting rich or looking to dabble into nefarious activities instead of actually working hard legitimately. How many of you can boast of a study monthly income of at least N350K?(Which is still very small IMO)

Most of our present men are very unintelligent. Ask the average man you meet the last book he read and it'd probably be a book that he read during his university days as part of his coursework. Speaking of the university, I just want to highlight my point by talking about my own experience back in the higher institution. In a class of about 120, we were evenly split between both genders. There was a stark difference in performance between the female students and the male students. While the girls were doing extremely well, the males on the other hand were failing woefully. They had no interest in academics, they barely attended classes, they relied on "expo" to get through tests and exams. Only a handful of them were doing well. The girls in my course were truly something else, very studious, serious minded and focused. I usually shook my head in disbelief at this unsavory trend. And these are future men who would grow up to be the "head of the home" but they were living life so carelessly. The only thing must Nigerian men are educated about is sex. This is all what they always dream and talk about, busting the next nut. Go through their social media posts and it's always something about big breasts, or big ass or something sexually related. I wish they'd focus all that energy on something more profitable.

I could go on and on about this unfortunate generation of men. They lack any form of drive and ambition, they are not forward thinking, very lackadaisical towards life. A real man should be ambitious. A real man should be a planner. A real man should be a provider. But our weak men of today just take the days as they come with no solid goals or aspirations. Most of them even now rely on their wives as the bread winners. You won't hear much about this because most women keep this a secret so as to not "emasculate" their husbands. A lot of women are now the providers but they'd rather make it seem like it's their husbands that do the providing just to assuage his stupid ego... which brings me to the next point.

The biggest Achilles heel of the Nigerian man is his ego. The average Nigerian man is extremely domineering and controlling, this is why he cannot stand having a successful wife because he feels he would not be able to control her. Thankfully, a lot of Nigerian women are waking up to realize their worth and their power and this has threatened Nigerian men so much grin They have this deep hate for feminists and feminism; they cannot stand the thought that women have come to realize that they are much more than housemaids and that they shouldn't be considered inferior to any man because they can do just as much as men can do. The little thread of "manhood" they were desperately clinging onto to give themselves any form of validation has been rudely snatched away by these pesky feminists! There is nothing left to boost their now dwindling ego so what do they now resort to? Becoming [i]alfa[/I] males and taking the red pill grin grin They try to delude themselves into thinking that they are red pillers and thus will not chase women when deep down inside they know they are failures and that no correct women would look at them twice grin

One last thing I want to talk about before I sign off is about the current trend of these delusional males shaming women for being single grin grin grin I keep on seeing "insults: like[i] evening newspaper[/I] and claims that most feminists need their wrinkled joysticks. These men accord so much importance to themselves that they see a single woman as an anomaly grin These group of men are obviously still sleeping. A lot of Nigerian women are now doing things to make themselves happy. They have come to realise that these men are not worth making any sacrifices for and they'd rather focus their energy on their businesses, careers and themselves. An increasing number of Nigerian women have expressed their desire not to get married and would you blame them? Marriage in Nigeria is like a bondage especially with this low-value men milling around. So my dear Nigerian men, you are not that valuable. When next you see a single girl, just know that it is out of choice or because you all aren't worth anything and don't assume she needs a man. Nobody needs you. You aren't that great tbh.

In conclusion, if I ever have a son, God knows I will raise him right. He will not be a lazy, entitled mess of a man that most of y'all are. I hope my post hasn't offended you in any way.

Next topic: The Redundancy of the Red Pill and MGTWOW movements in Nigeria.

If you're too lazy to read, read the bolded. Thats the most important part of this article.
Well said. You have my total support on this.

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Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Ishilove: 6:55pm On Mar 22, 2020
Hear hear! cheesy

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Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by SweetCunt97(f): 6:55pm On Mar 22, 2020
So many sissies... Can u imagine some of them using that silly flower love effect when snapping? Can a real man portrayed by Okonkwo in Things Fall Apart do such? How do you think men of those days married wives who were submissive, respective to them?

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Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by ladyGKilaBCrueD(f): 7:02pm On Mar 22, 2020
I don't have anything against it. I think it's a good idea if you're genuinely sick and tired of women and their shenanigans. But most Naija men that jumped on the train of red pill do it due to REJECTION from women. They hide under the pill to claim they're moving away from women when in reality, they can't even get them in the first place. It's just a way to boost their ego. Keanu Reaves and Jake Gyllenhaal are good examples of who red pillers/MGTOW are. Although they've never said it, you can tell by their lifestyle. That is how its supposed to be, not to be screaming it everywhere you go like a deluded person.
Omar09:


I couldn't agree more.

But I wanna ask, what do you have against red pill?

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Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by sexylassie2(f): 7:12pm On Mar 22, 2020
pansophist:
As much as I agree with part of your post (such as the lack of ambition, intelligence, and drive, over-importance of sex) I also disagree with some. I do not think men are against feminism but men are against the inequality that is inexplicably tied with modern feminism. Also about single-shaming, women call men broke and all kinds of derogatory names regarding their financial status. Women broke shame men, and tie his value on how deep his pocket goes.

About the red pill, I think the name just has a bad rep to women, just as feminism has a bad rep to men. Women see all the misogyny hidden under the red pill, and extrapolate it on the whole group, while men see the misandry hidden under feminism, and extrapolate it on the whole group, but at its core, their message are good. If not, I would be glad to know what doctrine preached by the red pill that is incorrect, that you disagree with. Furthermore, just as there are male feminists, there are female redpillers as well. A woman can be redpilled, and lots of women are. In fact, I will say most women are redpilled, and men somehow have to be baptized into it.

Also, the problem that you highlighted affecting men is not monopolized by men, women re equally affected as well. both genders are all in this together. Now a question to you (or anyone willing to attempt it). Since you demonized the red pill, I assume you know well about it, to a point where you can defend your stance. So can you tell me what exactly the red pill preaches that is bad or does any disservice to its followers?


I always feel that you are delusional anytime i read your garbage, some mumu might call you intelligent because you came here to write down knowledge you got from watching too much youtube videos.

anyway, So a man can call a woman evening newspapers, slut etc but a woman can't broke shame.

The reality of this your redpill nonsense is that many of you glamour for a system where women are caged and her freedom limited.

Gentleman, this is 2020, women are taking responsibilities while the men are busy on drugs or masturbating, instead of them to adapt, they are busy complaining up and down.

Sorry, no lazy idiot can never see my money or pussy.

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Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by sexylassie2(f): 7:18pm On Mar 22, 2020
For all those men that don't work, if a working woman marry you, accept her name as your surname

Because I don't see the reason why I should be bearing the surname of a lazy man


Only working men are entitled to give a woman their surname

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Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Iamgrey5(m): 7:24pm On Mar 22, 2020
cheesy grin
Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Nobody: 7:28pm On Mar 22, 2020
ladyGKilaBCrueD:
Now, before you attack me or go into fits of hateful convulsion, hear me out first please and perhaps you'd agree with what I'm saying.

This present generation of "men" are an utmost disaster. I am going by what I see mostly on social media and the sordid stories I hear around me.
They do not have the drive, ambition, intelligence and confidence of our fathers. For one, a lot of new generation guys are extremely lazy. They do not want to work hard, they'd rather look for the next "get rich quick" scheme than to actually use their brains in a productive manner. This is evidenced by the proliferation of [i]yahoo boys[/I] in recent times. No one wants to put in the work, they want to be the next Mompha or Hushpuppi, stunting on the gram. It's not a bad thing to like money neither is the desire to be rich despicable. Infact, I think it's a noble desire. But these men would rather spend their entire day daydreaming about getting rich or looking to dabble into nefarious activities instead of actually working hard legitimately. How many of you can boast of a study monthly income of at least N350K?(Which is still very small IMO)

Most of our present men are very unintelligent. Ask the average man you meet the last book he read and it'd probably be a book that he read during his university days as part of his coursework. Speaking of the university, I just want to highlight my point by talking about my own experience back in the higher institution. In a class of about 120, we were evenly split between both genders. There was a stark difference in performance between the female students and the male students. While the girls were doing extremely well, the males on the other hand were failing woefully. They had no interest in academics, they barely attended classes, they relied on "expo" to get through tests and exams. Only a handful of them were doing well. The girls in my course were truly something else, very studious, serious minded and focused. I usually shook my head in disbelief at this unsavory trend. And these are future men who would grow up to be the "head of the home" but they were living life so carelessly. The only thing must Nigerian men are educated about is sex. This is all what they always dream and talk about, busting the next nut. Go through their social media posts and it's always something about big breasts, or big ass or something sexually related. I wish they'd focus all that energy on something more profitable.

I could go on and on about this unfortunate generation of men. They lack any form of drive and ambition, they are not forward thinking, very lackadaisical towards life. A real man should be ambitious. A real man should be a planner. A real man should be a provider. But our weak men of today just take the days as they come with no solid goals or aspirations. Most of them even now rely on their wives as the bread winners. You won't hear much about this because most women keep this a secret so as to not "emasculate" their husbands. A lot of women are now the providers but they'd rather make it seem like it's their husbands that do the providing just to assuage his stupid ego... which brings me to the next point.

The biggest Achilles heel of the Nigerian man is his ego. The average Nigerian man is extremely domineering and controlling, this is why he cannot stand having a successful wife because he feels he would not be able to control her. Thankfully, a lot of Nigerian women are waking up to realize their worth and their power and this has threatened Nigerian men so much grin They have this deep hate for feminists and feminism; they cannot stand the thought that women have come to realize that they are much more than housemaids and that they shouldn't be considered inferior to any man because they can do just as much as men can do. The little thread of "manhood" they were desperately clinging onto to give themselves any form of validation has been rudely snatched away by these pesky feminists! There is nothing left to boost their now dwindling ego so what do they now resort to? Becoming [i]alfa[/I] males and taking the red pill grin grin They try to delude themselves into thinking that they are red pillers and thus will not chase women when deep down inside they know they are failures and that no correct women would look at them twice grin

One last thing I want to talk about before I sign off is about the current trend of these delusional males shaming women for being single grin grin grin I keep on seeing "insults: like[i] evening newspaper[/I] and claims that most feminists need their wrinkled joysticks. These men accord so much importance to themselves that they see a single woman as an anomaly grin These group of men are obviously still sleeping. A lot of Nigerian women are now doing things to make themselves happy. They have come to realise that these men are not worth making any sacrifices for and they'd rather focus their energy on their businesses, careers and themselves. An increasing number of Nigerian women have expressed their desire not to get married and would you blame them? Marriage in Nigeria is like a bondage especially with this low-value men milling around. So my dear Nigerian men, you are not that valuable. When next you see a single girl, just know that it is out of choice or because you all aren't worth anything and don't assume she needs a man. Nobody needs you. You aren't that great tbh.

In conclusion, if I ever have a son, God knows I will raise him right. He will not be a lazy, entitled mess of a man that most of y'all are. I hope my post hasn't offended you in any way.

Next topic: The Redundancy of the Red Pill and MGTWOW movements in Nigeria.

If you're too lazy to read, read the bolded. Thats the most important part of this article.
This post right here, get.my seal of approval. They will never hear the truth, they like the sounds of thier voice. I and a few other ladies are coming to realise that these men are not worth it.

Imagine allowing such degenerates to ejaculate inside you and bear their offspring. Imagine transmitting such values to your unborn children. The worst lot of them are the deadbeat dads and incels.

Ladies, you deserve to be selective and thoroughly vet your men. Pick a worthy, high value man. It isn't necessarily by income. Look at character, respect, watch his actions, watch how he treats you and others. Ladies deserve better than scum and upcoming artistes

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Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by snitchbitch: 7:34pm On Mar 22, 2020
Nice thread, keep commenting guys , I am enjoying you!!!!

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Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Nobody: 7:45pm On Mar 22, 2020
this one must be an illiterate, it's her type that end up opening her legs for yahoo boys, hw on earth will you say men are not hard working. the major reason nigerian men are too hard working iz due to the financial pressure on them. women that men buy from their parents grin, are u kidding me. it's not easy to be a man o! women own is to accept to open legs and they get paid with marriage, good home, a car and monthly allowance dependin on the man capability . who provides all this for a man? No one, dat iz why as a man u must work hard. .

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Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by pryme(m): 7:53pm On Mar 22, 2020
@LadyGKilaBCrueD

stop using your limited experience to make inaccurate conclusions.

what do you mean by "when i was in school the female students where doing extremely well" where they all reporting to you?
how many girlfriends do the test or assignments for their boy friends?
are you saying in the universities females make the bulk of intelligent students?
bring facts, data and number if you want to make claims like this.

and what about women? can you say they are pristine and faultless?
last time i checked most women are full of crap.

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Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Martinez39s(m): 8:05pm On Mar 22, 2020
The desire for "get rich quick" schemes, and the desire to flaunt wealth— or at least show that one is doing well— are characteristics of youth; it's not limited to males. It's also why many male and female youths live fake lives on social media. There is an increase in "yahoo boys" as well as an increase in girls eagerly treading the slutty path for any manna from rich men and Yahoo boys. The laziness and lack of ambition, also being characteristic of today's youth, are also not limited to males. The abject reading culture and the aversion toward activities that are intellectually demanding are also not a male problem; they plague both male and female youths. Though not an excuse, such deplorable state of youth in Nigeria is mainly due to the broken system they have found themselves in.

From your write-up, one would erroneously conclude the following:
1) females are the ones making all the money while males are rotting in poverty.
2) Females are the geniuses while males are inept in intellectual endeavors. Males cheat in exams while females don't.
3) Females are avid readers while the males are not.
4) Females are the breadwinners of their families.
5) Females are not lazy, but males are lazy.

Such bias and erroneous inferences are not surprising since you, just like other feminists/females, will operate from the natural feminine hubris of female superiority and indispensability, and the natural feminine loathing and envy of men and masculinity. In fact such talking points in the op and the bleating on male ego (as if females don't have ego) are textbook feminist talking points.

As for the redpill, haters are welcome. grin


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Re: Nigerian Parents Have Failed In Raising This Present Generation Of Men by Dollarheist: 8:05pm On Mar 22, 2020
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